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Founder of The Identity Engineering Collective • Master Certified Facilitator • Creator of The Open Heart Blueprint, Anabell Ingleton is a leading expert in identity engineering, subconscious reprogramming, and self-concept transformation for ambitious women who want extraordinary love, success, and emotional freedom.
Through her signature frameworks and private client work, Anabell helps women dismantle the subconscious identities that keep them over-functioning in love, doubting themselves in leadership, and settling for far less than they desire. Her approach blends memory reconsolidation, attachment patterning, quality installation, and deep subconscious identity work, creating results that are permanent, precise, and profoundly life-changing.
Her clients are smart, successful women who have done the therapy, read the books, built the careers, and “know better” intellectually. Yet in relationships and moments that matter most, they collapse into the old identities they thought they had outgrown. Anabell helps them finally shift from performing, pleasing, overthinking, or earning love into a grounded, receptive identity that attracts emotionally available men, healthy relationships, and a life aligned with their highest standards.
Her work isn’t about tips, tricks, or temporary mindset hacks. It is about reconstructing the internal architecture of a woman’s identity so that confidence, worthiness, emotional safety, visibility, and love become her automatic state. This is the transformation behind Total Love Confidence and the backbone of The Open Heart Blueprint, The Winner Method, and her advanced 1:1 identity work.
On this podcast, Anabell brings you inside the world of identity engineering. You’ll hear real client stories, hidden patterns that shape attraction and connection, and high-caliber insights that show you why you repeat certain relationship dynamics and how to finally break them. Every episode is designed to help you see yourself clearly, choose differently, and embody the woman you know you were always meant to be.
If you’re a woman who has mastered everything except your own self-concept… you’re in the right place.
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You Can't "Heal" Shame...You Must Transform What Created It
In today’s episode, I challenge one of the most common misconceptions in personal development: the idea that you can heal shame.
I explain why emotions like shame, guilt, and fear aren’t wounds that need healing — they’re messages from your subconscious, designed to protect you.
But when those emotional patterns get stuck, they stop protecting you and start limiting you.
🔍 In This Episode, You’ll Learn
- Why you can’t heal emotions — and what they’re actually trying to tell you
- The difference between feeling shame momentarily and living in it
- How shame serves as a biological “stop signal” designed to keep you safe
- What happens when shame becomes a learned emotional habit
- The four subconscious roots of emotion: memory, meaning, perception, and belief
- How transforming your subconscious identity releases stuck emotions automatically
🧠 Key Insight
“You don’t heal shame. You transform the part of you that believed it needed to feel it.”
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