Ever wondered what life's like when your personal brand is your business? Join us as we sit down with Bubbles, the DMV's #1 soap entrepreneur with a neck tattoo that stirs the pot, and Tippy, the comedian who stands tall in more ways than one. They're spilling the secrets on building empires, their personal branding escapades, and how they navigate the sometimes choppy waters of fame. Get ready for laughter, truth bombs, and insights that'll make you rethink the glitz and glam of the public eye.
The spotlight can be harsh, and under its glare, we discuss privacy woes and how we juggle the pressures of perfection. Sharing raw moments from my own run-ins with fans who don't know the boundaries, to the sting of appearance-based critiques, we peel back the curtain on the not-so-glamorous side of being known. And talk about complicated? We wade into the personal struggles that come with divorce, the dance of step-parenting, and the ever-evolving challenge of disciplining kids when the world's watching your every move.
As the mic gets hot, the real talk heats up on how the persistence game in dating can quickly slide from flattering to flat-out harassment. We unpack the loaded dynamics of money in social interactions, the grind behind the glitz of organizing comedy shows, and the bizarre ways social media followers can both buoy and betray our true influence. With Bubbles and tippy riding shotgun, this episode's an unfiltered cruise through the hilarity and humanity of life on the viral video roller coaster.
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Ever wondered what life's like when your personal brand is your business? Join us as we sit down with Bubbles, the DMV's #1 soap entrepreneur with a neck tattoo that stirs the pot, and Tippy, the comedian who stands tall in more ways than one. They're spilling the secrets on building empires, their personal branding escapades, and how they navigate the sometimes choppy waters of fame. Get ready for laughter, truth bombs, and insights that'll make you rethink the glitz and glam of the public eye.
The spotlight can be harsh, and under its glare, we discuss privacy woes and how we juggle the pressures of perfection. Sharing raw moments from my own run-ins with fans who don't know the boundaries, to the sting of appearance-based critiques, we peel back the curtain on the not-so-glamorous side of being known. And talk about complicated? We wade into the personal struggles that come with divorce, the dance of step-parenting, and the ever-evolving challenge of disciplining kids when the world's watching your every move.
As the mic gets hot, the real talk heats up on how the persistence game in dating can quickly slide from flattering to flat-out harassment. We unpack the loaded dynamics of money in social interactions, the grind behind the glitz of organizing comedy shows, and the bizarre ways social media followers can both buoy and betray our true influence. With Bubbles and tippy riding shotgun, this episode's an unfiltered cruise through the hilarity and humanity of life on the viral video roller coaster.
“If you are a dope person looking to hop on VIB3Z or know someone really dope people send them our way!”
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It's a vibe, you know what time it is, bubbles galore.
Speaker 2:Hi, it's Bubbles Soflady at the DMD.
Speaker 3:Hey, it's Tiffy the big one, not the small one. Tiffy's all girl comedian.
Speaker 4:If you got asked who I am, do you already messed up anyway? You just saying y'all already know who this is, follow the globe, follow the globe. You just saying fun, bun, ask, take a girlfriend, favorite boyfriend.
Speaker 1:We will get into how your business failed and how you got a neck tattoo.
Speaker 2:Oh we will get into the whole vibe. It's a vibe.
Speaker 1:All right, welcome back to another episode of the Vibes podcast, top Podcast in the DMV. Back to the movie. I ain't all that. I got the soap lady of the DMV. You can see her at a Rundle Meals Mall, tiktok, instagram around the city. If you see this car, you know she in it. I'm going to let her introduce herself.
Speaker 4:And Vibes podcast sponsor.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Don't leave that part out, thank you.
Speaker 4:Don't take away her accolades. Give her all she can give her flowers.
Speaker 1:Get yourself your flowers. Who are you?
Speaker 2:Well, hi guys. Thank you for having me back. My name is Bubbles and I'm the soap lady of the DMV. I have a kiosk at a Rundle Meals Mall. I've owned a store at Charleston Mall and, yeah, that's just what it is.
Speaker 1:I'm excited and we got some of the two menaces of Baltimore City Five menaces, yeah, yeah, yeah, we want she's here live in the flesh. She got some shit to get off her chest, just a little bit. Who are you? Let people know.
Speaker 3:Just to let you guys know I'm comedian, tippy tall girl. I like to tell people I'm the total package. I just got fucked up in shipping and handling. You know what I mean. So I'm not only a comedian, I'm a host.
Speaker 4:You're a host. Yeah, you said host, host.
Speaker 3:Host. Oh, I thought you said host. I got a college degree, two of them South Dakota State University. Also, with that, let me stop messing with she. He says he's what did you just say? The world's best ass eater, but notorious ass eater, but I'm pretty sure I'm the reigning champion of that. We talked about that before. Previous host of the Morning Source, that 1500 before she, after J-Hill, just to let you know. Can I keep giving my accolades?
Speaker 1:I mean god damn.
Speaker 3:The previous publicist and marketing specialist at Baltimore HydroPonics now in the property management. But I also have some stuff coming up. We're going to talk about that later.
Speaker 1:And go ahead. Man, we want to say best for last brother Go ahead.
Speaker 4:Y'all know the cliche say the best for last, although the best has went before the last Period, I don't mind you right, I try to know what it is. Co-host of the Vibes podcast. Hashtag Mr Got that Globe, got my address, no bitch shing Got white teeth and I got good jeans. Hashtag, the notorious ass eater. Hashtag, your girlfriend's favorite boyfriend. Hashtag globe trot chi. Hashtag the male Bratz dog.
Speaker 3:And who gave you that name.
Speaker 4:Tippy gave me that name. The male Bratz dog Hashtag Bartimoire. Jim Jones Hashtag Mr Bartimoire.
Speaker 1:Now that we got everybody's goddamn accolades out the way, we didn't interview you. But, as my co-host said, this is a podcast.
Speaker 4:But real quick, I really had a question to ask you. I had about six people ask me Four guys, two women.
Speaker 1:I had no idea what this was going to be, Really asked me this.
Speaker 4:They said ask the lady that sponsored the show how does she feel about now sponsoring your crazy ass on the Vibes podcast?
Speaker 2:How I feel.
Speaker 4:Yes, sponsoring the show. Now that I'm on the show, oh Jesus.
Speaker 2:I feel good. I mean, it's nice meeting you. I'm a little nervous and I don't get nervous easily, so I've been seeing you around town.
Speaker 4:Shit. So we thought he was interested, though they wanted to know can you sponsor the show and he's on the show now? How do the sponsors feel about that type of activity on the podcast? That's all.
Speaker 1:And you make her nervous. So before we get into the madness, we just going to jump right into it. Throat tattoo, rope baby.
Speaker 3:That's what I was going to say.
Speaker 1:What was that with this Throat baby?
Speaker 2:OK. So when I got the tattoo, I didn't know that it would call so much ruckus. Yeah, and it really did. It's my throat, I can do what I want with it. Let's start there.
Speaker 4:Start again, just for the fans.
Speaker 1:That's the whole thing, she can do what she wants.
Speaker 2:My neck. I can do what I want with it. Need to throw part of it.
Speaker 1:Did you feel as though that she was going to get all this backlash Because you got a clean brand from what you did?
Speaker 3:What was the backlash, though? I mean, be honest with you, I feel it's real sexy, Like it's one of those things that make you want to put your hand around it. Like that's some sexy shit. I might get me a throat tattoo. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1:I thought the same. He got to be 6'9 to grab your throat, tattoo you a lie, you a lie. Timbie, I'm 6'1. You got to be 6'5.
Speaker 3:And everybody is the same height when they laying down. But they call me the big. You know the big mouth, tight throat, Now and again.
Speaker 1:Bubbles. This is what you have ended into, so let's get you. You asked me when I came to your kiosk you wanted to talk about. You are at what now? What K are you at on Instagram? We're at 122.
Speaker 2:K 122 K, that's dope.
Speaker 1:Don't act like you. Don't look at this goddamn number that's on your page whenever you go to it. And what do you want on TikTok? What's your number?
Speaker 2:On TikTok it's 54 K. It's crazy because it was more on TikTok first. I know that and then it switched. So yeah, I don't know I've taken over an incident.
Speaker 1:So do you feel like you got a nice little pocket now? Yeah, ok, so you a celebrity now. We saying it now, I'm not going to say I let you guys speak.
Speaker 2:I don't say that. Well, you want to stay.
Speaker 4:You want to podcast with celebrities. So, you are considered a celebrity, so it's not you can. You can, you can take that you can. You can bloviate.
Speaker 2:Because I feel like the people are the ones who says who are quote, unquote celebrities or OK, not in Baltimore, because we we announced ourselves all the time.
Speaker 4:I think our culture is a lot different.
Speaker 3:Yeah, we just be like we're the shit, we're a planet.
Speaker 4:So I think that's the whole at the Baltimore attitude is where, where that come from, everybody has this. I am that person already.
Speaker 2:But there's always someone out there that's going to say that you're not, that's expected and we didn't know.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's expected.
Speaker 4:We already know that's going to have it. It's like saying your haters are going to hate.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's true, but to avoid that. I just don't say anything.
Speaker 3:She's so meek and mild, she she's like Michael Jackson vibes, and I love everything about it. What do you mean?
Speaker 4:Yeah, I do so. When it comes to being a celebrity at any level whether it's C level celebrity, a level celebrity you're going to interact with people that don't like what you look like. They're going to disagree with your methodologies about certain things.
Speaker 4:What's the hardest thing that you felt that you're going through right now with this stardom? All of a sudden, again, you got a lot. You had a story tell us. You got this kiosk but now is a spot where everybody a random stranger that's just following you on a platform that you don't know at all can just walk up to you and they have that kind of access to you right now. What's the hardest part about avoiding having strangers just come up to you and say anything or do anything? That that's challenging for you and your stardom right now.
Speaker 2:I think the hardest thing is just basically being private. Even my neighbors know who I am that private shit is gone?
Speaker 1:Oh, wow, it's gone, right, this whole story right there.
Speaker 2:And I felt like even at my house, like oh, nobody really knows who I am. And one day I was in my car and I got out because I used to sit in my car.
Speaker 3:I don't do it yeah don't do that and I got out of my car and my neighbor.
Speaker 2:she's like oh, I follow you on TikTok. I've been like you're always sitting in your car Like I've been waiting to see you and let you know.
Speaker 1:That's weird. That's weird and I was just like oh, you know. I appreciate it. I can't wait for her to get to her car, and one day I came out of my house and these people were riding by and they're like Bummelz, how you doing?
Speaker 2:And it's just like I literally just came out my house just to sit and talk to them, and it's a real thing.
Speaker 3:See, my name is no, my name for a different reason. I know you all know the three songs, but you don't remember the song oh, I know the song Tiffy.
Speaker 4:OK, let the audience know the song.
Speaker 3:Then the name is no my name, but what I was saying. I understand how you feel Like I don't have any of that stardom that you had, but, being like a traveling DMV comedian, I go other places too. People call my name everywhere I am, and especially with me I was working at Pell's Point. It's every three seconds. Be honest with you. For me I always I just walk a merry bite with a hug, like at least, if they're going to punch me, I can hold them.
Speaker 2:Do you feel a type of way when people just come and hug you though?
Speaker 3:No, I just let them do it, because I feel like in Baltimore somebody, a male or female, will swing with you. I don't know, you know, but it's better just to leave. But I feel like Baltimore people, as long as whatever energy you give them is what they give you back. Yes, so I love Baltimore people because I know that.
Speaker 1:The energy can flip. Any moment but you said something Chee which made me want to ask A couple. Like a week ago you came out what you don't do. You really felt some type of way that people jumped in your comments and talked about your hair.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, yes, what did they say? Somebody said they love me, but I should brush my hair.
Speaker 3:Oh, that's tacky. Why would?
Speaker 4:you. You don't like me. She went with a whole reel. Yeah, I did.
Speaker 1:For what? Why did you feel like you needed to address that?
Speaker 2:Because I work really hard, guys, and the camera is on me 24, not 24 seven, but when I'm at that kiosk I work 365 days a year, so give me grace.
Speaker 3:I talk about that all the time. Everyone knows how hard I work.
Speaker 2:I'm on Instagram every single day.
Speaker 4:But giving you grace is not what you're asking for being in the spotlight. There's no grace given at that point. Mmm it's not, it's not once you, once you put yourself in that light, they only see you in that light. They only see you as the product you, you, present to them. Mm-hmm so if a person is normally seeing the a1 product, why do they now need to say no, you get a day off, you're asking to be in that light all the time, the person that's working hard in that light.
Speaker 2:I'm just running a business. I didn't put myself you really a brand.
Speaker 4:Correct so you, your presentation of your brand, is to be a1 at all times. So a customer, a consumer or a hater, they're gonna pick that one moment when you're not a1 to then see how you become vulnerable and have the answer to Something that you shouldn't even have paid no attention to. Now they say ignore the comments, because you always gonna get those people in the comments that don't agree with any of the hard work You're doing. Even if you put more hard work out there than anybody else, they still won't think you ain't working as hard as the next and I would agree with that.
Speaker 2:I would, but if people did not realize which they should, I set up my camera at a kiosk and I record most of my day. What am I supposed to do? Make sure my lips? Somebody's gonna come down and say what they're gonna say to me every moment?
Speaker 4:I Can't the great thing about it like I said.
Speaker 2:It's literally, I'm giving you live raw.
Speaker 1:I'm a comedian date.
Speaker 3:First of all, we have tough we're supposed to have tough skin comedians or cry babies but we use post-abt tough skin and at the same time, like I present myself many type of way. People already know you know what I mean. It's kind of like if I have a bad day, it's gonna be funny. I'm gonna just be like okay, yeah, my hair, it like my head didn't fall out in the middle, you know. But with you it's like they're looking at you to be the it girl and that's a lot and it's exhausting and not only that say you're a comedian right.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2:You're gonna go on stage. You're gonna go and make sure you're you're okay before you go out in state.
Speaker 3:It's never okay for them, though. You understand what I mean. You can be, look good, you can feel good about yourself. It's gonna be like ill. Yeah, you know what I mean. So you just have to get to a point where you just like oh okay, you have to, just not. Are you not used to that though?
Speaker 1:because I understand, like everybody up here, she's been a comedian you just being your fucking cell. Do you understand that with your brand they might buy the products and all of that? But you have to understand that you have pretty girl privilege. They look at you, especially men. You're an attractive face. So whatever you, whatever you're selling, most men, most men are gonna buy. But we look at you because you're pretty. So the first time that you look a little off we like man, she, she wasn't all that like yeah.
Speaker 1:I didn't brush your hair. Well, that's why I said why even address it? Because you're always gonna get a comment that it's like your makeup was off. You didn't do your eyelashes as well today. Why address it?
Speaker 2:I guess I don't look at it like that. Guys like I really don't. And I don't like when people say I have pretty girl privilege. I am not everybody's cup of tea. You like nobody is the more kind of crap.
Speaker 4:Exactly, though that's. That's the normality. We're talking about Bell's curve likelihood, right, the likelihood of being somebody's cup of tea. You're more likely.
Speaker 1:This to be a couple of tea, yeah, then not, you know, it's crazy.
Speaker 4:No then not, like we all know with them saying all these things.
Speaker 3:You're more like a talk, like a taller. I'm about to explain Because, look, you may be the girl that they want to take pictures with, but I'm the girl they want to have sex with. Because, if you think about it, my DMs are insane. Like they come in, because the way I talk on stage, you understand what I mean. Like I tell people, I mean I feel like with a as a comedian or just being a female in general, that is in this type of industry.
Speaker 3:You talk about everything. I talk about my ins and outs of whatever guys feel comfortable with. That you know I mean because they're nasty getting in today and you know what I mean. They have standards, some most have. Some have more standards than other. We know she is ridiculous, but but at the end of the day they still want comfort. You know what I mean and you could be just as comfortable, you could be just as nasty. But what I'm trying to say is like I promise you, me and you put up each other's DMs. You the Tongue is going to be totally different. The same men that's in your DMs are in mine. That's what I'm trying to explain the same ones, but the way that they come at me is I don't have to Bend you over to do this or this and a third, or you know talking different, coming straight in like let's get around, let me feed you.
Speaker 3:Didn't eat you like I'm so, don't even say hi, dick pic immediately. Like you know, I get them all this time.
Speaker 4:Even what you say it makes more sense. Right is one of the ones where it's more quality over. Like you can't quantify the quality that's in your DM, or vice versa. Right, like, honestly right. Like she said about myself. A person might say I'm an abye damn, but I'm not.
Speaker 2:I'm not.
Speaker 4:I'm because I look good and I'm friendly.
Speaker 3:I think. But that's okay. He's not like this, I would you say, about people's type. He not my type and it has none do his personality. It's just I like, just I like, dude, to look like the wall, do you hear?
Speaker 1:me. Oh, you like Africans.
Speaker 3:No, I don't necessarily. Shout out to the Africans. I have a baby father and my twins are have Nigerian, so shout out to Nigeria. But I love me a boy. Yes, man, you know, I mean that's what I like. It Don't matter. I don't care how good you look to yourself, if you ain't black, I'm not interested.
Speaker 4:But the likelihood of somebody being attracted to me is a little higher than when an African.
Speaker 1:You you have segwayed me and she talked about this before you came in here Till this day. Right, you still keep, no matter what arm you may see, you keep your, your men, so fucking private Was. Why is it? But is it because your celebrity will eclipse them or theirs, or eclipse yours, or you don't want to buy sliding any good question.
Speaker 4:I got a follow up to that.
Speaker 2:I just feel like you never know what's gonna happen. So say, if I do come out with them and I'm not talking to them, what two weeks later, right, y'all gonna be like, oh yes.
Speaker 3:Yes, I so he lasted three days.
Speaker 4:This is the follow-up question to that. Yeah, is it that you just don't want to take, though? You rather take your elves in private?
Speaker 2:I'm gonna take my own private. And not only that, I've already dealt with this. You guys have to remember. I went through a whole marriage when I first started out, got married and when we got a divorce, everybody was asking me about it.
Speaker 3:I dare not how long were you married?
Speaker 2:Well, I was married twice.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:She had me too, girl. I only made it a year to.
Speaker 3:I'm the only person that's been here that's been married, for I was married 17 years, 17. You got divorced when I was 10, but that's not surprising, I mean and my, my ex-husband, would never want to be. He's not on social media. He's never had social media. He doesn't want anything a part of any of this.
Speaker 1:But does that make it different, though? If he's not on social media, then it's not a big deal.
Speaker 3:No, he does not want me to post on social media. I want me to post my kids on social media. He's very private and I feel like people that have outgoing Personalities. They usually like people that are very private people because it's like you get to not have all that that's.
Speaker 1:It works for women and women alone.
Speaker 4:So, when it when it comes to privacy.
Speaker 1:What is what?
Speaker 4:is the real understanding of privacy. I think I'm kind of lost when people say private.
Speaker 2:You're more happier that way you don't have to try to Just like okay, say, if you post somebody, right, you're gonna try to have to keep that up, because then you're not gonna want other people thinking what happened.
Speaker 3:Let me explain something came out of.
Speaker 1:I did a 17 marriage.
Speaker 3:Came out of the 17 marriage and then ended up a girlfriend to somebody that was married for like 23 years.
Speaker 1:So not about to slide past that. We used to use a girlfriend to somebody was married.
Speaker 3:Yes, well, about three years yeah.
Speaker 4:Please.
Speaker 3:You begin cheating on bubbles that you know.
Speaker 4:So it's, it's being private, a way of saying you have stuff to hide.
Speaker 2:But just like she said, I could be with somebody and he could have a whole another girl somewhere, and then she looking at me like I'm stupid, or vice versa.
Speaker 1:And then the Philly coming out.
Speaker 4:So you know, you know you got some stardom now, right, we know you, you prefer to be private with some form of privacy, especially if you're in a relationship with somebody right? Have you ever thought about creating content With a person? With your person? Yeah, with a person or, if not, content. You know how people make this fake content with people. Would you consider or do that type of content?
Speaker 2:You mean and I show them, or show them, show them.
Speaker 1:She meant this shit.
Speaker 2:No one will even know the next time I get married, if I decided to. The only way you know is if you see me out and y'all gotta assume that that's somebody you got a.
Speaker 1:Are you wearing your ring? If you can marry, okay, so we start seeing you with your ring. People go acts, especially you been on social media.
Speaker 4:So you. Any given point now again. Y'all been married twice a piece, you remember, for 17 years. Do you do do even one of y'all? I want to ask my co-host as well so do you even one of y'all ever say you know what? It was me that I got a divorce, Absolutely.
Speaker 4:I was always the other person because, again, I don't know the situations and I wouldn't mind diving a little further into it. But do y'all ever say we know it's twice, like twice in certain vows that they say about mercy? That's why I don't play with.
Speaker 3:Don't hurt the voices, it's like a.
Speaker 1:Was you. So, I would say for the first one for the first one and once I thought about it, yeah, I probably. Yeah, it was me, it was me.
Speaker 4:What are you young yeah it was like 20. Okay, so what about the second one? She was.
Speaker 3:Jamaican brother. I had a love.
Speaker 1:Yeah. Got married the second one was her, fuck her. I'm gonna say that all out.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, that was her.
Speaker 3:You mean run down on her?
Speaker 1:bitch.
Speaker 4:No, no I can't do it bubbles.
Speaker 2:Well, I look at it a different way as far as because I feel, I kind of feel attached. I'm married twice and I demand a worrisome. But there's a lot of women who never get married in their whole life.
Speaker 3:Period.
Speaker 2:I'm actually proud of it.
Speaker 3:Yeah, let's just start there, Okay.
Speaker 2:But no, it's, it wasn't my fault.
Speaker 1:Did I play a part during, maybe, but no, I love marriage me too so everybody here got got kids cheat on the thing he has kids. I have all the kids so with you having kids, she taking kids wherever. How do y'all is step parenting? Did for y'all do? Would y'all jump into a step parenting?
Speaker 2:role.
Speaker 1:Yeah, how is that a kid limit?
Speaker 2:I Is a age limit, though a strict rule what's the rule you cannot have a child under five years old.
Speaker 1:What if they've been separated for four years or not together for four years?
Speaker 2:I don't care, usually still getting hanky-panky with I have my lady, I can't be a step forward.
Speaker 1:I can't, yeah, they mind, but I Could not be a step forward because you really like you say it comes with how old the kid is, okay, but at a certain point and I can't be. This is controversial. I can't be in the kids life if the if their father is present because I.
Speaker 1:Don't if any of those fathers are present. You guys realize I don't have no control over the house because you're a president and you're a good dad. What can I really say? I can't say nothing because if you present and you active in your kids life, whatever I say to him, his father can be like.
Speaker 4:That's not happening. That's why kids should I can't do it ever be factored into no situation at all. It's insane that people fact that their kids into any situation because you don't meet that person with the kids. When I met you, you ain't had your three kids with you, so I only met you. I Only met you. I didn't meet your children. Your children are not important unless we get married.
Speaker 3:You shouldn't even ask about kids and tell marriage is a part of I want to be a bonus mom if I don't mind being bonus mom. Okay my only issue is I pern is how it's had to align, because what I realized is I don't like Children that act older than what they are, like like grown kids, like kids that you know, talk to you crazy and stuff like that you need like.
Speaker 3:The respect has to be there and when I say something to your kids, you need to back me up. That's all I asked. It doesn't? I mean, unless I'm doing something crazy, they're your children, but if you're gonna have me and your family, I'm gonna be a bonus mom. I'm not their mother.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm remember that and you and you know what I mean. Like I respect that, I mean like I have four children. So imagine me coming in somebody like when I have done this before when I first started dating, I didn't want to date a guy who had children because I get attached.
Speaker 1:And my thing is yeah.
Speaker 3:I break up, I still want to see the kid. I actually was kind of like stalking and not stalking, but we know you start, I was Know you start a little bit, but I was like going behind the scenes and still seeing the Sun Behind his back and I was just like that's not fair, because now if his dad dates somebody else, he needs to be able to adjust to someone else. So, it's just heartbreaking for me, but so she's not doing it.
Speaker 1:Because, because I don't get how you could say I get like, if I met you right, normally women, if you're actually talking to them, they're going to say at some point, hey, I have kids. Right, that might not be the first Interaction we have, but we talking, in some point you gonna say you got kids. I cannot now say, oh, I don't care about the kids, because now, once you said it out loud, I know you got something that come with you.
Speaker 1:It don't come with them if I don't want, if I don't like kids, then I got you.
Speaker 3:So then you got a go, I got a question, I got a question.
Speaker 1:Oh, I'm a ghost of.
Speaker 4:Kids as their package. You hear men using kids as their package. You got to accept me and my seven kids.
Speaker 1:No, I talked to the one that did that though.
Speaker 3:Well, you know it's crazy. I dated this guy. He never knew I had a baby. She might have been.
Speaker 4:Do you, when you go and meet in people Men, women, whatever do you say is me and my kids? That's a hell, no bubbles. Do you say it is you and your kids as a package, or is it just you?
Speaker 2:Because it may not. Just because you meet somebody you like them doesn't mean that it's gonna go anywhere, right?
Speaker 3:So who cares like, be honest with you. Might, I might just want to have sex with him. What?
Speaker 4:what doesn't matter if I've been children, now I'm coming Is absolute, like though that conversation shouldn't even be handy. Let's me get. My kids are adults.
Speaker 3:So I mean, I really feel like that doesn't even matter, like they have their own place, they live in DC, so it don't matter. The younger two, that's all nothing and I had, like you said, a good dad. You have somebody that Like I feel like some men do this whole thing where they be like, well, I want a girl with kids, because then if I want to come see a blah, blah, blah, I don't had those issues like so and nobody's mean my kids for at least a year.
Speaker 1:Oh, I don't but you let them know you have kids.
Speaker 3:Okay, I just let them come in when the kids asleep. If it's dancing, like they can have breathing, you know they knock. What a door. I talked off through the door like do you want to build a snowman's? Like shit.
Speaker 4:But no like so you did say a certain age. You said five years and younger Is a no because of the hanky-panky.
Speaker 3:Be honest with you.
Speaker 4:I'm only saying because you say five years and younger. You say it's because of the hanky-panky and I think I couldn't agree with that. I agree with that. I think it's 18 years. I think. Once you have a kid by anybody yeah, you have that opportunity.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying sleeping with my baby father.
Speaker 4:I could?
Speaker 2:I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1:I'm glad you corrected that bubble said I mean I could, but I'm not.
Speaker 4:So that's. That was what I meant by that. The whole statement of I could Is what I'm saying. You always will have that opportunity or that could opportunity for anybody you have a child with and I'm honest, I have you know, I mean like I've flown the Tampa.
Speaker 1:Yeah, me too.
Speaker 3:I'm down there on e-boy city and stuff like that, he like I'ma come pick you up and take your back to there. Maybe you already know what it is like. I'm not saying I still do it, you know.
Speaker 4:Is that reason? Is that the reason why you wouldn't date a man with children as five under? Because of that the whole hanky-panky Is no. Trust you can build is no.
Speaker 2:There's an emotional connection you have with the woman when you just have a child by them Come on, especially if y'all was y'all best friends or some shit like that.
Speaker 1:You, you don't matter if she was somebody or you were somebody, you always had that connection.
Speaker 3:Yeah, he was like my best friend. I'm sorry, we grew up together.
Speaker 1:You think about it when they're your best friend?
Speaker 3:yes, I raised this man so for me it's like he my family at this point, so we were so step party.
Speaker 4:Yeah, do you step first, step parents and get an opportunity to physically abuse it?
Speaker 2:What.
Speaker 1:I mean physically.
Speaker 4:That parent you can't physically. If I don't physically discipline my kid, you can't, let's go, go ahead if I don't physically discipline my now.
Speaker 1:Let's say let me ask you a question what do you consider physical discipline Like?
Speaker 3:a what's been a yeah.
Speaker 4:If it's like she was doing something crazy.
Speaker 1:You'd be like. Something like that I'm cool with, but you're not about to take my kid to another room and beat him. You dumb yeah, you dumb, not not doing that.
Speaker 4:How do you feel about that? But would you have children as well?
Speaker 2:No one, no one else would touch my. I actually don't believe in that. That's why I said do you discipline them? Well, my kids are.
Speaker 1:Yes, you're different.
Speaker 3:But did you? You never disciplined them, my son.
Speaker 2:He used to get a little spanking a little bit.
Speaker 3:He had to.
Speaker 2:Is a boy, but my daughter has never gotten beat or anything I don't believe in. I understand. Oh, I get it but no one will ever know. I don't agree with other people touching my kids because Because they don't have the same love that I was an adult so they could hit them a little harder.
Speaker 4:That's why I was going with the step prince and portion.
Speaker 2:They might care about the child, but they don't have that same compassion. So no, I don't.
Speaker 4:I don't agree. You believe physical Discipline has allowed children to now not be scared of consequences, hence why the children are running around the way they are now.
Speaker 3:You mean lack of?
Speaker 4:Well, they really are dismissive of consequences.
Speaker 2:I don't believe that.
Speaker 4:I don't think you have to hit a child.
Speaker 2:I don't believe in it. I really don't. It makes them scared of you, that's it. And then, when they get older, they're not even scared of you anymore.
Speaker 1:So now, what do you do? So you know what they do.
Speaker 2:They go to school and they hit other kids. What's happened to my son?
Speaker 3:So no.
Speaker 2:I don't agree with hitting your child. It doesn't do anything. I'm gonna be like.
Speaker 1:That might fucking tone change Wait wait, I'm gonna dealt with it.
Speaker 4:So you dealt with as far as your child Now.
Speaker 2:I don't want to keep that, get him hit on Right.
Speaker 4:you disciplined your son physically.
Speaker 2:When he was, I mean Lord Spankin.
Speaker 4:And then he went to school and was hitting on other children. Is that what you're saying, right?
Speaker 2:Yes, that's what you mean by you don't want to look at him when he was younger, maybe like three. But when kids get older and you're still beating on them, they're gonna go to school and they're gonna hit on other kids.
Speaker 1:So I got.
Speaker 2:There's a difference between beating on them and a little spanking.
Speaker 1:Yeah, there's a difference.
Speaker 2:Come on, no, no no, I agree I don't even say.
Speaker 4:I think it's a difference. But I'm just trying to make sure I get the understanding of getting the ass whooping. You can only say but so many things verbally, so many times. At what point do you now say you told me three times that you're not telling them no more and they get like what age are you talking about?
Speaker 3:That's what I'm saying. It's the age limit on that. It's the age limit.
Speaker 4:I don't think you can't stop getting the ass whooping if you're in my house, if you're in my house, if you're still in my house If I'm 16, bro, you're not about to beat me.
Speaker 1:You gotta think my kids, some of my kids, are over 6'1".
Speaker 3:Yeah, we gonna run this fade. They're gonna have to run this fade. We running this fade. I'm 16, 17, what's up? I'm not beating me, bro.
Speaker 4:So your kid is 16. Let's say teenager, right, your kid is a teenager in your house, disrespecting you as the parent. What do you do next? Just have a conversation with him.
Speaker 3:Like I said my, you put a 16-year-old on punishment.
Speaker 2:Yes, take his shit, take his stuff. Yes, take his shit.
Speaker 4:Oh Jesus Christ, that really weird. It's not even what you talking about. Take his shit.
Speaker 3:That phone will not connect.
Speaker 4:Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. Okay, take their stuff. Yes, what stuff do you take from a 16-year-old?
Speaker 1:Phones, anything, games. I take your shoes.
Speaker 4:I just wanna know the things you take from a 16-year-old.
Speaker 1:Your allowance is dead, like yeah.
Speaker 3:I have two adult children and I got one that's six foot in the ninth grade right now. Well, he's six, three.
Speaker 1:Oh, he a big motherfucker, right.
Speaker 3:So at a certain height you know what I'm saying it's not a beat. No more Is he gonna run a fade.
Speaker 1:Right, you wanna run a fade.
Speaker 3:Or it's not just taking that stuff but also stopping them from doing the things that they like to do or being around the people that you like to be around, and it's not like you're trying to make them into a slave or nothing. And then I call it Cinderella. Now you know what I'm saying. I'm not touching anything, everything. I mean you have chores, but when it's time to be Cinderella, it's a whole other thing. Like when I wake up, I'm looking around for something for you to do.
Speaker 4:At a certain point they like look, all the time for this.
Speaker 3:I got stuff to do. We stay social.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we not gonna do it. Yeah, they don't know.
Speaker 3:I've never had an issue with my children.
Speaker 1:Well, I got a question for you, bubbles. Something came in the DMs, uh-oh. They wanted to know. His name is Sammy267. Hi, sammy. He wanted to know why is men sexually always questioned by women when they don't agree with women or tell them no?
Speaker 4:Why.
Speaker 1:Why, why?
Speaker 4:Why I'm getting that.
Speaker 2:Is that what I put on? You talking about like being sassy, or you just saying, okay, got it. Like, why do I have to be sassy? Why be gay?
Speaker 1:Because I said, oh, I don't like your hair or I disagree with something you're doing. Why does our sexuality got to come into play now?
Speaker 2:I don't think that's true. Okay, does he mean maybe in a relationship In both, in both, like you don't agree with what I'm doing yeah. I don't agree with that. Who is he hanging around? You got me.
Speaker 1:You got to say me this.
Speaker 2:I actually think it's very masculine.
Speaker 1:To tell you now.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:I don't think there's nothing wrong with a man telling you no, I think that's sexy and shit. For a man like that to tell me that my behavior isn't appropriate. I'd be like, really, daddy she's saying like are you crazy?
Speaker 4:Check me, please, what? Where does this sassiness in men come from?
Speaker 3:When they in women's business.
Speaker 1:Y'all always saying y'all don't say these things Women don't have no business if you put it on social media.
Speaker 3:I think be honest with you. You know a lot of times they get into men at podcasts and they say that y'all are the sexy niggas Cheat. So where does that come from this? Top nine, he's fitting the stereotypes. You got all shades and doors.
Speaker 4:The lights is bright and these are not dark.
Speaker 3:Did you hear him? Did anybody hear him out there?
Speaker 1:Okay, so you like it you don't think it.
Speaker 4:I mean y'all going to act like y'all don't hear this.
Speaker 2:Maybe it depends on the woman and if she's in her masculine energy.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:That could be it too.
Speaker 3:Overpolicing females, yeah.
Speaker 4:That's another question. What is masculine? What is considered?
Speaker 3:masculine energy. I'm a masculine female, but I'm a very submissive lover. What is masculine energy?
Speaker 1:Y'all had to explain this to me.
Speaker 4:What is masculine energy? Masculine energy, please explain this to me.
Speaker 3:Bubbles what is?
Speaker 2:masculine energy. Masculine energy, just like say, if you're in a relationship or you're dating somebody and she want to call the shots. You know.
Speaker 1:You don't give me somebody that won't call the shots.
Speaker 2:But she's a boss though. But see, that's the thing. I'm a boss and I make all the moves all the time. I like to be feminine in my relationships.
Speaker 3:And that is what I'm talking about. I like to be led, I like to be asked.
Speaker 2:I feel like a lot of men can't do it.
Speaker 1:They don't know how to do it, do they know? Now I'm going to speak up for the men here. Every man is going to lead differently, depending on who they was with Right. You might not like to be led like Keisha wanted to be led. So if I'm coming into your life, are you at least giving me a blueprint, because I'm going to lead you from my past.
Speaker 3:Absolutely. First of all, it's a thing called love, languages and compatibility also.
Speaker 1:Yes, I learned about this two years ago.
Speaker 4:It's like Jill Scott said first of all, jill Scott said if you can't tell me what to do, you can't tell me what to do.
Speaker 3:That's a real thing. And then also, being masculine masculine doesn't necessarily mean you're masculine, being an alpha female. Be honest with you. You can see it, you can tell.
Speaker 2:Be honest with you it's present. So what's feminine in you? Maybe?
Speaker 4:I can answer that.
Speaker 3:So she's a little bit more meek and mild. I feel like you can see it. I mean, be honest with you were very different, even in like the way we carry out. So it's all presented right here in front of you how we're both probably submissive lovers. But I'm a more alpha masculine female and she's more feminine, doesn't? Mean anything wrong with either one of them and niggas like both. Sometimes they like them at the same time. Answer the question, that's the answer.
Speaker 1:You got to answer. You got to answer. He said masculine energy. What is that? What's feminine energy? Cause you said calling shots.
Speaker 4:So if calling the shots is masculine, then at what point should you not or not be a boss? And does it only affect?
Speaker 3:a relationship.
Speaker 4:You can be a boss, I'm saying does it only affect a relationship, because you're born in a relationship. I'm talking about this is masculine or feminine energy. As a single person, lead a relationship out of it. What is masculine energy? Calling shots? What else? What's feminine energy?
Speaker 2:You know what's masculine when you see it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, women is not going to give you an answer. They don't have one.
Speaker 3:I do have it. I feel like it's just like a so what's?
Speaker 4:feminine energy Cause. Y'all say men are feminine or sassy. What's feminine?
Speaker 3:energy Y'all going to have to you can tell the man reads by his mama. I don't care what, nobody says yeah, that's right about that.
Speaker 2:Let us not have respect.
Speaker 3:Good God, let me give it to you what the it's the stuff like the whole throwing temper tantrums and I'm telling you it's the feminine part.
Speaker 4:This is the feminine part.
Speaker 3:Again not being able to be indecisive.
Speaker 1:I feel like that's very Indecisiveness.
Speaker 3:Because I feel like you can't just Just let me walk all over you. You know what I mean, really, just not having something to stand in as in business.
Speaker 4:Those temper tantrums, indecisiveness.
Speaker 3:And it's men that are boss, that are like these, like when it gets to not just being a relationship but even interacting with women. I think we're feminine, feminine energy. It is the feminine. I'm saying the same thing. That's a lot of it. I'll be honest with you. That's the most of it for me.
Speaker 4:Like Indecisiveness and what's that about?
Speaker 3:Be wanting to be catered Instead of catering man I'm.
Speaker 4:I'm catering too. Want to be the receiver and not the yeah.
Speaker 3:I mean.
Speaker 1:Right, gee, I'm on your side with what you're saying, bubbles.
Speaker 3:A little spoon.
Speaker 1:I gotta ask, right? So what Tippi just said is all things that women want. You want me to cater to you, not just dominate you and tell you what to do. You want me to be emotional. So now my feelings is, hey, I'm feeling like this and from what you're all saying, that is very feminine energy. So it's wrong for me to connect with you emotionally, it's wrong for me to not try to dominate you. I'm like, hey, boo, I could do this, but let me see what's your input. Okay, I like your idea. Like all this is now feminine.
Speaker 3:I think you took that the wrong way backwards. No, I love a man.
Speaker 1:That's what you said.
Speaker 3:I said that's feminine energy. But being emotional, be honest with you. I don't want an emotional man Like I don't want somebody that's all over the place. I need somebody that. How are you going to lead if you're sitting there like, what am I supposed to do? Baltimore, it's a lot of Baltimore guys that are very emotional. A lot of Baltimore guys don't have that in their life, Unfortunately. Not saying it is what it is, and you can see their mother in them. You get what I mean and then they want you.
Speaker 4:Are you agreeing with this Bubbles?
Speaker 3:She's laughing. They beat up with you because you're not, because it's like whatever that mother did to them growing up, they put it on you. You get what I mean, but they want you to mother them in the same. It's exhausting. It's like I got to raise the kid and it's like they're a third kid.
Speaker 4:I mean, well, a fourth kid or a fifth kid. So masculine energy. I'm just trying to make sure I'm putting it together.
Speaker 3:You're a boy and nobody's going to understand this.
Speaker 4:To me it's just a crazy situation because nobody actually ever able to explain what masculine or feminine energy is.
Speaker 3:You're giving you literally multiple explanations. So with feminine energy.
Speaker 4:Let's just use the indecisiveness, because that's what he was speaking on. So women in your most feminine way, is being indecisive right, and a man being masculine is being a leader, meaning he's making the decisions right. That's what we're going to say. That's what feminine energy is in masculine energy. Can you not change your mind?
Speaker 1:Bubbles.
Speaker 4:Is it now? Only you make the decision this way, that it is, and you can't change your mind. Are only women now? Only to change their mind? And if a man changes mind, he's being feminine or presenting feminine energy.
Speaker 2:It depends on the circumstance. As a man, I want you to lead me, and you know what I notice with men too. As a woman, you never tell a man what to do, like even if you know that it's the wrong, like it's not a good idea, you let him learn on his own. He'll always come back to you and say you know what? It was a bad idea Because that demasculates a man, and if you keep doing that, it puts them in their feminine energy.
Speaker 3:I agree. I believe that you, and that's what we're talking about.
Speaker 1:You are a tough lover, Bubbles.
Speaker 3:I agree. I feel like you can suggest, but I feel like you do not tell men what to do. I feel like we're supposed to be foundational people's supporters. You know, what I mean. I do feel like that's a reason why my first marriage demasculation.
Speaker 4:And again, I only accept because, like he was saying, was saying he had asked. That's the kind of, that's the reason, because, again, I think the viewers are still confused, but I get it.
Speaker 3:We all confuse. She's the only one that's confused.
Speaker 4:No, no, I just always get confused by the whole masculine feminine thing. You know what it is? Or even alpha. What's considered an alpha female? Then Listen.
Speaker 1:Go with it.
Speaker 2:What's considered an alpha female Bubbles? I'm not sure. It's not even explained. I've been in a. Let me tell you, I know exactly what a feminine masculine relationship is like in the roles that it's supposed to play. It's unexplainable.
Speaker 1:It was the most beautiful thing ever.
Speaker 2:It's unexplainable when a man can put you in your, in your feminine energy. Jesus, oh, my goodness.
Speaker 1:Everybody. She had a man to pop in her head. You had a man that popped in your head.
Speaker 3:But yeah, I'm not the day man. I apologize this man every time I talk. Definitely I dropped it. I fumbled the bag on that. Did you fumble?
Speaker 4:the bag as well.
Speaker 2:Well, you all know I'll talk about my she.
Speaker 1:She said no, but yeah, that's different.
Speaker 3:It's sticky, it's sticky.
Speaker 1:All right, so we ain't done. Yet we got one from a female Woman, from Cassandra. She wanted to know do women think is this oh, why do women think any man they meet as corny unless as a man they are interested in?
Speaker 3:Corny niggas are the best niggas ever had ever been your niggas though. Yeah, women a call a man thirsty for stuff like that.
Speaker 4:Love me a nerd.
Speaker 1:Are you interested in him before you find all that out? Because if he comes to you, nerdy and all that, are you gonna give him a Shot, like you know what I've been looking for you.
Speaker 3:Because it's like you know who I used to mess with but you don't know, right, that's why you submit with. If you did know, then you would know that I'm not like that I love. I love niggas like that, because I mean somebody that, for one, actually like dedication, life or something, or it's like focus, like focus on things or Interested in things. That's sexy to me. Like that mean people would like out, like doesn't care about what everybody else thinks. They just like think outside the box. That's that's sexy to me. Like everybody just seems like they just doing the same shit. You know, I mean I don't. I love a man. That's different.
Speaker 1:So you, you agree, you want you on the same page.
Speaker 4:Wait, man, I don't believe you on the same page. So you telling me, no, this is real, cuz they, y'all responses are so like they're not even real.
Speaker 1:No, I promise you they are.
Speaker 4:I'm like a motherfucker, I'm more camera. So I just want to make sure I say the right.
Speaker 3:No, that's, that's that's, I tell you, all cameras. I mean that mess with you. I bet you understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:If Drake or any of your favorite black people that you like, that you're interested in, we talk about any of them. Any of them. If he's seen you a picture of his penis in your inbox, are you all of a sudden now, because you want him, gonna say no, I don't want him no more. Because of that.
Speaker 3:First of all, I like penis. It was a penis. I like listen, that's one thing, but what I'm saying is this.
Speaker 4:That's what I just said. So again I let's ask, because you didn't know, Pain is that you like penis. That's. That's what A guy just keeps shooting, responding hit your DM, hit your DM, hit your DM. You not responding, you just leave more read, leave more red. Is that guy being thirsty or is he just shooting a shot? Why? Because you're not interested in them, right?
Speaker 2:But he's not being thirsty.
Speaker 4:How is that the point? If the point is to shoot your shot until opportunity happens?
Speaker 3:So you won't keep doing it. Why not?
Speaker 2:That's what the word is. What is the same thing without?
Speaker 4:That's a.
Speaker 1:That's a genius. Just what I was telling you, that's not even a real definition.
Speaker 4:So we gonna use. Cliches is a real definition. I got a whole bunch Start using this harassment that was.
Speaker 2:It's harassment over and over and, and I know thank you.
Speaker 4:Which you think on change so if it's somebody you interested in, right, and they keep asking but you just keep pushing them.
Speaker 2:They gave them a chance one time you got one time.
Speaker 3:It'd be like Nick, I see your DM, I see you, I see hello, I see you know.
Speaker 4:I Only said it because, again, I it's always Talking a certain way about men and it's only because it's not the man that y'all interested.
Speaker 2:It's definitely same like that. I'm glad you brought that up, because that's an irritating go ahead.
Speaker 4:Let's, let's hear it.
Speaker 2:I can't stand when somebody keep asking me Can I like to talk to me, mmm. I said no.
Speaker 1:I said but you get that on your kios when you be posting the videos.
Speaker 2:All the time I said.
Speaker 1:Go ahead why is it that, when you try to talk to a woman and they say you had terrible example, but you're gonna stand there for 30 minutes trying to persuade her and then you keep coming back to persuade her.
Speaker 2:She said no, why do y'all do that? I Really want to know.
Speaker 4:I can answer for my, I'll answer for myself and then I'll answer for the 68%, okay, why they do it right. Okay, I do it for myself, because I be thinking that my past Is what the reason why I'm being told no? So, I got it more. I'm more so changing the narrative and why I'm asking right okay. I think most men do it because they already shooting outside of their comfort zone. Okay and they feel like they at least got a chance, you think?
Speaker 3:it's your birth. Do it, mm-hmm. No, I just, I just really believe for the 68 you really think that many in Paris, when you tell them no, they feel like no men not a scared of rejection.
Speaker 4:That's why we feel at a lot of things. Women are scared of rejection, men not really scared of rejection as much women Uh but what about?
Speaker 2:she explains to you why not.
Speaker 4:It's still from again for myself. Again, I answer myself first. I'm more so trying to say my past is not my, that was my past.
Speaker 4:I'm somebody oh for myself, but for the 68% of the men, the likelihood of them still asking because they really think they got a shot. Even because when you explain again, you even said it when you leave somebody on red, that's one thing, but if you actually go through and take two minutes out your day to explain no, mm-hmm, oh yeah, she did at least say something. There's almost like a response to a DM. If you leave it on red, then at least you actually read it. You open the motherfucker up, you literally read it. You know what you read might not be what you wanted to hear, but you opened it up. Now, if you never opened it and it's just sitting there, that's really ignoring it. Well, when you open that motherfucker up, you read it.
Speaker 1:Well, somebody.
Speaker 4:Cash.
Speaker 1:It'll be like I was somebody in her how live wanted to tell you this. Right, uh, buddha said one you had terrible examples. And this other guy said Men, got to be okay to move on, to keep it. Push is a lot of fishing to see, don't trip over one.
Speaker 4:So when he say that I kind of disagree. Again, we can't quantify quality. Right, you might say it's a lot of fish, but how many of them fishes quality fish? You got a lot of tilapia out there, right, that's farm raised fish. That's not real fish. You probably got a whole pond of tilapia, but in that whole pond of tilapia you got one piece of it.
Speaker 1:Can I actually question is the same so.
Speaker 4:So again, you can't quantify quality.
Speaker 1:Can I actually question a lot of women out here?
Speaker 3:You know.
Speaker 1:I mean they're out there, you just gotta find them. But I got a question for you so fun in between so. I got a question. It's gonna go down the line. Do you lead with money?
Speaker 1:No do you leave with money? Do you leave with money? So this is the question, because I've never seen any people do it. Do you feel some type of way of showing how much money you've made? Mm-hmm, well, the goddamn, the goddamn number was high. So if that's the lower part, I'm happy. Middle part, I'm happy. In high part, I'm happy. So when you was showing how much money you made in this month, which was a lot of goddamn money, do you feel so? Like damn, maybe this is too personal. They don't need to know. I made 50 grand in 30 minutes.
Speaker 2:They don't need to know this no, I really don't care if you think Cat, I really don't, I really really honest with you.
Speaker 4:If you didn't care, then you wouldn't be as private as you say.
Speaker 3:I would wait a minute.
Speaker 4:I used to work you wouldn't take your elves and private, please. If you didn't care what people think, a lot of those things went. What?
Speaker 1:please give you a real reaction about the elves.
Speaker 2:It's not just about the people else, people make their own narrative of everything. I don't even put stuff out there. And people did. You know, it was a rumor. I was pregnant just some weeks ago.
Speaker 3:Where the baby go? Who told you was pregnant? Who told you was pregnant?
Speaker 4:But, but he's you. But I only say cap to you. Don't care what people say, that's the cap to me, you do care you do kind of a whole real about brushing your hair. You do care about what people say. That's why I said cat cat.
Speaker 2:Here I have to post things. I have to have some type of content.
Speaker 3:So I used to do the opposite. I used to not tell people where I work because I was afraid of because I'm being a female comedian and I go places by myself. I thought I would get robbed, to be honest, which is too.
Speaker 4:Masculine to get wrong let me explain.
Speaker 3:First of all, I'm a woman and I can get robbed. You know I'm saying I actually got root deep. You know I'm saying at Molder house, before you try doing time so. I did get root deep. Oh yeah, first of all you trying to say roofie baby, root deep, roofie roof for rent.
Speaker 1:I know what it is, what the fuck?
Speaker 2:Honey, how about this thing? You know where I'm from, so you already know how we talk.
Speaker 3:What they did, you, what they do. You heard what I say.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I did get. I got a rootie. Whatever I got it happened.
Speaker 3:But yeah, like I'm about to say, when I was working at like BG&E, I was making a good amount of money, but I would never tell nobody that because for one people like to count your money. They didn't even like, oh, she got it. If I hear nothing, they could say, oh, she got it. That's the most, that's the most feminine and unattractive thing you could tell me, so pick it back.
Speaker 4:How dare you, our favorite Leo, to never? King said that although you we don't lead with money, is money a substantial factor when you considering who you want to take it?
Speaker 3:for the ability is Because you can't money and not be stable, which is a reason I'm not taking a risk with somebody that got money.
Speaker 1:It's not stable because I know we can fix that. But if you ain't got no money, I can't make you stable people with money.
Speaker 3:It's a lot of people with money Don't pay their bills. So that's not. I'm not interested in that.
Speaker 1:Hmm.
Speaker 3:What kind of people do y'all be known.
Speaker 1:I don't know these people. What is going on Bubbles? Have you met these type of people? I?
Speaker 3:have, unfortunately, Especially in Baltimore. When was the?
Speaker 1:last time, either one of you ladies have been embarrassed.
Speaker 3:Um last week.
Speaker 1:What happened not?
Speaker 3:only is it somebody that I dated, somebody that I work with you are spending a blocker like shit. No, it's the truth. This is I don't. I actually have long term relationships most of the time.
Speaker 1:So what happened? Why was you embarrassed?
Speaker 3:um, omitting information. You know, allowing me to, uh, go in public knowing that I'm I do have some type of I'm kind of a public figure and you know just kind of set me up. Like I feel like if the day before you knew something had happened and you didn't tell me about the information and you allowed me to like keep promoting something, and then the next day people were just like what happened and you knew yesterday that I could, we could have got ahead of it and figured it out. You know what I'm saying? Like I was publicly embarrassed, like to the point where I had to individually apologize to people.
Speaker 1:Like so you know, this is vibes park has right that we want to talk about it. Well, you don't get in the scandals bubbles, you don't?
Speaker 4:so we want to talk about it.
Speaker 1:What happened to you in a comedy show and what happened to you and the weed guys? I was trying to get a sponsor. Yes, lord.
Speaker 3:Okay, I mean, that's the whole thing. I don't have anything negative to say in reference to the business, but the truth is Um, I had a weekly show. It was getting bigger and bigger. I had people coming from different states.
Speaker 3:Had somebody come from North Carolina, virginia, anything you could think of jersey. People were coming here every thursday, um, and they no longer were at the address that they were at and they found out the day before. So I was promoting the entire day and I found out the way that everybody else found out. That's embarrassing, and so embarrassing because think about my reputation and my name and I get booked off for things of that. So I get booked off for open mics. I get booked off for that. That's how I make my money.
Speaker 3:You take a man of my kids mouth. Now that's the problem for me, because we're supposed to be friends, that I know y'all. I know one of y'all for 20 years. So, yeah, it's a problem for me bubbles.
Speaker 4:Last time he was embarrassed, embarrassed.
Speaker 2:Oh wow, the flowers do it the flowers when they delivered them you get flowers like every week, so what flowers you talk about?
Speaker 3:I love flowers.
Speaker 1:You can pop your shit, go ahead.
Speaker 4:It's kind of sweet but yeah, I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2:I've, I've been embarrassed lately. Oh my god, forever ever.
Speaker 4:They choir reminds one another what embarrasses bubbles.
Speaker 1:Yeah, what embarrasses bubbles.
Speaker 3:Did the hair thing embarrass you? The hair thing? No, it just irritates you, it just irritates me.
Speaker 2:I get kind of irritated. More Puppies. You got attitude problems, I know.
Speaker 1:I just don't put up with it.
Speaker 3:I don't take no shit. That's what I'm talking about, so don't do that. Now, from who? That's not in your business, but Well, I really don't get embarrassed.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Oh, I tripped in the. I tripped in the food court the other day, goddamn.
Speaker 1:Nita Sukihanas.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that was a little embarrassing, but did you know that you're only as embarrassed as you feel? That's how I feel, I really don't.
Speaker 1:That was deep, so I just literally kept going.
Speaker 2:I don't know why y'all looking yeah, I tripped, so what?
Speaker 1:So everybody pretty much makes their money from social media a large portion of it. So your brand like you were doing the used to be district attorney before she was going to jail. You do comedy, you do social media work right. So when y'all think about collabing with people, do y'all think about their social media account or how much money you will get paid from this.
Speaker 3:Not all the time Because of my own social media account. For one, I wasn't able to keep my social media open because of the jobs. I've had, Like I said, working at the gas and electric company. I did social media for the gas and electric company for seven years. So the way that I know that they investigate people via social media is I did. I couldn't keep my account open.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 3:But the difference between my followers and a lot of people, because I know a lot of people buy their followers. I've seen it all the time my retention, the people that show up in my shows it's people I know they're the comedians that have 100,000 followers and can't fill a room. I always fill a room. That's why people booked me. So people would be like, well, how you get so booked that you only got like 3,500 followers Because I got real followers.
Speaker 3:I know they're going to come. I give a good show and they're going to show up. So you get, I know people with 100,000 followers and, like I said, this shit ain't real. I'm kind of saying I make money. You know what I mean, respectfully.
Speaker 4:I think it's more so the organic followers. So for myself, it's almost like what Tiffy said If I throw a party right now, I can sell out a party. That's right, because the 1600 people that follow me, those are real people. Those are real people that probably a comment at least once a week or anything I would post Like honestly, I got real, full engagement with people that follow me, and I don't follow a lot of people because I know I'm a celebrity.
Speaker 3:So for myself, it's true, though, she is absolutely a celebrity.
Speaker 4:Like I'm not going to lie, so for myself I don't gauge following base on social platforms because, again, a person I've seen people like Jess Alaria has got multiple millions of people that follow her, but she can't sell out a local show in Baltimore. Why are you?
Speaker 1:not going to hit a girl like that G. No, I'm saying, you know I really love Jess.
Speaker 4:Jess is a cool dope West Side chick, right, so she's cool. I'm not saying, I'm just saying your following on social platforms does not substantiate the money you can bring in a local area, especially in Baltimore, in a local area, right. So it's one thing to have because, remember, these are global apps.
Speaker 3:Right.
Speaker 4:These are not local apps, so it's more than a million people on the globe. So those million people can come from anywhere.
Speaker 2:Miss Millian Well my thing is you can always gauge how, like she was saying, like if you buy followers and things, you can look at somebody's algorithm. So if I make a post, I have 100K.
Speaker 1:You follow your statistic card? Oh yeah, I do.
Speaker 2:How many likes do you guys?
Speaker 3:have.
Speaker 2:Right how many likes you got, and it's not even well. Most of the time it is that but, also it's the views so if I post a post, I'm expecting in the first maybe 10 minutes to get a thousand views. Hence the conversation.
Speaker 1:Hence the conversation.
Speaker 2:And then also, if someone wants to, I've worked really hard to get to where I am Right Say it again.
Speaker 3:I've been saying it 22.
Speaker 4:I started at zero followers. Don't humble yourself, and that's what's up.
Speaker 2:So if someone wants to collab with me, I am going to look at, yes, how many followers they have your engagement, because I've worked hard to get to where I am, so I need it's like a I'm not gonna say a relationship. Let me not go down that rabbit hole.
Speaker 3:What am I?
Speaker 2:gonna get out of this and what are you gonna get?
Speaker 1:You get what I'm saying? Is that why you never posted the movie? What movie? You was on the set one time. We never seen nothing more past that.
Speaker 2:No, that's not why.
Speaker 3:What movie was it?
Speaker 2:It was like a. It was supposed to be on like a app, but it's some other stuff that happened in the background.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't really want to hey, listen, I respect that. Yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 2:It didn't align with what my brand. So when it comes, to.
Speaker 4:You did mention numbers, yeah, so you're gonna be able to get a hundred thousand views video reels on your page. Quite a bit. Can you give us some tips Besides tip me putting?
Speaker 3:a tip in. She has her own segment called tip me put the tip in.
Speaker 4:Just put the tip in. We gonna want to hear that. Can you give us some tips or maybe a way of building a real base where you can easily say I'm gonna get a hundred thousand views with no problem at all.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna say that I don't really ever, really I don't ever look at my content and say I know that this is gonna do something. One thing people need to start doing is always having an expectation, because you can let yourself down. So what I tell people and this is gonna sound cliche you- just have to be yourself. I never really know what the most viral videos I've had. I never even thought it would get that many views Like it's been crazy.
Speaker 4:So, as most of the ones, maybe you said it not even gonna cut you off, but is it more unexpected? Views Like hey, I really didn't think I was gonna get a hundred thousand views for this, or 13 million views or however the amount of views it is. Is it mainly unexpected? Like, when you do get it, it's like damn, I didn't think that was gonna happen.
Speaker 2:Okay, so there's a video I posted on December 28th.
Speaker 4:I saw that one.
Speaker 2:It's at 10 million views.
Speaker 4:I think it's almost at 11 million views.
Speaker 1:Ain't nothing like going to go.
Speaker 2:look, I never thought that that video would be one of my most viral videos.
Speaker 4:I thought the one where you was acting like the lady burning the car would have been the one.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's that 3.6 million. That's on 3.6 million.
Speaker 4:And that one would have made more sense to go to the 13 million, 14 million. Why?
Speaker 1:Because of how it was and everything like that. So you're telling me because you know I wouldn't look as y'all were talking you telling me the shit that says because if you're looking I'm gonna post it right here, but the girls with the meanest rest face are the sweetest, got you to 10.6.
Speaker 3:Yeah, because there's so many women with resting bitch faces. My face is the resting bitch face.
Speaker 4:They both have it. They walk in here like that.
Speaker 3:My kids have resting bitch face.
Speaker 2:Let me tell you, guys, the secret to going viral.
Speaker 4:I think I've figured it out here we go.
Speaker 2:The content that you post. This is key. The most, the most people, the more people that can relate to that post. Yep goes viral. Think about it. Think about how many women have been told they have a resting face. Why do you think it has ten points a million? Yeah, because all I'm can relate they can relate to that somebody To smile. I Think I figured it out.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, why you so?
Speaker 4:mean smile.
Speaker 1:I heard from my co-host cheap bubbles. This is new information to you too.
Speaker 3:You got a fake pussy. Oh me, I have a new I. Have a I have a reconstructed, bejuvenated vagina. Yes, so I got a hysterectomy because I'm a cancer survivor U-ring cancer, thank you. But when it took my uterus out, they took my cervix out. So you know, like when you having sex with a woman and they take the back and you like I'm hitting the back. Yeah, it took my back out. So then they took my size and he took out like 35% of my vagina.
Speaker 1:I was about to say that don't seem too bad.
Speaker 3:So now I have a kitty pussy. Like I don't want to say like that, because you know, yeah, I don't want y'all to get, like you know, but no, it's like you got a kitty.
Speaker 1:It's childish.
Speaker 3:It's a child, I can't take much, but damn, no more Africans. No, it is.
Speaker 1:Well, this was new information, so Got my mortgage paid off. And what's your tip, your tip of the day?
Speaker 3:Um, yeah, I just gave you one.
Speaker 1:It's an amazing one.
Speaker 3:Be honest with you, hysterectomy vagina is amazing. I. Have make a choice is nothing to say.
Speaker 4:We did forget to shout out our sponsor, who actually made an appearance. That's so dope. We really did forget the entire show. We we normally take a pause with the cars because you are the cause, oh, yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 1:Matter of fact, I need a drop. I'm not gonna say who the sponsor of vice podcast is. We're gonna ask this again. A year and a half ago, you came to me and you was like, hey, I want to either get sponsors or do sponsorships. Right, and we talked about it like this was back when the ponytail got out of here, right, even when you started getting cute and all that shit, right. You came to me and was like I asked you to sponsor this show and you have done everything I've ever asked you to do so. Now I need you to do something for me. I need you to look right into that camera and you need to do your own sponsorship.
Speaker 2:Oh, Hi, it's Bubbles here and I'm with Bob's podcast, the number one. It's bubbles here. Hi guys, it's bubbles here and I'm with the number one podcast vibes podcast. You ain't as oh yeah it's bubbles here, soap lady of the DMB and I'm here with Podcast, and it's your girl, I'll be sponsor. Okay, so I need y'all to come to a round of.
Speaker 1:And that's what we fucking talking about. Before we get out of here, I always and well, now we doing something new. Is this something that you wanted to touch on? Why you here Anything?
Speaker 2:I appreciate everyone's support on a series. I'm still as humble as I have been, yeah, and I just want to say I don't know, I just Everyone and I appreciate how they look at me, but I didn't start this business For people to look at me the way I did it, because I really had a dream.
Speaker 1:You look right there and tell them then.
Speaker 2:I really do. I really do and I think because of what I believed in myself. I think that's why I'm loving and money.
Speaker 1:Tippi, what do you want people to know about you before we get out of here? Is the Every Thursday comedian showcase still happening?
Speaker 3:So I'm shopping the location right now. I will have one by next Thursday. I'm putting it out there and I'm claiming it, okay. Okay won't be tomorrow.
Speaker 1:I got it because I was one of those people that wasting my time I feel I'm so sorry and I talked to you on the DM too.
Speaker 3:Because up until the time of it it was still going on, so I didn't know. Unfortunately, I do apologize. Outside of that, I do have some shows coming up. I'm gonna be in Hager's town. That's January 27th, but I would, so book me, I'm going to be. Well, I'm looking for I don't know the venue yet for February the 16th, but I will be with I think it's bit by bay. She has a show. And then also February the 18th I'm gonna be with John Doe Smurf in Chi Chi. We're gonna be at.
Speaker 3:I think, it's the quality in, oh no, chi Chi, the comedian, the female with big titties, oh, Simon kicks and shit. I love her. If I swear to God, if I'm ever a zombie, I'm gonna find her first because I'll be eating forever. Let me tell you she got titties. But yes, february the 18th we're gonna be at. I think it's the quality in next to Martin's West of Woodlorn hood lawn.
Speaker 1:So, moody, come out to that, yeah and my god, she you like I say before this show started, tippi and bubbles. He created all of this, matching you all together for this show.
Speaker 3:That was all him. I was like absolutely it was a reason.
Speaker 1:It was a reason. Do you have any final questions or words you want to give to bubbles or tippy while we're here?
Speaker 4:I talked to bubbles after the camera go off.
Speaker 3:Oh, what oh?
Speaker 4:So it's a pleasure.
Speaker 3:Absolutely.
Speaker 4:Um, the idea was just to Find content creators and collaborate with content. Ask them a question about creating content, and would you put a person on One year platform I was referencing more so myself in vibes if that was something that he was interested in as well. I'm collaborating content. Um, you know those funny type of skits because, again, I do believe you put up some funny stuff as well. You clearly show a personality that I haven't actually interacted with, as well as with tippy.
Speaker 3:I'm a social media manager, always wanting to. I managed 20 pages right now. Okay, busy.
Speaker 4:Time management skills that I think we probably Need to work on trying to collaborate to be myself, but it was. It was for that reason alone for us content creators to try to collaborate Across the board. We all got a different audience. I think my audience, I think you could benefit from my audience more. They women these are women, that I mean that purchasing the product, this is you know.
Speaker 3:But I build male pages for the women and my and, be honest with you, I get more powers for them than myself, which is wow like, but it is not go viral with them.
Speaker 4:So, but yeah, that's what it was for. As far as final words, you already know, man, like there is no final words, I never stopped talking.
Speaker 1:It's nothing, but I guess I gotta end it with myself and my final remarks and final words, because you didn't do our segment today, i'ma just go ahead and ask I did have and that's crazy tippy. Would you ever? Would you feel tight way if you do not become the bet, the one of the top comedians in Baltimore Bubbles? If you were number two in the DMV, would you still have the same amount of drive you have now, or would you try to revamp it?
Speaker 4:It's always a disconnect when you're not number one. It's always some form of disconnect when you're not number one. I don't, and we got the juice on the vibe.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we got the juice. Do you remember who number one was where you started?
Speaker 4:Nobody remembers who's number two anymore.
Speaker 1:Bubbles this coming from your mouth. Do you remember who number one was?
Speaker 2:we started as far as the so please.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Well, if you think about it, I always say I started it saying that I was. Is it up for?
Speaker 1:grabs.
Speaker 2:Nobody my.
Speaker 3:Not one.
Speaker 1:No, it is.
Speaker 3:Oh wait a minute I run with a gang of giraffes. It's mad girls, my.
Speaker 1:I got like ten girls in my crew, so you so you embrace competition and what you were saying a little bit you embrace it. If you started to see somebody bubble to get to where you see what I did Well, you see somebody start to bubble where you were, would your competitive nature come out or would?
Speaker 3:you be like.
Speaker 2:Oh, I'm so happy for you, because once you start looking and what are they doing, you start to lose right there. I agree. I'll never. They know competition.
Speaker 3:I'm really fair play.
Speaker 2:I would never know, as long as I'm doing everything that I can in my power to always be great.
Speaker 4:So there's no competition there's no competition.
Speaker 1:So, all I'm so myself so. So all the soap people that's in the DMV right now, you are the queen of it and you, you stand on it. Damn, not all these soapies is your son's. That's crazy. Listen, this has been Another lovely episode from the vice-part-cast. Shout out to tippy with her thighs out. Shout out to Chih.
Speaker 4:I bring them guys out with her thighs out. She's trying to bring them guys out cash up to be tall girl.
Speaker 1:Hey, she says she got a new vagina. Look out for it. Shout out to my god Chaz. Moody Media for producing everything and if you don't know, he's also produced. I don't know, but I'm gonna say how only Commercial, which would be with you. So shout to my god Chaz he surprised me with that when he did and I sell this man working and and yeah, check us out on the next podcast. Shout out to tippy. Check out with her Amazing comedy series that she had started out of fucking nowhere. And just one more time, thank you all for coming. Thank you for putting up with him. Yes, you know, when I see that bokeh.
Speaker 1:Okay she did okay.
Speaker 4:She held it in where she needed to hold it in.
Speaker 1:He did slightly, he did he had a crush on you, so oh, my blush.
Speaker 1:This has been another Lovely episode of the vibes podcast. Man Shout out to bubbles. Good Lord, check out at a Rundle Mills mall. You will see her over there by the food court to give you good directions when you come and make a left, make another right past the crock store. See, I'm better with the direction. Yes, yes, and she will give you all the sales that's decent. Shout out to the last month of this show shoebox clothing man. Use cold vibes for 10% off.
Speaker 4:Got a cold for.
Speaker 1:I can't make no money off of it. She don't share.
Speaker 4:You need to us.
Speaker 1:Me them All right. This has been a never lovely episode of the vibes podcast. Man Check us out on the next one and we out of here. It's a vibe.
Speaker 2:It's a vibe.