Blooming
Hosted by Anabell Ingleton, a multiple 6-figure earning Coach, she shares new episodes every Wednesday on all things personal transformation, growth and evolving into and connecting to your Highest Self. Anabell shares concepts, tips and actual tools for you to use in your life today to help you remove the blocks that are keeping you fully blooming and creating the dream life you deserve. Anabell has solo episodes as well as other amazing coaches, entrepreneurs and her past clients themselves sharing what they do to fully bloom and change their lives. Anabell has served hundreds of clients in her 1:1 coaching practice where she helped men and women heal from the effects of stressful past experiences and used those thousands of hours of deep knowledge to create Bloom, a group coaching program where she helps women grow their confidence and self-love so they can go from "I can't do that, I'm not "insert positive attribute here"..... to a confident, happy and secure woman who's in charge of her schedule, decisions, relationships and future.
Blooming
Stop Selling Yourself And Instead Help Him BUY
If you're ready to be with a man that has you on his mind all day, is counting down the days till your next date and is EXCITED to commit, this episode is for you.
Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the emotional heavy lifting in the relationship? Do relationships feel more like work than play? You know, he's on your mind all day but it's because you're not sure if he likes you or what his intentions are and you find yourself wondering if he feels the way you do and it's more of an anxious over-thinking. You're always waiting for the next time he reaches out because his current rate of connecting never really feels like enough. You feel like you have to hold back on expressing how you really feel about him whether it's with a fun text message to tell him he's on your mind or with a fun date idea, for fear of looking too needy and fearing pushing him away. Or do you feel like you're almost trying to prove that you're the best woman for him by changing who you are, being over accommodating or overlooking red flags? Then this episode is for you.
In this episode, we explore why the selling approach, although it sounds helpful, actually pushes men away. I’m going to share how you can shift your mindset to create a dynamic where HE steps up and chooses you.
I break down the difference between “selling yourself” and “helping him buy.” You’ll learn how to stop over-functioning, release control, and embrace pacing and proximity to foster mutual respect, trust, and attraction.
If you’re tired of chasing and ready to become the kind of woman a man can’t wait to commit to, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why “selling yourself” to a man backfires and makes him question your value.
- How to help a man buy by guiding him to naturally recognize your worth.
- The role of pace, proximity, and liberty in creating a healthy relationship dynamic.
- Common mistakes women make in dating, like doing all the work or over-proving themselves.
- Practical strategies to shift from “proving your worth” to inspiring him to step up.
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