From the streets of Baltimore to our studio, we're thrilled to introduce our guest for the episode, the dynamic Mr. Hashtag. Known for his unique journey that spans drug dealing to basketball playing, radio presenting, and now inspiring others, Mr. Hashtag brings his perspectives on personal growth, seizing opportunities, and an array of societal constructs with him. His compelling narratives and thought-provoking insights into black men's viewpoints, religion, gender identity, and sexual preferences are sure to challenge your preconceptions and broaden your understanding.
Diving deeper, we touch upon the fascinating concept of 'money-fine' and its influence on attractiveness and relationships. Mr. Hashtag also engages us in a candid discussion on therapy, emphasizing understanding diverse thoughts, feelings, and opinions. We dissect the balance of logic and emotion in relationships, explore societal standards of beauty, and even tackle the intriguing concept of 'dick-mattized.' Through these discussions, we hope to reveal how physical attraction, societal pressures, and privilege can mold our individual perspectives.
Wrapping up this enlightening talk, we reflect on life with Mr. Hashtag's profound views on gratitude for his journey and making each day count. From exploring the complexities of identity and sexual attraction, the impact of good sex on relationships, to celebrating the people who've shaped us, this episode is a treasure trove of candid conversations and deep insights. So, get ready for an engaging session that'll make you question, learn, and appreciate life in all its complexity.
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From the streets of Baltimore to our studio, we're thrilled to introduce our guest for the episode, the dynamic Mr. Hashtag. Known for his unique journey that spans drug dealing to basketball playing, radio presenting, and now inspiring others, Mr. Hashtag brings his perspectives on personal growth, seizing opportunities, and an array of societal constructs with him. His compelling narratives and thought-provoking insights into black men's viewpoints, religion, gender identity, and sexual preferences are sure to challenge your preconceptions and broaden your understanding.
Diving deeper, we touch upon the fascinating concept of 'money-fine' and its influence on attractiveness and relationships. Mr. Hashtag also engages us in a candid discussion on therapy, emphasizing understanding diverse thoughts, feelings, and opinions. We dissect the balance of logic and emotion in relationships, explore societal standards of beauty, and even tackle the intriguing concept of 'dick-mattized.' Through these discussions, we hope to reveal how physical attraction, societal pressures, and privilege can mold our individual perspectives.
Wrapping up this enlightening talk, we reflect on life with Mr. Hashtag's profound views on gratitude for his journey and making each day count. From exploring the complexities of identity and sexual attraction, the impact of good sex on relationships, to celebrating the people who've shaped us, this episode is a treasure trove of candid conversations and deep insights. So, get ready for an engaging session that'll make you question, learn, and appreciate life in all its complexity.
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All right, man. Welcome back, man. We had a good 30 minutes of a podcast with the most toxic motherfucker I think I've ever had. This is your boy, Two Dempel King, your favorite Leo, and I'ma let these two people that been going at it for the last 25 minutes.
Speaker 2:They been not the Two.
Speaker 1:Dempel King. Yeah, two Dempel King, your favorite, this Two Dempel King is insane. So go ahead and introduce yourselves, man.
Speaker 2:Please go ahead, Mr.
Speaker 3:Glow, she already told you half of it.
Speaker 1:Talk to the mic for me too, baby Hashtag Mr.
Speaker 3:Goddeck Glow hashtag. Toxichesity hashtag. The Mel Bratz Doll hashtag. The notorious ass eater hashtag. Baltimore Jim Jones hashtag Mr Dorville. Yeah and hashtag. Mr Hashtag, you should say it any other way than civilize. You finished with your hashtag, but that's how toxic you is when you get a phone call on the show. Let me mute them real quick. You should say it.
Speaker 1:Forgotta poke and you, ms Nams.
Speaker 2:I am Taj. I can call me Tajah. Thank you, that's it.
Speaker 1:That's like the root of toxic and you, before we get that can anybody?
Speaker 2:follow you anywhere or yes, I'm on everything as a black mother Tajidanyu, everyone will find it. Yeah, period.
Speaker 3:If you wanna follow me, just follow the glow. You know how they say follow the drip, follow the drip, Just follow the glow. Hashtag Mr Goddeck Glow. You'll find me on any platform.
Speaker 1:Man. I have not had a man come in uproar. The goddamn studio as quickly as you have. Tell me who are you man Toxic? Mr Jim Jones, mr Glow, mr, I'm half Japanese. What's going on, man, mr?
Speaker 3:Hashtag. Mr. Hashtag is the one right. So, born and raised still reside in the city of Baltimore. So I will say that right. Outside of that hashtag, your girlfriend's favorite boyfriend Is this that.
Speaker 1:Like is this? And you wait, I met somebody you were on the radio 1500?.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I was on 1500 radio as a radio personality.
Speaker 1:I can see that.
Speaker 3:But I wasn't a personality. Is this that I was? You should do this because you got a good personality. So I was never in a radio. I was never into anything radio. Oh wow, I rap. But I wasn't a rapper. Oh God, I sold drugs. So they said yo, you should rap because you sold drugs.
Speaker 1:Most rappers do. Most rappers do right.
Speaker 3:And I play basketball. So after you can't play basketball no more, you gotta go play. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Side to rap, right? So a lot of those things I did because other people was saying it. But, if you ask me, I am Mr Entertainment Is this that You're definitely entertaining.
Speaker 1:That's really what I am. Have you always had this personality, though? If you ask?
Speaker 3:the city of Baltimore. Hell, yeah, that's why the transition was so easy for me. So, to be able to go from being a nerd to being an athlete, to being a drug dealer, to being a radio presenter it's not like you know what the fuck you want to do with your life. I did not, I did not right, I did, I did and it's crazy because I always use this same thing like Jesus Christ waited until he was 33 to get his shit together, right, you just saying so. You know I waited a little longer, but yeah, I look at it like that.
Speaker 1:I'm getting these eyes over here to the left for Miss Taja Go ahead. This is going to be a little different than Rap and Soul. Man. What's going to die? Yeah, what's happening? The block.
Speaker 3:Taja's from the block.
Speaker 2:Oh, from the block.
Speaker 3:Oh, I thought it was. No, I said a black mother, oh, a black mother, not a black mother, a black mother, a black mother.
Speaker 1:Where's all this hostility coming from? You see the moon, the whole shoulder type.
Speaker 3:You see the shoulder, you see the heat.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying I'm very relaxed, but they came in here with all of his glow and his information and he said that he don't want to tell us his life story. But I would like to know, because where did all of this personality come from? It had to get developed somehow, some way.
Speaker 3:I really was born with it For a trans person. When you talk about somebody that's 100% themselves. I just was born like this I don't know if it was I didn't get taught anything. I was like self-taught, in the sense I taught myself what the eight ball was. I taught myself.
Speaker 3:What I taught myself. What a jump shot was I taught myself how to play women, in the sense I taught myself all these things. I've heard people use cliches that I probably implemented in my life, or I probably dissected them and used them to my advantage per se, but I did it all on my own.
Speaker 2:So you think your authentic stuff is not a reflection of anybody else?
Speaker 3:This is you Nobody. You would never find somebody like me.
Speaker 2:I believe you, I'm, I'm, I'm.
Speaker 3:Because it's like even now, so even professionally now, people wake up, they be tired 7 o'clock in the morning. They tired, right, you got 25 years. They come to work, I'm tired, they just always tired. They be like why you wake up at 7 o'clock in the morning and you want a hundred, A thousand, a thousand, right. Or how you walk in the head and you already on the whole football field ready to go back and forth. Yes, zame, I feel like the life I live, I should appreciate me not having a life that got several kind of early, like my life ain't get cut off early. So I see a lot of people now they dying extra early or they 25 and they tied too early. It's like, are you ever going to have a chance to have fun? It's the same. And if your fun is only Fridays and Saturdays, then you're living for nothing. Your life is purposeless If you want everybody to work for five days just to spend their money on certain one for two days.
Speaker 2:That's insane. That's insane. So you feel like you got to wake up every day ready to go, get it ready to be on a thousand, because you don't want to waste your life.
Speaker 3:Yes, every day I got to learn something, whether it's big or small. I got to learn something Like, for instance, the young lady that we was talking about off camera. She got the dress. She ain't want to come on the show. I would have liked to introduce herself as well, but she was. Her name was Shontae Shontae, right, what's her name?
Speaker 1:She's a different kid.
Speaker 3:Shontae. It's about learning and I learned something from her as well. I understood that, why people use the word respectfully and disrespectfully at the end of their statements or whatever. Right, I call it a preferential. You know you put a preference on the back end, but I don't think people should talk like that, because if you're not being disrespectful, there's no reason why you should put that on the end of your statements or comments. But what about perception?
Speaker 1:I'm not even a host, I'm just in this bitch.
Speaker 2:You, the true devil king. Look, why would you?
Speaker 3:host something that you just want Just show your dimples, like just show your dimples, like that's all you got to do Is that it Say that again.
Speaker 2:I said what about perception?
Speaker 3:I think perception is what's ruining everything, and when I mean everything, I mean globally, from having genuine conversations to genuine relationships, even having shots. Even the perception of drinking 1800 is like wait a minute, that's 1800. That ain't Casa Right, it's the perception of I should have had Casa over 18. Or the perception of when you go to Mexico they say real tequila is 100% blue agave, right. And if it's not 100% blue, agave, it's not real tequila.
Speaker 3:But those are perceptions, right, but at some point those perceptions are actually facts. But since everybody want their perception to be right, there's no such thing as a global fact anymore.
Speaker 2:So, but do you feel like people should not try to understand and see other people's perception or perspectives?
Speaker 3:No, yes and no yes. You should, because you should be able to entertain anybody's ideas, right? No, because some things are just the facts. For instance, we can all agree with 100% blue agave being real tequila. That's just the facts. Regardless of what your perception is about how it tastes, that doesn't change the fact that it is real tequila.
Speaker 2:You used to say OK, but when you talk about tequila, and then when you talk about, people same difference? It's not.
Speaker 3:So you so running the red light? Is that not a fact that you shouldn't do it? No, it's definitely a fact. Ok, so a people run red light? They absolutely do.
Speaker 2:Animals don't right. So animals do all the time, but they don't. But that doesn't matter to them because of their perception. They don't care about that red light. You and I do.
Speaker 3:Say it again We've run it. Say, say, say, say we're going to be in trouble.
Speaker 2:Animals don't care about the red light, so that's why they run it.
Speaker 3:That's not their rule.
Speaker 2:What are we talking about?
Speaker 1:here. That's why I'm saying perspective, what are you?
Speaker 3:talking about. I thought you was intelligent. Now you just want to hear something to say Well, we ain't finished yet. You're sure you're not just saying it, saying something to say it. So why?
Speaker 2:are you likening something to an animal and then you get upset with me for explaining it? An animal exists in this world, right? They don't live by the same rules that you and I do.
Speaker 1:They jumped right back into the argument. Y'all Listen.
Speaker 3:It's only an argument, because she's in a feeling and she's not seeing the facts. That's why she got away. So you talk about to kill her. What about humans? And I gave you a prime example of a human trait that we run red lights. And that's just a fact. It's just the fact that you're not supposed to run a red light. Yes or no?
Speaker 2:It absolutely is.
Speaker 3:So why are we debating a red light? We're not debating a red light, you are. You're debating it to make it seem like you can run red lights.
Speaker 2:I never said that. I said that. You said that that's the rules for humans. Is that not what you said?
Speaker 3:It's on recording, we can run the take back.
Speaker 2:He said that is the rules for humans.
Speaker 3:I'm just in this bitch. I'm just running back.
Speaker 2:You said, that is the rules for humans, did you not say?
Speaker 3:that it is.
Speaker 2:OK, and I said, perceptions are based on different perspectives. An animal's perception of a red light is not the same as ours.
Speaker 1:I could just break it safe.
Speaker 2:to be honest, you don't know an animal's perception and you don't mind, but we're agreeing. That's why I didn't ask you yours. I gave you a generalize.
Speaker 3:I just said running a red light, I didn't say yours. I said running a red light globally. Running a red light is right or wrong. This is the vile's pocket, right or wrong. It's running a red light right or wrong globally. I said yes and I asked you about perspective, that's all we're talking about what's the next one? What's the next perspective? What's that? Let's go to the next human perspective. We already got the red light one gone. What's the?
Speaker 2:next perspective. I love that. I love that you are like. This is what I said. This is the fact. No, we I mean other debate on that topic is unnecessary. It is we got to the facts.
Speaker 1:We, literally he's operating in the factual world and you're talking about saying earlier there's a difference between facts and feelings which all got into a real debate about with men and women. Get on this facts and feelings so you can tell me how you feel. But logically it's been a man. I'm not worried about how you feel. Like you was talking about the red light. Right is right, wrong is wrong. How you feel about that is on your personal time.
Speaker 2:It absolutely is, but I wasn't talking about feelings, I was talking about perspectives and he stood and answered my question about perspectives. We're talking. We started this conversation about ending conversations with respect to the mic he was like, I don't feel like that's necessary.
Speaker 1:I did say that, though, bro.
Speaker 2:Is that not your feelings? So why is it okay to attach that to a general statement but not to dive deeper into other general statements that disagree with what you're saying?
Speaker 3:So what we was talking about was how opinions, the reason why we brought up perspective and I'll get into why I said what she said because see, what you're doing is you're picking, and I'll explain in our entire conversation.
Speaker 1:Women take this.
Speaker 2:That's what they do. No, no, no, no, no, no, we didn't. No, we didn't. You gave her example already.
Speaker 3:I gave the example for the reason of us talking about things that are just facts at the end of the day, that the perception shouldn't even matter because some things are just the facts. That's why I gave her, that's why I gave that example, that's why I gave this Disrespectfully and respectfully. That's why you.
Speaker 2:About disrespectfully and respectfully.
Speaker 3:That's why I gave that example. That was the only reason why I said it. I was trying to show you understand that you can get a perspective and then you can get a fact. It's just a fact that 1800 tequila 100% blue agave, it's just a fact, regardless of your perspective on tequila, that's just the fact. You wanted to get away from it. So I gave you a different. I'm trying to give you examples that I guess that your brain can play with it and you're like, oh, that's right, I get it.
Speaker 2:You're trying to give me examples that you know that you can refuse, so that you can continue to refuse.
Speaker 3:No, I'm not even refuting anything you're saying.
Speaker 2:Because I've been on your side.
Speaker 3:You're just.
Speaker 2:It's not about sides.
Speaker 1:I completely understand where you're.
Speaker 3:So what's the number you're?
Speaker 1:from Seven fucking minutes.
Speaker 2:I was asking. You've been on your side for seven fucking minutes.
Speaker 3:What about perspective? We can continue this.
Speaker 2:You know what, mr, I would like to talk about.
Speaker 3:So when you say perspective right, so when you say perspective right, what perspective a woman give that a man supposed to succumb to all the time?
Speaker 2:What perspective a woman give that a man supposed to succumb to all the time?
Speaker 3:Because it's a perspective of a real man. That's a perspective Because at what point was a black man really in the realm, or the creation of what a real man really is? It was never talked about a black man because a black man was never afforded the opportunities to even be a real man. The way the perspective is. So let's go to. What is the perspective of a?
Speaker 2:We can absolutely go to that perspective. So since we're going to perspective, we gotta get personal. I'm just on this, my friend. I wanted to get personal.
Speaker 3:Absolutely no, because now you're going to talk about your experience and I can't tell you your feelings or your experiences are wrong.
Speaker 2:So we're not even going to have an opportunity to have a conversation, because my perception and my perspective of black men is not the same perspective that everybody else has. I can tell you that I completely agree with you that black men have not been allowed to be in the same spaces as other races, as other people, especially not in this country.
Speaker 1:But my perspective of black men is completely different.
Speaker 2:I like it. My perspective of black men don't have nothing to do with how the world sees them. So if you want me to speak to how the world sees black men and how they're not respected and how they're not involved in this, I don't want to talk about the anomaly, I don't want to talk about the one seed found in hydro.
Speaker 3:I don't want to talk about that Because, again, we can all have those same type of stories or sentiments or opinions or statements or whatever. We all got those. It's like an asshole. We all got one. I'm not here to entertain what you feel, because then I can't, the minute I tell you what you're feeling is wrong. I'm wrong.
Speaker 1:Oh shit, please talk to us, I'm wrong. That's your opinion. No, he's right. He's right. I'm not just saying what you just said.
Speaker 3:You're going to be smart with six degrees. What are we talking about with it?
Speaker 1:If he goes off that and he goes off your feelings and then he speaks on that you're going to say he's invalidating your feelings.
Speaker 2:No, that's not. That would be invalidating his. If he feels like, I know him, that's how he feels.
Speaker 1:Do you feel like he's wrong or do you know he's wrong?
Speaker 2:I don't feel, no, I can only feel like he's wrong. I can't tell him that he's wrong.
Speaker 1:But is he wrong, Facts or not? Is he wrong?
Speaker 2:Is he wrong about what?
Speaker 1:Everything he said. Do you feel like he's wrong or is he wrong?
Speaker 2:No, I feel like everything he said about black men is right.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, Using the filler word feel. Is he right or is he not About black men?
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's simply that.
Speaker 3:Ain't got nothing to do with how you feel, right? I never said.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you did. I never said that you did. Yeah, you did it's on tape. No, I didn't say that.
Speaker 2:I said, I can't tell you. I can agree with what you're saying about black men, but I can only give you my perspective.
Speaker 3:Let me add to another perspective then, as a the perspective on a person being educated Okay. The perspective on a person being intelligent Okay. And the perspective of a person being knowledgeable Right. At what point do somebody have the facts? What perspective have the facts From the intelligence to the knowledgeable, to the educated? Who have the facts out of those?
Speaker 2:Oh God that was cool. They would assume that the person that is educated. When I told them, I'm assuming I'm asking you an educated type of person.
Speaker 3:You just said you got six degrees. I didn't say that you did.
Speaker 2:How many degrees you got? You got six or two or five. How many?
Speaker 3:Even if it's three. I'm asking an educated black mom.
Speaker 1:Oh, he hit you with the black mom and she is which out of the three?
Speaker 3:got the facts and it can't all just be perspective, because if that's the case, then invalidate the smart, invalidate the dumb and invalidate the geniuses. You got to invalidate everybody, then he was right, he on your ass, your perspective? I'm only asking your perspective at this point because it seems like that's the only thing where you can talk. It's from your perspective. That is the only way I can talk.
Speaker 2:I don't, then what's the point? You're being on the show Because you make You're living off of Giving out general information. I make my living off of understanding people personally. That's what I do with my so as a psychologist, so that's how, like a psychologist.
Speaker 3:So let's get a perspective on a psychologist. Is a psychologist, then, supposed to get personal or stay neutral? Because what you just said is you make a living off of understanding how people are Personally, personally. So are you a psychologist or you are what? Currently no, I'm just saying what kind of field is that where you, what, you do, what you do?
Speaker 2:I prefer client-centered therapy. So all of the things that I do, I focus on the person. It is not my job to tell them what society feels or how the general public feels about what they're doing, because right now the purpose is to deal with what's going on with them. So I have to deal with the person. But I understand that what you're doing is you're dealing with the general thing and people. We need those kind of people that deal with what everybody's thinking, what everybody's feeling and all the opinions.
Speaker 3:This is why I wore the woman on the shoulder dance with a girl, but for what I'm doing, so what you just said that's a parallel, that's a good parallel. You have a woman that's dealing with the person. We got one sitting in a corner and a man. That's general. So what you say? You say I'm doing something that and this is why I love being a Capricorn. This is why I talk about Martin Luther King and Jesus Christ. This is why I talk about those two guys.
Speaker 2:That's why.
Speaker 3:I say Jesus and the Capricorn Listen. See, she say what you're doing is you're generalizing everything. You're giving information for the general public. I just told you that's the idea, because to me it feels so much better being Jesus or Martin. You get it. They did for the general population. They did.
Speaker 2:He also did for the one Wait wait, wait, no, no, no.
Speaker 3:His reasons for doing what he did, the reason why he has a legacy both of them in that we're talking about is substantiated because what they was doing for everybody Right, not just one they didn't care about. And it's kind of messed up where you can say they didn't care about their family or their loved ones, but to them their loved ones was everybody, to them their family was everybody. When you become selfish and then you say what about me? You negating everybody.
Speaker 2:So you're saying that Jesus didn't care about the one, he only cared about everybody.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's a clip.
Speaker 3:Say it again, I didn't hear you because you're too low. You lose your confidence.
Speaker 1:I want you to maintain that confidence. I'm not going to say confidence.
Speaker 2:Where that provider at. I want to hear that provider. Wait a minute. Now You're saying that Jesus only cared about everybody, not the one.
Speaker 1:Y'all about to get Christians upset.
Speaker 3:I'm not going to get no Christians upset at me To understand the way they constructed the Bible in the stories of Jesus Christ. This is the way people put these stories out about Jesus Christ. It sounds like he was there to help everybody.
Speaker 2:You never heard about Jesus.
Speaker 3:Christ, Wait a minute. I never said listen, hold on.
Speaker 2:Hear me out.
Speaker 3:Tell me the stories you hear about Jesus Christ. You don't hear about him being a bad kid. You don't hear nothing about when he was 12 or 13.
Speaker 2:You absolutely do hear about when he was 12. She a.
Speaker 1:Bible kid I want to hear it.
Speaker 3:Tell me, because I never heard a story about him being 12.
Speaker 2:That's when he went to his father's house. That was the first story that I learned about Jesus.
Speaker 3:When he went to his father's house when he went to church.
Speaker 2:Who was his father? God, god, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 3:Now the perception. See, this is another perception. This is why I love, I like this, the perception is in the Bible. I'm talking about the perception of going to his father's house.
Speaker 1:You called it in the Bible. You called it in the media.
Speaker 3:You can follow him down below I understand your father's house because his father is God. I know your perception is that my other perception would be going to a quiet space and just talking to him. That's still the house as well.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying that your father went into church Is that not what they still say, though he is right.
Speaker 1:He went to a quiet place no. You're saying he can go to a quiet place. You can just go to a quiet place.
Speaker 3:You don't have to go to church To talk to.
Speaker 2:God, yeah, absolutely. That's how what Jesus did in the Bible.
Speaker 3:So he did that at 10?, 12. Oh, 12. What happened at 13? How many stories do you know about Jesus? My point is I know a few.
Speaker 2:But I'm saying that, I'm not saying that your premise is wrong. I absolutely believe. Martin Luther King, Jesus Gandhi, all of them.
Speaker 3:I ain't anything. He's not a Capricorn.
Speaker 2:But as far as Jesus, a lot of the stories was him talking to one person, trying to get the one person, and it was for the multitude, but a lot of the stories is him having one-on-one conversation.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you why. Or do you know why already?
Speaker 2:I would love for you to tell me why. I know you want to, because I was going to tell you anyway.
Speaker 3:I know you were the reason why, because that person right there no people that I don't know, so I got to have that one-on-one conversation with him, so then he can go back over there and tell everybody in that house, because I can't be in that house, that house, in that house, all at the same time.
Speaker 3:Now, what we was talking about initially, or how we even got here, is the perception. So now, what messes all of that up is the perception, and that house of what they heard, the perception of that house. And now you go from just having one Christian population or just one. I was saying you're going somewhere else.
Speaker 2:That's how you get these different tracks. That's what I was saying, that's what I was saying, that's what.
Speaker 3:I said the perception, but at some point the perception has to be a fact, right? So at what part of it is it the facts? That's why we're here. I'm going to talk about this show. We're here by the perception of the facts. Is there ever any facts? And if everything is based off your own personal experience, then there's no facts at all in world.
Speaker 1:In the world. It's produced and sponsored by Bubbles Galore Me at a Rundle Mills Mall. Bubbles Galore Me. Alright, now continue.
Speaker 3:In the Toxic Clinic In Mr Goddard Glow.
Speaker 1:So that's a real positive thing.
Speaker 3:I didn't mean to go into the whole religious thing. I appreciate it because that was a good one. It's a side deal, nobody is a perception.
Speaker 2:I had to get my money back.
Speaker 3:Religion in and of itself is a perception Hashtag fun by Like religion has to be.
Speaker 2:it's a perception. That's why people have different denominations of Christianity, of different sex, of different things.
Speaker 1:You saying religion is a perception they own your ass. They own your ass.
Speaker 3:They own your ass, but they gonna be on you. Oh shit, I didn't even call it perception.
Speaker 1:It is so go ahead, Make your clip.
Speaker 2:Religion is a perception. Go ahead. Religion is a perception. How people perceive and understand God is a perception because of how high Hold on.
Speaker 3:God is not religion. See you mess up when you do that. God is not the religion. What you call.
Speaker 2:God is a part of your religion.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's not what you call. God is not a part of your religion.
Speaker 2:You know what a religion is Do you A religion, ain't God? I said what you call God is part of your religion. Run the tape back. How many gods is it? That's your perception.
Speaker 3:No, it's only one. God, it's only one. That's your perception. No, no, no. Every single from the Quran, but not your perception. What are we talking about here?
Speaker 2:Hindus people believe in more than one God. There are a lot of cultures that believe in one God. They're called polytheistic religions.
Speaker 1:She on it.
Speaker 2:Polytheistic religions.
Speaker 3:They don't believe in multiple gods. They believe in multiple Jesuses, the sons of God.
Speaker 2:No, polytheistic religion is believe in multiple gods. Please Google it.
Speaker 3:You need to Google it.
Speaker 1:I'm telling you what I know, like I don't talk about things I don't know, right here will be the description of Pala, whatever the fuck she just said, and y'all can read it yourself.
Speaker 2:She can A monotheistic religion, what we call Abrahamic religions. That would be Jews, that would be Christians, that would be Muslims. There are a lot of cultures that subscribe to polytheistic religions, which have multiple gods, and you too, me, we all say there's only one God. That's because we subscribe to a monotheistic religion. There are people in this world who might feel some type of way about you saying that because they believe in multiple gods. I'm not saying that they're right. I'm just saying that that's their perception.
Speaker 1:You can run these views up. You know what I'm saying. They wrong, leave it right.
Speaker 2:Listen, baby. I'm not about to tell people that what they believe is wrong. I can't do that. You mean what they?
Speaker 3:feel what they feel.
Speaker 1:It's not what they believe he bought this bitch all the way around. It's not about. It's not about, it's not about.
Speaker 2:It's not about. It's not about.
Speaker 3:Ask yourself if belief is a feeling. It absolutely is. So your feelings change right. They absolutely do. Your beliefs don't.
Speaker 2:Yes, they do. They do your beliefs don't change. Your beliefs are supposed to change. That means you had no beliefs.
Speaker 1:No beliefs grow.
Speaker 2:It's growth, not change.
Speaker 1:We're not talking about growth, we're talking about belief. If you believe or you don't, it don't change. No, my belief grows, my belief. Don't change it, don't it? Don't? Belief cannot change it, absolutely can. You can't say you believe in God and then change that?
Speaker 3:Yes you can. People do that on the phone. No, you can't. I mean, they never believe. You never believe. Oh my God, why God do this? So now I believe in them. That's a feeling. What are we talking about?
Speaker 2:How do you want to tell people that they can't change their beliefs when you are introduced to new things? You said we're talking about facts. You say facts. You could be like when I go outside it's not raining because when you came in here it was not raining.
Speaker 1:Do you want to come on the goddamn show?
Speaker 2:But then you look at the weather. You see, the weather said that it's raining.
Speaker 1:Do you want to come on when you go outside?
Speaker 2:if it's raining, that is a fact. It is raining, it can change.
Speaker 1:You was like it wasn't that time another story.
Speaker 2:I know the time we would not know that we're going to be like it's dry outside.
Speaker 3:I'm lost in that comparison.
Speaker 2:Because beliefs can change. Chas are we putting on?
Speaker 1:the show your beliefs can change that comparison? Don't even show Are we putting?
Speaker 2:on the show it does. I believe it's dry outside. I don't know how it's raining.
Speaker 1:Listen, we're going to take a quick little break.
Speaker 3:Dang, you're definitely coming on this show.
Speaker 1:We're going to take a quick little break and you going to see from the other side. I feel like more in this bitch. So we're going to bring another female in and we're going to let everyone on out.
Speaker 3:Come on on, let's go stupid, let go, let go stupid.
Speaker 2:It's hot, yeah, all right. And we back.
Speaker 1:You might see an extra chair, extra face, an extra leg. Let's talk about something outside of God before she gets the Christians in the uproar. You said that you are your favorite ass eater, but you've never had your ass ate.
Speaker 3:Never, why? It's not no particular reason. I've never had a woman, even. I never even had that woman ask for that.
Speaker 1:So you're not against it.
Speaker 3:Why, should I ask? I've never. That wasn't nothing that excite me.
Speaker 1:So you eat an ass.
Speaker 3:Right, you, you, you're ass eater.
Speaker 2:He's forcing himself that and I'm not understanding you call yourself that he asked her.
Speaker 3:was she an ass eater?
Speaker 1:I mean if all y'all ass eaters you jumping in it, you jumping.
Speaker 2:I'm not about to ask. No dude, if he like to eat his ass, I'm not about to ask.
Speaker 1:So you just do it?
Speaker 2:I'm not sure.
Speaker 1:So you Nike out this motherfucker?
Speaker 3:I'm not sure, you, just, you just do it. So if you're not asking, are you just doing it?
Speaker 2:You just doing it, you just doing it Like, so like, if you're I'm crying Listen. Yeah, I want to know how you just eating ass, yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, now we all need your daddy to watch this he absolutely is.
Speaker 2:If you're already there, you already doing it, you're looking and everything. If it's right there, that's fine, if they're okay with that.
Speaker 1:But do you ask?
Speaker 2:I'm not asking.
Speaker 1:So how you going to be?
Speaker 2:okay with it, Cause he'll stop you If you're already right there. What you going to be like? Hey, you good with this, you already right there.
Speaker 3:Oh, I thought you would already had that kind of conversation with somebody.
Speaker 2:You know their whole sexual Right.
Speaker 3:You know what?
Speaker 2:A lot of times, though, I feel like people they don't know what they like sexually until it happens, like people are afraid to try things and they're afraid to have that conversation. A lot of times, people don't want to have that type of conversation, cause we all right, right there. Like a lot of people are like, I chill with that, like you know, like, and it's that simple.
Speaker 1:Like no, so we are green. We are on the green, since you eat.
Speaker 2:I don't eat. Okay, I'm screaming. If it's, if I feel like it, okay.
Speaker 1:Why you talking about delicate and shit. You eat ass on all.
Speaker 2:There's only one person that has happened with. Why you like your lips was a scrumptious it was, it was cool it was. So you do miss new, new new features, new, new, new feet.
Speaker 1:That's on the show. Are you against as eating?
Speaker 2:Um, I think that it's a sign, one that this is do not enter, I'm not, I'm not, do not answer. Answer Ask it only. I'm crying, we're not talking about packing, cause I ain't doing that. So no, for me I'm not judging If that's what you are, I'm not, I'm not.
Speaker 1:She put a strap on and fuck you.
Speaker 2:And it's, I don't do that.
Speaker 1:And I don't want to be with no man.
Speaker 3:I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2:That's fine. A lot has happened. My shooting not about to be rocking like that and we ain't doing that, and I wouldn't want my man to be like that. Exactly, I ain't doing that.
Speaker 1:That's bullshit.
Speaker 3:I haven't even heard lesbians calling that like Pagan cause. They don't have to go to that. I don't fuck a couple girls in the butt.
Speaker 1:I don't know. I don't know how to get the LGBT get down. I just said I never heard of.
Speaker 2:I never heard of Mates Pledge. It is just like with her regular yeah. What you wear is what you wear. Man, man Right, and you want to please her, you're going to get for an anal sex.
Speaker 1:But not if you're not with it, though.
Speaker 2:Cause there are some men that are not about to do that.
Speaker 1:Africans Caribbean.
Speaker 2:But there are men that are like that there are some. Caribbean men have anal sex and women who like that that's tough.
Speaker 1:What I look like bending the man.
Speaker 2:I'm not bending them niggas. I'm not bending them niggas. I'm not bending them niggas. He can lay on the stomach, I'm not. He can lay on the stomach For those of you who like to do that.
Speaker 1:I'm not judging.
Speaker 2:It's just not my habit. She just said some.
Speaker 1:You ain't know, two men can make love.
Speaker 2:I've read in the E Lan Hurds book and they laid down and they made love to each other.
Speaker 1:Like why he was laying down, I don't know how to make love to another man His penis was born.
Speaker 3:The anatomy, don't even the way the anatomy is structured.
Speaker 1:How is this dick?
Speaker 3:up.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:The way the anatomy is structured.
Speaker 3:We're meant to be with a woman.
Speaker 1:Oh fuck.
Speaker 3:Now. Now look at the way the anatomy is structure.
Speaker 1:Now we're done with the way the anatomy— You've been the best up here with your fucking nickname. So what you? That the X-File, the way, the anatomy— You're set to make?
Speaker 3:something here I'll understand. I believe that's the way the anatomy— Theちゃnt. The way the Gr bipartisan may have変 ли— the Christian is now I'll understand. Theathers is known to pretend.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's the way. The anatomy— no, I'm saying the way that now— the Christians— we going. The gays I believe that's now— You're first, you're first. He accused All of them.
Speaker 1:Now, I'm saying the way that anatomy— the anatomy is structured meaning we have the part that goes— Because you going off the anatomy. So right now it's being gay unnatural. Yes, as far as the anatomy, the anatomy, Do you feel like being gay is unnatural?
Speaker 2:Why are we talking about feelings? He's Mr Fax. I never said feelings. I never said feelings. He's Mr Fax. I always say it's the accent you have how you feel.
Speaker 3:I don't have a feeling towards it, because I don't mind a person having whatever sexual preference they got. But he's saying, I'm saying the way to anatomy is so men are supposed to be women.
Speaker 1:is what you're saying?
Speaker 3:Yes, because that's how we procreate, you procreate how the way to A man and Even if a woman, even if a woman changes her body, not necessarily biblical, but I'm not saying.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying. I'm not saying that I want people to say she said about this mother fucker.
Speaker 3:Honestly, two women can't have a child without. You're right.
Speaker 2:You can, you can. You can't score in vitro. Oh no, two women cannot make a child. Oh my Jesus, two women can make the choice of having a child.
Speaker 1:We didn't say have a child you said
Speaker 2:You said no, no no, she's just trying to have something to say. I personally know people, I know, but they had to get some sperm somewhere in there, right and they didn't make a child.
Speaker 1:They didn't make a child, that's it.
Speaker 2:They chose to get a child, but we can have them. No, I didn't say what you're saying but he's Mr. Fax is saying biologically speaking, it takes a man and a woman to make a baby. Everybody knows that. No, they really don't Do everybody know that? Who the fuck don't know that? I, like people don't know that it's only one way.
Speaker 1:This should happen.
Speaker 2:Dude, have you not seen I'm not trying to this finna be a Listen.
Speaker 3:I let y'all go this bridge by yourself. I got a question.
Speaker 2:It's how you identify. They feel like men, because if you identify as a man, they feel like they can have.
Speaker 1:But how can you identify with something you've never been?
Speaker 2:Oh shit, I agree, the same way that a gay man thinks that he a woman and he thinks that being a woman is that, oh girl bitch it, that's not an old woman, but that's an interpretation. It absolutely is, and that's what it is. It is a perception.
Speaker 1:Look, this is what I fucking say Bring it back.
Speaker 2:It is a perception. That's what it is. That's what it is. That's what it is.
Speaker 3:The vibes and turn it to the toxic. This is the toxic vibes. This is the toxic vibes.
Speaker 2:This is the toxic vibes. This is the toxic vibes. You, Mr Glow, bring the clinic into this.
Speaker 1:So what is Mr Toxic? Tell everyone so I'm, because somebody gave you this or you proclaimed yourself as this it's my gayness to.
Speaker 3:You are the transition king. What woman fucked you over? Oh, you fucked her over. Well, you know what's so crazy. It wasn't even about me fucked over. Right, it really wasn't. It was my idea of. Now. This is why I say my idea. I ain't say feeling. My idea of understanding logic should supersede emotions In dealing with a lot of.
Speaker 3:In dealing with women in general and in a relationship. This is my idea. This is not how I feel. This is my idea. So my idea of understanding that logic supersedes emotion. It made women look at me as you're not in a sense compatible because I don't have the understanding of feelings. I don't understand that when you go to work, you come home you want to just vent or you want me to emote with you. I don't get that, do you?
Speaker 1:not have a father in your life, but they are men. I did so. You grew up with a dad. No, no, I didn't. Do you think that's part of the reason why you don't have that part? No, then why don't you have?
Speaker 3:that part Because my mother I grew up with just a mother raising five kids, Right and she always told me you don't show people, you don't let people see you cry.
Speaker 2:But that was like person to person.
Speaker 3:Wait, listen, listen listen, black man thing. No, you miss it.
Speaker 2:You miss it when I'm saying you look at her, I'm not, I'm not.
Speaker 3:I'm not how you not, if you not let me finish. I'm saying the way she raised her kids and she presented herself. It was you only need yourself, you only need to be by yourself, because you're going to have those issues and reality that you get told no, where things are not going to go. Your way. So I learned early in life, I guess from a single black mom, right, a single black mom of five children that you might not have a father, but that's not where your fallacy is going to be.
Speaker 1:But do you think well, after what you're saying, because I was raised by my mom, do you think with that conversation your mom took the role of a dad? No, by telling you that, no, the streets took the role of the dad.
Speaker 3:So I have a question for you, because the streets, took the role of the dad for myself, but how did you know it?
Speaker 2:was the right street and your mom and Hold on.
Speaker 3:You say hide on the right street is so funny. Yeah, because you said the street. Did you get what I'm saying? I got what you said. I just landed what you said.
Speaker 2:That was a clip I get where you're coming from and. I get where you're coming from because the single mom thing. I came from a broken home. My father was in and out. It was mostly my mother, but at some point I grew up and I started making decisions on my own. Everything that my mother told me may not have worked for me or may not have been the best.
Speaker 2:I've seen her struggle. I don't want to struggle, so somewhere along the line I'm going to take a turn and do my own thing. So just because your mother raised you with certain beliefs is still her beliefs. What made those facts? She's telling you what she knows from personal experience. I never even bring up nothing about her telling me these things. I'm not saying you did, she's just asking you. You said her beliefs.
Speaker 3:I never even expressed her beliefs. I have a question for you.
Speaker 2:I just said, whatever she was, it was her learning experience and her faith in you.
Speaker 3:The two double king vibes. He literally just asked me do you feel like that was an issue not having a father? I said no, me being away, I am. It had nothing to do with me not having a father, and they go back to having a single black mom. He said oh yeah, I had a single black mom as well.
Speaker 2:I have a question.
Speaker 1:She never gave me no beliefs.
Speaker 2:You said that she did you said my mother told me X, you did say that.
Speaker 3:My mother told me not to let people see you cry or sweat.
Speaker 2:It's nothing wrong with a man crying, so that's how she felt.
Speaker 3:You never even let me finish it because she in the running said see, that's that toxic thing. I said she's that toxic upbringing. I never even got a chance to explain it.
Speaker 1:This episode has produced my chance to be here.
Speaker 2:Nobody had a chance to explain it. No, yes, honey. What's your? Question I said got that glow, Excuse me baby.
Speaker 3:So glow is a good sign now.
Speaker 2:I have a question. I would like to say that I had a dad and he had a dad and he is that. I'm just going to say that. My question for you is that you said you were raised to be independent and to rely on yourself, and you get into relationships sometimes, and a lot of women especially, subscribed to their emotions instead of logic.
Speaker 1:Do you feel like?
Speaker 2:because you were raised to be independent and go based off of what it is and not what you feel like it is. That has caused problems in your relationships.
Speaker 3:No, that's the reason why I was called toxic. That was how we got here.
Speaker 1:And why did you self proclaim that?
Speaker 3:No, it was given to me because of my ideology on that fact. Supersede emotions In relationships. You have to be what they call emotionally intelligent. I don't even agree with that. What the fuck In?
Speaker 2:relationships. I'm talking about facts for everything. It's okay to feel.
Speaker 1:That's worse than the dictionary as well.
Speaker 2:I never said a lot of things. Feel okay.
Speaker 3:so I'm asking you I was trying to get her an answer. Let me finish thinking her answer first, and then I'll call over to you.
Speaker 2:Please finish. Go ahead.
Speaker 3:Yeah, when it comes to relationships, again why I got toxic like two devil king.
Speaker 2:Why you got the same.
Speaker 3:Is that ideology of that emotions should not supersede?
Speaker 1:logic, logic. It just shouldn't. That's what he lives his life by, pretty much.
Speaker 3:Right. So I don't feel like that has nothing to do with anything else besides who I am. Logically, if it makes sense, if it's right, then it's right.
Speaker 2:You were called toxic because you were like if it's not actually happening. If it's not a fact, then this is not a thing.
Speaker 1:Yes, but I'm the same way. I argue and talk the same way.
Speaker 2:Oh, go ahead the same way as in with the logic Would you say that part again what I'm saying is that he feels like the people were calling. Well, you said that's not a feeling. People call him toxic because he's subscribed to logic instead of emotions. Instead of relationships. And my question to you is do you not believe in balance? Because you have to use both these words because you used the word dictionary earlier, before we were on air for like 300 minutes of going back and forth. So there's a balance in relationships, right.
Speaker 3:I would not disagree with that.
Speaker 2:In front of each other and say are you in a relationship?
Speaker 3:This is logic Is she logical. No no.
Speaker 1:But do you guys have?
Speaker 2:balance though. There's a balance, are you always on the logical?
Speaker 3:side. So the balance is the opposite person. What For me to balance? The balance is the opposite person.
Speaker 2:But I'm sure she uses some logic. No, no.
Speaker 3:No.
Speaker 2:She doesn't feel that way, can I?
Speaker 1:ask you a question.
Speaker 2:I have a question for you. Real quick, I'm just going to answer.
Speaker 3:I'm going to barter you with this shit. I understand it's a balance, hold on, hold on. I understand what you're asking. A balance, no, no, no. In a relationship, the balance is the two people Period. It's not the person finding their own personal balance. So when I look at it, in a relationship, you accepted me, for me, for me right. Not. You accept me for me and then, two years down the line, you want me to be somebody different, right.
Speaker 2:All right, that's saying it to another level. I'm only answering the balance portion.
Speaker 3:So for myself, I would not be able to date me. I couldn't date a woman me. No, you can't, because it wouldn't be the same. I mean, I wouldn't have, so I wouldn't have more fun.
Speaker 2:I wouldn't be toxic, I wouldn't be able to take down. You don't have a problem with her being emotional.
Speaker 3:No, that shit is toxic, that shit is amazing.
Speaker 2:It's a great feeling. Everybody he uses toxic as a good thing. So don't think that what they already know Bad thing.
Speaker 3:They don't because all they have it off here. You understand what I'm saying. So the balance is not necessarily the balance?
Speaker 1:Are you only called toxic by black women?
Speaker 3:No oh.
Speaker 2:Baby toxic is a general thing. It is not only with black women, but y'all use that term a lot more.
Speaker 1:I've dealt with other races. Y'all use that motherfucking term.
Speaker 2:Is it us or is it y'all? Women, you know what's so crazy. You do understand, but shit, I only dealt with women. Tell me how this is on the mid-side. Hey bop, what the fuck.
Speaker 1:I never had a nigga called be toxic.
Speaker 3:But I had, oh wow, only from the same, from how I post, right, I'm saying like Okay, I didn't know when it was going. No, so the way I took it. So the way I convey information, even the way I convey information, is like yo, that's a toxic way of looking at it. Oh God, and it's like it's not a toxic way, if you look at it as a positive If you look at it as positive.
Speaker 1:But are you changing the definition of the word? Are you flipping the word Poisonous?
Speaker 2:Poisonous. Right, you're flipping, so I'm getting it now Poisonous.
Speaker 3:Let's go with poisonous Right. Are you poisonous? No, I'm not. Is any human poisonous?
Speaker 2:They can be, they can be, they can be, they can be.
Speaker 3:So once again. So if you look at my, my, my, my, Instagram and we absolutely have. I got a post on my Instagram, my Instagram. I got a post on my Instagram that literally says if you're going to communicate with me, understand that nothing is absolute but death. So we already all know that nothing is all. So if you're going to use the cop out that all it ain't all like that. We already all know that. But we're talking about Bell's Curve 67, 68%.
Speaker 1:What the fuck? Bell's Curve?
Speaker 2:is. Bell's Curve is like it. It's the likelihood of something happening.
Speaker 3:So you go, so you go, so it's 68%.
Speaker 1:I'm not fucking going to college all the way.
Speaker 3:It's just the likelihood of something happening. Right. So the likelihood of some of the things happening is how I communicate, right. I don't communicate per feelings, because everybody has that only way of communicating, but if I need to know when I use the feeling versus the logic. No, no, no, no.
Speaker 2:He needs it every day. Life, what Balance and life you have to know when to do whatever, so so. You know you have to utilize all the stuff you keep talking dictionary, All of these words.
Speaker 1:Normally we ask about childhood. These women say fuck all that, we have to learn how to communicate.
Speaker 3:But if that's how you subscribe, I say once before I leave Watch the cameras.
Speaker 2:I understand where you're coming from. I appreciate that you feel like in my life I'm going to be a logical person. That's what I subscribe to I was going to note out, I'll do that.
Speaker 1:You can't do it, Okay. Side of the room Look.
Speaker 2:Lord Trex. What the fuck is happening, Lord Trex?
Speaker 1:Anyway no, but I was there. You wanted to know it up.
Speaker 2:Okay, all right, and you wanted to know it was there, you wanted to know it was there.
Speaker 3:You wanted to know it was there, you wanted to know it was there.
Speaker 1:No, you did.
Speaker 2:No, I was there, we've had conversations.
Speaker 1:I showed the fuck. You were there.
Speaker 2:I was saying that I understand why you feel like to balance, because you appreciate the need for balance. Yes, that you have a woman that is very emotional.
Speaker 3:Yes.
Speaker 2:And that you are a logical person and that you guys can balance each other out, because that's what's necessary in relationships. You have to be weak where the other person is strong.
Speaker 3:She already said that. Every day life. That's the idea. He's logical.
Speaker 2:Where did not get tiresome, if that's the only way that it is. But that's who they are. No, what do you?
Speaker 1:mean no, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:One man. I'm not going to accept that men are only logical and they can't be emotional. No, not men. That's the way you say. Men, just him, yeah, you can?
Speaker 1:Yeah, you can. What the fuck are you doing Talking about him?
Speaker 3:is his feelings.
Speaker 2:No, I can't what you mean. He doesn't know generally, not generally. Men are not logical like that. I'm not talking about him. Most of them are not logical like that, most of them are not logical. A lot of men are very emotional when it's on. That's what you mean by that.
Speaker 1:You had a post about this shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not getting to none of them. I say a lot.
Speaker 1:A lot of men are not like that.
Speaker 2:A lot of men do not subscribe to a logical thinking, acting feeling or whatever.
Speaker 1:But you deal with those type of men.
Speaker 2:Who I deal with. A lot of men don't want women that use their brains. Tell me.
Speaker 1:So you deal with men. You dealt with men on both spectrums. I absolutely have. Okay, how many times have you dealt with a man that wasn't logical?
Speaker 2:That wasn't logical.
Speaker 1:Yes, is it a regular occurrence?
Speaker 2:No, because I'm a very emotional person, so I like the opposite of me.
Speaker 1:So why you deal with it if you know you like the opposite of you?
Speaker 2:Why do I deal with what when you know he's not logical? Why?
Speaker 1:do you go, do it, I like a challenge thing, oh fuck. I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 2:We already had this conversation. I'm a counselor, I like it's a challenge, I like it's a piece, you fucking toxic, go ahead.
Speaker 1:That's fine for me. Exactly, you fucking toxic. He's an attached to the vibes baby. But then he just said what's that relationship? It's a positive. I told you it's logical.
Speaker 2:The woman's emotional. She said her relationship she's emotional, her man's logical. I didn't say that.
Speaker 1:Okay so what do you say?
Speaker 2:Because my man is not uh-uh.
Speaker 1:We not even about to lie. What do you say? We not about to lie on the internet. I'm just saying what do you say?
Speaker 2:I like it.
Speaker 1:Girls going wild.
Speaker 2:I wanna hear you before I say what I gotta say. I have dated men that are very logical and I have been emotional.
Speaker 1:I just found a fucking cast, I don't know what.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna do. That's not a thing, that's it, but we still, we founded up to one or the other. I got flow with somebody that can be both, and I can be both, and we know when to turn what on and what off. And there are more words out there than just that.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 2:so I'm saying in my relationship I need my man to be able to show a little sensitivity like Rose.
Speaker 1:Tresvendt. I don't know who the fuck that is? You understand, because?
Speaker 2:y'all babies, I don't know who I'm looking up. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3:I'm the oldest one on the panel y'all. Since you want to talk about, you need a man that got a balance. I'll be back. It's a balance.
Speaker 2:I mean, I want to ask you a real question. If I want to ask you a real question, I'm asking you a real question I mean there has to be a balance on a man that balances you. No, excuse me, I balance myself.
Speaker 1:I am who I am. Oh, she said I don't need to do that Period, but that's the thing when you're dealing with somebody, you're bringing.
Speaker 2:I don't believe in that 50-50 bullcrap, because that's the way of the world. I don't believe that if you're in it with somebody, you're bringing 100 and they're bringing 100.
Speaker 1:I get what that?
Speaker 2:means so? That means you're bringing your you're old, they're bringing their old you talking about everyday, Because some days it's not 100 or 100.
Speaker 1:But guess what that's when you're bringing your 100, that he's going to cover up you Exactly.
Speaker 3:You hold up a full shoe now.
Speaker 2:Because you said that when you're weak, he should be able to be, so guess what so? There's going to be days like that, but that's not the entire relationship, so that's what I mean when I say you have to know when to turn it off and when to turn it off.
Speaker 1:But I think that's what he's saying. I mean everyone dealing with somebody is just always logical.
Speaker 2:I need you to have a little bit of emotion. But that's what he's saying when he generalizes because he's like that's your personal experience, but that's what he's. That's your personal experience because you personally need a man that's going to balance on both sides. He got to be logical and emotional For him he's like he can't be like that because that's not everybody. He said no, he says he's not like that all the time, but that's something. He's a logical person.
Speaker 3:He needs a woman that's going to be emotional. I'm trying.
Speaker 2:No, he's actually going to lose his normal tight eye.
Speaker 3:It's normal, it's normal, it's normal, it's normal.
Speaker 1:You had a mother fucking post right, uh-huh, and me and her went over this post right and you said About the ugly people, about the ugly people, you ain't right, you ain't right.
Speaker 2:I think you found that that was the ugly guy. I need to tell everybody he's wrong for that he's going to fucking tell you. He's going to tell you so he's not alive in person.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 3:I'm trying to give people that advice. That ain't right. You ain't right for that. Whether it's un-attractive to one may not be un-attractishable.
Speaker 2:Maybe he's ugly here we go, here we go.
Speaker 1:Now I'm going to break it down again. I told you I know who you was before today.
Speaker 2:I wanted to hear, I wanted to hear I would just like to say that I understand perfectly that pretty privileged is the thing. But I would just also like to say it's just cause you ugly don't mean you don't got nothing to say Like that's not right you son of a I don't think he was saying that. Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up.
Speaker 3:I didn't explain that to anybody I got, is it my go? So the idea of advice, right, Cause we keep using words and I keep telling y'all it's no reason to keep putting one definition to 100 words. Right, Advice is usable, information Usable. Is the context Usable? Like you say, the ugly person can say something.
Speaker 2:That don't mean it's usable.
Speaker 3:I'm not immune, right? That don't mean it's usable, right? So when I say an ugly person can't give an attractive person advice on how to date or deal or move with anybody, they can't, right, we know what attractive is. That's not fair, do we? Do we? I got to do you?
Speaker 2:I said we who the fuck?
Speaker 3:is the we.
Speaker 2:Who is the we?
Speaker 3:Somebody can look at you and be like you, son of a-.
Speaker 1:Man, we all know this ass. Watch this, watch this, watch this.
Speaker 2:Somebody can look at you and be like you, fine as hell, that's right.
Speaker 1:that's right. And somebody else can look at me like I'm not this ugly as hell, I'm not.
Speaker 3:I'm not. One time. Not one time did I disagree with what you're saying.
Speaker 2:So who defines the ugly? I'm gonna tell you now.
Speaker 3:So once again going back to using what Bell's Curve.
Speaker 2:Bell's Curve. The meaning in the app the Bell's Curve you got 68% of the people 68.
Speaker 3:So if you put and we'll just use a general person if you put in there, prime Janet Jackson in front of us, and you put and you put 10 people-.
Speaker 1:I don't actually think Janet Jackson's fine. What would that look?
Speaker 3:like.
Speaker 2:Listen, listen, listen.
Speaker 1:Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 3:If you put up prime Janet Jackson in front of us, in front of 10 of us. Right, at least seven of us is gonna say she's attractive. Whether they say fine or not.
Speaker 2:Seven of us is gonna say she's attractive. Based on what?
Speaker 3:Just looks, that's what we're talking about.
Speaker 2:I'm accenting yes based on looks.
Speaker 3:That's what we're talking about. So if you put off of that, if you put a rich person in a room if you put a rich person in a room and 10 broke people trying to tell that one rich person that he had to get money, he's not gonna listen to None of y'all. It's just if y'all not making money, so again so again, if you don't look attractive to the masses because it is a look, the masses.
Speaker 3:It is a look Like it is a look. I know men and women that, like Boris Beckham, right. Who the fuck is that? I wear polo all the time. So he's the age he's the guy that modelled for polo. I wear polo all the time. Boris Beckham, I think.
Speaker 1:Boris Beckham will be on the screen, if anybody didn't know.
Speaker 2:Wait, wait, wait, wait. I'm gonna say somebody yeah, yeah, he is, he's black.
Speaker 3:But he been modelling for polo forever. I always been wearing polo. I've always wore polo From West Baltimore, we Y'all love polo.
Speaker 2:How did he From the beginning. How did he see?
Speaker 1:his polo, yeah, yeah, he was fucking out of the-. Here we go with this shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we not bought it. I don't know who that is.
Speaker 3:I just wear the brand polo and know him from that. Say somebody, and she know who. Do you know that-?
Speaker 2:I was only trying to give a guy because he spent it with me. He's trying to say Pager. I don't know.
Speaker 3:I can't tell you Ice spice. I guarantee you if you put ice spice in a room with us seven of us will say she's not attractive.
Speaker 2:Seven of us will say she's not attractive. Okay.
Speaker 3:Ok, she is. What Do you think?
Speaker 2:Glove Rilla.
Speaker 3:She a high yellow woman.
Speaker 2:If she had no money, she'd be a four in the hood. Excuse me, guys, do you like high yellow?
Speaker 1:women. Why don't she be a four in the hood?
Speaker 2:Glove Rilla is attracted to niggas in the hood.
Speaker 3:You like high yellow women, but is that attracted to the masses? No, that's my point. I'm not for a person that look it's a, look it's really a look.
Speaker 2:Well, do you think somebody that's attracted to the masses because Glove?
Speaker 1:Rilla and Ice Spice is like a hot button. Nicki Minaj is attracted to the masses. I just get a lot of tell To the masses, right?
Speaker 3:So if you, put it in front of 10 people, seven of them will say she's attracted. And then over three that tell her she's not, she ain't going to pay them no mind.
Speaker 2:Because, y'all don't look like I look Cardi B, you understand. It's fine to tell that's money fine, that's money fine, that's money fine too.
Speaker 3:That's money fine. She's not. She's money fine. Her money made her fine. She wasn't able to get it.
Speaker 2:We got the heart, Steve. Y'all try for it, Regardless it's still in her shoes. Nobody is perfect in this world.
Speaker 3:Now you're using the whole little word. That's all you got to do with it. Money can make you attract. Yes, it can, and I've only kind of scored.
Speaker 2:I've seen that meme. It's like you was ugly Baby. You was just broke.
Speaker 3:Yes, even Jay-Z saying his own music ain't no exception.
Speaker 2:A lot of people don't do it. Jay-z tried to be money though. What he said he ain't go because he's ugly. I don't know if it's because he was ugly. So once again, so once again, Jay-Z was not attracted to you. Wait a minute.
Speaker 3:But again, listen. But again the post came from net Meaning you can't tell a if you unattract him. You can't tell a track to a person how to move with people, right.
Speaker 2:You just can't. Do you identify as attractive or unattractive? I'm cold.
Speaker 1:You can say I'm cold.
Speaker 2:Hold on You're talking about fucking cold, you said that Damn, I ain't got that blow for nothing, you said, a broke person can't teach a rich person nothing.
Speaker 3:No, you can't give a rich person anything.
Speaker 2:Let's pause, you can't give a rich person.
Speaker 1:Nothing, you ain't got it. You ain't letting your own shit.
Speaker 3:That's not a perspective, can you?
Speaker 2:listen for a second.
Speaker 3:If you can make sense for 10 seconds, can you let me talk?
Speaker 1:You can't make sense since you got on camera.
Speaker 2:A rich person can't learn from a broke person why they're broke and how not to be broke from looking at that person.
Speaker 3:You answer that.
Speaker 1:No, because if I'm already rich, it's broke. I know the lesson.
Speaker 3:I ain't out there getting advice from broke people or homeless people there. Why are you not getting advice from broken homeless people?
Speaker 2:there when I see homeless people.
Speaker 3:I don't try to be like that. I want to help them.
Speaker 2:Why aren't you seeking their advice? Because they out there way more than rich people. That's why I talk to me. That's why Because you ain't trying to talk to them about nothing I would, I would I have. So forget broken, homeless people. I have a question. I'm sorry, karen, are you saying that unattractive people can only not tell you about relationships? Are you saying that not to take ugly people advice at all?
Speaker 3:It would make somebody ugly. No, it's not. That's the first thing it would make somebody ugly. Is that here, you know?
Speaker 1:what's that A personality would make you ugly. We literally talk about the message.
Speaker 3:We literally just talk about the message you or you and be like, oh he, fine, but he not. That's not a percent of the time.
Speaker 2:That's not a percent of the time. When you get into relationships, you talk to somebody, you meet them, you meet them, you meet them, you meet them, you get into relationships. You talk to somebody, you meet them organically whatever, at a bar, online, whatever and you get a dab with their person 100% no, you don't know that person, you don't know nothing about them, so all that doesn't even matter.
Speaker 3:Are you talking to them? No, listen, I'm saying Are you?
Speaker 1:talking to them at the bar.
Speaker 2:No, I'm saying like 90 times out of 10, if I walk up to them at a bar, I'm walking up to him because I think he's attractive. I don't. I have not even had a conversation with him.
Speaker 3:Somebody never got a man that say I'm welcome to tell them she gonna be my best friend, never, not, never.
Speaker 2:That's an extra People that feel like are un-attractive have people, because that means that person isn't as shallow and they've delved into the fact of they have a mind and everything. No, I didn't say that. Do you walk up to ugly niggas at the bar? No, I'm not walking up to niggas, they're walking up to me.
Speaker 3:I'm not walking up to anyone. Have you given the ugly attractive guys your number? I ain't, I ain't, I ain't, I ain't even knew guys till.
Speaker 2:I turned down for different reasons I'm not finding that out at the bar. You gotta meet them somewhere else, I'm not gonna know. You not a good niggas at the bar because if you ugly, I'm no, I don't know, nobody.
Speaker 3:see the big part about it is, but guess what?
Speaker 2:those are the people that if you knew they probably would make you laugh. But I'm not gonna find that out.
Speaker 1:They don't give a fuck about women, don't care about that. You and PT up. You won't give a fuck about that if y'all look good they been shallow though they're pretty up.
Speaker 3:They're pretty up.
Speaker 2:They're pretty up pretty women dating ugly niggas. There are. I just made a post about that. It's always somebody that look bad, is always somebody that got a bad look.
Speaker 1:I just need to be on the spectrum like autism.
Speaker 2:I don't know if I'm the person that's gonna do that. You ain't right. I just need to be on the spectrum. We didn't talk about the precious and the people on the spectrum.
Speaker 3:We're gonna be in trouble today. So my thing is and look, I just made a post, I just made a post today. Thank you To Dimple King. I really did. It was about insecurities. Right, I literally just made a post about insecurities.
Speaker 2:It was down to crush and I did to express it, and what she's expressing.
Speaker 3:you're expressing an insecurity when you use words like shallow right Because, again, what matters the most when you look at a person, for that out of the appearance, because I'm giving, I'm defending myself. You don't have to.
Speaker 1:You're a patron.
Speaker 2:Without using the word shallow just understand what I mean when I use it. I'm shallow.
Speaker 1:I mean what they supposed to mean.
Speaker 2:I don't mean, let me give you my your definition of shallow, but that don't work, though no, no In the usage of the word. You can take a word and use it in multiple ways.
Speaker 1:You can use it incorrectly, right, but you can't use it the most with ways you can't use it incorrectly, you can't use it incorrectly when you hear what I'm saying Okay, go ahead, all right, go ahead.
Speaker 2:Listen to it. I think that it's shallow to look at a person's out of appearance and judge them period, Because you wouldn't want somebody to judge you, but you're doing, but where we at, though, because that's a bar? I'm not. Oh, you see, ladies, can you two, you cute, you ugly. This person can have a bomb ass personality.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:Can be the best supportive person in life Can make you laugh.
Speaker 3:Right.
Speaker 2:Can cook their ass off.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:Good ass sex.
Speaker 1:Right, everything Right.
Speaker 2:But you missing that opportunity because you're being shallow minded. Yes, and then guess what? I'm not going to go.
Speaker 1:That's why she got a point. I'm not going to go down into.
Speaker 3:It's not shallow to the preference.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to go dipping to the I'm going to say shallow water. I'm not going to dip into the deeper water because I don't like what I see in the outer shell. I don't think that's shallow. I think that everybody has a preference, but what's the difference between shallow and preference? No, okay, so there's a thing shallow has negative connotations to it.
Speaker 1:shallow might be your personality.
Speaker 2:I think that Cardi B is attractive. Some of y'all don't.
Speaker 1:Do you think she's attractive now?
Speaker 2:I'm looking at her now, okay.
Speaker 1:So you think Cardi B with money is attractive?
Speaker 2:I've seen her. She's not been an ugly girl.
Speaker 1:Because you've seen her with money.
Speaker 2:Because her teeth might be whatever Some people might like some of my, it was teeth, it was body, it was everything it was everything. So whatever Toof is crooked and that, what the hell do I got to do?
Speaker 3:with the rest of a person, because what you're missing is what you're saying. That's shallow and I'm telling you it's fake and opinion.
Speaker 2:But what so? Again, it is different. It's preference make you shine on Whatever. Wait, wait wait, let's go back to what I was saying. I said it's preference make you shine on, so she said shallow Once again she used the word shallow. That's your personal thing, hold on.
Speaker 3:So you used the word shallow, right? Yes, and I'm saying shallow has negative connotations behind it. It's not going to go deeper than it was. You're still not letting nobody talk.
Speaker 2:Look at you, shallow has negative connotations.
Speaker 3:The reason why people utilize words like shallow? Because they have certain insecurities. Right Again, the most important thing when you're talking to anybody is their looks, because if they Correct you all saying it though no, this is to the masses, 60% of the world going to tell you this this is like I had a number.
Speaker 1:He said 60%.
Speaker 2:He going back to that bell. Curve baby, because it is. No, I agree with you. I'm saying that.
Speaker 3:But we saying in the masses You're not going to allow somebody to walk up to you with a hole in their shoe, with one eyebrow, and you're going to give them your number. That's unattractive, that's unattractive.
Speaker 2:They don't have it together.
Speaker 1:But, you're not going to do it. You're not going to do it.
Speaker 2:I said you're going to do the only eyebrow. No, I'm not.
Speaker 1:So you shallow, so you shallow.
Speaker 3:See you shallow, we got it, you fucking shallow.
Speaker 2:I'm going to get that person like you know what You're not even going to get it wrong to that personality.
Speaker 3:You might be nice, but you're going to get your number I'm not giving him.
Speaker 2:I'm not giving him. I'm not giving him but you're saying that's my point.
Speaker 3:You're not even listening to your own definition of what you're saying Because I'm going based on what you said. For us, the idea is looks. The idea is looks Because if you don't look a certain way, if you don't look a certain way, if you don't look a certain, way for anybody. You're not even going to get that chance to get to that personality. If they could, if they got good sex, if they got a good heart, but you said something, but you said something, but what's attractive?
Speaker 2:to you Forget the past, but that's going to go.
Speaker 1:You said something that's going to go. Is that what you're talking about? And you're talking about seeing people different than you For who they are. You said, because I wrote it down men don't see a way to interact with our attitude. All facts, All facts.
Speaker 3:So if you understand a man, if a man don't see her as a wife until her attitude, shows you want to detect somebody unattractive though. It's your wife.
Speaker 2:Even if her attitude shows wife. Listen to what you just said, if her attitude shows wife If she's not attracted to her, she's not even about to get that.
Speaker 3:The physical person is just the sexual attraction. The physical person is just the sexual attraction.
Speaker 2:Do you got to be sexually attracted to somebody to be in a relationship with them?
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:So is that a general statement or is that a personal?
Speaker 1:That should be 90% of the world.
Speaker 3:That should be 90%, if not 100%. But I'll give 90. I'll give 90. That's why I gave you 90. I gave you 90. But those 10%, they ain't worried about the looks. They worried about everything else that they provide. But 90% of people should be worried about what their partner look like, because if you're not physically attracted to a person, I don't give a fuck about nothing you guys going on Sexy Wait.
Speaker 1:I have a question, Sean Tay, is that Shanna Wait Sean?
Speaker 2:Tay, is that Shanna or some money, or a sugar daddy, or a female getting a BBL? Thinking that's for putting a spotlight in your hand.
Speaker 3:We was just talking about this in BBL. What is?
Speaker 1:up with the fucking.
Speaker 2:BBL. You're getting whatever came out of this baby's face, you ain't changing. You're getting whatever came out of this baby's face, you ain't changing.
Speaker 3:You ain't changing. You ain't changing. You gotta think about it. It ain't changing. Hold on.
Speaker 2:But is that shallow, though? What? So 90% of people are dating somebody that's attracted to them or they're attracted to, so are they shallow, then?
Speaker 1:I find that respectable, because the point is, I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 2:You have to be attracted to a person, but I don't believe that the word attractive is only in the physical. Somebody has to catch your eye, but somebody else might look at them and be like damn, that ain't that cute.
Speaker 3:No, that's fine, that's fine you might find that, and then when?
Speaker 2:you talking in the act with this person. That's how they keep their attention.
Speaker 3:That's fine, I agree with you, hold on. But vibes ask about a man. So when we're trying to tell you all vibes asking about a man seeing a white Right, we're saying we're trying to answer Y'all, can't answer that, because you're not the man. Right Y'all are the wives. So when I'm saying no, this is it Shit?
Speaker 1:I had a fake wife before.
Speaker 2:I had a fake wife before. I had a fake wife before. I had a fake wife before Did you have a fake wife before, did you?
Speaker 1:have a fake wife. Did you have a fake wife before? I think you need to elaborate. Hey, she put you on. You said you had a fake wife before you talked to her. What she mean, bro, I don't I don't.
Speaker 2:So you had a fake wife before. I had a fake wife before, so you been pegging, excuse me, oh, I don't know, is that what a fake wife was?
Speaker 3:Why was she back? What?
Speaker 2:was an old friend of yours, committed to You're going to ask her why was her fake wife?
Speaker 1:What was her fake wife? What was her fake wife? No, what was your fake wife? What was your fake? Wife she about to get into it.
Speaker 2:What was your?
Speaker 1:fake wife. Why was she back? Why was she back she?
Speaker 2:endorse it. In that lifestyle of yours, you were a lesbian. That's why I tell y'all beliefs can change. You were a lesbian. Excuse me, Excuse me. There are other words. Y'all use one word you can be a lesbian, you can be bisexual.
Speaker 1:Well, I'm asking were you bisexual I?
Speaker 2:have dealt with women before?
Speaker 1:yes, I have. So are you bisexual?
Speaker 2:currently, currently, women have turned me off. I just told her I still-.
Speaker 3:So your beliefs ain't changed.
Speaker 2:Excuse me, I still know and I'm gonna tell you because this is my personal life, I'm not gonna let you read me and tell me who I am?
Speaker 3:I'm not sure.
Speaker 2:So what I'm telling you is you can't, because it ain't even on the shelf, unless I open the pages I'm locked, which I'm trying to do. What?
Speaker 3:I'm trying to do is listen.
Speaker 2:The point is, I have endorsed a lifestyle for years, right, Okay. But then I'm also a Christian, right? I prayed about it.
Speaker 1:Oh wow, can you be both? I understand?
Speaker 2:shoot.
Speaker 3:Can you be both? I'm sitting there. That is perception. I'm sitting-.
Speaker 1:That is the Bible Listen.
Speaker 2:So, y'all telling me I'm not a fact and I'm telling y'all my life, I'm telling you that's not a fact.
Speaker 1:Okay so what am I doing? You could be a Christian and be gay, yes, but if you're going off the Christian views, no, that is unacceptable. No, not the Christian views.
Speaker 2:You caught your dick in yourself. I'm not saying that wrong with it. You caught your dick in yourself, so you said you could be a Christian and be bisexual. But I'm gonna tell you, as a human-.
Speaker 1:Give it to me.
Speaker 2:A Christian. That is not the way to live as a Christian.
Speaker 1:Okay, but you did it anyway.
Speaker 2:And yeah, because we all sin, nobody's perfect. You got your sin you got yours, you got yours. Wait a minute You're gonna.
Speaker 1:Let me finish talking for a second. You're gonna let her. Martin Luther King said you're gonna let her finish the whole point of making this?
Speaker 3:I dealt with that and I've been darshing that lifestyle.
Speaker 2:I got some enjoyment out of that lifestyle.
Speaker 1:She'd meet you, but it was a point that, that prep start making. I hate you. I love you too. What we lesbians? I hate you too. It's a point where I got born to.
Speaker 2:God and I knew I started feeling a certain type of way.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:And this is why I say your beliefs in certain stuff can change, because I was one of them. Go hard, you can't tell me that I'm being wrong. I am who I am, this is my life, right. And then I'm like God wins.
Speaker 1:You understand what I'm saying so.
Speaker 2:I prayed about it, I worked on it. Certain situations happen. I start looking at things from a different perspective, which turns into facts. Like some women are crazy, so I'm like OK.
Speaker 1:So you never stopped being bisexual. You just said, some women turned you off.
Speaker 2:I can still look at a woman and say damn, she's a child, so you can still much on one truth All women turned you off.
Speaker 1:Like no woman in this world can bag you.
Speaker 2:You completely left that I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman.
Speaker 1:But you will fuck a woman.
Speaker 2:I don't, of course you would, I could, of course, you don't, I don't want to.
Speaker 1:But would you? Is it no woman in this world that you will fuck?
Speaker 2:At this point right now. No, I'm not fucking no woman, but I'm straight. If I did it, it would be for a reason at this point Because you wanted to. I hope so. Listen, this might be a very controversial question. The point is that I don't want to look at it.
Speaker 3:Look at it Every woman doing so far has been controversial, clearly. So then are you saying that Please let her get her?
Speaker 2:question out glow. We're talking to each other, okay but, we want to listen to her and respect what she's saying. Mr Dippelking, you're Mr Goddard, excuse me.
Speaker 1:What's your question?
Speaker 2:I got it, he's not the only glow on this thing. My question is are you saying that because a lot of people say this that you were delivered and you no longer like women?
Speaker 3:Not delivered.
Speaker 1:I'm not trying to be funny, I'm asking.
Speaker 3:Or are you saying that?
Speaker 2:it was just a point where you're like I'm going to use a cigarette as an example. Like right now I'm trying to quit a cigarette, so when I quit a cigarette, and then Just one cigarette, no listen.
Speaker 1:Are you going to separate the pussy?
Speaker 2:I'm trying to give you a lesson.
Speaker 1:No way, let me hear you. He said she the old, she the elder, go ahead.
Speaker 2:Excuse me, the same way that he used all these various examples okay, the toxic clinic, whatever. I'm using this example because I know that I need to stop smoking for health reasons and all that other stuff.
Speaker 2:You understand what I'm saying, but it's something mentally that I need to get on board with. So when I stop and let's say I haven't had a cigarette for like three months, that's not going to say, oh, you know what? I wouldn't mind smoking a cigarette because I'm stressed right now or I know it would feel good if I smoke a cigarette, but I know I don't need that cigarette.
Speaker 1:I ain't never had some pussy. That said, I just need you know right now might be a good idea.
Speaker 2:Excuse me, you said you never had no wife. You never had no wife. You all always beefed but the sex was good. You like dang. I don't want to deal with that drama but the sex is good.
Speaker 3:Damn the truth.
Speaker 2:Same freaking thing.
Speaker 3:Damn the truth. That don't sound like the same thing.
Speaker 2:Oh, he gets what I'm saying. I get what you're saying. I smoke that fucking cigarette.
Speaker 1:I smoke a cigarette. I smoke a cigarette. I smoke a cigarette. I smoke a cigarette. I smoke a cigarette. I smoke a cigarette.
Speaker 2:You're saying that because I'm not out here looking for a woman. I'm not saying you are, but I'm saying that if a woman, there's people that still try to call at me for back in the day and I can resist them because that's not what my attraction is.
Speaker 3:And Shawnti, my question will you sit there and that's a glow, say you had a fake wife, right?
Speaker 2:I was letting you know and leading you into that lifestyle. It's a real question, Like literally hit a question.
Speaker 3:The same way? He asked me the question about a man don't see a wife until he interact with her attitude. Did you look at it the same way, like you did?
Speaker 2:I surely did. And guess what? I was the person who always left, and this is why.
Speaker 3:I had drama in my life Because the attitude more so turned you away from and I also.
Speaker 2:I always say I don't know how men deal with this, because when I wanted to, ask for the relationship.
Speaker 3:We don't know, either we know when I wanted to ask for the relationship.
Speaker 2:I had so much drama.
Speaker 3:So it's like man, why you causing me hell Like this is not where I wanna go. The reason why I asked that is because we got to that point where we was thinking. I was saying the logic poses supersede emotions. What you just said is why logic supersede emotions.
Speaker 2:But they turned my emotions off from their behavior. No, no, so it made me. They didn't turn your emotions off.
Speaker 3:That's why that's the point, Listen logic supposed to supersede emotions. If you allow your emotions to turn off your logic, then guess what? You were never supposed to be there anyway Because, logically, you pose on the stage. We love each other.
Speaker 2:What logic is going on? I still love each other.
Speaker 3:But if it turns off, then you was never supposed to be there. You was never supposed to be there. I guess that's why I'm not there, so hence why the whole question to a man don't see a white until he interacts with an attitude, depending on how far the attitude go.
Speaker 2:You just say it. It made me like, yeah, I have a question I got answers.
Speaker 1:Do you see a?
Speaker 2:wife and the woman that you are currently dating. I do you better say that if you dating her right now, thank God she's watching this show, do you not?
Speaker 3:know, I will say how bad that shit is. I don't have a problem with that. I'm 100% understanding of the guy.
Speaker 2:Whoever is feeling with you.
Speaker 3:They would do the dog. He live not too long. He just saw the guy. He just saw the guy.
Speaker 2:You deserve it.
Speaker 3:You got to have the same. So I'll tell you now. I'll reveal something personal. This is some personal. I'll reveal. This is real fun. This is some funny. This is funny, but real shit at the same time. She's met people and I told her even before now. I said you're going to meet people in my life that's going to ask you, when you meet them, how you even deal with that motherfucker.
Speaker 2:Prayer because they can't deal with you.
Speaker 3:I'm one of the ones where you Prayer. I'm like that.
Speaker 2:You can only take so much of me at a time you can only take so much of me.
Speaker 3:You can only take so much of me at some time, but if you're one of them, people that can take a lot of me.
Speaker 1:I'm on your ass.
Speaker 2:But that's when you know there's meant to be because, but whatever's meant to be or not.
Speaker 3:It don't have to be just a relationship with a woman type of thing. It's like a friendship with a guy.
Speaker 1:If you can take all the me, all the time.
Speaker 3:That's my point. Say it again In general, in general, me explaining myself in general generically speaking, if you can take a lot of me and be like I never want to be in a room with you Exactly, but then you can also meet me today and remember me 10 years from now, without ever seeing me again, because he gave you that. Because I gave you a lot of that.
Speaker 2:He gave you a lot of that. I remember the ponytail, of course.
Speaker 3:This is what happened. So he gave you some, I gave you some. You walked away with something more than you have feeling because you never felt it.
Speaker 2:I'm not touching his hair, why? It's not a thing for me, I'm OK. Well, he asked you to feel it. He absolutely did.
Speaker 3:And I'm OK. I asked did you want to? Because most people when they see it, they want to feel it, but everybody knows what blows your head is like, though.
Speaker 2:He said he mixed with Simon. It's like he wanted. He wanted, I'm sure it feels very nice. Honey, that is the hair on his head and I'm OK with that. This look, yes they got real spice.
Speaker 1:Ok, you had a conversation on your post about there was a difference between good sex and plentiful sex. Yes, can you explain to the listeners and the viewers what the fuck that is.
Speaker 3:So again I was expressing how some people take the idea of saying they can have sex with anybody. Plentiful and that's just plentiful sex. Yes, that don't make it good.
Speaker 1:Oh, I didn't have, just plentiful and bad sex.
Speaker 3:Because all of us, specifically women and specifically women y'all can have sex with anybody, anybody, at any given time. All you got to do is say I'm ready to get you some Right Male or female or animal or toy.
Speaker 1:A nigga will go.
Speaker 2:A nigga more than 90% of the time. You like to ignore some cause? Right, I'm not 95%, I'm 95%, maybe almost like a condom 98.9%.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't use that.
Speaker 3:But a person going to go Right, that's just plentiful sex. Absolutely that's not good sex.
Speaker 2:So good sex is sustainable.
Speaker 3:Good sex is what make you say, damn, I wouldn't even got treated like that. But since he doing this or since she doing this?
Speaker 2:I'm going to allow that shit to happen. But you said it's so good dick that you stay.
Speaker 1:Yes, Good dick, good pussy. I don't even look at it, you ain't never had no good dick then.
Speaker 2:If you said her, you ain't never had no good dick, then I was just looking at you, you're fine, you ain't never had no good dick then If.
Speaker 1:I drop this missaloon yo-a-a right now. You ain't leaving. I swear for God.
Speaker 2:I swear for God, I swear for God, I swear for God. There's certain things that you deal with, but like cheating and all that stuff, no, that's a lie.
Speaker 3:That's a lie, because I'm good sex and again I'm not going to just say good dick.
Speaker 1:You might not be the same, but you're going to double back.
Speaker 2:You're going to double back, let me tell you something. Good dick, it can absolutely be a good way. Chas, I hear you back there dropping that missaloon. It can make you change your life, it can make you think a couple things, but after a while.
Speaker 1:It gave you a little cloudy.
Speaker 2:Let me tell you something I'm not going to speak in general because I know you like that. For me, good dick doesn't sustain you. It might cloud your judgment, you might be dick-mattized for a little while, but that shit gets old.
Speaker 3:What's a little while? Let's go with a little while.
Speaker 2:See when you're waiting, wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 3:Shawtae, shawtae, shawtae. Wait a minute when you said a little, while you're actually adding a time to it. So now I want you to apply a real number.
Speaker 2:What's a little while. What's a little while. I'm talking about yourself.
Speaker 3:Your own personal experience. What's a little while for you?
Speaker 2:I've thought about like six months. I like looks.
Speaker 3:All right, so six months, you saying why are you?
Speaker 2:putting months on this.
Speaker 3:Because he says you know what? What are you saying? Wait, no, no, no, shawtae.
Speaker 2:Shawtae.
Speaker 1:Give me a time limit, Hold on.
Speaker 2:Shawtae my own personal experience.
Speaker 3:After about six months I was like you got to do something else, all right, so you're saying good sex for you six months, after six months, you ain't dealing with it, no more, right.
Speaker 2:No, I'm not saying I'm not dealing with it, no more. You got to do something else. It can't just be the same.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no, make up your mind now Ask me. Answer the question. You said after a little while. Then you said six months. So after six months you're done with that person? No, Then it's longer than six months. Make up your mind. Make up your mind, Because if they don't do nothing else, so they don't do nothing else.
Speaker 2:How much more time they got. If they don't do nothing else, you check out emotionally.
Speaker 3:Once again, we're talking about good sex.
Speaker 2:Are we only talking about sex when we talk about a relationship? She checked out. She told me that the six months of motion you didn't check out yet she did? She said she checked out.
Speaker 3:We only talk about sex when we talk about a relationship, but she still has sex with them. We're talking about good, you're only going to have that kind of sex with somebody if you're in a relationship. No, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 1:Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. No. No, I was a supreme side nigga dropping this. Wait a minute, wait a minute. No, I'm not Listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:Listen to what I'm saying. Listen to what you just said. Listen to what you just said, right. Listen to what you just said Right, you was a side nigga dropping missiles Right, hitting bottoms. Right, that girl was accepting that right, thank you.
Speaker 2:And he was no, no, no, you miss it what I just said if she was accepting it, right, she was accepting it.
Speaker 3:What else you think she was dealing with? Because she was accepting one person. That was the side man oh, my side niggas, the one that's dropping the miss warmie. So she could have been dealing with so much shit.
Speaker 2:Okay, you know what I'm bringing up her? Because she said my old perspective.
Speaker 3:In a relationship. You're not gonna be that kind of sex with somebody if you're not in a relationship as a woman. He's saying it from a man's point of view. I guess we agree, sir.
Speaker 2:I think the 1800 got to you.
Speaker 3:In a relationship? Yes, wait, man, don't cuz you're a man, so we're looking at different. So if sex get better, yes, if you're in a relationship, yes, you just answered my question. What about a situation? You're not gonna allow it to be like you're gonna allow it to last longer than six of all the situations better.
Speaker 2:If it's not, the dick is just good. You just use them, like he said, like as a side. That is that's exactly.
Speaker 1:You can be in a relationship and be a side bitch. You can be a, you can be a side.
Speaker 2:But I'm saying you're not taking it to the situation, the fact that other needs a big man. That's why I say about For me after six months oh, my other needs were not being met. If he's dropping dick off and he's just a sad nigga, that other dude is doing something that he's not doing. What if you single? What if you don't? If she didn't need?
Speaker 3:what I'm only asking from your personal. First you bring up your personal perspective, now you want to generalize it. Which one are we talking about?
Speaker 2:I don't do sad niggas, okay. So if you have my, I don't understand the question. Why would I have to?
Speaker 1:have these two motherfuckers right here, boy.
Speaker 2:I'd never cheated.
Speaker 1:Yes, you never been with your woman. And then in the gauge, in the conversation, outside of the respect of your woman that emotionally Cheating, so having a conversation is emotionally attack.
Speaker 2:if you're having a conversation that your woman would not want you to have with another woman, you're emotionally cheating you say, you say you must say You're having a conversation that you should be having with your girlfriend, but you haven't it with somebody else.
Speaker 3:Once again, I'm trying to make sure I'm understanding what y'all saying, emotionally, cheating right.
Speaker 1:You are giving something that's supposed to be for your woman to another woman, like something about your life, your day, your sexual preference.
Speaker 3:okay in a relationship, Were you single and just saying no, no, I'm trying to answer this cheating part emotionally, because this I'm kind of confused by the emotional.
Speaker 2:Try get his man a lifeline. He don't want to take my life line. Oh, I make it more sense than you make it right now. You don't want to sound.
Speaker 3:I'm confused, so when you be better off admitting that you're confused and acting like you know you?
Speaker 2:stop talking and listen to what they say. You understand, bro?
Speaker 3:Another woman no cuz, I don't understand that whole what you mean.
Speaker 1:You don't know. I said I never.
Speaker 3:Japanese right. I'm blazing.
Speaker 2:You've never been with a woman and then one another woman. So what do you do? Do you leave the first woman to get with the other woman? And that's why you didn't cheat.
Speaker 3:So your question? Oh my god, listen, dude.
Speaker 2:I'm with women and be one of them all the time.
Speaker 3:I just said I'm with women and one other women all the time. I've never was with a woman sexually and then went ahead sex with another woman. Okay, that was my girlfriend, never in mind.
Speaker 2:I don't believe that person.
Speaker 3:Yes, no, what I'm saying is Just cuz I'm in a relationship, I'm not gonna go out and have sex with somebody else.
Speaker 2:That's because that doesn't mean just because your relationship doesn't make other people uninspected. That's respectable if you really feel like that, if you're being honest, I feel like I've never cheated. Okay, you feel like I'm literally saying, you feel like that I have, I have.
Speaker 3:I said what he said is respectful.
Speaker 2:I said that's respectable.
Speaker 3:I really want to ask the women cuz you're already emotionally cracked up anyway.
Speaker 1:I want to ask Bob to demand who, and emotional, listen what I'm saying is I just want to ask another man to get a better understanding Before we get out of here I'm gonna let you know, the most cheating is emotionally cheating is if you are with a woman, yard in a relationship and then you engage in a conversation with another woman, rather it be how you're feeling, okay, sexual conversations, your dreams, hopes, aspirations that you share, kind of specifically just for this other woman. You are emotionally cheated.
Speaker 3:Okay, now real quick. Does the conversation itself make it emotional or you actually have to have a?
Speaker 1:conversation itself.
Speaker 3:So I can't tell a female friend, just in general.
Speaker 1:I don't have a female friend. I don't have no female friend.
Speaker 3:I'm in the box, so I can't tell a female friend that I'm having a bad day. Okay, let's see you. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait for me to answer the man. I can't tell my female friend is having the box and I'm trying to I like, so I can't tell my female, I don't have any female friends, so you're attracted to this woman.
Speaker 2:And every woman that I've talked to.
Speaker 3:I'm not going to talk to a woman. I'm not attracted to this I how was it so you're missing?
Speaker 1:No, no.
Speaker 3:That's why I don't have female friends. Okay, I don't have any female.
Speaker 2:Most news. They want to get that. Okay. I Want you to feel like that female friends, just their friends, but they know that that friend is ready to go. Yeah, then they go around for that. You can't trust me, and I get that.
Speaker 3:First of all, people loosely use the word friend.
Speaker 2:Explain that, bro. I understand what you say Because because most dudes they lie. They be like I got female friends.
Speaker 3:Now listen, I'll go as long as I'm not in a relationship Relationship.
Speaker 1:I.
Speaker 2:I. There's nothing that's ever been between the two of y'all. You accept that as you? That's just been your friend. Yes, you don't have any females in your life no Me.
Speaker 1:No Right to his knowledge. You don't know.
Speaker 3:I've never had a female. Tell me they didn't want to have sex with me.
Speaker 2:I'm here to tell you. I Might ask for your number, but he got a girlfriend. He is on camera when that bad.
Speaker 1:Listen, this is this has been another. I don't know what the fuck this was but this has been another, so this has been another lovely episode of vibes.
Speaker 3:I gotta get this out Expeditiously.
Speaker 1:yes, um, I'm gonna let everybody go around and tell them where they can find you at to get these vibes again. Go ahead, hold on, we're gonna go to you because you just jumped in the fucking frame.
Speaker 2:Yes, Real ass.
Speaker 1:Three and then a real one, oh five. Yeah, you ain't gonna tell me a goddamn name.
Speaker 2:No so I say pray. Everybody that's looking at this podcast know me and they like.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, if the name sound familiar. I met this woman and I did not know she was my goddamn daughter. Yes, so we're gonna go to the left over here with miss spicy butt. Oh, am I.
Speaker 2:I'm Taj, or it's hot down here. You can follow me, or whatever. Like all the social media is hot down here. Or a black mother, because that's what I am.
Speaker 1:Thank that can't find that shit, they absolutely can't.
Speaker 2:You type it in. That's what it is. That's what it says on everything. Okay, but it's only one time down here.
Speaker 3:Oh, so it's target down y'all. The black mother, the whole thing, the black mother. What's your instagram name? Tajadayu?
Speaker 1:That's that list. I don't know what fucking letter that was. Yeah, part two will be a motherfucker. Yeah, how about?
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Speaker 1:Hey, he reached out to you on instagram.
Speaker 3:I did, I was trying to find a new space to record, record my podcast.
Speaker 2:Well, that's both of us.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, you dealing with her. That's gonna be a motherfucker. I really did, I really did, and shout out to my watch on. We're talking All right and shout out to my guy behind the scenes newly married bought his money. He only uses them now, so you can't cash out the. That's how I be. I use them.
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Speaker 3:He's seen it as a big friend. But then come talk to us Listen. They let me on the stage, but it's another story that we go talk about. On part two. Yeah, I got a lot more to tell you on part two.
Speaker 1:Let's say you gotta bring them back for part two. Man, this has been another lovely episodes. Thanks for bringing shantae out of the motherfucking closet. Thanks for bringing Taj. All the fucking dmv dc. What are you? I could kiki Marilyn, whoever you from, and shout out to mr Toxic for making this relationship work. Somehow. We will catch you the next episode of the vibes podcast and we are out, so y'all know what it is.
Speaker 3:Devise with the chilling, with the vibes on the vibes man.