Meet Jasmine, the fitness powerhouse you know as Fit Body J. Our exciting journey together starts with Jasmine's uplifting weight loss story, beginning with a gastric sleeve surgery in 2017 and its aftermath. She shares the grit and determination behind her remarkable transformation, fuelled by increased protein intake, weightlifting, and an empowering community of fitness enthusiasts. Be prepared to hear about her battle with depression following her weight loss and how she emerged victorious, more committed than ever to her fitness goals.
Join us as we peel back Jasmine's layers to explore more than her fitness journey. As an Amazon Influencer, Jasmine is an inspiration to many women, using her platform to promote self-love and body positivity. Hear about her proud journey of self-discovery, culminating in self-love, and the pivotal role her parents played in shaping her. This inspiring narrative is sure to leave you reflecting on your own journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
However, life isn't just about fitness and self-love. With Jasmine, we delve into the world of dating and relationships, covered with the honesty and candidness only she can deliver. From her no-DM policy to tales of a past toxic relationship, she lays it all bare. She imparts wisdom about love, faith, and the importance of self-love in a relationship. We also discuss societal body image constructs and the decision to opt for surgeries. Every moment with Jasmine is a candid revelation. So, tune in for an inspiring, insightful, and unfiltered conversation with Fit Body J.
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Meet Jasmine, the fitness powerhouse you know as Fit Body J. Our exciting journey together starts with Jasmine's uplifting weight loss story, beginning with a gastric sleeve surgery in 2017 and its aftermath. She shares the grit and determination behind her remarkable transformation, fuelled by increased protein intake, weightlifting, and an empowering community of fitness enthusiasts. Be prepared to hear about her battle with depression following her weight loss and how she emerged victorious, more committed than ever to her fitness goals.
Join us as we peel back Jasmine's layers to explore more than her fitness journey. As an Amazon Influencer, Jasmine is an inspiration to many women, using her platform to promote self-love and body positivity. Hear about her proud journey of self-discovery, culminating in self-love, and the pivotal role her parents played in shaping her. This inspiring narrative is sure to leave you reflecting on your own journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
However, life isn't just about fitness and self-love. With Jasmine, we delve into the world of dating and relationships, covered with the honesty and candidness only she can deliver. From her no-DM policy to tales of a past toxic relationship, she lays it all bare. She imparts wisdom about love, faith, and the importance of self-love in a relationship. We also discuss societal body image constructs and the decision to opt for surgeries. Every moment with Jasmine is a candid revelation. So, tune in for an inspiring, insightful, and unfiltered conversation with Fit Body J.
This show is sponsored by @bubbledgalorme #1 soap lady of the dmv
“Nourish the skin you're in”
Experience the Transformative Magic of Natural Ingredients for a Radiant and Nourished You
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What's the time? November 27th.
Speaker 2:So you're a person training now, though.
Speaker 1:No, don't put that out there.
Speaker 2:You're not a person. I'm training, No.
Speaker 1:I'm not training people, no more. I'm done with that. Now I'm into just content, creating Amazon Goinster stuff like that. You choose stuff like that. I used to host button guts classes, fitness classes and stuff like that, and I stopped as of May of last year, so it's been a year. Well, i'm on you now.
Speaker 2:So you ready to go? Yeah right, come on, come on, come on. Welcome back to another episode of Vibes Podcast. Man is your boy to temple king, your favorite, leo, listen. y'all didn't seen this lady round town or heard this country as accent. That's about to come out. This, mike, listen. I'm not even going to say a lot. I'm going to let her dictate everything that goes forward. Wait, who are you, hi?
Speaker 1:y'all, my name is Jasmine, also known as. I am fit body J.
Speaker 2:That's it.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:That's it. That's all you got.
Speaker 1:No But no. my name is Jasmine, also known as. I am fit, body J. I am 31. I am a full time research study coordinator working in research clinical trials. I also work part time as a phlebotomist.
Speaker 2:Oh, you got a lot of shit going on with you. Okay, so we're going to start from the beginning.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:You telling me, before this started, that you used to do personal training.
Speaker 1:Yes, personal training and group fitness classes.
Speaker 2:What got you into this?
Speaker 1:So I started out in 2017. That's when my weight loss journey started. I had the gastric sleeve surgery. Shout out to my VSG sister and brothers So I had the gastric sleeve surgery. I was going to a Zumba class twice a week. Shout out to Queen D I used to go to her fitness class twice a week. I mean the sisterhood. The bond was amazing. Everybody there to do the same thing Lose weight, look good and work out.
Speaker 1:So that was very, very inspiring. After that, I started to shred like bad. The weight was just shredding. And then I started to get a little depressed because I wasn't used to being a small girl. I was always used to being a big girl. So I started to look into ways how to gain weight the right way. So I started increasing my protein intake and working out lifting weights heavy, started working at a gym as a front desk girl And then no days off no days off.
Speaker 1:Then the gym was looking for someone to host classes and do training at the time, so they trained me under them And that's how I started And I just took off from there.
Speaker 2:Explain to people what is the sleeve thing. What is that?
Speaker 1:So it's an invasive procedure. Pretty much they reduce your stomach to about three to four ounces, which helps support weight loss, so it limits your food intake, so you get full.
Speaker 2:Okay, so you're not even hungry.
Speaker 1:No, you're hungry, but you just get full a lot faster, more so.
Speaker 2:And what made you want to do this. You said you was always a big girl to you.
Speaker 1:So I was like my heaviest weight. I was 257.
Speaker 2:And you look like right now you're about one-eighths, i'm one-forty-five.
Speaker 1:God, i lost, like a whole person, half a person.
Speaker 2:So you were like were you always big growing up?
Speaker 1:No, I wasn't big growing up. I didn't. I was sad again and wait around like junior year.
Speaker 2:Of high school. Yeah, what caused it?
Speaker 1:I was working at Birkin Rural shit. I was working at Birkin on the Wapas. You had free food, you worked there, so I was tearing up them double stackers with extra double stack sauce.
Speaker 2:So I'm gonna ask you I always wanted to ask people to gain a significant amount of weight. When you seen yourself gaining the weight, why didn't you just was like, all right, i'ma chill out now. Why'd you keep going?
Speaker 1:I don't know, to be honest, i just kept going. I didn't stop. I love food. I love food now still.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 1:I'm always going to be 257 at heart.
Speaker 2:When people say I love food, what does that mean? Because you got the 600 pound life, but I just love food. I do. I love food Like was it comfort or you just like how the shit tastes.
Speaker 1:It's comfort both. Okay, it's both of them. Like I just love food, like even when I'm bored, i'll just eat, but I eat the right way this time. You eat the right way I make the right choices of what I'm going to eat.
Speaker 2:So when it was 2 am on a Tuesday morning, what made you was like you know what? I'm tired of this shit. I'ma lose this Um.
Speaker 1:I got tired of how I looked. To be honest, i wasn't comfortable with my skin. I wasn't confident in myself, like I just got tired of being a big bitch. So I did excuse my language but like all my other friends were small and stuff.
Speaker 3:And.
Speaker 1:I just got tired of being a big girl who didn't like her skin.
Speaker 2:So let me ask you this, with this whole craze that's going on with the big girls, and it was like Oh, i love my body, yay me. I mean, you are on the opposite. Like I was a big girl. I didn't come from skinny and look at big girls like ill stop. You were a bigger size woman. You was like no, i don't like this.
Speaker 1:I mean, but I well, you healthy. No. Okay, i hit it very well, though Like people wouldn't. They wouldn't know that I was insecure and not happy with myself. I hit it very well, but when you go home, of course, reality hits.
Speaker 2:So if you had a friend, that was a big girl. if you do have a friend, that's a big girl. Do you say anything like Hey, listen you. You tipping a little bit. You might want to slow down now that you are a trainer, now.
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:Does that fuck I?
Speaker 1:tell my friends all the time, make healthier choices. Like if you going to go out, my friends could tell you if you going to go out and drink, you need to eat a salad. If you want to if you want to have pizza, you need to drink water. You can't have liquor. Like you can't have the best of both worlds, you need to choose a side and pick a side.
Speaker 2:This is. Y'all listen. When I asked this lady what she wanted to drink, she said Oh, can I get some white Moscato please, cause it's going to stain my teeth. Okay.
Speaker 1:I don't do dark wine, no more. It do stain your teeth. Oh, you already poured it. Yeah, you know, i'm already on it.
Speaker 2:So when you how was? when you got to surgery, did you feel better, like how was that whole process going?
Speaker 1:through Hell. Yeah, i started showing my skin and everything. I started wearing clothes I never wore before, like when I was big I used to always wear all black, because black make you look smaller Was you hot, was I hot.
Speaker 2:Yeah, was you hot wearing all black all the damn time? Hell yeah.
Speaker 1:Fuck, i take the heat and the show, all the flag. I had to be honest.
Speaker 2:Did men still find you attractive Um?
Speaker 1:I don't think so. The bigger man year The big man year, but not like the guys that I track now. She said there's a difference. Yeah, they on me now.
Speaker 2:So you not on me.
Speaker 1:They wasn't shooting me in the gym, so I don't forget shit. So it's like now, all the dudes it be so funny, Like the dudes I used to look at at high school that I said crushes on, they would never see me. But now they see me and they in my DMs and they on red.
Speaker 2:So Would you date a bigger dude now? Oh you, that's crazy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, i would. No, no cat fur I would. I would, but I would try to convince him into making healthier choices. I'm not gonna change him But of course, like I mean, i'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. Big man, i'm not really attracted to a big man, but I mean I don't mind me a little cushion, little fluff.
Speaker 2:Okay, well, how about this? You was saying you can work with him. You can work with him. See, she said, she was gonna make you fit. You was saying back here, you actually gave up on personal training. I did Why.
Speaker 1:It was to my sacrifice. I was trying to juggle work, nursing, school and life, and trying to inspire and uplift other women to be the best version of themselves. And it was a lot, and I did it for three years straight, no breaks.
Speaker 2:When do you have so much shit going on? Yeah, what free time do you?
Speaker 1:have. I don't really get no free time, to be honest.
Speaker 2:And this is how you wanted your life to go Always been busy, busy, busy busy.
Speaker 1:No, my life no.
Speaker 2:But you were saying off camera that you what you do for Amazon.
Speaker 1:What was that like Amazon influencer.
Speaker 2:So we ain't gonna act like you're bag not heavy, So no, so.
Speaker 1:I'm just shit.
Speaker 2:I'm just saying Amazon influencer. That's the instant kind of fresh though.
Speaker 1:I just started that prior month ago And so basically, i promote clothes that I purchased off of Amazon from different companies. I mean, it's easy. Why not tag Amazon and be an Amazon influencer and just post the clothes that I buy from Amazon while I'm working out?
Speaker 2:So that'd be like is that like the sheen halls that people we have, and then we making the videos of Similar?
Speaker 1:Similar. Yep. So basically I have my own storefront link. They can click the link on my bio. It'll take them directly to my storefront. So any clothes that y'all see me wearing in my workout videos, especially the jumpsuits the girls go crazy about my jumpsuits.
Speaker 2:You got jumpsuit on right now right.
Speaker 1:Do I got on? I sure do.
Speaker 2:Fire jumpsuit.
Speaker 1:Yes, jumpsuit is fire. But yeah, y'all with the jumpsuit go to click on my link Amazon storefront.
Speaker 2:Did they reach out to you or you went on and you was like So it's a process.
Speaker 1:So you have to reach out, you have to apply and then they approve you. You have to have like a certain amount of followers to get in there And I think your content got to be kind of clean. So but I was super excited once I got approved.
Speaker 2:Do you feel like with you doing a what you said nursing, or?
Speaker 1:Nursing school, yeah.
Speaker 2:Going through nursing school, got this fitness thing going on. You got this partnership with Amazon going on. What do you want? It seems like you have different avenues. What do you want?
Speaker 1:I just want peace.
Speaker 2:You don't want peace. Of what way, though?
Speaker 1:Like I mean, my plan is, by the time I hit 50, i won't be retired. I don't want to be in my fifties and still working, and you know what I'm saying. Like I want to grind it out now, while I'm young. I don't have no kids, you don't? No, i don't have no kids. No, i want to grind it out now, while I'm young, and then when I'm 50, i can just chill, lay back and just trade.
Speaker 2:But that's the thing When you say you want to chill and lay back. do you want your career to be the influencer? Do you want it to be in the medical field? Do you want it to be in the fitness field?
Speaker 1:No, I want it to be in the fitness and in the health industry.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's the goal.
Speaker 1:I want to title. My goal is to open up my own gym And I wanted to make sure it's the one-stop-shop I'm going to have physical therapy, everything.
Speaker 2:You know how this is different for a woman to say that It's like I want to open up my own.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I want to open my own gym. That's my goal.
Speaker 2:Are you proud of yourself?
Speaker 1:Absolutely. I came a long way. I'm hella proud of myself. What was your proudest moment so?
Speaker 2:far.
Speaker 1:My proudest moment loving myself, Falling in love with myself. That was my proudest moment When you were growing up, did you?
Speaker 2:have both parents. Your grandmother Did you feel like everybody loved you, but you didn't love yourself type of thing. You had it. You kept it in private that you didn't really feel this way. My parents could see it. They wasn't dumb.
Speaker 1:My father could see it. He used to tell I used to wear big clothes to cover my shape and stuff like that. But they knew, They knew. But they always assured me how pretty I was and always reminded me how beautiful I was and how much they loved me. I come from love, So it's like I'm a daddy's girl. So my father always reminded me of how beautiful I was, but I didn't feel it. And the moment? so you say once you dropped his weight.
Speaker 2:That's when you started to feel it. That's when you started loving yourself. Oh yeah, Did you add a two person?
Speaker 1:Not necessarily When I dropped the weight. When I started losing weight I was like, okay, yeah, i look good, but then I started losing too much weight.
Speaker 2:Oh, like it didn't stop.
Speaker 1:No, it was just shredding. But the sleeve, you can't control it really. So I got down to like 121. I felt like I was anorexic for real.
Speaker 2:Were you still working out heavy while you was doing it? Hell yeah, why you ain't stopped working out so much.
Speaker 1:Too much cardio, too much zumba dancing in a queen D class.
Speaker 2:So you see yourself losing this weight and you were just like, fuck it, i'm gonna keep going, yeah, but then after a while I just I ain't liking it anymore.
Speaker 1:So then that's when I started researching healthy carbs, protein and take weightlifting, stuff like that And that's when I started doing it and I ain't never stopped.
Speaker 2:Do you think with the Instagram and how you look personally? do you feel like people prejudge you now?
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:What are your judgments? you feel like you get now.
Speaker 1:I think I'm all that. Well, i've changed, and it's I mean, of course, everybody changed As you, as you get older and you grow, you going to change And everybody ain't meant to be there with you. Some people just for a season And, to be honest, back then I used to care what people think. Now I don't give a fuck. I'm the biggest. You got so much motherfucking confidence now, though I do, and it's still crazy Like this confidence started, like two years ago It really did For the past two years like I've really been on my shit, Like I'm all about self love, self care and peace and peace.
Speaker 1:I don't need no drama, i want no smoke, but nobody unless it's smoked being brought to me.
Speaker 2:So Let's see, you still got where you from.
Speaker 1:I'm from here, i'm from Middle River, she from not.
Speaker 2:X6.
Speaker 1:No, don't complain.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you are I, even though it was black people out middle river. I know exactly what you talked about too. Oh, i listen. I know me new. I knew people that you raised in Middle River.
Speaker 3:Yes, I never raised.
Speaker 1:I knew black people that went to Middle River.
Speaker 2:I knew people that raised there.
Speaker 1:But yeah, I was raised. I was raised in middle.
Speaker 2:What's keeping you here? Because you have no ties here. It's keeping you Um.
Speaker 1:To be honest, I don't know about. My plan is to leave. I'm not gonna stay here.
Speaker 2:So where we going? Atlanta, Houston, where?
Speaker 1:we going Hell? no, i feel like Atlanta turned into another Baltimore. Everybody from Baltimore moving there, everybody will move to Atlanta, because they call it the who's who's.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I mean Atlanta cool, but I don't see myself there long term. I do hit my oldest brother living on Atlanta, so I mean I could go down there and visit anytime.
Speaker 2:But you want to leave.
Speaker 1:But I want to leave. But Atlanta ain't it? Houston, I could see myself in Houston.
Speaker 2:Those are the top two spots with black people Like, all right, i'm a lead, it used to be shit, nobody does. Florida used to be LA, but then we stopped that. That's it too far, we not doing that. So would you say, you loving yourself and all of that, do you want to family? Do you want the whole mom shit and all that?
Speaker 1:Absolutely Yeah.
Speaker 2:What comes with that, like what are the prerequisites? that gets you there, though.
Speaker 1:I need to finish school first. I'm in no shape, i'm not trying to have no kids, i finish school first. So if a man I see like, like people close to me, they juggling being a mom, being a wife or being a girlfriend and going to work and it's too much And I see how they struggle So it's just like no, I want to have my shit together first before I actually settle down and have a family. I even thought about getting my eggs frozen at 31. God, damn.
Speaker 1:For real. My mom's patience told me I should get my eggs frozen.
Speaker 2:If you did not have kids and your professional life and everything blossomed. Are you okay with that?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I can always get a dog.
Speaker 2:You gave me. I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1:It seems like you're just so in your own personal bag because I've been I've been so invested into other people for so long, so it's like now I'm finally It's about you, it's about me. Yeah, do you date, do I date?
Speaker 2:Do you date? Yeah, yeah, we want to do you date. No more, i got one too.
Speaker 1:Of course I date. Who don't? I'm 31. Yeah, I'm dating.
Speaker 2:What's the process to dating you? Is it more of a DM? Is it more? I got to see you on the street.
Speaker 1:I don't do DMs and everybody that's in my Instagram know I don't do DMs. Get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 2:Everybody left on red.
Speaker 1:Why don't you do DMs? I'm old school, i come from an old school family.
Speaker 2:So that man just got a randomly know with Jim you and he just seen you today.
Speaker 1:Everybody know where to find. Obviously, i'm on social media. Everybody, i mean they know I'm at gold.
Speaker 2:Ain't that weird, the gym coach? ain't it weird to approach women at the gym, isn't?
Speaker 1:like a weird thing Don't approach me while I'm locked in, when I'm locked in with my headphones. don't, don't, don't talk to me. Wait till my workout over.
Speaker 2:So how does it work with you? What's the proper way to get at least your number? What's the proper number I mean?
Speaker 1:you can approach me and introduce yourself and say hello and, you know, ask me if I'm single. Come at me on. Oh no yo, mom Shorty, like I'm 31. You?
Speaker 2:grown as woman.
Speaker 1:Boy games.
Speaker 2:Does the race matter?
Speaker 1:No, so you, that white boy before you down with this world.
Speaker 2:Oh shit, that's that middle river. shit, that's that done dog shit.
Speaker 1:Okay, stop comparing me to done. I keep telling you I'm from Dundas. How was it?
Speaker 2:I mean it was very temporary.
Speaker 1:I was in high school, i was in 12th grade.
Speaker 2:We talked about adults. Have you dated an adult white man? So right now it's just strictly black men.
Speaker 1:No, I'm down for whatever.
Speaker 2:Okay, and you're single now.
Speaker 1:I mean man, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:You know it'd be like that. So you're single now. Yeah, How long.
Speaker 1:Two years.
Speaker 2:Mmm. Nasty breakup on that.
Speaker 1:Very messy.
Speaker 2:Did that take you off the dating scene?
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:Mmm, with that situation, i'm going to swing it for the guys here Because, like I said, i got some messages. Well, and one of the messages that I do off the top of my head right now, oh my God, was what would one of your, what were three of your red flags and that pre-resolatiation that you feel like you could have did better on?
Speaker 1:Red flags from him or myself.
Speaker 2:Yourself.
Speaker 1:Um, I didn't love myself enough. That was the number one red flag, Because if I did, I would have been left Um to comfortability.
Speaker 2:Mmm.
Speaker 1:Um, because I was so content. You know, some people don't know how to be alone. I didn't know how to be alone.
Speaker 2:This was after the weight loss surgery, wasn't it?
Speaker 1:But he noticed me been before. I lost all the weight Okay. Yeah, But um, that was the only reason why I gave him a shot. Mmm, yeah, because he he actually saw me when I was big.
Speaker 2:Okay, so you knew me before I got the wear on that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you knew me before I got it So. I was like, yeah, I'm going to give you, I'm going to give you one.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:Um number three I was toxic too. It wasn't him. We both were toxic.
Speaker 2:Does toxic relationships make the relationship funner?
Speaker 1:God damn, we had fun, i ain't gonna lie. That toxic shit is fun. It's fun, But but in the beginning it was fun.
Speaker 2:Oh God.
Speaker 1:But, um, things took a turn. A lot of people didn't know. I kept it to myself.
Speaker 2:Mmm.
Speaker 1:But um, toxic shit can be fun sometimes, but as you get older and after all you get tired of it.
Speaker 2:Was it? were you tired of the toxic shit? Cause I think everybody here is just watching and listening and kind of pieced together the sentences here. But was the toxic part fun? It was just when it got to that level. It was like a you know what.
Speaker 1:Now it was fun, is this when it came to the next level?
Speaker 2:It got to the next level. Okay, you say and I feel like a lot of women stick to that when you say you got too comfortable, you didn't love yourself. Why does it have to be I you didn't love yourself enough to stick it through, because ain't that the whole goal? now Are we supposed to stick it through now?
Speaker 1:Well, stick it through a relationship, yes.
Speaker 2:Cause now.
Speaker 1:I feel like not, when it gets to the extent of it.
Speaker 2:Well, not that extent. But now I feel like, like you right, i'm speaking for the men here. I seen you, you're clearly attractive. Right, you clearly got that Baltimore, you got a little edge to you, you got the mouth with you. Now, when men approach you, do they see you like damn cause I know it's a lot of unconfident men here When they see it like damn, you can have anybody you want, like it's quick, like I can, i can get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 1:And that's how that's it took. that was an issue in the relationship, like he wasn't confident as I thought he was. He was very insecure, but dating me you got to be confident. No, fuck that.
Speaker 2:So what you're saying is if he was, who's your celebrity crush right now?
Speaker 1:My celebrity crush Yeah, if you had one. Michael B Jordan.
Speaker 2:All right. So let's say he was up to that level and you knew. you knew for a fact he could have anyone at the drop of a dime. Would you feel insecure about that? Because it's real one sided, when the man's less attractive and a woman has it To be honest then.
Speaker 1:Yes Me two years ago. Yes, No, cause the only person I need to worry about is him. I don't need to worry about nobody else.
Speaker 2:Does that rule only apply, though, when both people are equally attractive? Sure, because if me and you equally attractive at, automatically comes with a respect like I know and you know, but if you're here and I'm here, oh, i'm looking like Dan, you going to another event? Damn, that's what you're wearing out.
Speaker 3:Right.
Speaker 2:I'm not me, but how much, like damn, i gotta measure up.
Speaker 1:How's that crazy. If I'm, if I'm, if I'm putting you out there to the world When you, they see you, they see me, they see me, they see you, they know we like peanut butter and jelly. We always together. Yeah, no crust, Yeah I mean we out, we outside with it, niggas and bitches know you mind, and I'm all up on you. I don't have nothing to hide and that was my my thing last time. I feel like where I faulted, i put too much out on social media.
Speaker 1:Oh I feel like when you put too much of your, your business out on social media, it affects the relationship. So, big time.
Speaker 2:Is it for all my fellas out here who don't want to post their girls, nothing about their ladies? Is that cool with you? because that is my How I handle shit now, like, hey, if we were my friends, my family, if I'm doing the show, whatever, i'll never denounce you, mm-hmm, ever right, but am I gonna? I won't even stop you. If you want to post and do whatever you do, you can do that, but I won't. Is that a problem?
Speaker 1:now, don't post me. I don't want nobody knowing even if I'm dating. Don't post me, don't tag me, don't add me, don't like my stuff. I'm not gonna like. I don't want nobody finding out who I am And I want my. I want my life private, like the space I'm in now, like one of the niggas from the city. I'm like a nigga now.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:I'm a tomboy, so it's like I grew up with a lot of boys, so it's just like I'm nice to see little shit or whatever but, it's like I Feel like it's a lot better when you keep things like that. They're close to you private.
Speaker 2:All right. So let me ask you this. You know I think y'all might have seen it. Uh, sukey Anna is her name. So a couple days ago, if anybody knows, you get on a very provocative, might have seen the Cardi B videos and all of that. Only fans. You know how that should go all that. So my guy yk felt it. You know the vibes was right and you know he went kissing the mouth at a point. Right. If, if you're portraying yourself a certain way online and then when I meet you you're still portraying yourself a Certain type of way, it is the guy wrong for taking the bond upon himself to try his hand, because that's what he knows you as he met you in person. That's what you showed yourself as is he wrong.
Speaker 2:Yes, and okay, let me hear what you got because you would you attract what you put out.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:Okay, so if you all all the time talking about yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah You know, yeah, yeah yeah, i mean, and you and she was, she was saying some stuff too, before he even.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I didn't kiss her. But at the same time You don't just be going kissing somebody in the mouth. Diseases is real out here. That's nasty.
Speaker 2:You don't just be kissing somebody in their mouth, man and I don't even know you, but that led into the conversation of a lot of women say men judge women by their physical Appearance, like where they out. You're dressing slutty. Now Let this be clear No matter what a woman wears Justifies you going at her crazy right, but at the certain level. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to see that, but at the same level Might be controversial. But, like you said, if I see you presenting yourself in a certain way, like if I go to a porn set and they're doing whatever they're doing, that's what I, that's what I see you as. So At what point am I supposed to be like Oh well, i know what you're presenting to me. Oh, it's not that, or do I see you?
Speaker 1:say this is what you're presenting.
Speaker 2:Go cuz you're an attractive woman. Let's say they seen you at the gym, you working out or whatever, whatever, and they want to approach you like oh, i see you online, i see your motherfucking. Let me tell you the photo of you, right? Then my research on you went all the way down to the bottom your 30th fucking birthday. Listen, you gonna see the goddamn picture right here. You see this. Right here. You gonna see the picture fire.
Speaker 1:You are.
Speaker 2:It was fitness, fitness, fitness, fitness. Damn, you have this professional side of you. Then you have this very sexy I'm still a woman, don't play with me side.
Speaker 1:I used to be wild, real wild, in the mud while and do you calm down? calm down.
Speaker 2:31 now, man, you make it sound like 31 is, so I ain't not been to jail.
Speaker 1:I've never been either.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's, that's what's up.
Speaker 1:I'm too pretty to eat me a lot Oh.
Speaker 2:So my question to you is going through everything that you've been through, do you feel like right now you're successful?
Speaker 1:Yes, to an extent. I mean I still have ways to go. Hmm but I'm gonna get there. I know I'm gonna get there. I'm on my own race. It's my race, my time. I'm not worried about nobody else what they got going on. I've never been the type to try to Betray a Kirk, and not with nothing that I'm not. So it's like I'm going through the motion with my own, my own flow. I don't see nobody else but me.
Speaker 2:What does your downtime look like when you're not at the gym or Anything like that? What do you do when you're by yourself In the house Watching Zeus will Wow shit, you were going that show.
Speaker 1:Hell. Nah, i tell them, hose up on the first day.
Speaker 2:I don't have time for that, i don't have patience you gotta just let people say what they go and say you won't fight on the show.
Speaker 1:They wow, hey, wow Wow.
Speaker 2:Do you know? there's a goddamn bad girls club of Baltimore. Is it there is? I interviewed them Seven months ago. I think they are like season three now.
Speaker 1:What I've never seen, that.
Speaker 2:I think it's like GBD. Yeah, yeah, i watched it because I think they they were only fans doing it and now they got there on like TV studio production. Okay, when I watched it I was like, oh, y'all fighting like this, fucking it up at the harbor like this.
Speaker 1:I.
Speaker 2:Would you want to be on ratchet TV?
Speaker 1:No, I won't be on ratchet TV.
Speaker 2:Okay, i got a little question for you, man, because you know your people came Can't tell you all that. is it okay to have secrets in a relationship?
Speaker 1:Is it okay to have secrets in a relationship? No, So you want to every fucking thing yeah, cuz It's to an extent like I don't want none of your old hoes being able to come to me and tell me I want to finish the sentence. I Won't be able to. I already know what you gonna tell me, don't I want? nobody Lies on me with no type of information.
Speaker 1:So you want to know about the exes and I want to know about all that I want, even people that I know that you mess with. I need to know.
Speaker 2:Can they be cool with the exes though?
Speaker 1:To an extent you talking about how cool.
Speaker 2:Like say they was broken up last three years. They celebrate parties, they go out, they cool like they got them friends. Now She got a nigga, or whatever the case may be, but so we cool.
Speaker 1:Can they have a relationship outside of you know for what cuz? that's about respect. Now, if y'all got kids tied, that's different.
Speaker 2:No, kids tied, no, nothing No so it ain't no calling that 10, 11 o'clock at night.
Speaker 1:Hell No.
Speaker 2:Fucking minutes when it come to your man pick up their phone.
Speaker 1:Magic, i'm gonna grab it. I'm gonna tell him to pick it up and answer it on speaker.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna let her know I'm in the room present guys, if your woman ever looked at you and told you pick it up.
Speaker 1:I'ma wake him up with water, not pick that fucking phone up and put it on speaker Magic. I'm gonna answer. I'm gonna say he right here, hold on a heart beating Yeah he gone shit itself.
Speaker 2:So you are you a go-to-the-phone email type of gal?
Speaker 1:No, I don't need to go to your phone.
Speaker 2:Have you ever. Yes, i have before Yeah did you find what you was looking for?
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:Controversial. Just cuz a man cheats on you, does you? do you think you still want to?
Speaker 1:cheat on me. I didn't get you, though, also what? the fuck is the problem? No, but it was. It was a conversation, like you Just being too, too friendly. It was from up. First of all, a old grandma, as hell, all right. So I'm gonna somebody grandma or auntie, mama, i don't know who shout out She was shout out to the mills. She was at least pushing 40 how was he?
Speaker 1:34. Still, she's like probably 45. Anyway, the message said I guess she's a great girl, but she's still not. You, my superwoman, some shit like that. I don't remember word from word, but I'm like Oh, so you play with me in my fucking face. And then I said what I said, and then he started crying.
Speaker 2:But Yo have you ever did a man wrong?
Speaker 1:Have I ever did a man wrong? Yeah, of course.
Speaker 2:Oh, crime, is you ever did?
Speaker 1:no, i don't do no, grimy shit. You cheated no, I don't cheat ever no, oh shit, i've never cheated, ever, ever. Is there any relationship before I do that cuz I? I'm all about how I want to be treated hmm, And I don't like sharing, so I don't play that mixing in the big shit. I believe in soul ties. Oh, you a girl, you one of them girlies.
Speaker 2:So My question to you is right Who taught you because you said the growing up, the confidence, all of that Who taught you how to love and treat a man?
Speaker 1:my father.
Speaker 2:All, let's hear this old shit. What do you say?
Speaker 1:I mean, I mean he just, he just, i've grown. I mean it's not really necessarily telling me, but is what I've seen, like I see how you supposed to treat a woman and also what my mom? I saw how you supposed to treat a man, my father, cool, we didn't really have like Conversation about boys right and stuff like that. He always knew like I was smart. I had a good head on my shoulders. He trusted me right.
Speaker 2:So, you got to, i wasn't really sheltered. He allowed you that growth to make the mistakes. He was a cooper.
Speaker 1:Let me make my mistakes and learn from it. Yeah so it was just like he was the cool. It was my mom.
Speaker 2:It's always gonna be one of All right God, no question for you, man, oh, from Damien, oh wow. Damien, oh wow. Can pass infidelity be for fully forgiven and forgotten in a relationship Could you fully forgive somebody?
Speaker 1:Yeah, i could, and still be with him.
Speaker 2:If I'm married, get them now. if I'm single, i mean not single, but if I'm like girlfriend, a boyfriend I'm gonna believe you who you are, the first time around.
Speaker 1:Can we stop? No, but we have time, and that's it. I'm gonna be with you, i'm gonna be with you. I'm gonna be with you, i'm gonna be with you, No but we have time invested in kids and then again, you know, i ain't, let not hold me down Like no, you so quick to go, you cheat you cheat, i'm done. That's bullshit. I can't trust you. I can't fuck with you.
Speaker 2:So you saying right now, this man rocked at you because I hear a lot of women say, oh well, if we married, i might, you know, maybe more lenient towards the situation, right, do you realize that y'all gotta be in a relationship before you get married?
Speaker 1:Yeah, of course, but we how far until it should be talking like if y'all dating like couple a few months and he Cheat, hell, no, i'm gonna kick you to the curb. You didn't even pass 90 days like, no, i'm letting you go, you, you're disturbing my peace Because at this point, no, you got me fucked up.
Speaker 2:Damn. Have you fucking up my energy? Have you ever been in love?
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:How many times?
Speaker 1:once.
Speaker 2:Situation was talking more early. Yeah do you miss it, the feeling of it?
Speaker 1:Well, i'm sorry. the feeling of the love Yes why'd I say God? I spoke to you. Yes, the feeling of love. Yes, absolutely. But I'm gonna net now the rest of it.
Speaker 2:When you say that, what does being in love with you look like you showing you're in love with somebody. What is that? that process?
Speaker 1:I'm very affectionate. I'm a big baby. I'm soft behind closed doors. I am, i must, i'm so submissive and just you be surprised, i am, i'm a softie behind closed doors. People see the girl that work out. Yeah, this is big, big, tough girl, but really like I feel you just showed.
Speaker 2:That's just the part that you show.
Speaker 1:Yeah, i mean, people don't really get to know me, so do you allow them to? It depends, i'm very. Thank you who I allow my circles see, that's the thing because I realized, like some people, some people just don't need to be around. You had to cut off friends before, didn't you? I did a lot of people.
Speaker 2:Do you feel like when you have to cut people off, are you doing it for you or are you looking at the whole relationship and totality, like you know what? You were never here for me. Well, i got to cut you off because I'm going into this new part of my life both It's him reality, realizing that they, not they, only meant for that particular season and not for the season I'm going into next and then to the type of person I was trying to Evolve into.
Speaker 1:I had to let certain things go and I couldn't bring that with me where I was trying to go. It was gonna hold me back.
Speaker 2:It sounds like what you're telling me is Anything that's going to take you from getting to your next stop. You are fully fledged and willing to cut that off.
Speaker 1:I mean, if it's not, if it's not positive do you think that's selfish though?
Speaker 2:Are you feel like you come from this? I'm not saying you're wrong, but When you have a goal and you like, this is what I want to do, no matter first, friends or family. Mm-hmm, i got a goal now. Now, everybody reached a goddamn goals. Yeah, but you got a goal. This is what you want to do. Let's say, you don't reach that said goal that you had and you cut all these people off. Would you feel some type of way about that?
Speaker 1:No, huh, it's a selfish, yes, but I need to be. This is the time for me to be selfish, because I've been, like I said, pour into other people's cup for so long.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:So it's like Now, absolutely, i'm gonna be selfish now.
Speaker 2:What was the?
Speaker 1:right one be selfish, and I don't feel bad about it and I don't care how anybody feel about it, what they think what was the cat destroyed?
Speaker 2:I broke the camel's back when you were pointing someone's cup. What was that situation? when you like, you know what? No, i'm not doing this shit, no more. Next question Got you. I was gonna keep going till I had one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so my, i mean, but the past relationship my follow like really woke me up and you was like now more my shit now. So, with everything you got happening right now, what would you say because I asked every young lady this, right From you calling yourself a big girl, from being a big girl, to doing amazon, to doing everything else, you had relationships if you had to talk to your younger self, mm-hmm, what would your younger self say to you now?
Speaker 1:um, i would say Be kinder to yourself, love yourself. Validation other people's validation is non-existent and um, just be you. Embrace your beauty, your curves, whatever shape you all, whatever color you are, embrace it, and the sky's the limit. That's what I would. That's what I would say.
Speaker 2:When you were talking about self-confidence earlier And you were saying that you know you still had guys, your family loved you, friends, everything. You still had all that going on. You just didn't love you. Let's say, if all that was a reverse, where you know guys wasn't really going after you or whatever and you loved yourself, do you still think you would have went through with the surgery?
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 2:Why.
Speaker 1:Because I would have been comfortable in how I looked, i'd embraced it, i would have never Took. I wouldn't even say it was an easy route out, because I worked out before. I was working out for a whole year before I even got the surgery. So I started from 257 and dropped to 234. So I was 234 when I had the surgery. So I lost a little bit weight on my own. But I knew somebody that was close to me that had the surgery and the procedure And I just used it as a tool. But No, i wouldn't have got it.
Speaker 2:With the surgery situations that's going on now, do you still highly recommend it? Because what you just said was a little controversial.
Speaker 1:What you mean.
Speaker 2:You say it was 250 something.
Speaker 1:So before surgery day I was 234.
Speaker 2:Right, you were 250 something.
Speaker 1:Right Prior to surgery.
Speaker 2:Prior And you got yourself down to 230. Yes, so why didn't you keep going and get yourself down to 215? I got 10. 200.
Speaker 1:I got tired of doing all that dance and every Tuesday and Thursday. But, like I said, it was someone that was close to me who just had it done and she was very successful with it. So that kind of gave the irony from my ass and maybe was like you know what, maybe I should do it too.
Speaker 2:Would you get another surgery done I?
Speaker 1:did? I had my breast done.
Speaker 2:Your breast implants.
Speaker 1:Yes, i had a breast lift and implants, so you're all for surgery. No, so hold on before you even do that. Don't do that. I tried to correct my breasts without having the surgery done. How do you even do?
Speaker 2:that.
Speaker 1:So because I had lost so much weight.
Speaker 2:Oh, yeah, yeah, Yeah, yeah Yeah.
Speaker 1:I went from a 38 D to a 30 B. Oh yeah. So I went two sizes down, so I had a bunch of skin like my breasts, was like the down here We not doing this? Yeah, No, And even my primary care. She was like yeah, you too young to have this.
Speaker 1:But your breasts to look like that, like no, we're gonna, you need to get surgery. She even said it And I was like I know, but I had. I went ahead of consultation. They told me I was definitely going to need a lift. But they said, by the time we give you a lift, you barely going to have any breasts. And I was like I ain't trying to know, man Chess. So I was like I'll get some implants, but I wanted something you know.
Speaker 2:So yeah, like what You're, a C now.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, I'm a C. All right, so I went and got something that matched my frame. I didn't want nothing too dramatic, too extra.
Speaker 2:You wasn't about to be able to double D Teddy's, I just yeah, I wanted something natural.
Speaker 1:I ain't into all that.
Speaker 2:So explain to the girlies and the men do you guys go get this touched up?
Speaker 1:I mean every 10 years, If that, but they recommend 10 years.
Speaker 2:So this isn't it. When you get your breasts done and everything like that, it's not something you can just get and then forget about. You have to maintain this.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but in 10 years Shoot. I've already said them Take them things out.
Speaker 2:You'll be 41.
Speaker 1:The thing is, I ain't gonna be worried about no booze, none of that. I just have to take out and just wear the little man chest and I'm gonna hit him Probably.
Speaker 2:So you're saying that you are for surgery?
Speaker 1:Yes, in the, in the way. Yes, the BBL stuff I'm not in, i don't support it. I'm not hating, i'm not shame and the women that do get it, but I just think it's a really risk. Any procedure, any surgery is risky. But these BBLs and these liposuction and stuff like that, their surgeries are too risky.
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Speaker 1:Why not? If he wants to, if he flies, it's going to make him feel a little bit more confident in himself. Why not?
Speaker 2:So getting a prosthetic abs and pec lifts and all that you're for I had to do that because he would have me. She won't brand a god, she don't do shit out.
Speaker 1:Don't have me. I mean, yeah, i mean, if that's what you want to do, that's what you want to do. But I would say, definitely do your research, have you on it before you do it. And don't think you just want me getting these surgeries and think you can just be outside at Euphoria drinking. and I'm just saying, don't think you'd be outside drinking and eating. Oh, not your bangers and she ready for the city, talk about, not your back. I like that stuff, but I'm just saying like, don't think you can eat that stuff and still be able to maintain that body. That's where a lot of these men and women go wrong. They get these surgeries and they forget you got to maintain that they forget about that need to work out.
Speaker 1:Eat right, because after a while that shit gonna spread and it's ain't gonna be pretty.
Speaker 2:When you look at your body, do you like it? Hell yeah, hell yeah, i love my body.
Speaker 1:Hell yeah, i do, i love my body.
Speaker 2:What's that body? Do you have tattoos? Yes, I do. Would you get some of his name tattooed on you? Your husband?
Speaker 1:If it was my hubby, maybe Yeah.
Speaker 2:Now, if a man you knew for like you would date for like three months, no, put a ring on him. I ain't put your name on me, and he just got his name tattooed on you.
Speaker 1:That's I didn't do, do you look?
Speaker 2:at him differently.
Speaker 1:No, i don't. I'm like, okay, yeah, you did that. She's spot on. I was like, okay, yeah, i'm still not getting yours. Put a ring on him first.
Speaker 3:What's more important, ring on the love, the love, so $200 at Walmart $200.
Speaker 1:at Walmart The ring is $200.
Speaker 2:The ring is $200. The ring is $200. The ring is $200. The ring is $200. The ring is $200. The ring is $200. $200 at Walmart the ring is $200 at Walmart, you with it, i don't care, oh shit. And you know he got it too.
Speaker 1:It's gonna be my man, my man, my man, my husband, my husband, my husband. I don't care if he got that shit from the damn Wait a minute. Gumbagum machine. I don't care if he gave me a ring pop. It's not about that. I'm not into material things, Oh shit. You know how rare that is I know I really don't ask much for flowers, i love flowers.
Speaker 2:I do. I'm very, very much in love. I love flowers. Well, listen, before we get out of here, man, i want to say thank you for coming on. You have been the most transparent, which I did not. When I was originally talking to you and you was giving me too much, i was like no, i can't, i can't, you are dope as hell to talk to. Thank you. I was first seeing your page and everything like that. I was like, okay, clearly you're attractive, but I hope that you have a story.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, i got a story.
Speaker 2:And you fucking do from the childhood to the dating, to you being sponsored by Amazon. What is next? What do you want to happen for you now?
Speaker 1:Next school.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah.
Speaker 1:This nursing race. I get this travel nurse and money.
Speaker 2:Oh, see you go.
Speaker 1:I put a money.
Speaker 2:If you are a nurse nurses make money. That travel nurse money.
Speaker 1:They make money Different? Yeah, and why not get to make money and travel the world? Why not?
Speaker 2:With you doing that, do you think it's possible for you to even sustain a relationship?
Speaker 1:Yeah, If I'm making all the bread, my man ain't got work. You will retire somebody. Hell yeah, Come baby. We gonna be on this trip, on this work trip together. I'm gonna hire him as my assistant, So wait a minute.
Speaker 2:you don't even believe in gender roles.
Speaker 1:It's whatever works for the relationship with you. Yeah, it's whatever works And you sell, yeah.
Speaker 2:They fucked up. Now see right now.
Speaker 1:No see, my shit ain't. I still need to get there. I ain't that nursing money yet. But no, if I was very well off I would tell my man, baby, retire. Yeah it's no need for you to work If I'm making enough money like that. hell yeah, you ain't got work.
Speaker 2:I think the part where men get is that, oh well, you making all the money For women that's in this situation or men that's in this situation. To make this conversation go over smoothly, hire your partner So they're getting. If you want to pay them monthly or every two weeks, they feel like they're doing something and not just being taken care of. So when you give them money it's kind of like a fucking job, like all right, you gave me my money, i can use it on whatever the fuck I want to use it on. So shout out to you for being a boss woman. Where can people find you? I know you don't do the personal training, no more.
Speaker 1:But But they can find me at. I Am For Body J on Instagram, Facebook Jasmine Alan, I actually reached my cat, So they won't let me accept any new formal questions, Don't you pop your shit hold? on No what y'all think is crazy. Who puts a cat?
Speaker 2:What you mean? What's your? you want Instagram.
Speaker 1:They don't let you send new people. No, Facebook. Facebook has a cat. How many of you want a fucking smile? It's only 5,000. The cat is 5,000.
Speaker 2:The cat is 5,000.
Speaker 1:Which I think is crazy, But they won't let me send accept any new formal questions. I'm not going through my friends and deleting people.
Speaker 2:You're an old ass. ladies still have a Facebook. I ain't no old, i am. I'm an old soul, i told you Check me on Facebook.
Speaker 1:I'm on Facebook, Graham. I am through by your name and tick-tock fit body jet.
Speaker 3:And what do you want me to? oh, boss, boss, boss, boss, boss, boss boss.
Speaker 2:Okay, now what's going on with Facebook?
Speaker 1:So they have a cat 5K, which I think is crazy, So I can't accept any more formal questions on there. And now you want tick-tock, So I'm mostly on. I love tick-tocks. I'm mostly on tick-tock Instagram. I'm wanted to, but I'm mostly on tick-tock. I feel like Instagram's so It's getting played, ain't it? Yes, but it's so like negative. I like tick-tock. Tick-tock is more refreshing.
Speaker 2:Tick-tock is a funner like a new sibling He like aw, yeah, yeah, so Ferudo, i like tick-tock. Well, listen, from what I've noticed about you, you are honest, the realest person from Middle River that I know.
Speaker 1:done dog Hey you're the River Stop blabbering.
Speaker 2:If you know the Walmart, you know what I mean. It's my like shit, but I appreciate you for coming on. You have given me a lot of insights.
Speaker 1:Thank you for having me, I appreciate it.
Speaker 2:And one last question I wanted to ask you right, i saved this for last. Wow, wow. All right, so I'm not gonna tell you who this is from, but they wanted to know, right With everything that you've been through, what was the greatest hurdle you had to overcome.
Speaker 1:The greatest hurdle I've ever had to come Confidence.
Speaker 2:And now you got it. I got it, man, too much You got too much confidence. Too much sauce now. You're gonna be sick of me. You're gonna be sick of me.
Speaker 1:You're gonna be sick of me at this point.
Speaker 2:And I'll be sick of me too. Oh, you're the pretty mean girl.
Speaker 1:No, i'm really not Like. I don't have. I feel like this If anybody don't like me, it's them, it's not me.
Speaker 2:That's the confidence you're talking Honestly, I get along with everybody.
Speaker 1:Like girls, guys, like I get along with everybody. I don't look for problems or create problems. Like I don't know People, just I don't know they be going through their own stuff and just take it out on me.
Speaker 3:It is what it is.
Speaker 1:I'm not a mean girl, i'm really nice.
Speaker 2:Well, listen, i appreciate you Listen. This has been another lovely episode of Vibes Podcast. Man, your two, dimple King, your favorite, leo. Check out my girl, again a right therapist, and check out my man, ches Moody Media, the content complex And get your body right at Golds Middle River. You might see her. She's gonna have this motherfucker Golds done, doc, click the link. You know the girlies always want to say click the link.
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Speaker 2:Now it's gonna be 12 people. She try to get a year off She, not fucking slick. She try to get a year off Golds. Well, listen, this has been another episode of Vibes Podcast, man. Thank you for listening and tune in for the next one, that the right therapist might bring us six more people. Yeah, so thank you, this has been another lovely one. We'll catch you on the next one.