Hey Vibers, buckle up for a thrilling podcast journey with your main man, Two Dimple King, and the ever-illuminating Buffy, as we tear through the fabric of fame and intimacy in Baltimore's bright lights. Ever felt that jolt when you cross paths with a familiar face in the grocery aisle? Here, Buffy lays it all bare, revealing the pulse and the pitfalls of public recognition, from fan moments that warm your heart to the chilling concerns for personal safety that keep you on your toes.
Shift into high gear with us as we unpack the glitter and grime of the modeling world, where the shine of the spotlight often masks the hard truths beneath. Buffy, with her tales of fame's demanding embrace, dissects the pressures of image upkeep and the echoes of past limelight on today's identity. Then, we steer into the choppy waters of dating dynamics where the price tag on love is more than a metaphor, dissecting financial expectations, and whether transactions trump genuine connections. Can a fling evolve into a meaningful bond? Buffy weighs in with her candid insight, and trust us, it's not all moonlight and roses.
As we cruise to a close, we're not skirting around the tough corners of attraction and friendship – is it possible to keep it strictly platonic when the vibes are live-wired? We're calling out toxic trends with no holds barred, from the mess of breakups to the minefield of internet dating. It's an unfiltered look at love, fame, and the dance in between, with Buffy's experiences shining a spotlight on the truths we often shy away from. So, prepare for a podcast that's as real as it gets – no filters, no facades, just raw reflections on the rollercoaster that is life in the public eye.
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Hey Vibers, buckle up for a thrilling podcast journey with your main man, Two Dimple King, and the ever-illuminating Buffy, as we tear through the fabric of fame and intimacy in Baltimore's bright lights. Ever felt that jolt when you cross paths with a familiar face in the grocery aisle? Here, Buffy lays it all bare, revealing the pulse and the pitfalls of public recognition, from fan moments that warm your heart to the chilling concerns for personal safety that keep you on your toes.
Shift into high gear with us as we unpack the glitter and grime of the modeling world, where the shine of the spotlight often masks the hard truths beneath. Buffy, with her tales of fame's demanding embrace, dissects the pressures of image upkeep and the echoes of past limelight on today's identity. Then, we steer into the choppy waters of dating dynamics where the price tag on love is more than a metaphor, dissecting financial expectations, and whether transactions trump genuine connections. Can a fling evolve into a meaningful bond? Buffy weighs in with her candid insight, and trust us, it's not all moonlight and roses.
As we cruise to a close, we're not skirting around the tough corners of attraction and friendship – is it possible to keep it strictly platonic when the vibes are live-wired? We're calling out toxic trends with no holds barred, from the mess of breakups to the minefield of internet dating. It's an unfiltered look at love, fame, and the dance in between, with Buffy's experiences shining a spotlight on the truths we often shy away from. So, prepare for a podcast that's as real as it gets – no filters, no facades, just raw reflections on the rollercoaster that is life in the public eye.
“If you are a dope person looking to hop on VIB3Z or know someone really dope people send them our way!”
follow us on all social media
YouTube: VIB3Zpodcast
TikTok & instagram @vib3zpodcast
It's a vibe Gizzy, it's your boy, two double king, your favorite Leo baby from the trenches and I got my guy man bun.
Speaker 2:Man bun Fun, bun hashtag fun bun. Hashtag Mr God that go. Hashtag me and Torey's ass eater. Hashtag the bottom one, jim Jones, Come on don't laugh on your shit.
Speaker 3:It's your girl, E-Baby. I already know what it is the Gila bar trade.
Speaker 1:Hey, hi, I'm Buffy, don't laugh.
Speaker 2:You're shit loose. Listen, that is hashtag. Buffy the body slayer.
Speaker 1:What? Oh yeah, check us out, man, we going live. Yeah, interesting.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, for real. All right, so can I can I?
Speaker 1:can I kick out? Show off? All right, listen. This is another episode of Vy's podcast. Man, it's your boy. Two double king, your favorite, leo and I got some special, special people here. One got a leather jacket on, Another one got a scully. But I'm going to let them introduce themselves.
Speaker 2:So can I can I, can I kick out?
Speaker 1:show off, she's a scully.
Speaker 2:Definitely is a scully.
Speaker 1:So you just saying you know it's on you. The show started. Oh, I don't have a level on. All right, fuck him.
Speaker 2:All right, y'all know what it is. Hashtag Mr Goddard Glow Got my address. No, beige sheen Got white teeth and I got good jeans, you see what I'm saying he ain't say he got good credit.
Speaker 3:but oh, ok, all the top of the door.
Speaker 2:Any other ways on civilized? Who else we got on this? Who else we got?
Speaker 3:on the Vy's podcast today. I'm Buffy. Hi everyone.
Speaker 1:Oh, what's going to be one of them.
Speaker 2:It's going to be one of these blind moments. I love it being blind. What else we got on the show with the pink coofy? Yeah, they already know.
Speaker 1:Asalamo.
Speaker 2:What's the character? All for fat hour with the pink hey yo, are you following me, man?
Speaker 3:I'm just putting you down, man.
Speaker 1:Galacta's going to introduce herself. Yeah, Go ahead man, go and introduce yourself.
Speaker 3:Fucking man. Man, it should go eat baby. Yeah, I'm me Jealous of all trades. I do all this, I do all that. I can't put no cap on me.
Speaker 2:Can't put no cap on you. Got a cap on you.
Speaker 1:So we're going to kick this shit off, just like this man.
Speaker 3:You just said it was a studly. That was the cap.
Speaker 1:Oh, these motherfuckers are getting already. Buffy, you've been gone for some time now. When it comes to women that are from the DMV, you are one of the women that are from Baltimore you are one of the top people people think of when they say women from Baltimore. But when you were just talking but I'm going to get to that later why did you disappear from Instagram?
Speaker 3:They were they took my damn page.
Speaker 1:Oh damn.
Speaker 3:They not, but they did take my page. But I had the opportunity to get it back. But once I was off Instagram, it's kind of weird being on Instagram, so I kind of don't like it.
Speaker 1:So you like being.
Speaker 3:Yeah, like so my page had been gone for like six months and I'm in the market.
Speaker 1:I'm pushing my little cart.
Speaker 3:And this man comes up to me and he's like where you been at, this is the last one. What Can we go? Yeah, fuck, who the fuck is you? Why are you just walking up on me saying anything? So I'm like yeah, I'm just regular conversation and continue to follow me through the markets and I'm like you know what.
Speaker 1:There's a bar more coming up.
Speaker 3:Talkers Like this is not real life and then you just start tapping back into like everything.
Speaker 1:But would you even consider yourself a celebrity, though In the city?
Speaker 3:I would consider myself a lot. I wouldn't say so.
Speaker 1:The fuck is the difference.
Speaker 3:You're going to be in the bitchy guy Tough the bitchy, the bitchy, the bitches.
Speaker 1:Bitchy somebody Damn you know what.
Speaker 3:You don't want to be in the bitchy. I like the bitchy. I like the bitchy, I mean like if they throw me on a flyer, if he looks like I'm not a select few. Yes, but, you know, bitches think of me. Ok, so like I guess, when I say we bring the bitches, out she gives just like a big, big, big, big big.
Speaker 1:Oh, am I bringing them with me? No, no, no, no, no no, like, like.
Speaker 3:Like you say, they put you on flyer. We bring the bitches out, because that's why niggas go out.
Speaker 1:That's why we coming for the bitches, for the bitches.
Speaker 3:Yes, so niggas, come in to put you on.
Speaker 1:Oh, but damn if he see you in the supermarket, though, right.
Speaker 3:Yeah, what the fuck you come see me, girl. I'm getting paid to do things. Ooh, Not when I'm just chilling trying to get in there. I ain't. I don't talk to them when they come in. Wait a minute.
Speaker 2:Wait a minute, so I let you said you don't like the whole idea of being well known. She don't like being approached Well known, well known Because she don't like being approached.
Speaker 3:It's really, it's really a safety issue.
Speaker 2:OK, OK.
Speaker 3:When you get older. First of all, I'm a single black female that looks good.
Speaker 2:That's how bad it is you single. Yes, I just wanted to make sure you reiterated that for the fans.
Speaker 3:Single black female.
Speaker 1:OK, you can leave the black alone. You know they got to add that part. They don't hit it unless you're the black part. You got to say the black part.
Speaker 3:But yeah, it just became like a safety thing, like if everybody knows you but you don't know everybody Like at any point in time. If somebody wanted to get me, I have to be a god.
Speaker 1:Because they know you, but you don't know them.
Speaker 3:If somebody beefing with me and I don't know that they beefing or they dislike me, or somebody got something to say and I'm somewhere, and then they make a phone call, I could be god Right. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:So I got a question to ask about that. You think that would change? That would change. That would be the same way if you had a lot of money too, is what you're asking for, right, so you don't even have to be well known, but have a lot of money in those same situations, but in this city.
Speaker 3:Typically, if you have a lot of money, people don't know how to just shut up about that At all my people in this city have a lot of money, typically flashy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was just saying because who would know that you're a lot of money? Or even if you're not flashy.
Speaker 3:People just know you're in certain places.
Speaker 2:Who's?
Speaker 3:going to be hanging out with certain people. The bitches will smell it.
Speaker 2:So do you really believe that that could also be assumption, Right? I was going to say do you really believe that just because you hang with a certain person or in a certain crowd, that everybody is that way? No, so if you hang with a bunch of people, that's rich, or you rich, everybody is rich, Right? So I'm trying to understand. I don't think it would change the safety hazard of whether you well known in your professional career or if you're doing something like legionary, you just go to work all the time.
Speaker 3:I mean, we live in Baltimore. Thank you for saying that.
Speaker 2:Right, that's what I was saying, Because you were in a movie.
Speaker 3:I get what you're saying.
Speaker 2:Well, I'm asking because she wasn't a movie and that movie was pretty popular.
Speaker 1:Oh, we just not going to say the name of the movie.
Speaker 2:Plug this shit I want her to say the name of the movie. She was in the movie what?
Speaker 3:I mean he talked about it to me.
Speaker 1:I was only talking about the movie when she was in that.
Speaker 2:You saying it or wasn't. I was only talking about you being popular, right, so you got some popularity from being in the movie.
Speaker 3:Shit under that, no, my original popularity.
Speaker 2:Oh, a model, Only fans type of model or just regular print model?
Speaker 3:I did a lot of your favorite Baltimore artists music videos.
Speaker 2:So like a vixen type of model, a video vixen.
Speaker 1:Can somebody tell me what the fuck a vixen is Like a?
Speaker 3:video vixen.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:A final, vixen, the main girl that be in the video, the joint stage should be on, like Slam Magazine, those like that.
Speaker 1:That's not a bottom line.
Speaker 3:Yeah, think of like, because her name Buffy. I'm not sure it's like OC Buffy.
Speaker 1:Is that what you got?
Speaker 2:your name from yeah, she was ugly. The dogs came out.
Speaker 3:I honestly don't even remember where it was, she was ugly.
Speaker 2:I'm just saying she was ugly.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you about a man From a man point of view she was ugly.
Speaker 1:She was not attractive.
Speaker 3:Is this what we doing? I'm saying from my point of view, she was not attractive Like Melissa Ford.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Melissa Ford.
Speaker 3:Like Superhead and shit like that yeah he is yeah.
Speaker 1:Superhead was a video, vixen.
Speaker 2:But she wasn't known as a video vixen, she was known as Superhead, and then she ran it.
Speaker 3:She was known as Superhead.
Speaker 2:Yeah, a man, I didn't read it. You read the book, but even starting as a model, though, that already put you in a danger zone anyway. So you've already put yourself in a danger zone. But that's what I mean. Pretty.
Speaker 3:That Baltimore put you in a danger zone.
Speaker 2:Being pretty anyway, and that's what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying that's my point.
Speaker 3:I've already dealt with that type of stuff and it's like you don't really realize it until you step back from it.
Speaker 3:So if I'm in the midst of something I can't really see. All I'm worried about is getting paid, keeping my fans paid doing whatever like that. Once you step back from all of that and you're not even doing that shit, no more, and you still have an impact and you still known and you can still walk around and be like somebody, be like oh hey, that's Buffy, buffy this and Buffy that. It's just like damn. What if I just wanted to go out looking crazy and just chill?
Speaker 3:I can't do that, because it's always somebody like why Buffy came out and she has a little look in her hair and her pajamas was just small, Like it's just always something.
Speaker 2:So you got to maintain an image after you've become that image.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, bullshit, I don't know, I don't know I feel like even if I did make a million dollars, I'm still going from outside in my body.
Speaker 1:I seen you Raggola is fuck like four years ago.
Speaker 3:That's a long time ago. Shit, how the fuck am I? Where was I at?
Speaker 1:You was at work. Want me to tell you how? You don't remember. I picked you up. How was your lift?
Speaker 3:drive yo what work was I at.
Speaker 1:Wow, that's it. How was your lift drive? You see what I mean. You see what I mean, that's what I'm giving, point proof.
Speaker 3:You see exactly what I mean. I don't know what she is, though, and I'm sure like.
Speaker 2:But it's kind of crazy because somebody like myself I'm not even familiar with who she is Like on that general basis of what she expressed as a model, I don't go out to the seat with a model look like on print. I hate the women that's on the fly is because, they never normally act the body Right. So for me personally, I never knew who she was until I seen on Facebook Like literally.
Speaker 3:I never knew who she was.
Speaker 2:I never knew who she was I never had no group.
Speaker 1:You do be tapped out when it comes to anything like that.
Speaker 2:Because her business is not mine and what she was doing wasn't fattening my pockets.
Speaker 1:That's a fact.
Speaker 2:And it wasn't making me prettier. She ain't out here chasing old people, I'm not, I'm just saying so Of course he's not, she ain't thirsty.
Speaker 3:I'm just saying you see that man, but you see that glow he ain't chasing no women, I shoot my shot at whoever I think is a traitor. That's right so.
Speaker 2:I shot my shot at her. That's how I met Selena on Facebook. So I never knew who she was. I never even like oh my god, this is Buffy. I didn't get Buffy Because that ain't the name that's on Facebook, so for me, it didn't work.
Speaker 3:I don't know what worked, she know who I am, so I ain't saying that you shot your shot on Facebook, so Manga did not work. Yes, thank her.
Speaker 1:I just shot you, the man binding my word.
Speaker 3:He was my over-dropper.
Speaker 1:Yes, he said he was a lift-dropper. I was on lift-dropper.
Speaker 3:He's giving his dog, a rubber driver. This is a fact. He shot his shot on Facebook.
Speaker 1:You know how I just shooting this shot on Facebook is fucking wicked.
Speaker 2:Well, that's a I don't remember. No, wait a minute.
Speaker 3:So, what the fuck is going on with you. This is my point.
Speaker 1:That's a case, I'm sorry, I opened my mouth fucking at that puppy Selena? I don't know Well him remembering four years ago. That's insane.
Speaker 2:Because I wouldn't even remember four years ago.
Speaker 1:First of all, I'm just saying but me you shot your shot.
Speaker 2:I'm a regular nigga. Well, I shot my shot because I've just seen this girl accepting my friend request and I'm like oh, why is she cute? She, yes, she ain't opened your shit, though.
Speaker 1:She did?
Speaker 2:She responded I did. Yeah, you supposed to fix my web page too. Yeah, you're the IT girl, right yeah? There we go so that's why I say I wanted to introduce herself, because I wanted to know if she was going to say I'm an IT girl.
Speaker 1:Oh man, you both the stereo type.
Speaker 2:Because IT women I'm clear we don't need to fuck out. No, well I, I don't need to fucking eat. It women like to brag about being women at IT. I swear to God, women at IT brags about being women at IT. So when she says she was going to fix my web page, I'm like, oh why I set the door. I'm like, all right, let's get the ball rolling. You're not saying, you're flying, no.
Speaker 3:Well, facebook anybody.
Speaker 2:I don't communicate like that, so I know who she is from that. And it wasn't about being buffy, it wasn't about being buffy, it's the fun it is, it's the fun. Every time it's the fun.
Speaker 3:I may have two women.
Speaker 2:It's the early, I like it All right.
Speaker 1:Hold Before we get there. Can we shout out to the? Can we shout out the sponsors of today's episode? Buffy then sponsored so but we can shout out to the sponsors. I don't like sponsors oh shout out to the sponsors Bubbles Galore and a Rundle Mills Mall man. Shout out to Bubbles Galore. She got everything popping. You might see her if you ever been into that big ass mall.
Speaker 3:Right in front of all right in front.
Speaker 1:Shout out to the other. Shout out to the therapist. Matter of fact, with the right choice therapist man, everything's going to be at the link below. Shout out to these amazing black women let's get back to the show.
Speaker 2:Get off your damn phone while I was trying to send the link out. Yeah, I was trying to send the link out because we got to make sure we got our fans entertaining and informed.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Right, and they need to understand the two young ladies that's here, although it's a spotlight on the interview we right, they just didn't know, exactly what we were seeing so so. So, when it comes to when it comes to when it comes to who. When it comes to who, he is intrigued when it comes to who.
Speaker 1:He said he went from Facebook to the park. He's reading up some books.
Speaker 3:I just know exactly what it is.
Speaker 1:Such as calm.
Speaker 3:So you tell me because he's going to come with some smooth as so. So, so when it, when it, when it comes to hashtag, mr, there you go. Wait a minute, I don't, so you just eat an ass. Go ahead to your question. We already talked about that? We didn't.
Speaker 1:So, so.
Speaker 2:So, when it comes to being buffy, let's go with. You know, buffy, that's, that's what, that's what you say when it comes to being buffy. What's the biggest misconception of being buffy? That's the biggest misconception.
Speaker 3:Like are you saying you really are, we're going?
Speaker 1:to speak the truth.
Speaker 3:Only, only. I'm not a bitch. I'm not a bitch you feel me like. If you're really like deep down, like hardly a bitch or asshole, that gives when you walk in the room, y'all forget, y'all want to dog. Yeah, y'all know we heavy on the energy. If somebody's like a genuine bitch, you can pick up one egg like. But no, I say that because a lot of my friends, or some of my friends, like people I'm a bitch if you make me a bitch, if I have to be a bit.
Speaker 1:So that's not you, that's not your baseline. You know more. You're not a bitch on your baseline, so this might piss you off.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm not a bitch. What's I bitch to you? Was I bitch in the Uber?
Speaker 1:Talk about yeah and you are a driver. First of all, let's say that was four years ago.
Speaker 2:Because if the biggest misconception is being a bitch that's just natural shit then because, again, you can be a bitch whenever you want. So again, what's the biggest misconception? When a person, when a person actually meets a buffy and I'm a buffy.
Speaker 1:Actress.
Speaker 2:Like when it like. You know how that's like. Yeah like you know, like a, like you say, like all the Jordans in the world, all the LeBron's, the LeBron types of people, the buffy types of people, that does all these things, that's in the spotlight. It has to be some form of misconception, besides being a bitch. No the whole part is the part I probably wanted to hear about.
Speaker 3:That just be a man thing, like Men feel like if a female posts a picture in the thong, she's automatically busting ass.
Speaker 1:That's women.
Speaker 3:It do be the female suit, but it be, it, be y'all. I feel like men over sexualized.
Speaker 1:You that's a sexualized photo, right? Did you do that for the women or you did that for the men? And you know, you know you ain't doing for the women. Get the portion okay, but we know sex sells as a video, vixen or whatever you want to describe yourself. As you know, sex sells.
Speaker 3:Okay, but see, I wasn't there. I'm not a video vixen. I'm not trying to be in nobody's video, none of that. Really, when I was doing modeling and taking pictures, I was really doing that for me. Now, my end goal was trying to get in like a tattoo magazine or something like that. But yeah, I don't see how women can over sexualize themselves.
Speaker 1:You really believe that.
Speaker 2:So I did ideally, it is ideally over sexualized because you don't have to present your sexuality in order for the attention that comes with it. Now we're getting is don't touch right, you can look with, don't Try, but when you, when you so.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry, I'm just not gonna throw money at a woman. That's crazy. I can't get with that idea. I can't do it.
Speaker 3:Oh, you go in the strip club like.
Speaker 1:I'm not for what tell me, and what am I doing with that?
Speaker 3:Get see some as shape.
Speaker 1:Wow bro, I could not just give my money to a woman cuz she dance bro.
Speaker 2:It just does not do nothing, you can get. You can get. You can just give your money to a woman that she doing something, she's dancing, she's before.
Speaker 1:That's not enough for me.
Speaker 2:Okay, all right, so what you been, what you said so what you said, when you say that just to ask the ladies a question is it what do you prefer being paid to play or being loved?
Speaker 1:Okay, back in my day you got my domestication, please, no, I never.
Speaker 3:It's never really like a Play. Like you, rather love the play you ever rather love to play. What's play?
Speaker 1:G.
Speaker 3:Tricking of. He want to know like. It's pretty much like the mentality you even indirectly tricking or you tricking directly.
Speaker 2:Having an adult friend with somebody that you love. So your attention is coming from even the money or the love. That's all I'm asking. So you even rather be paid to play, or you love to play, I love to play personally, right. So most women, they say most women say I gotta be the energy, got a match Right, or it gotta be oh my god, I like you in order to play with Somebody you want to play with twice.
Speaker 3:But then it was kind of going, so I had so we do have an audience.
Speaker 2:So again, we want you to do certain things. If they hear certain words, okay can cut real quick.
Speaker 3:So we want to say no.
Speaker 2:So that's the reason for the word play right. So most women is. Do women, do every woman have a price? Yes, fuck yes women, as these two ladies do. Every woman have a price. No do you have a price? Do you have a price? So if, and directly so if, if.
Speaker 1:Directly like here go $2,000, start buying you should that equal up to $2,000. Now we're talking about something different.
Speaker 3:You giving that shit up cuz, you, cuz. We're starting to confuse actual courting with tricky, because it's not the same cuz.
Speaker 2:This is the world for the city girls. Okay, that's why I ain't that mentality I got.
Speaker 3:This is the world for the city girls. That's why I said no, you don't have to pay to play cuz. Really, in reality.
Speaker 1:So what the hell is tricky. I'm sorry that y'all do that shit. So why do you? So you done it. Why do you do it? Hey? Why are you? Why are you loving broke-naked?
Speaker 3:It was just one it really was just one get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 1:So you telling me, if it was just one if it was, if it was just one, that means y'all was together for years, right?
Speaker 3:We was together for so before then nothing. No, that's different yeah.
Speaker 1:What is? What is a broke nigga? What?
Speaker 3:is that with no money. Do you know what broke so?
Speaker 1:no money or high expenses.
Speaker 2:No money, like you can't even cover a lot of these niggas like you dates, so called because they need a place to stay.
Speaker 3:They don't have a hobo section.
Speaker 1:They don't have a car is getting jody they don't come out with that in the beginning. Okay, they're gonna pull it together in the beginning they didn't scrape that 65 dollars.
Speaker 3:Again the club. So now they didn't you like. Oh, you know what I like them. I'm gonna look out for y'all. Make sure you straight. All of a sudden it's to you sit and I'm like, well, bitch, you still driving my car. What the fuck is going on? Where's your money? Why don't you have a job yet? So what so late? Cuz you be so head over heels, like I was about to say the Physical stimulation. So, how do you catch what I'm saying, cuz you said I gotta do Word play, sir, sorry say it.
Speaker 2:So it really be like also appreciate the broke so the broke man make us yeah, okay, okay, so that's honestly.
Speaker 3:honestly speaking from experience, that'll be what a tire Female to a niggas is the dick so that's how good to a nigga before how so women that believe in I'm sure y'all both believe in energy Right and connection, that's the energies right.
Speaker 2:Is this something new Like? Is this a new phase that that all now you believe in the energy, or it was always I believe in that energy and that connection.
Speaker 3:No, I will say it was. I got to a certain age.
Speaker 2:All right. So I asked that question because when y'all, when y'all talk about these men broke men or the broke man sexually stimulate you a certain way when y'all talk about these experiences. These experiences are way before.
Speaker 1:Nixon broke niggas. Stimulate me.
Speaker 2:He's a way before now, right, right now, are you still falling for those same thing?
Speaker 1:She will keep saying that whoever your motherfucking man is, and he. Called it how long you been inside. We talked about your cat. To matter of fact, you don't want. You don't want, no, because.
Speaker 3:I'm a cat lady too. Don't play with us, yeah no, so.
Speaker 2:So as energy women, how do you recognize? Well, you domesticated. So it's really not a question.
Speaker 3:They owe. The first is so what you do now.
Speaker 2:You talk about pre-pandemic, so those experiences don't even matter, no more so when you talk about energies and these connections. How do you differentiate a good man from a bad man or a broke man from a A financially stable man?
Speaker 3:How do you differentiate those things you can just kind of tell? I'm going to be honest with you.
Speaker 1:As a woman, one real one setting yourself.
Speaker 3:Once you get older past you can tell, you can tell by the conversation. You can tell by honestly the first conversation you can tell what it's going to be and what it's not going to be If that's going to be that person going to go further and not going to go further.
Speaker 1:So you make these judgments fast.
Speaker 3:Yes.
Speaker 1:But can you be wrong about? Have you ever been wrong about the judgment?
Speaker 3:That's what you call giving somebody the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 3:But I'm telling you though, because you can catch a vibe you feel me like, honestly true story. When I first met she oh, you got on my fucking mind.
Speaker 1:He gets on everybody's fucking nerves.
Speaker 3:Like, I'm just like who is this nigga.
Speaker 1:Like this nigga and this man, women hate him.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you know, since she comes off strong.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's always that.
Speaker 3:It's the thing with it, though, like you can catch a vibe with somebody and still be like I know this person not for me, so we can be cool we can talk, we could go out.
Speaker 2:We have a good time, but I know that well.
Speaker 3:Baby you is not the man I'm finna take serious.
Speaker 1:Oh, so we can do all that you already checked out, like, oh, this ain't even, it Just because you don't take them serious.
Speaker 2:Do that all of a sudden, eliminate all the memories that you could create? You don't have to be serious. A memory is a memory, right? What the fuck, gee, I'm grown.
Speaker 3:The only person I'm trying to make memories with is the nigga I'm finna be tied down to. I'm not out here trying to make memories with anybody, anybody and everybody. Okay.
Speaker 2:So what.
Speaker 3:I'm saying is that we're talking right, we could. The conversation could go cool right, and I'm like all right here, cool, so if I see you out we might take a shot together, or you know whatever. Cool shit but it's never going to be. Oh yeah, let's go on a date. Oh yeah, let's go here, let's go Baby. Why that ain't for me and that's not for us, and I'm going to let you know upfront that ain't for us.
Speaker 2:So for yourself that you mentioned that, just to just to add your follow up questions to that. Are you now in a position that you're just saving yourself for that one particular person Because you did say you were single? So are you now just abstinent, not having no sex, using your, your roles and not dealing with no women until you find out how you know she got her?
Speaker 1:roles.
Speaker 3:It's very much giving. You just gave her a toy. You might not be using the boys. You got boy toys. I like boys. Just talking about babies Play with yourselves.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, it's a real question.
Speaker 3:Like the real question is so is somebody hitting that, or do you think she's?
Speaker 1:I think, yeah, that's what you asked her right now Exactly. You could have just said that. If you, if you, if you, if you, if you're not going to if you're saving yourself for this. One man does that she never said she was saving herself.
Speaker 2:She literally just said she's not having no memories, she's not doing no hookups.
Speaker 3:So you're just changing the word.
Speaker 2:You say you're not making that with your life, because her whole world was playing Now it's memories.
Speaker 3:So you just straight talk about sex, right?
Speaker 2:So so yeah, so no hookups. Yeah, I don't what am I?
Speaker 3:hooking up with you for this is too good to just be giving it to any Arab guy.
Speaker 2:So that means you remain celibate until you find that one guy.
Speaker 3:That was the whole question. I can't be celibate because I've already had sex before marriage, but I can be abstinent.
Speaker 2:Well, abstinent.
Speaker 3:You're going to be abstinent.
Speaker 1:Get to your goddamn question. He want to know is you fucking or?
Speaker 2:not Not right now, thank you, and you're saving yourself for that more. What you're going to save yourself Shit.
Speaker 3:She is like listen, he is my like challenge, exactly Right what?
Speaker 1:do I know? You know you was building up to your fucking or not Right, I love a challenge. Are you saving yourself? He's saving your ass over, or not what are you doing?
Speaker 2:What do you like? You got to understand when you say when women say they only looking for this one man, and then that's when they go and do it all it's like so what do you do in between times?
Speaker 3:No, it's just, I'm not interested in wasting my time.
Speaker 2:If the sex good is not wasting time, first of all, you got to try it first.
Speaker 3:Yeah, like I'm not having sex with you Right.
Speaker 1:And I want to make that clear to you, because Jesus.
Speaker 3:Christ, I don't even know who he is.
Speaker 1:He said he shot and shot in the Facebook group.
Speaker 2:What the fuck? No, I literally like what's up. Let me take you out.
Speaker 3:She's like you know I was like oh, Joe Biden, take me out to dinner you find it. And I'm sad because you have to realize I have been less than over since I've been like the only thing a lot of men want to do. A lot of men are not interested in me. Let's be clear. You're not interested in me, you're not interested. It's a fantasy of you, you're fascinated with who I am, what I look like and what you think you can do with me.
Speaker 2:You guys that interact with you, right? Most of them yes.
Speaker 3:So I have to take it upon myself to differentiate. You know who I want to deal with, who I don't want to deal with, who I'm. You get what? I'm saying so you like that right.
Speaker 1:So I'm domesticated.
Speaker 3:Yeah, brother.
Speaker 2:So like no, I'm not just giving it, like no, I'm good, I mean understanding that that makes sense, but I just don't understand how. What?
Speaker 3:you think you know I've been drinking the longest y'all been drinking.
Speaker 1:So does that supersede with this tax?
Speaker 3:n***a was saying if you know he's going to be around.
Speaker 1:You're not. You know nothing like that. But, no, you got to stick with that, because if you saying you want to make sure he around here good guy, all that shit you know you just say the broken man is doing better than the next debate.
Speaker 3:Sex is not that important. I'm saying right now, right now I'm single, right. That is not that important to me. I can get myself all five times in a row before.
Speaker 1:I never could.
Speaker 3:No, I'm saying it, but let's be motherfuckin clear about that.
Speaker 1:When I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 3:Yes, of course, if the sex is not where I want it to be, I'm going to get him to where I needed to Period, Because that's my motherfucking man. But what?
Speaker 2:I'm saying right now is sex is not that, motherfucking?
Speaker 3:You've never been in my bedroom. Shut up and you're not going to be.
Speaker 1:Damn, I said it. You're not going to see the.
Speaker 2:LED. It's hard to try to say you can teach somebody how to please you. That's that really don't work.
Speaker 3:What do you?
Speaker 1:mean you can't teach your person how to please you. I'm not going to say it. Don't read it.
Speaker 3:It's like you ain't willing to learn, I'm not saying it don't work.
Speaker 1:It depends on what your thing is, though, because you already got to figure it out.
Speaker 3:You, mr Manboy, you, mr Goddard.
Speaker 1:I used to eat that I used to eat.
Speaker 3:That I used to eat that I think that's it If it ain't good the first time.
Speaker 1:It's not going to be a good tip time, why not you? Dumb. Why, if she don't?
Speaker 3:tell you what to do she like. If you touch her right here, she like no, touch me right here, Listen if you have to tell me what to do, is you crazy right now? Why would you say that he Mr, no, he, mr Goddard girl so?
Speaker 2:you use the same shit with every girl. No, that don't even make sense, right?
Speaker 1:So that mean you not going to know?
Speaker 2:That's like talking to every girl the same way. No, you're posing. Know that woman. Why do she have to tell you? If you know that woman, like she just said, see y'all missing what she said. She said most men don't want nothing from me because they lust them. They don't want to take the time out to know me. So once you get to know the woman, once you get to know the woman at your whiff, you should already know where to touch. You should already know where to kiss. You should already know when to choke. You should already know these things.
Speaker 3:You might feel like you know that she making reality. You fucking don't Right, so and then die it.
Speaker 2:She's dying Then if that's the case, you got the wrong partner. You're touching me with the wrong partner?
Speaker 3:No, it's not. You ain't even know, you don't fucking know.
Speaker 1:You didn't even take your watch off when you choked her.
Speaker 3:So you choked her from the side. She already choked her from the back.
Speaker 2:Nigga, look what you said no, no, no, I was saying what you. I was just saying off of getting to know who you are.
Speaker 1:Nigga's dirty, he said he's out I know I said no.
Speaker 2:No, I was only responding to you, saying you don't want to get to know me.
Speaker 3:You don't want to get to know me, but he like hold on, hold on, hold on Right, and if it take, time to get to know you.
Speaker 2:By the time you get to know that person, even sexually, you should already know that turns on or the turn off.
Speaker 3:He said, he tried fucking mine first.
Speaker 1:No, I'm literally just saying that's what you said, you ever see a nigga dig a hole for himself.
Speaker 3:Yo, that's not a big deal.
Speaker 1:Yeah you, that nigga said he ain't even throw it back to the side. He said I've never, dug a hole for myself.
Speaker 2:I couldn't get out of her. I know what you're thinking I've never dug a hole in you, I've never been to the other, but that's all I was. That was. That was the reason why I was saying that, because if, once you get to know somebody, you should already know all those things, and if they have to tell you, then you don't know that person. That's not true. And we only talking about sexually. We ain't talking about all the other things.
Speaker 3:You're the one that's making it about all the other things. So if we're talking about just sexually, you're talking about some intellectual shit.
Speaker 2:Now, what you're talking about is chemistry.
Speaker 1:What you're talking about is chemistry If you?
Speaker 3:if, if, what Are you?
Speaker 2:listening to what you just said. I'm not talking about she was getting right. Disagree with you. I'm not talking about no intellectual shit.
Speaker 3:If you get to know her, if you this your lady and you get to know her. You know her sexually like you should already know how to touch her. That's not true. You might not know. Everything is what we're seeing, I think that's what you're saying.
Speaker 3:You can't know something until you're put in a situation that's like speaking on a situation that you've never been in. So if a nigga has never been with me sexually, he's not going to know everything the first time. Yes, mr, got that Glove, cause you can't go off a past memory.
Speaker 1:And bring it to this memory.
Speaker 3:Like oh yeah, my last bitch like this, so I'm going to do this. I might not like that. She does that, you oh no.
Speaker 2:I thought I thought I just told him I was saying this.
Speaker 3:I was saying you because you're not monogamous. That's why I say you, and why would I?
Speaker 2:treat every female the same way. That's insane, cause every female ain't the same. I don't even shoot my shot the same way. That's stupid. But you got to go off a past experience, right. Y'all are so used to every man calling all of y'all beautiful, that y'all don't even understand what a real compliment is, ain't no?
Speaker 3:way to know. Every single female is beautiful.
Speaker 2:That's always a compliment, but every single female ain't beautiful.
Speaker 3:But this one is.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Two times older yeah. But that's not what we're talking about, what you going to say I ain't calling beautiful. So is she not? Is she not? She's not, I didn't, why would I call?
Speaker 2:somebody beautiful. That's like, why would I call somebody beautiful Is?
Speaker 3:she beautiful.
Speaker 2:You say no, no.
Speaker 1:That wouldn't say beautiful, he's not like you.
Speaker 3:Right, right, I know I'm beautiful.
Speaker 2:But that's it. I wouldn't give that compliment. He knows that.
Speaker 3:I've dropped that. Mother fucking gorgeous.
Speaker 2:So gorgeous and beautiful. Dude, you're a different compliment to me and we going to chase you. You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:Like if you're calling somebody gorgeous, you can't be gorgeous and beautiful I can be everything.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying you he talking about the compliment, I'm saying no is a different compliment. I was talking about her though Like yes, he been calling the chick bad.
Speaker 1:This nigga did moonwalk it, that's it how. I think you meant somebody. I think you meant your match.
Speaker 2:No, I didn't. What match?
Speaker 3:She's saying oh yeah please Right, what match?
Speaker 2:Y'all literally missing the point of how do you compliment every single female the same way. So if you call her beautiful, do you all of a sudden call a girl that don't look like her beautiful If she beautiful?
Speaker 3:yes, is she beautiful, because she beautiful in her own way.
Speaker 2:Yes, Now you call it your own way.
Speaker 3:I'm talking about the yeah let me tell you what I literally just told you what.
Speaker 2:I don't approach every female the same way, so why would I have sex with every? Female the same way. That don't even make sense. That's not what.
Speaker 3:I'm saying that's literally what we're talking about, but that's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:What I'm saying, is because you're not monogamous. You literally just said because it's me, I'm having sex with women the same way. That don't even make sense. No, I'm saying you have to go off of pants experience.
Speaker 3:So if you got this bitch right, you got this female. You was messing with this female, right? You don't like her no more. You just time going on. So now you going with this female, right? You don't know enough about this female. You learning this female. All you can do is go off of what she was doing with this female.
Speaker 1:I'm talking about this thing.
Speaker 3:Yeah, who does that I'm talking about. How did you?
Speaker 1:learn how to have sex. Wait a minute, I'm going to take a break. If you have sex one time, you're going to do the same thing that you did the first time You're not going to have sex with her.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm saying. Hold on, hold on, hold on. You literally just said I'm not saying that. You literally just said I'm not saying that. You literally just said you can only go off of Pass the experience.
Speaker 1:That's a pass experience. That's why y'all have issues anyway.
Speaker 2:Because if you go into another situation with a messed up canvas, then you never get that person to chance you.
Speaker 1:That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2:I agree with that, even sexually. Even sexually, because how can you say you get into the we're literally talking about the physical activity of the female.
Speaker 3:You're talking about the sexual activity of the female. You're talking about the sexual activity of the female. You're talking about the sexual activity of the female, the physical activity of.
Speaker 2:If we go into another sexual experience saying I'm a dude, what I was doing before, you're expecting to fail Because that next person, because that next person Ruffin.
Speaker 1:Can you get his?
Speaker 3:ass together, you just said it because the next person is not going to be the same way. But listen, you're going to use the same. I ain't going to say what I want to get out of this. You're going to use the same. You're going to use the same. You're going to use the same. You're going to use the same. So how is that not the same thing?
Speaker 1:These two niggas are arguing.
Speaker 2:What they missing the tea that's coming in.
Speaker 3:I'm waiting for the same thing. I ain't saying no more fucking things Because he's not making those things.
Speaker 1:man, I know it's not the same person. That was like I'm not saying hot and shit, damn.
Speaker 3:I'm not hiding it. I just had some decorum. I'm a grown lady now. Oh, she's saying we be a grown lady.
Speaker 1:I'm a grown lady, alright, hold on, she's breaking down.
Speaker 3:She's saying we being.
Speaker 2:So again, y'all are setting. She even agreed no, I was actually about to give an example.
Speaker 3:Oh, give an example.
Speaker 1:You ain't got to put yourself in the example, because then I'm a, because she needs a visual.
Speaker 3:I tried to give him a visual. It didn't work. He still acted like he can't act I was giving up on. Corpus, but I Ooh, we love receipts. Oh, oh, we love receipts. I don't got no receipts Y'all watch our football. I say Walmart, y'all, don't be getting us all pumped up like that. We love receipts. Yeah, because that.
Speaker 1:You made that nigga look for something on the chair that wasn't there.
Speaker 2:He said I don't think y'all even was here.
Speaker 1:Bro, what you was grabbing before? Huh, you rubbed the shit out of the style of this chair. It ain't nothing there bro.
Speaker 2:No, it was swollen. I was trying to get it to stay. Still, it was swollen. You just now tried to fix it yourself. Cut the shit, wait.
Speaker 1:It's so. How was the movie? How was being in the 2B movie?
Speaker 3:How was being in 2B? I had a bar.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:I Was cool.
Speaker 1:Oh Okay. How do you even get involved in this movie?
Speaker 3:Know I don't participate in these things anymore. Movies Camera.
Speaker 2:Well, thank you for coming on about vise-pockets. Yeah, I was about to say, like I the last time I did a podcast. Clearly yeah, thank you for doing a vise podcast.
Speaker 3:We really appreciate look at the glow up now you.
Speaker 2:Even blushing.
Speaker 1:Appreciate all that you just gave me.
Speaker 3:Years I've done videos for him. Actually went to school together city forever.
Speaker 2:I knew it was hot, that's what I kind of do. I have that effect.
Speaker 1:You got turtle neck with no.
Speaker 2:I'd never said you, she's domestic, she's domesticated y'all to the single motherfuckers.
Speaker 3:Oh.
Speaker 1:It's one nigga right here that don't think that she's domesticated. Whoa, that somebody right now thinks you're together right. You got iced. How you get surprised.
Speaker 2:I Disrespect how women me they look good, gay, your typical. Fall over your heels for no like no, you used to pretty women or A gorgeous beautiful women ain't nothing like me but you know I know, I'm not all.
Speaker 3:I snow mom. I'm blocking everything. Again like I said somebody like myself. It I'm not she is going to 20 24 with her man, her man my man you know she goes to the man. Happy new year.
Speaker 2:Because she needs her like it's no, it's, no, it's no, she gotta have a final way. You know that's what women do, women. Women don't call you. They want to call your boyfriend, just so they can have sex. What actually? I actually really like.
Speaker 3:How negative is he from the city negative.
Speaker 2:And he's not like.
Speaker 1:Only you drop women only.
Speaker 2:That's why I keep falling for the same trap over and over. Y'all just said it all he don't gotta be a boy.
Speaker 3:These CDL drivers ain't driving shit. Hold on, because my man is, but just probably been there already. I'm talking about these new, reformed ones the one straight out of book. Oh yeah, I'm just gonna get my CDL's and just just hand with y'all paying $60 and I please shut the fuck up and sit the fuck down somewhere, y'all irritating. He changed his life.
Speaker 1:He didn't change shit.
Speaker 3:He's a motherfucking lie. He think that's a quick come up anything. I know niggas that actually drive trucks my father actually drove trucks before like they think they about to get these little CDL's right. They about to make 350,000 a year, oh yeah life's just gonna be great. They're forgetting that they still in the street. They not actually passing the class, they can't drive. Can't park they can't even drive the Honda. How the fuck are you driving to drive.
Speaker 2:See, every time I hear these examples, all these negative connotations of the men, what kind of men are y'all allowing in your life? Y'all haven't said not one positive thing about no man Besides you being domesticated and you being put on ice. Y'all ain't saying that one positive thing about no man that y'all ever met.
Speaker 3:I could get there, because for wine hold on these aren't even the type of men I allow in my life. These are just the niggas. That's around. How y'all get these stories if it's not experience, just have this argument on, like two episodes ago, when she was like uh, females and males can't be friends. Yes the males can't be friends. It's a lie.
Speaker 2:You. That's not what I say. I said attractive.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no I said two people.
Speaker 2:That's attractive to each other.
Speaker 3:Nobody. You can't be friends with one.
Speaker 1:You need to make that very personal and I'm gonna tell you what this is his Jesus.
Speaker 2:I'm just paraphrasing off what he said, I don't feel this way.
Speaker 1:But what he was saying was if you're attractive, right, and the dude you date is attractive, it's no way he's gonna be strictly your friend and I thought in his mind will never come up that.
Speaker 3:You're dating. We're talking about straight.
Speaker 1:We're straight friend friendship.
Speaker 3:Just because I act platonic to you, I'm not dating somebody that I want to be my friend. I'm a attractive female, right? That's what I was saying. You're an attractive man, we're cool, right.
Speaker 1:That's not my position as his niggas.
Speaker 3:Speak for yourself. So I'm confused now because I'm not dating somebody that's my friend.
Speaker 2:That's what I was saying, and you're so how?
Speaker 3:can't they be friends, if, if you have no attention on dating this person.
Speaker 2:How do you become a smith friend?
Speaker 1:What you mean, hello.
Speaker 2:We're friends, we're not friends, she.
Speaker 3:I'm not attracted to you, so you have to be attracted to somebody.
Speaker 2:You was never listening to it. That was not. That was the question.
Speaker 1:I literally said but pull them out the mic to your face.
Speaker 2:I literally said two people that's attracted to each other can never be friends. Can't be friends.
Speaker 3:No, I agree with that. That's what I was saying. But who said I was attracted to these niggas that I'm talking shit about right now? That's what I would see. I was just saying it's a wonderful man I was just saying in general. I didn't know you were saying specifically. Don't bring up something I say without having the full thought While and out, before we understand what the fuck you asked.
Speaker 2:I didn't even say anything.
Speaker 1:You did you over here like Y'all be god. Hold on.
Speaker 3:Wait, wait. I didn't mind y'all to work. I got to know that I was wrong Because he was just so angry like these are the same people y'all now in your life what the fuck are you talking about? And then you're like you can't be attracted to you. Y'all can't be attracted to each other and be friends. When the fuck did I say I was attracted to this person?
Speaker 2:No, she bought that up. She bought that up. I was only responding because she bought it up.
Speaker 3:I wish him Like I don't see no too attractive, no too attractive people can't be friends, but two people that are attracted to each other Cannot, so do we. Know you can't because you're attracted to him. It's not even about that. Okay, but let's say you Because it could be a nigga, could do some shit. Let's say to the domestic boyfriend let's say I dated you.
Speaker 1:You got with your nigga and I got with my woman. Okay, can me and you not be friends? No more.
Speaker 3:It depends on how the shit in there.
Speaker 1:It always depends.
Speaker 2:That's why I said it don't even that's a cop on to the conversation, it's not.
Speaker 3:I can stand on it, and I can stand on it. It really depends on how to shit in it, because, because, she know that, ain't she?
Speaker 2:I'm not, personally, I'm not because, she agreed with me you can't look this good and want to be friends with somebody.
Speaker 3:Like you mean, because you could have did something. Are we friends? No, I'm not calling this nigga up to be like hey or you ain't calling this ex hey how your next situation is going.
Speaker 2:Oh, maybe you just don't even know what a friend is. It's a loosely used word.
Speaker 1:People don't even know what a friend is you want to you y'all what.
Speaker 2:That's the issue I had with titles right, especially when there's a friend title, because a woman to call a man a friend, a heartbeat, and it's like yo, you really know what a friend is Like. What do you know what is a friend like? Like a friend is somebody that can reach out to your family members and check on them, absolutely because you put that.
Speaker 3:I'm past 30, so I know the difference between a friend and an associate.
Speaker 2:So she, let's not care how far past are you, she might, can be friends with somebody who's romantic.
Speaker 1:Me. No, you're nigga not going with none of that I know I can't say it.
Speaker 3:If you can't, I said I cannot be. He said can you still be attracted to your ex? You can, you can, but there's a way that you can't too. And I say because it you? I say it depends on how it ended. You say that's the cop out to the conversation.
Speaker 2:It is because everything depends on a scenario. But that's that could be a conversation depends on the scenario. Everything.
Speaker 3:It could be a traumatic experience. You feel me and that experience. Everything is not black and white.
Speaker 2:It's not because everybody got the own individual perspective. What's the likelihood is the real question life is subjective in itself. But the likelihood is, something happening is not subjective, it depends on that.
Speaker 3:Because you say and it's talking to the my, it's a personal experience. Everything is how you.
Speaker 2:You wanted to bring up something that I was still right about, Sir. Let's see.
Speaker 3:So what I say was it's a traumatic experience. If that was a traumatic experience for that person, that's how they feel. So that experience could have been so traumatic that, yes, now You're not attracted to that person. You can see that person you can want to throw up. You could have spent you can spend 10 years with this person and they did one thing, but that one thing really turns you all the way we're not gonna slide past that.
Speaker 1:You said your ex in jail if he ever think he ain't got shit else to do. But think.
Speaker 3:No, I mean, if you ever think about touching this had to be pre pre pandemic this got to be a boy from pre pandemic.
Speaker 2:This has to be right. You're still letting them guys in your life.
Speaker 3:You don't even know what that situation was, so you should really shut the fuck up?
Speaker 1:No, I should, because, yeah, you should yeah, you should be, I'm gonna tell you why, I'm gonna tell you why. I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 2:Every time again, every single time y'all talk about men, it has no positive, nothing to positive with a suit even when.
Speaker 3:I try to start saying positive. Y'all want to change the conversation.
Speaker 2:Y'all.
Speaker 3:Every subject you bring up, you want us to say something negative about men, so you can kind of uplift them, fuck you and them. How about that? Because how you getting on my nerves, you wearing that bond, because, like this is what he was. You and that's what he was. Nobody realized that shit like baby. I've dealt with enough manipulators to now.
Speaker 1:Have you ever manipulated either one of you ladies? Have you ever manipulated a man? Of course we gonna go with the truck driver first before we get to the to know what we hear.
Speaker 3:The truck driver. When I met the truck driver, I was in a different space.
Speaker 1:I respect the boot truck driver. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So how have you manipulated a man? He's only different because she's in love.
Speaker 2:I that's the only reason why he's different.
Speaker 3:We're not gonna get.
Speaker 1:You don't get the motherfucking satisfaction.
Speaker 3:Like.
Speaker 2:I said, I'm gonna tell you why he a great man. I'm gonna tell you why he a great man, cuz he ain't. He wasn't a yes man for you. That's what you're used to.
Speaker 3:That's why he a great man, I did some shit that was fucking wrong, so yeah, I deserve to be on motherfucking ice, but that's the fuck way. Why should even take you back? He should know that right.
Speaker 2:He said he know that's the issue. Is you want to try that stigma? Is I'm that bitch?
Speaker 3:and he said but let's be clear about it. You Behavior Bitch Fucking Out.
Speaker 2:So if you don't move an ego, if you don't. What is it?
Speaker 3:moving in you.
Speaker 2:Oh.
Speaker 3:That button is, so y'all know the vibes podcast. Right, you can't say Ego is just like a sense of entitlement.
Speaker 2:So we talk about, because if we talk about I know what the fuck I said Fucking.
Speaker 3:I will say this about you, me knowing you and Someone knowing how you like row. You kind of can't even be in these conversations because you don't. You yourself don't believe in relationship. I don't believe in relationship. You can go go do that.
Speaker 2:Listen to what she just said about three minutes ago is on record Out your own mouth, out her mouth. She said you were all these women because you can't find just one woman that can do it all. And I didn't disagree Because she said he found that one woman that can do it all. That was literally I.
Speaker 3:Because you said he looking for a bunch of bitches at one bitch. No, if you really, if you find a bitch and you fuck with it and she's like you teach her Instead of.
Speaker 2:I need to teach a woman to do everything I like yes. Listen. I just want to make sure this is what we say.
Speaker 1:She was like Is your nigga a celebrity? No like regular.
Speaker 3:She said cuz. She was like you have to teach a bitch if you know so. I had came across a video earlier today, right, literally earlier today, and they said nobody comes to you whole right which is absolutely correct. Right nobody comes to you hold. Sometimes you gotta teach people how to lay of course nobody's gonna know off top right. Everybody know the basics right.
Speaker 2:Okay, we got off with somebody else said okay. I just want to make sure I'm following what you say.
Speaker 3:Just for jokes and laughs and stuff, when you really try to keep them on.
Speaker 1:I can't educate me. You don't even got. Look at that nigga.
Speaker 3:I do. I want to hear what you were saying. What was the video? Oh, he's always gonna be single, he's never gonna have somebody for himself and I feel really bad that you're gonna die.
Speaker 2:Like to what we talking about.
Speaker 1:Just to leave. I'm gonna try to be cute.
Speaker 3:The point is she.
Speaker 1:That's a very subjective.
Speaker 3:He's done on a Twitter.
Speaker 1:Don't you gotta follow each other to DM each other? Well, um, if this your nigga, not your nigga, but he really is your nigga. Hey you know, do you would? Do you keep your relationship with private that you had? Why? Like, do you when you, when you, you know that you keep your relationship is private, right? Do you go over that conversation with the person? Yeah, yeah okay, how does that normally go, cuz I keep my shit private and it ain't never good for my man.
Speaker 1:And you know you won't post him, but we got to understand it. That shit is some shit that only women could pull off. If he, if you was the opposite and you was like.
Speaker 3:Personally don't do it because Women are even what's what's the worst?
Speaker 1:I'm a little bit about it.
Speaker 3:Yes, yeah, because I've seen it actually happened. A bitch actually signed his DM that I need and I told him I knew her. It could really just be. She's like she know who she Is because I talked to her about him. So this is so. We've like I've already been through it. I know that people are nasty and bitches, particularly just because a nigga doing something nice for you. Mm-hmm a bitch is gonna slide in his then because she thinks she's about to get that same treatment right, I'm domesticated fuck like last week, for real about it.
Speaker 3:Look at how all these side bitches it's a lot of side bitches out here and they happy about it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, that's happy about it.
Speaker 3:I just get big.
Speaker 1:You know how dumb you sound that sounded crazy saying it all out, but that's really what the fuck it is but then I'll be like oh yeah.
Speaker 3:I don't argue with you to say oh yeah, because I'm just getting dick down to the rabbit. You deal with the problems of him, baby, you know Was never a problem, but my nigga. But I'm just saying in general, side bitches really think they have some type of light For clouds and I'm like you just look goofy.
Speaker 1:Have y'all? Have y'all ever willingly been a side?
Speaker 3:Willingly no, I will say like, not to my knowledge, just saying no, like if I knew he had a girlfriend I wasn't fucking with him.
Speaker 1:Have you had a side?
Speaker 3:Have I what?
Speaker 1:have you had a side?
Speaker 3:No when I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's right, cuz you ain't say shit. Have you had a side? Y'all, some real faithful women.
Speaker 3:Like Horror when they they just like hate women.
Speaker 1:Oh, you're a whole tap-ass nigga.
Speaker 3:Feminist is. Yeah, I could just tell from your conversation you like women enough to fuck on them, but you don't like women enough to respect them, or respect their opinion or that value, or to respect the woman that feel like she has.
Speaker 2:The button. So so unfortunately is too personal, because I see that is y'all got too personal.
Speaker 3:Hold on, I just would like to go on the sand. I ain't cuz. She asked out she Is out now one time yet. So I ain't got personal, I'm just saying oh. I ain't, that's what.
Speaker 1:I told you shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2:So, anyway, as as as we continue on the vibe, we have a segment called the toxic vibes that we want to implement.
Speaker 3:Oh, you're like how face.
Speaker 2:So in, in, in the segment is more so as a series of scenarios or Ideas, and you would say if it's a toxic idea, it's a vibe idea or it's. Or it's a toxic vibe in both. Right, you understand what I'm saying, right? So it's not a problem.
Speaker 3:You don't have to be the one that answer it.
Speaker 2:Anybody can answer it right, so so I.
Speaker 3:A nigga just come out. Bitches irritate the hell.
Speaker 2:So so it's so hard out here.
Speaker 1:It's hard out here for him, you ever form tax.
Speaker 3:So yes.
Speaker 2:Get this motherfucking question out.
Speaker 1:So the first scenario one nice thing.
Speaker 2:Is it a vibe? Is it toxic or is it a toxic vibe?
Speaker 3:It's a toxic vibe.
Speaker 2:It's a vibe.
Speaker 3:It's a toxic vibe.
Speaker 1:You would say a vibe, if I'm just out with my boys and I just so happily meet a woman and we do whatever we do. Yeah, I'm not even a toxic vibe, we both yeah, it's a vibe for you.
Speaker 2:So a man would say it's a vibe. We got eBay saying it's a toxic vibe, so it's something that you would. It's something that you would deem I wouldn't, do, but you do it anyway. It's like one of the ones. It's like you wouldn't normally do what you do it anyway, but, you do it anyway.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like you know what's going on, that car is wrong, but you gonna do it anyway.
Speaker 2:And I'm not saying, don't take it as a personal shot, it's just a question Like so. So one nice thing. You say it's a vibe. So for a man perspective it's a vibe. For eBay perspective, that's a different kind of woman, it's a toxic vibe.
Speaker 1:She doing it anyway.
Speaker 3:I appreciate that.
Speaker 1:The hot a fuck. Is it a vibe? If you ain't doing it, she's calling it a toxic vibe.
Speaker 2:She calling it a toxic vibe. It's something you wouldn't do, but you know, if you're doing it, you can enjoy it.
Speaker 3:Like it right.
Speaker 2:That shit was loud, it was yours, it was loud.
Speaker 3:It hurt a little bit.
Speaker 2:That's a viral moment. Oh my God, that's hurt. So it's a vibe for me.
Speaker 1:It's a toxic vibe for you, baby.
Speaker 2:How about yourself, buffy? Where would?
Speaker 1:you go. She keeps saying the beauty, god damn it.
Speaker 2:Oh, you're just buff.
Speaker 3:No, she said just buff at the beginning. Yeah, it's just buff.
Speaker 2:But she got on my side at that time. She got on my side.
Speaker 3:I don't hate you.
Speaker 2:I know you can't. You can't hate me.
Speaker 3:I want you good to hate me At this point in life, it's just a vibe.
Speaker 2:It's just a vibe and I would think it's toxic.
Speaker 3:Oh, one night.
Speaker 1:Talks with consensual adults.
Speaker 2:I'm saying to I would say toxic only because Seem to like you always try to double back on one. I stand.
Speaker 1:No, the fuck, I don't Popping that right on, keep it moving.
Speaker 3:I.
Speaker 1:Know. Oh, you make it say like I take it Monday through Sunday. Have I ever what we talking about they play 30. That don't mean that, the dick, I would.
Speaker 3:You know, I Don't give it a try, the quicker he's going to nut. That's just.
Speaker 1:What I said? What?
Speaker 3:I said was he can come and keep going.
Speaker 2:Um.
Speaker 1:Boy, that had to be like.
Speaker 2:So the next, the next scenario, the next scenario is the next scenario is merge, is merge toxic?
Speaker 3:A vibe or toxic, but you guys see my type of marriage. First of all, I was 21 years old, was it?
Speaker 1:was it a vibe? Yeah, when you meet, like how you met your person and how you met CDL dude, because we ain't got no name for nobody.
Speaker 3:So that's what you can say. When you meet your right person fucking yeah, why y'all get the worst? You cheated no she cheated what you wasn't doing right.
Speaker 1:Oh.
Speaker 2:He should have been popping round those.
Speaker 3:Come and keep going.
Speaker 1:You got.
Speaker 3:Well.
Speaker 2:I would think. I think merge is toxic as well.
Speaker 1:Damn bro who hurt you, it's not.
Speaker 3:Right, because I believe it's just a. I think it's just a contract so you would never get married.
Speaker 1:I think it's just paperwork.
Speaker 2:No, I would Hold on. He's getting finesse.
Speaker 1:I will have a wedding but not get married.
Speaker 3:No, like for real on some like yandere in DC shit. No, like on some yandere in DC shit like to me marriage is not Paperwork like you said, like I don't feel, like I need the government?
Speaker 1:definitely paperwork. I don't need the government to sign off marriage paperwork. I don't need the government To tell me that I'm married to. Is she right, though?
Speaker 3:marriage is paperwork nobody right here has the right to tell her if she's right or wrong Marriage.
Speaker 1:It's facts and fictions. Marriage is paperwork no it's not.
Speaker 3:Marriage is a union. So we just single niggas together marriage is not paperwork, because back in the day when slaves got married and they jumped over the room with their paperwork no marriage is a union, the concept of marriage is a union. It don't got shit to do with paperwork. Okay so like oh.
Speaker 2:No, I know it should be more right, but was presented Is just a cut and that's why I say it's toxic, because it's only presented as this piece of paper. People don't believe in those vows. She cleaned you up.
Speaker 3:We don't believe until death. Do us you was going into slavery.
Speaker 2:That's a that's a long conversation. No, it's not.
Speaker 3:I'm not going back into slavery, I just had to clear him up real quick. I said only way back there, just to clear him up real quick.
Speaker 1:That's what's up, hey.
Speaker 3:I would say that I would get married but not sign the paperwork, just because one of two things A lot of people get married for the wrong reasons. If you got a nigga with money or if you got a female with money, you might marry her for that money. So that's fucked up if you marry that person and you sign those papers automatically. When you sign those papers, the the eyes become a us.
Speaker 3:So y'all automatically tied together. So say you get married, you come into the marriage with 10 times more than what the bitch got now because you decide the papers. Half of what you didn't came into the marriage went, now goes with her.
Speaker 1:Then you gotta be you gotta be willing to lose something in marriage, though.
Speaker 3:If I marry you right now?
Speaker 1:Fuck all that, if I marry you right now rather me and you work out or not, I'm sitting here saying Listen, if I lose everything.
Speaker 3:I'm okay Okay.
Speaker 1:First of all, everything is crazy. I will never lose everything, but if I have to give, you something If I have to give you something. Fuck that movie. I've been demorse.
Speaker 3:I'm okay with giving you something, though.
Speaker 1:I'm okay giving you something. I feel like a man. You built a life together over 10, 15 years. What?
Speaker 3:if you're not okay with giving her something.
Speaker 1:Don't get married. What?
Speaker 3:if the bitch, what if you got married and the bitch cheated on you, had a baby on you know that shit. Now you gotta give the woods. Now you don't want to get that bitch shit because you may hit what you say.
Speaker 2:Oh no, we was having.
Speaker 1:you're the only nigga I don't want to get married and eat. You want to get married.
Speaker 2:What are we talking about?
Speaker 3:I said I want to get married.
Speaker 1:Now she want you fucking married. I said right.
Speaker 3:That works for her than that works for her.
Speaker 1:I said I want to be married.
Speaker 3:I want to be committed to one man. I want to go around and say my husband, my husband, but you lied to everybody in yourself. For the rest of my life.
Speaker 2:No, it's that, because I didn't sign a piece of paper, yes, so how do you feel it is it? Is it toxic? Is it a vibe? Is it a toxic? No marriage is a vibe, all right, so strip clubs.
Speaker 1:How you gonna ask me nigga, is it toxic?
Speaker 2:He ain't never even made any comments.
Speaker 1:Was it a toxic?
Speaker 3:vibe. The strip club could be a vibe.
Speaker 1:I'm not a party promoter. I'm not a party promoter.
Speaker 3:I'm never been a party promoter, never been a promoter.
Speaker 2:She definitely is. What the fuck? Remember the misconception you were saying that I'm like no, it's really a fact. She's definitely a fact. Is it like? Like he didn't have to break it down in the syllables, like that promoter like.
Speaker 3:Did you just say that?
Speaker 2:We heard that.
Speaker 3:I'm literally like just saying what I'm gonna say that.
Speaker 1:The person that I am today Is a great person she's a great person.
Speaker 3:The person I was, I want to say six months ago.
Speaker 2:They have only been six months.
Speaker 1:And I've been trying hard, so please believe these conversations.
Speaker 3:It's very triggering, but what I'm saying is the person I was six months ago Would have punched you in the fucking mouth.
Speaker 2:That's fine, I just want you to know that.
Speaker 1:I don't have nothing to say.
Speaker 3:And I want to be clear about that, because I want to show my Fuck you. But my girlfriend is oh yeah, she's the bitch. No, baby, I'm fine for her.
Speaker 2:Wait, what so how? How do you use that as the misconception and then say this nigga, because I just said it was a misconception and here you are talking about?
Speaker 3:Oh no, she's definitely a bitch.
Speaker 1:I never said it.
Speaker 3:Oh no, I didn't. We both said it you didn't call me a bitch.
Speaker 1:I said I can see why people say it.
Speaker 3:You said I can see why people say it. I said I wasn't a promoter, because I've never been a promoter, I've been a host.
Speaker 1:You said she was a bitch.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you did say that.
Speaker 1:Once again.
Speaker 3:I'm not walking up. How much longer is this supposed to be?
Speaker 1:It's going for another four minutes.
Speaker 3:Oh well, then I'm back.
Speaker 2:Four minutes, so in the last four minutes. She was never talking to me, she was talking to us in the audience. Oh, you were talking to me for real. I feel special. I didn't expect that. I was like I don't think you should get any more Of that liquor Right here.
Speaker 3:Chee Stop.
Speaker 2:Before you go any further, we'll stop.
Speaker 3:So Wait, no, sis, don't include me. Chee is his own person.
Speaker 2:Wait, wait, wait, so again.
Speaker 3:On the vibes podcast.
Speaker 2:What about me? I drove you around.
Speaker 3:In the Uber. He remembered it four years ago, so I drove you right. I took. You Go treat me like that. You ain't giving me no stores, you ain't raving or nothing. I was not five stars Girl. Did you give him a tip?
Speaker 1:He really wanted to say if you gave him a tip.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna let you go right now. Chee. So the last, the last toxic vibe.
Speaker 1:The toxic vibe I want to mention.
Speaker 3:Internet dating. Is that toxic? Is that a vibe?
Speaker 2:So you don't internet date, okay, so where did you meet your CDL driver? No.
Speaker 3:First of all, please stop playing with him.
Speaker 2:How am I playing with you? You said he was a CDL driver.
Speaker 3:I know that's what y'all were saying. I said he was a truck driver. Y'all went to the CDL driver.
Speaker 2:Don't you have a CDL driver truck?
Speaker 3:But, you said CDL driver. It just sounds so disrespectful.
Speaker 1:How.
Speaker 3:They can say truck driver, heavy on the big, don't play with him.
Speaker 2:Truck driver. I don't play, I made my big truck driver.
Speaker 3:I was in the goddamn mall and he walked past me Around the mill and we were staring at each other and I was like, oh nigga, you saw it come here.
Speaker 2:Okay, so for you internet dating. So for you internet dating. Is a straight, is a straight toxic.
Speaker 3:I've never been with it With somebody sliding in my DMs Like, oh, let's go on a date.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 3:That's no shade.
Speaker 1:That's no lady online.
Speaker 3:I'm too paranoid for shit like that I watch a lot of like Law and Order and Catfish and all that shit. So I was, I Me personally was just too paranoid, because if somebody can't FaceTime, you date, like it's so much obvious.
Speaker 1:You're not not going to FaceTime me for 8 months.
Speaker 3:And it's not even just FaceTime. It'd be like you can tell a profile fake it's her.
Speaker 1:I can't say that now.
Speaker 3:Yes, you can. They don't be having no friends.
Speaker 1:No comments and you?
Speaker 3:just fall in love with that picture, or okay, or it could be a Serium Killer. You mean a nigga online. Y'all go out on a date. He'll motherfucking Serium Killer.
Speaker 1:I would have been down a couple times.
Speaker 2:I'm assuming you take internet dating as a vibe yeah, buffy, as a vibe. She said she's not talking to you. No more, man, brian, hold on, y'all speak for her. Y'all can't speak for her. I'm gonna ask her before you, cause she's not talking to you.
Speaker 3:She don't want to answer your question.
Speaker 2:She was talking to me.
Speaker 3:She was talking to me Internet dating a vibe, a toxic vibe. We playing a game of telephonic. Maybe it's a vibe.
Speaker 1:I ain't never sitting over here with you again, I think internet dating is a vibe as well.
Speaker 2:I think that's more of a reality.
Speaker 3:Can you take all dating as a vibe?
Speaker 1:I do not Internet dating is a vibe you get a roll out.
Speaker 3:Let's all pull up our chart. Everybody get tested here.
Speaker 2:I got mine, I got you, I got mine.
Speaker 3:We don't want to see you.
Speaker 1:I don't want to see you do that, bro.
Speaker 3:That's for the single people.
Speaker 1:That ain't for the domestic.
Speaker 3:If I got something surprising to the group.
Speaker 2:Oh my god, I thought the best looking people get cheated on too. So what makes you think it's not even good for domesticated people too? I?
Speaker 1:mean, if I'm getting cheated on, no, no, because you're just saying you don't need a chart.
Speaker 3:Do you agree with that? I'm not saying you don't need a chart. I'm saying right now to prove this point.
Speaker 2:Whatever y'all is proving who the fuck is y'all?
Speaker 3:You gotta talk to them when you said your thing.
Speaker 1:Making memories with one man, right, I'm making memories with one woman. Don't say that's right, bitch.
Speaker 2:Whoa listen, they invented last.
Speaker 3:That's right.
Speaker 2:It's all platforms, but again this is the vibes.
Speaker 1:This is the vibes.
Speaker 2:Because it is a vibe Regardless of how we communicate, how we convey our own information, how we convey anything. I'm talking about the vibes.
Speaker 3:You ain't talking for that. It's always gonna be a vibe. No, we were a vibe. I would suggest nobody.
Speaker 1:It doesn't matter it be anything else.
Speaker 3:Don't come on and fuck this thing. No, you need to speak for yourself. She didn't vibe with you.
Speaker 1:I said the vibes, but I just don't.
Speaker 3:I don't keep playing into bullshit. I'm not a dumb ass bitch. I don't keep playing into bullshit. I don't have to keep explaining myself to somebody that clearly doesn't want to understand what the hell I'm saying.
Speaker 2:That don't stand no chance. Just want to continue to say.
Speaker 3:With his fucking man, but who don't stand no chance.
Speaker 1:You can shoot all the shots you want, nigga.
Speaker 3:Or your man bun, because he's waiting on her man, because they going in the 2024, real strong man bun.
Speaker 1:So Before we get out of here Buffy, it's your girl, e-baby.
Speaker 3:Y'all already know what it is. I definitely had a time on the VICE VICE podcast. Y'all tune the fuck in Some real ass niggas. I had a boy. Y'all know it's a big Buffy, not the little one. But for the beauty God period Period, I'm not.
Speaker 2:I don't do disrespectful shit like they. Y'all already know what it is on the VICE podcast Hashtag. Hashtag got my address. No bitch, she ain't got white teeth, it's always the vibes on the VICE with the vibes.
Speaker 3:You see, zaz, where they do all the前est.