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Hello, my friends. Welcome to this very short episode of the blooming podcast. As you can see, this week, I'm doing something very different. I've never done this before. I am sharing this very short message with you to ask you that for this week, the podcast episode that I really believe that you should listen to is last week's episode.
Last week's podcast episode that talked about why Why you keep picking men with potential and exactly how to stop was a really, really, I would say, very popular episode. Um, it got a lot of attention from women. I think it broke a lot of deep limiting beliefs and helped you understand yourself a little bit better. And I if you are single, if if you're strong, if you're a successful smart woman, and you still don't have a relationship with a man that you really trust and respect and look at with so much admiration and you've just been attracting these guys that are always leaving something to be desired, you need to listen to this episode. I'm gonna have an even better one next week for you, but I did not post one that's this one this week because I really need you guys to listen to last week's.
If you listen to last week's on the podcast audio version, go look at go watch the video this week. Go watch go watch YouTube video link. It's down below here on the podcast. And, um, sit and have a glass a cup of coffee with me or a glass of wine if you're listening to this in the evening, and just really marinate on what I was talking about. The 3 types of men that you tend to fall victim to, the guys with chemistry, the guys with comfort, the guys with, um, compliments.
These are different types of men that that you, the strong, successful woman, fall victim to. When I say victim, I just mean they they pull the wool over your eyes. But the biggest thing I want you to notice is it's actually not the guy's fault. You attract the man, like, their energy, the energy type of man, the man the the emotional availability of a man, you whatever you attract and who you've been attracting, if he hasn't been available, if he hasn't been committing, if he hasn't been able to love you, if he hasn't doesn't have his stuff together, this is because you are the exact mirror of him. And I want you to consider that it's not a them problem, that it's a you problem.
Listen, I'm not airy fairy. I am a wonderfully spiritual woman woman of God, and I don't do law of attraction woo woo stuff. But in this case, um, the law of attraction definitely applies in the sense that I do believe that whoever we are is what we'll accept in this world, and we just naturally are drawn to, um, to people that are on the same subconscious level that we're on. And this is your soul. Your soul is your mind, your emotions, and your will, which is your mindset, the way you feel, and the things that you do.
So if you attract men that do certain behaviors, feel certain emotions, or don't feel certain emotions, or, um, uh, have certain mindsets that you're not loving right now and that you're frustrated with, whether they love bomb you or they're completely avoidant, these are the the cat these are the chemistry guys and these are the the compliments guys. I want you to consider that this is because you're at that same emotional state, and we need to do some cleaning up. And I'm letting you know this because I want you to consider that what's good about this is that if you are the, quote, unquote, reason this is happening, then you are the reasoning why it will stop happening. You are the solution. If you're the problem, you are also the solution, so there is help.
I am going to be making a wonderful offer to you next week about a new program that I have. If this is a problem that you're suffering with, click below, join the wait list. Because if this is if this is issues that you're coming across in your life where men aren't loving you well or they're just not providing the way that you want them to. And by providing, I just mean, these guys aren't at the level that you're at. Like, you're, like, dude, I have a great career.
I have a home. I'm smart. I get things done. I solve problems. I have kids.
I my life is put together, and the only thing that's not happening is a guy, then this program is for you. So I'm gonna be sharing some stuff next week, but this week, I really want you to listen to that episode. And even if you listen to it already, listen to it again. Go one more time. One more time for for the ladies in the back, and I just want it to sink in a little bit more.
I want you to listen to especially the last part of the program I mean, of the episode where I talk about the things that actually solve the problem, which is creating secure attachment, securely dating men, dating securely, dating slow, and consciously choosing a man. Right? Because this is happening this issue that you're having is because of subconscious attachment, and you need to be consciously choosing instead of subconsciously attaching to these guys. But I really wanna offer that. This is helpful.
Listen to it. Let the let the concepts marinate, and I'll talk to you next week. Have a good one.