Buckle up, my friends, because today's journey through the Vibes Podcast is nothing short of a thrill ride, where I peel back the curtain on the rich tapestry of my life - from the euphoria of hosting the CIAA event in Charm City to setting the record straight on the biggest misconceptions . Joined by the sharp-witted Simone Lane and the mysterious 'grim reaper' Erica Allure of our crew, we're serving you a no-filter conversation about evolving in the spotlight and the dance between our public and private selves. Expect a cheeky detour through the world of hookah smoking, all served with a side of real talk.
Now, we're not shy about diving headfirst into the deep end when it comes to the more intimate aspects of life. Frolicking through the realms of dating preferences, financial aspirations, and all the misunderstandings that come with them, we're dishing out stories that will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe even rethinking your own dating game. From the stereotype-smashing revelations of what it's really like to date millionaires to the complex dance of attraction and control, we're flipping the script on what society expects from women in the dating market.
And as we wrap up this episode, we don't just raise our glasses - we lift the veil on the art of personal branding, especially in the wild world of podcasting. As we explore the balance between engaging an audience and staying true to ourselves, we're taking you behind the scenes of the entertainment industry. Each chapter is a toast to life's victories, the wins we're chasing, and the unforgettable moments we create here at the Vibes Podcast. So, whether you're here for the laughs, the sage advice, or simply because you're part of this incredible community, this episode is a celebration of all that - and you're invited to the party.
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Buckle up, my friends, because today's journey through the Vibes Podcast is nothing short of a thrill ride, where I peel back the curtain on the rich tapestry of my life - from the euphoria of hosting the CIAA event in Charm City to setting the record straight on the biggest misconceptions . Joined by the sharp-witted Simone Lane and the mysterious 'grim reaper' Erica Allure of our crew, we're serving you a no-filter conversation about evolving in the spotlight and the dance between our public and private selves. Expect a cheeky detour through the world of hookah smoking, all served with a side of real talk.
Now, we're not shy about diving headfirst into the deep end when it comes to the more intimate aspects of life. Frolicking through the realms of dating preferences, financial aspirations, and all the misunderstandings that come with them, we're dishing out stories that will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe even rethinking your own dating game. From the stereotype-smashing revelations of what it's really like to date millionaires to the complex dance of attraction and control, we're flipping the script on what society expects from women in the dating market.
And as we wrap up this episode, we don't just raise our glasses - we lift the veil on the art of personal branding, especially in the wild world of podcasting. As we explore the balance between engaging an audience and staying true to ourselves, we're taking you behind the scenes of the entertainment industry. Each chapter is a toast to life's victories, the wins we're chasing, and the unforgettable moments we create here at the Vibes Podcast. So, whether you're here for the laughs, the sage advice, or simply because you're part of this incredible community, this episode is a celebration of all that - and you're invited to the party.
This show is sponsored by @bubbledgalorme #1 soap lady of the dmv
“Nourish the skin you're in”
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Speaker 3:This is saying in every way is uncivilized.
Speaker 1:Oh, we got to get the. We got to get the new face Go away. What you gonna say? She's shy. We want, we want to lose the upshot and had two shots of resposito, so we want to. With the rest of this show we back the same place, same vibes. Might look familiar, but we got a different guest. This is another host of the vibes podcast. I am Damn, I'm drunk, I Am with two amazing women and I got the fun one that can't stay out of our guests.
Speaker 3:But I'm on fire, is women I'm gonna go ahead and swing it to my left.
Speaker 1:Go ahead, let the people know who you are first time.
Speaker 4:I am Simone Lane. That Simone that Linnae on IG and yeah, that was it. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1:Okay, I.
Speaker 3:Guess, we all.
Speaker 2:You guys, I am the trouble starter, I am the grim reaper, oh.
Speaker 3:She's taking souls. Oh lord, we got to get into the grim reaper pot. Go ahead, go ahead. She's a soul snack.
Speaker 1:She playing.
Speaker 3:I'm everybody out there.
Speaker 2:She's not playing you guys, I'm and I am so excited to be sitting here with my favorite. It's all about the vibes.
Speaker 1:Chee go ahead.
Speaker 3:Tutorials, ass either. I know what it is with me. This is saying hashtag the male Bratz doll. Hashtag fun bun. Hashtag your girlfriend's favorite boyfriend. Hashtag Mr Got that glow, got my edges. No bitch ain't got white teeth and I got good jeans. This is saying any other way is uncivilized.
Speaker 1:Hashtag mr Baltimore man All right, so let's get down to it real quick. How does it feel, erica, to be hosting the NC double a? See, I double a. We got To be hosting the CI double a in Baltimore this year.
Speaker 2:So you guys, I'm hosting a special event, we still, you know, working through the contract and everything like that. I must specify that. You know, I don't want it to be a situation where you don't you're not getting, just Not.
Speaker 2:Shout out to just hilarious. She went in, baby, she went in. However, we don't Esparcia double a. This will be my second time hosting a special event in actually, vibes Pocast was at an event that I actually hosted where we gave out a Award. We did an award ceremony for the hottest DJs and everything in the city.
Speaker 1:You won't say the goddamn name.
Speaker 2:The award ceremony.
Speaker 1:Oh, oh, oh yeah. A couple years ago, yeah, I wasn't expecting to see us. It's just girls, I fucking.
Speaker 3:You don't know.
Speaker 2:So, as far as the award ceremony, it was a very, very nice Ceremony. We had some people that are doing really big things in the city, from DJ quick, silver, raven, Paris J s, the supplier, jerome, you know, I mean you name it. It was a lot of big wigs and a building and I had that opportunity to, you know, be a host and a award. So I had that opportunity to do that. I kind of stepped away from hosting, but you know, my city sent for me once again and I'm here when you're a good representation of the city, you're good at represent representation of the city.
Speaker 3:I can't say Listen, if, if, if, fun, but know who you is, then you definitely a good.
Speaker 1:Listen, y'all. Struggling she does not and has not smoked hookah, so she's trying to tutorial herself.
Speaker 3:Yes.
Speaker 1:Yes, go.
Speaker 3:Oh.
Speaker 1:We all looking at you go.
Speaker 3:So why? Why she's doing a tutorial of the hookah. Don't be nervous now you did step away. You this, I mean you've been a part of being an alum, like locally in the city, right you? You are a familiar face, a familiar name. You do a lot of other things where you partner up with people. What is one of the biggest misconceptions of Erica law?
Speaker 4:like what is?
Speaker 3:one of the things is like man did that, did that, did that. What is one of the biggest misconceptions of you?
Speaker 2:I would like to say being references and sex.
Speaker 1:Get the fuck out of here, Erica. That's a miss or sex.
Speaker 3:That's a misconception.
Speaker 2:You know, I feel like at one point in time in my life, you know, in my younger years, when I first started out, I was kind of, you know, looked at in that type of way. But I've I've progressed in, elevated into just different Arenas and earlier. So I'm just not in that space that I once was in when I started out. You know what I mean. As you know we grow, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:So, with that being said, I don't I don't see yourself as that because you've progressed past that. That don't mean that's not who the world still sees you as yes I.
Speaker 3:So, as you saying that business woman, entrepreneur, simone, as a, as a person, that's probably not in the same Glorified Lime like a safe instance. I, like Erica, do you see yourself as being like as a natural woman, as a sex symbol as well?
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 3:I mean, I'm saying, that's not in that line. Like like, like Erica, erica's been in partnered up with millionaires. You know, right so.
Speaker 4:I would say no for me, because I mean I pop out every once in a while but you know I'm introvert, I stay Behind the scenes and stuff like that. So I would say no.
Speaker 3:Do you think stand behind the scenes helps Professional growth? So, for instance, like somebody like Erica, like would you prefer to be behind the scenes because you think you can grow faster, or being in the front of the camera and not necessarily the camera in a sense, but being in the front of everything. You can grow more because you get to build connections a little bit faster Instead of just playing it in the I'm gonna say.
Speaker 4:That's one of the reasons why I feel like I haven't like progressed when I'm not where I. I think I should be right now, because I don't put myself out there and a lot of people tell me this all the time like because I do here too, but I'm not. I didn't know that yes, I do here, so I don't had to be done. I don't. I really don't promote my hair like that, because I don't you're so low-key, I'm low.
Speaker 4:I'm that low-key like I don't feel like promoting you don't even post on social media.
Speaker 1:I don't. I got like five photos.
Speaker 4:But when I'm outside I get the attention. You know what I'm saying. When I go out, you know Everybody is like you know, but I'm just not the type of person to put myself out there. But you know I had friends to be like. You know why don't you do that, right Can do this, like you would have been further along if you were to put yourself out there.
Speaker 3:Or I just don't get you know, I'm just not, no, I'm just not that so I got the same question what in reverse With you being out there so much? Do you see that being out there was a hindrance on growing past? The people you've worked with Because you've worked with some people that may have had even higher stardom, or even at this moment you might can look at it like, damn how they millionaires and I ain't a millionaire and I work side by side with this person Youthful, as though, like maybe you could take step steps back and that could prompt you to being in a higher, let's say, financial bracket compared to when you were in the front or in the limelight, and the financial stability or the financial success hasn't been there yet.
Speaker 2:I Would like to say so, basically, overall. Your asking me do I feel like that, you know, working side by side with millionaires and celebrities?
Speaker 3:Or people that wasn't on your level when you were working with them, in a sense, may have surpassed when you're at currently and it's like how the hell are they doing and I ain't doing? You was working with me Like like, do you see, like maybe I need to take some steps back, I need to read tool, I need to revamp. Do you feel as though is like you have to do some of those other things To maybe get to that point? Like same way Simone was saying her friends are encouraging her to be more out there.
Speaker 3:Exactly and because that may help her. You feel like, since you've already been out there, maybe you could take some step. Curious about this, maybe, is like you know what I may need to do this than a third.
Speaker 2:So I'm a summit up for you.
Speaker 1:That was a lot.
Speaker 2:No, definitely.
Speaker 3:That's what you wear like this. The only way you wear like this is if you detail.
Speaker 2:When it comes to that, I hit, I am constantly. And then that's the first thing. The second thing is you don't know what these people are doing. That's my next question that being said, I've been on the scene.
Speaker 1:God damn.
Speaker 2:Since I was seven, I am very vocal about my experiences and things that I've been through and somewhat of what I've seen. Not making it sounds very like, oh, I've been in Hollywood. If you even look on my social media right. Recently put up a post where we were celebrating my 21st birthday extravaganza and a few of the Ravens players Actually came out to celebrate my birthday with my 21st birthday bitch was huge, but think about it People that's older than me in club settings are coming out to celebrate.
Speaker 1:So they won't say how. How did this happen?
Speaker 2:I was. I was in no sign, I was not a fan. Shout out to all the Baltimore promoters, exactly so. You know some people be like, wait a minute. What did she just say? You know, and I highly doubt they gonna, you know, do a raid or anything like that, you know it's over with it. It's over at this point. I mean, she said it you know, by my 21st birthday I had extra celebrities and different people coming out to celebrate me. So that means I've made a name for myself from 17 to 21 years.
Speaker 4:So that being said.
Speaker 2:You know, I've seen things and I Was brought up by old Southern woman and I wasn't willing to do anything and everything to get On and you know, get to that next level and, to be honest with you, I actually just expressed this on social media.
Speaker 2:I am so glad God helped me back. I was not ready. I had the resources, I was in the circles, I was at the table. I was not ready to reach this next level that I feel like God is directing me to that. So it's a situation where it's the timing is everything. I don't look at people. It's so many people that I've worked with to have surpassed me. I mean they are doing big shit, like I don't know if people know who style Chanel. I do. I know what.
Speaker 3:I did.
Speaker 2:Like I was the stylist for Judy from the Black Girls Club and you know they were on a makeup team and I was invited to do the VIP. I had on to Roger people coming in on my guest list and now they want a whole number scale. For me it's one thing to be famous and have attention and be Talk about it. You know how many people got a million followers and broke broke is.
Speaker 3:Hashtag natural follow is only got 1700.
Speaker 2:That was not my. Probably would have been on a whole number plans to a plateau a long time ago and would have been fucking Mm-hmm. But are you?
Speaker 1:looking at it from this lens though, because now that you're older, you can look back and like goddamn, I'm so glad I didn't do that. But when you were in your younger situation did you feel? Envy is like shit, I want to be here. I should have did this, but now you're older, so you can look back and say that was a good thing.
Speaker 2:I can't honestly say sometimes I've gotten stayed because it's like Um, I've let certain things discourage me, like, for instance, jealousy and I had jealous, you were jealous, I'm a jealous of you. Absolutely. I'm listening, I'm a receipt puller, I'm a bona fide certified. You can go to Facebook, you can go to a lauparys, you can go to sagera sculpt and the proof is in a put. So everything that I say I can back up and, with that being said, you say you not being envious.
Speaker 2:You know so when I say I had the proof in a putting. If you go back to you know my business is things that I've done. I've had on to run just around like that's a bad. Anybody was that my fashion show that I produced. I was there, so.
Speaker 3:I was.
Speaker 2:I had a lot of people around and if I went, you know so that being said, the same goals. Elvis was nothing without his band. I had so many people want to be Elvis in that moment. I'm supposed to be the Elvis, but my from my cameraman down to my Of course everybody want.
Speaker 1:They shine, of course, when you look at Beyonce.
Speaker 2:How can she put on a major production like that of everybody trying to be?
Speaker 3:Too many chiefs, not enough Indians, exactly.
Speaker 2:So I had so many energy vampires and and people that wanted to be in a spotlight and just doing anything for attention around me. It eventually depressed me and that's why I've stopped back and I've stopped away and I stopped hosting and I stopped doing all these things Because it became too much. I'm really passionate about my friend. It's not, you know, I don't and I humbly say this Booking is no longer in my bio. I've stepped back from hosting my city.
Speaker 1:When you ain't got do shit in that bad come to you by yourself right. I wasn't looking, it came to me. That's the fact.
Speaker 3:So so real quick, real quick. This is a question for the both of you and then also For you as well. When it, when it, when it, when it comes to actually being in the spotlight, what do you relish the most and what do you want to not be a part of the most? Because being being in the celebrity it comes with a lot. You get perks, it comes with a lot, but it also comes with a lot that people don't like, and I think the most I and it's just to throw it out there I think people, privacy becomes invaded even more, and most people that want to get into that space Francis, you, you know, favorite Leo to dental King right. So more Simone, as far as doing head, because you could possibly start doing celebrities here and Stepping back into that right. The city called out for you, for you to come back into that light.
Speaker 3:One thing you relish the most outside of the money, right, because the money is probably the best thing, right, but what's one of the things you relish the most? But then, one of the things that you know what you it's like, you know what I'm gonna tell you regret wanting to be a celebrity.
Speaker 1:So if you gonna say that wouldn't be that you address it a by If you want to, especially in this age, if you want the celebrity and you want the followers and everything like that. I feel like a lot of people get confused. If you want that, you gonna have to realize your privacy is gone. That is out of here.
Speaker 3:No such thing as promise, no such thing.
Speaker 1:You want to open your life up to the public, but then be like I'm gonna close it. So all of that, because you gave it to us technically. Yeah, if I give you something that's servicing the public, you can't be like oh well, I didn't give you that. No, you gave me access exactly to everything and this because you feel some type of way you want shut it down. But guess what you gotta do again?
Speaker 4:You gotta open the smile back up.
Speaker 1:So you want to give your privacy is gone. If you gonna be in a limelight, you want social media and shit like that, like what you're doing, what you're doing. Once your brain gets big enough that privacy is gone. You don't have that no more. When people see you and can recognize you on the street oh, I seen her in today, I seen on this car you're that person because that's who you built your brand to be. So people look at you and they see your brain. They don't know if you got a shitty fucking day.
Speaker 3:They say oh, oh, I don't even care. No, they don't even care. I see you should swim suit.
Speaker 1:You did today. Oh, my god, you don't know I'm cramping like they don't care. They see you as a thing that they can touch.
Speaker 3:So with with that being said, let's let's piggyback over that. Simone, you say they you're not putting yourself out there. No, is there some fear of you know what? I don't? I don't want that because I fear the whole thing of the privacy is gone, or I fear the lack of you know what? I might not even be successful. Is there a reason why you're not pushing yourself? When you got other energies like Erica says she had Vampire energies right, they were sucking it away. Right, it sounds like you got people. That's encouraging you to do more, right. Is there some fear of that? You know what? I just might not really have what everybody else think I had.
Speaker 4:So I'm gonna say this, I'm gonna type I'm a realist, so I Never had like a whole bunch of friends like you've been real close knit yeah you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3:I'm a tourist but you're a side, so how I'm real to my circle is small like I can count on one hand.
Speaker 1:You were sad right. Okay, yeah get us all.
Speaker 4:They get it. So sad you gonna get you. You're gonna get my birthday what?
Speaker 3:about Capricorn Capricorn Asian.
Speaker 2:No, nothing.
Speaker 4:I told her that, when was that birthday?
Speaker 3:When was that birthday? September 21st, September 21st. So actually I'm on the cusp.
Speaker 2:I'm the 20th, but we are like minutes apart going into the 21st. Okay, and it's just no, funny, like she counted that shit A lot of my friends were caught before she got to this big mega star. My friends were saying I was the black, came in half way, really, they said you always doing something.
Speaker 4:You do that now. She's always doing that.
Speaker 1:You learned how to walk in photos. She's no for real.
Speaker 4:She put on her phone call no, for real. I was like who is that coming in? I did You're a good girl. Yes.
Speaker 2:I didn't put on some pants, since I've been in our vibes for kids.
Speaker 3:Do you have your?
Speaker 1:No, we're not even going to get there, because this is a question that people wanted to know.
Speaker 3:Oh, I have one as well. Oh, so we're going to get there, oh Lord, I didn't even get into the real question which you're saying.
Speaker 1:You had always been very close knit pretty much your whole life. Are you going to Right now? We're just going to ask you live on air Do you think you're ever going to step out and see what that other side is like, or you just like you?
Speaker 4:know what I am, but I don't want to step out to be known for hair. That's not my thing anymore.
Speaker 1:You need a new cold baby.
Speaker 4:I do it, but that's not my thing. It's for my personality.
Speaker 3:I feel like so what do you want to step out there and be known for? What would be the thing that Simone wants to be known for? So I asked, because she's out there, what's the biggest misconception? Right? What, yeah?
Speaker 4:girl, it's just a call for you. I even know about it. I even know about it. I even know about it. I even know about it.
Speaker 3:I even know. Like, what are we talking about? Know for real. So what is that thing that you want people to know about you Outside of being an introvert right?
Speaker 4:I must what's?
Speaker 3:that one thing you know what, you know what Don't. Nobody know this, but my little closed circle, right. What is that one thing that you want everybody to know?
Speaker 4:about. I'm going to say, for one, I'm funniest shit.
Speaker 3:I'm funny, I'm not even going to, I'm not going to hold you, like everybody that has.
Speaker 4:Know for real, like everybody that has met me. Like they say like girl, you could be a comedian. But I'm funny, I'm real and that's just what it is. But I don't show that to everybody, okay, but that's what I feel like that's what I would bring for.
Speaker 3:She's saying like why you dragged my name like that.
Speaker 4:Know for real.
Speaker 2:Huh, a woman is always meant to be a mystery. A man should know at least 20 to 30 percent about you.
Speaker 1:And this is why these men dragged you in those comments, Erica.
Speaker 3:And they about you right now, since she said that that was so mad as hell.
Speaker 1:That was all Erica Head top.
Speaker 2:I think that was the first highlight. I mean, they gave me the business. Did you have some other guest hosts that got? That much action Okay.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, soon as he jumped in, yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm the only one.
Speaker 1:I'm the only one Because you were saying this off air right, and I believe the comment you were saying was if a man doesn't want your attention and he doesn't say and he's not taking no for an answer, which we talked about in the previous show. I had a question about that. Most people just going Norm. You said, okay, real Baltimore shit. If you want this attention now, here's a price that come with the attention.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, beautifully put. I don't know why people misinterpreted that, because they were making this seem like I'm just such a gold digger and you have to spend all this money on me. No, that's not what I was saying.
Speaker 3:So, and I just asked that question, this is see. So, yeah, please, please, please. So. So when it comes to gold digger, right, Is that difference between being a gold digger and having a preference of the person that you want to have some sort of financial stability? Yes, Because when you put a price on your attention at this point, it's not about the financial stability, but it's about the price that somebody can come to for your attention.
Speaker 1:You can turn it to a gold digger, though it means you're always up for the highest bidder.
Speaker 3:So what leverage? Or not necessarily leverage, because that's a negative word. What understanding would a man have if he knows that you're up for the next highest bidder?
Speaker 2:I wouldn't say that I'm up for the next highest bidder. If that's the case, I would have been bored a long time ago. I got a rich and healthy man did. Oh my God, I couldn't imagine where I would be at right now. All he just wanted is my attention, and the price is that.
Speaker 3:But that's saying, richard, tell your man in a sense, let's just use that as the example. Using that as an example, there's still going to be a richer white man or a richer black man or a richer ugly Arabian.
Speaker 1:Unless you hit the top of the pentagon, it's always going to be another richer person or just a rich person?
Speaker 3:period or in a rich person period. So that's why I was saying even when it's some of the comments is more so like if you present yourself that there's a price, it's only going to be received as all I need to know is her price, Because once I know her price, then I can get what you treasure the most your time and your attention.
Speaker 2:And that's the misconception of being a sexual being, of being what they call a sex symbol, of what some people want to categorize.
Speaker 2:You feel as though let me state my price, or let me show you this, let me show you my yacht, let me show you my five restaurants, let me show you this and his. You know his. My price, you know? No, no, here's what I'm willing to pay. Can I buy you? And that's just not who I am in my core, who I am in my. I really want this on my own. I want respect. I want genuine energy. Don't get me wrong. Love my husband, be real, erica, come on your ass now.
Speaker 1:Yes, please be real Go ahead.
Speaker 3:It's a lot to be on. Go with it. It's a lot to be on.
Speaker 2:So you know, in regard to that, it's just like I said if I was willing to be bought, I would have been bought a long time ago. I mean how I was dating a rainbow.
Speaker 1:Oh, I know, but there's a difference between you not being you not being bought. I mean the picture's on Facebook. I know there's a difference between you not saying you can't be bought, but there's another difference with saying, hey, you can't buy me, but will you go in a position and I would say, not use, but benefit from it?
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:Because I can't buy you. But you can damn sure I. Let's load the question a little bit more.
Speaker 3:Load it there, let's load the question one step further, because we had this conversation somewhere else right. Load the question. One more step. Does the attraction matter? Does the? Does the attraction compared to the finances? Oh my God, I'm so glad you said that. Are you willing to date a man that looks so good Are? You really saying it looks so good, but his money is not on your level? Or would you prefer a man that has more finances than you but not on your level physically?
Speaker 4:Oh, you want to answer this too. That's a good ass question, though.
Speaker 1:I know you won't choose the money. Erica, Don't let me down. Most of them will. I know you won't choose the money Most.
Speaker 3:Arca's. Do you know what's so funny about?
Speaker 2:this If this wasn't an adult conversation, I would bring my child in effect, because my child can run down my type what I like.
Speaker 3:We'll get to that next.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, it's just so funny that you guys said that. So in my mind, I think that I'm all for the attraction and if I like you, you said it in your mind but yeah, exactly In your mind, Exactly what's in reality.
Speaker 1:But the reality is let's answer what's your reality.
Speaker 3:From what I've heard, no, what's your reality From what you've seen or what you're doing. No, or what you're exploring, what I'm exploring?
Speaker 2:Everybody thinks.
Speaker 3:Here we go.
Speaker 2:Everybody that dates me and I seem to take serious and you know I seem to kind of go forward with.
Speaker 3:Got a bigger bag. Got a bigger bag. Oh, you making these comments worse, they got a bigger bag. They got a bigger bag.
Speaker 2:Listen, I'm not like that, I swear. I'm really Just said, you was like that.
Speaker 3:That's what I mean.
Speaker 1:Yes, what you saying? Yeah, 100%. Yeah, you just said it.
Speaker 2:I really I didn't say that. So listen, if a guy come along and he's starting out and he's trying, and you know I see potential and we could possibly grow together, I am willing to invest.
Speaker 1:Invest what.
Speaker 3:That's at the six, seven, eight, nine months down the line.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we talking about. You just met this man today. We talking about this.
Speaker 3:We see all that down the line, I'm willing to invest. I know the personality, I know the character. Oh my God, you're better than just the bank. No, no, no, that's how you just meet him.
Speaker 2:Call us. They want me get cussed out on this poor chance again, like they, not shit, I swear they trying to set me up, listen. So I would like to say I'm going to date on my level mentally, spiritually, physically. But you can't know.
Speaker 3:You can't know spiritual, mental or none of those other things without the physical benefit or the financial benefit or the finances. If the financing there, how can you get to know my spiritual? If the looks ain't there. How do you get to know my spiritual?
Speaker 2:Like so which one is it? I've dated with some people, mike, because they're unattractive guys.
Speaker 1:Did you know they was unattractive?
Speaker 3:Because they had a baby.
Speaker 1:Hold on, I'm on it, chief. Did you know they was unattractive Of?
Speaker 3:course, of course I knew this right.
Speaker 2:Why would you all do that to me?
Speaker 3:The Ravens player is the example. What are we talking about? He was cute. Cute is ugly, Now babe. Oh that baby.
Speaker 4:That baby cute, you're playing cute.
Speaker 3:Cute is always the ugly Cute is the banal. You might as well follow precious, so wait a minute.
Speaker 2:You really know in real life the actual Ravens player that I'm dating.
Speaker 3:I do.
Speaker 2:You know, it's not who I posted, right.
Speaker 3:I know. That's why I said it ain't on Facebook.
Speaker 1:Well, I mean I'm not going to be me. Do you want to say the name? Absolutely not.
Speaker 3:Thank, God, it's not for everybody. Thank God, hey, kate Williams, I didn't know I was falling for you. I really know them.
Speaker 4:I really know them All. Right, kate didn't know I was falling for you, but they say 2024. So do you prefer they get asked?
Speaker 1:truth Off of all that. So people, I really know, though you know so people we want to say Erica right now, the misconception could be true you do like a man that is financially very well off. That is just your standard. Nothing wrong with it if that's your standard.
Speaker 3:There's nothing wrong with it, just say it.
Speaker 4:We're honest with it. That's your standard. Speak your truth, sis. 2024. Drake, ok, you can drink to that.
Speaker 3:I'm going to drink to that. That's your standard, that's your standard.
Speaker 1:That's straight to it. There you go.
Speaker 4:That's straight to it, that's your standard.
Speaker 1:You like a man with money. If that's your standard, then cool, Ain't nobody wrong. Anybody got a standard. There's nothing wrong with that right. There's nothing wrong with it.
Speaker 3:It's not even a standard. It's a preference right, because the standard would be what you really would like to have, which is the full package. I want somebody that's that look good, financially good, spiritually good and sexually good, we going to ask anybody want that bro. That's why I said that would be the standard, but your preference. Have to leave yourself of some of those standards Because you can have a woman that look good, make a lot of money, sex, good at nudge. Something is going to be like something is going to be off.
Speaker 3:I love it so ideally. Ideally, you will want it all, but sometimes it just don't work. Like. That's not reality. It's just not reality. It's not reality for nobody, even myself like and it's kind of crazy, I said it about myself it's not even real. So you got to pick and choose what you would prefer over what the reality is. So your preference and I'm not just saying you if we think about what's presented generally in the public, most women's preference is financial stability, because most women OK yeah, you might look good, but after a while this is the most women say, the sex thing, the sex is just sex now.
Speaker 3:Or you look stifated. But what about these bills, et cetera, et cetera? It's always about Now. It's a tangible shit. We're talking tangible, and that's when the love don't become genuine anymore but consistent with something else, like I love you, if this is the case, or I like you, if this is the case, right.
Speaker 2:So that's where the financial stability come from, I'm actually glad we're having this conversation, because I feel like this you know, when it comes to the battle of the sexes and you have all these conversations about a woman's preference, a man's preference we have I just feel like this conversation is almost over-saturated at this point.
Speaker 1:It is, everybody got this thing.
Speaker 2:And I mean, it's just a.
Speaker 3:Because it's ugly people in the world.
Speaker 2:It's just an ongoing thing. So you know I'm glad that I had this moment. You know I can grab the mic for a second.
Speaker 4:Go ahead, grab it again, grab it again.
Speaker 3:OK, we're going to grab it again.
Speaker 2:Go ahead, grab the mic again, and my moment of truth I have consistently dated millionaires, right, oh I know it's a little bit of real. But what I will say if we can change the narrative of this. Everything is not cracked up, so what is meant to?
Speaker 3:be, it's not. No, it's not that money and that power is a motherfucker and you can't control. That you can't do this and that you better not go out there like that. Oh, I'm not even going to post that. Oh, I know a little more than what I should.
Speaker 1:That's why he here.
Speaker 2:Should I tell the truth Tell?
Speaker 4:the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth. It's a five. Tell the truth, the year of truth.
Speaker 2:The year of the truth. You guys did a promo with me and in one clip of the promo it was rather sexual, which I was promoting my brand, but you know, I had the leg straps and everything because I'm promoting cavitation. I actually added that piece out, if you look on social media and you want to know why. Why? Because?
Speaker 1:Fuckin' why? Because I got it from social media. So I want to know how you added that out. You know, I didn't think you would go back that far, I went everywhere Not that far.
Speaker 2:I didn't think you would go back that far, but it comes to a point just. It's so funny where I'm in this conversation in regards to dating and what I may be talking to you with. I don't want you wearing this. I don't want you.
Speaker 3:The control like.
Speaker 2:So we talking about control, what I like to say it's a situation where I'm being controlled, or I feel like it's controlled no, but at some point maybe the conversations have gotten to me and it's and one thing I can say when we're talking about men with money and power, it's the same thing. Eventually, it's like so like as it's almost now, I'm kind of like Reinventing myself and braiding myself a different way, like a person for one person.
Speaker 1:No, in general right but what you were saying is this is what I, when you were talking, which came to me yes, but those are different men for different things.
Speaker 1:Some men want that some men like attractive women like I might see that, oh, you got form-fitting dress, oh I like that shit, right, but then get with you and that it's your mind. I don't want you to show off now. Hold on with these niggas for a little bit. I don't want you to show that off, right, but then you got some niggas that see you like that and be like no, I want you to do that more now. Now I want you to be drinking, I want you to wear a silk dress, see through and show your nipples. Now Is some niggas that will see you like that and want you to stay in that light. And then there's others that like no, baby, I need you cover that up. So now we just talking about Preference, because some niggas want you to keep that sexy. I want you to always show it, but then summer I want you to hide it.
Speaker 3:But the issue is if you met that woman like that, that you. It was a woman. It was a woman the minute you shot, just shot. What the fuck it was? It was my type when I shot my shot. That's the issue. If that's your type when you shot it, it has to be the type once you made the basket. You can't change the hoop. You put me in the back. You can't. You can't change the hoop Once you made the shot.
Speaker 2:And not even that One thing that a lot of people don't realize, that desire these. You know, you, you have a hip hop chicken. Uh, you know, royal swam chicken.
Speaker 3:Shout out to the royal farm. You call it a whole farm chicken.
Speaker 1:Shout out to the hip hop and royal farm chicken. Y'all just like.
Speaker 3:Justin Tucker. We just gave all of y'all a shout out, good brother.
Speaker 2:Listen, listen. I love fried chicken, but you have women, that Is. Don't sit in that that class of um A seven figure dude saying that I require you a seven figure and you've never been in that room, never been at that table with him.
Speaker 3:So so the? So the real question would be do your looks determine, yes, the financial level of the dude, yes, dude. I'm asking both y'all. Do you think, do you feel like your looks is what require the seven figures, or Any figure of a guy? Absolutely, erica Simone, say absolutely not.
Speaker 4:Simone, all right me in the middle, and I'm about to catch you right now.
Speaker 1:Do you think you look right now deserve?
Speaker 3:a different working at 7-eleven. No, not your own, but I'm saying, do you feel like Looks is what require the figures of the man that shoot? They shot at you.
Speaker 4:I'm gonna say yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm kind of got like say yeah go ahead.
Speaker 4:So she said yeah, I'm only saying yeah go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 1:You only say yeah, because what?
Speaker 4:because I feel like those type of men they look for they, they Look for a certain look. You know what I'm saying right. They not if you don't look a certain way.
Speaker 3:They're not. You ain't getting that bad coming to you. You ain't getting that bad.
Speaker 4:They're not I. That's what I feel you know, I feel like. I mean well.
Speaker 2:And how many men Quality Millionaires.
Speaker 3:So, real quick, I don't mean to cut you off Listen to what she just said. Men of seven figures or high stature, they want rinky dinky women. Right, listen to what she's saying. I'm here, you gotta remember. A millionaire, a woman that makes a hundred thousand dollars a year, is a rinky dinky chick, anyway. Right, that's what they expect. They expect that for the reason and the reason why we talking about this the control To have an advantage.
Speaker 3:Now I see the person right, because most of the men that's millionaires you ever look at they women they never on a financial level. I get what you're saying, but they got way more control over them. Yeah but when they get that woman, let's use Steve Harvey's daughter, not the promiscuous one.
Speaker 1:Glory.
Speaker 3:Let's just use her as an example. She's okay with jumping from Multi-millionaire to multi-millionaire. Why? Because she looked better than most of the men that she's dating and she can get another multi-millionaire so easy, like like that. It's like clockwork. So when you got an attractive man with money, he doesn't want to read, he did the exact same thing. You know how many rinky dink women that really look really good, like we talk about over the kim k's of the world.
Speaker 1:But we got a lot of women as average, but we talk about a better physical look than what she is. Of course, even men in the mix. Maybe 90,000 dollars a year, right, because then we got niggas that's making 120 and that rinky dink is 60.
Speaker 3:But yeah, you got so many dope, $60,000 a year Of women that walks around every day, of course, with a body of of a goddess and a face of a goddess, but they never get a chance to see the millionaires and tell social media. So now, all of a sudden, the millionaires, the drakes of the world, they flying these women out, juicing them up even more. Now nothing. The dude that was making a hundred thousand dollars a year Was her prototype. Now nothing more. Because, because, why? Because drake said no, a millionaire can fly you out whole time. He treating you like a rinky dink woman. Okay, and women get lost in that perception of. If drake flew me out, a guy that make a hundred thousand, he ain't even on my level. No, no, he actually passed your level. So you gotta treat it like a scum when you really wasn't even a scum.
Speaker 1:Okay, but we talking about men, I'm gonna ask y'all to, right here that's my verse, all of that Do y'all seek Control when y'all have met. Oh lord, yes, would y'all, rather y'all have controls.
Speaker 3:Ugly men, hold on. I want an answer. I'm trying to know. Do y'all seek?
Speaker 1:the control, because y'all said millionaires have control, whatever, whatever. But and if y'all in your mind, if you're gonna use Erica's words and y'all mind, would you rather you have the control? We're not saying, oh, the perfect world, 50, 50. Fuck all that. They're never perfect In real life. Would you rather have the control?
Speaker 2:You know what my fetish is. What's your fetish?
Speaker 3:Oh, I like his fetishes.
Speaker 1:All right, now we hit something else.
Speaker 3:I like fetishes.
Speaker 1:She cuz, we gonna know what yours is.
Speaker 2:He asked me a question, so you know my fetish goes in line with his question. I like a man to be able to tell me what to do.
Speaker 1:Your life is making so much sense Okay, so and when?
Speaker 2:when I say that it's based off respect, but we're going by a true tradition. A man runs his household. If I can run all over you if I can like Control you.
Speaker 1:In this world, women you want.
Speaker 3:Don't forget that's a white man's tradition. That's not black. You want the?
Speaker 1:man to take control and everything like that.
Speaker 3:That's what's the civilization and this society.
Speaker 1:We got women like you that are boss. When we got women like you, that's stepping into her purpose right. Once you step into your purpose and, god forbid, y'all start making good money Right. It's going to be hard for a man, especially if you already have your life set up, to come in and tell you how are you going to run your life. That's cat.
Speaker 3:That's not true. That's cat. I'm telling you. That's cat, absolutely. You tell my man it ain't performing sexually, because it's only one thing left. No, because if both people got everything aligned, only one other thing matter who's sex is better, I don't give a. That's a fact.
Speaker 4:I don't care.
Speaker 1:That's a real life fact, you're not about to say you don't care about sex.
Speaker 4:I care about sex, right, but they know the soul Like.
Speaker 3:I said so. I said, if everybody got everything aligned right, if all your finances and your responsibilities are aligned, it's only one thing left sex it. What else is left If you're? If your spirituality, your financial stability, if everything is aligned, what are you meeting?
Speaker 4:the next person, for anyway.
Speaker 1:Eric wants to know.
Speaker 4:Okay, Eric.
Speaker 1:Eric wants to know. He said loving the show, but she did not answer and I seen how she grabbed the mic. Hey everybody, I want to know what is, what is? What is your fetish?
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, she did not answer what a fetish was. Yeah, what is it she said to leave? She said it to take control.
Speaker 1:I don't think that is talking about.
Speaker 4:I don't think that was.
Speaker 2:Oh, you talking about oh.
Speaker 3:That was hot, eric. What is that? What is your real fetish? She's already choking, so we know what's not her fetish.
Speaker 4:Wait a minute, that's crazy.
Speaker 2:No, that's really Uh, my fetish, like a full man to be able to. I am so strong, hit it and I can't like I can dominate and demand attention in a room.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:I would like to say you saw that when you saw me do the award show, I mean what I say when she flips that switch when I flip that switch. So if you tell me you know, no, we're not, you're not gonna raise your voice right now. You're not gonna do this, we're not gonna do that. It's her me.
Speaker 3:But how do a man get to that point? You are, you are, that you don't get there no bullshit bro. That's what I said. You, not that nigga. How much money, my.
Speaker 1:I've dated millionaires.
Speaker 3:You're not letting nobody, that ain't cracking your back like a caro practice. Listen, no, you know two different things we talking about respect.
Speaker 1:It don't got nothing to do with that. I've dated millionaires daughters, I've dated millionaires. At the end of the day, my money don't matter if you respect me. I'm gonna, I'm gonna demand it now depend on how you you react to that. I don't give a fuck. I'ma tell you what, i'ma tell you. So.
Speaker 2:Listen, I'm not gonna, I'm not even going to try to sex overrated.
Speaker 3:Is sex overrated?
Speaker 4:not overrated, but it's not. Okay, what we talking about You're promiscuous.
Speaker 2:I literally.
Speaker 4:I fell in love with someone.
Speaker 2:We never had sex.
Speaker 4:I don't know how you know for real.
Speaker 2:We never. I'm about to tell you we never had sex.
Speaker 1:You've never seen his genitals.
Speaker 2:I never saw the genitals. We came into it Absolutely not, we were in a room Just me and him and his aura.
Speaker 1:Exactly. You say you fell in love. You ain't like them, you ain't find them interest. You found in love with a nigga, you fell in love.
Speaker 2:Listen, I didn't fall in love with him soon as I seen him, but over time, in that moment and it's so funny because how his aura and how he just Conducted himself, and once I filmed out about him, his aura matched exactly- exactly cat so so hold on, I'm gonna tell you the weirdest part of when you hear these kinds of stories, and this from any woman, it's not just you.
Speaker 3:The weirdest part is well why you ain't with him now. Oh, that's good, niggas, don't never blew the bag it's always oh my god, this is the best person I met, the best person, etc. Etc. Etc. It was all aligned, the stars was aligned, but you ain't married to this guy, you ain't with this guy. I'm not just saying you understand, in general it's always so many like why you're not with him.
Speaker 2:Then you want me to sum it up right now. Summon up right now.
Speaker 3:You outgrown him.
Speaker 2:Okay, sum it up because I had the overall ensemble of a sex symbol. He wasn't over.
Speaker 1:You said that hold up.
Speaker 3:But didn't she? She just said you, you had to reinvent yourself in all these things. Why not reinvent yourself for this person that had right?
Speaker 1:You could have, just did it. He had everything you could have reinvented yourself. He chose not to.
Speaker 2:I didn't say he had everything that I wanted.
Speaker 3:Okay, you just fell in love with her, it's my thing.
Speaker 2:When it comes to relationships and things of that nature, you it's, it's a two-sided thing. You guys have to meet in the middle.
Speaker 1:Understandable and you have to compromise.
Speaker 2:You can't dictate and control with your money and not willing to change things about you.
Speaker 1:You gotta give up, gotta give you get something, or you gotta get up and get something right.
Speaker 2:And you met me the way that I am. So now that your intentions have changed Is I want you to stop doing x, y, z.
Speaker 3:But he never got the, he never got any sex To want the old things that changed them. That's what I said. Sex changes everything. That's what I just said from the beginning. Sex changes everything. The dynamic of sex changes more than what all of us even think it does, and I don't care what anybody say, especially when women say, uh-uh, good dick, don't it does, it does it does.
Speaker 3:That's why y'all mess. That's why y'all got so many sad sob stories about so many men, because the dick was so good that you forgot all about the bullshit that was presented at the beginning.
Speaker 2:I wouldn't say everything is about dick.
Speaker 3:I didn't say everything, I said it. That's the most, that's the major part versus looks. Then is sex Is or is money, and then is sex it. That's just how we go, so always so. So if it's money first, then it's money first, and then it's sex.
Speaker 2:And I'm not saying that's from me.
Speaker 3:No, just in general just in general.
Speaker 2:Yeah, um again, now that I'm older and I've had so many experiences, it's not all about that many.
Speaker 3:It was a joke. We went straight to halloween.
Speaker 2:So it's not All about sex, right?
Speaker 4:I agree.
Speaker 2:It's really not all about sex Um.
Speaker 3:Whoo, yeah, I know.
Speaker 2:I'm sure I think.
Speaker 1:Jamie wants to pivot and asked this question. He said I hear you speaking, but you was saying about not being a sex symbol, right? He said, or she said wants to know how can you say you don't want to be a sex symbol but aren't willing to change your sex symbol image on a regular basis, without a partner?
Speaker 2:I you know, the presentation here To me is not giving off sex symbol. So do you know anything about me when you ask that question, and then I can better answer you.
Speaker 3:So, Understanding like again being in the in in a limelight, we all on the podcast and in 2024, being on podcast or some form of platform Entertainment service. Right, that's what it all is right. At what point do we believe that what we say is who we are Compared to? What we say is it depends on your brand if you're a podcast.
Speaker 1:That was quick, you answer that. Yeah, I am somewhat of what I say. I am okay, but outside of that, no, hell, no, at the end of the day, I, as you know, at the end of the day, this is a business. So I'm a feed entertainment. I'm gonna give you what you want to get a bag and make some laughs cool. But this is a business. Don't ever think you know me. You know me from this. You don't know me right, so it's different.
Speaker 2:Absolutely, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 3:So when it comes to somebody that's you brand new into it, right? Brand new into being on podcast. I'm brand new into trying to put yourself out there. Do you believe that you need to have more of a personal interaction to grow faster? Or you can still present the same thing for somebody that's been in this type of industry for multiple years, or somebody that's been in this industry for almost a decade? Do you believe that you need to present more of a personal way of presenting yourself to get that type of of business to grow, or you can still say you know what? It's, just a show.
Speaker 4:I'm here as a I do to a certain extent. I do to a certain extent. I feel like I don't have to give the people everything, but just showing my personality overall and just showing you know just more of me. I feel like that'll work enough, because I literally he said I have like five pictures up on my social media Like I don't really. I mean I post funny stuff, I post funny stuff.
Speaker 3:It wasn't a lot. It's so boring, not a lot.
Speaker 4:Like I post funny things, like you know, in my stories and stuff like that, but I'm not showing me at all. So anybody that's looking at my social media is like, oh, she got pretty face. She already know she got a little body or whatever the case may be, but who the fuck is she? You know what I'm saying. So I feel, like a little bit of it.
Speaker 1:Jamal has a question for you.
Speaker 4:Me.
Speaker 1:Oh hi, jamal, he wants you to know he says I see you on the podcast but, you're not speaking like you have confidence about yourself.
Speaker 3:This is my first day. He said you don't speak Jamal Jamal. He said you're not speaking Jamal Jamal, like you have confidence.
Speaker 1:Come on, jamal, you have confidence or belief in what you're saying? Why is?
Speaker 4:that, jamal. I am an introvert, so I really don't. Like this is new to me, like this is something I always wanted to do, but I'm not that person to speak on a platform like this, like this is all new. So give me some grace. And guess what? Please Give me some grace. Well, that's giving up the grace. Give me some grace, jamal.
Speaker 3:We only going to do it because I have to say do it, we don't got to do that, we don't got to do that.
Speaker 4:This is the first time, but you know I'm open to doing it more so I can be more confident in that. So just give me some grace, Jamal. Quick question.
Speaker 3:We was talking about relationships and, I guess, what we deem ideal what do we want? When it comes to being married or having that one person you're both single right. I am Single.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that hurts Shit.
Speaker 1:Hold on, I feel so. It's just a no.
Speaker 2:When it comes to what's ideal.
Speaker 3:You know how people are like I'm a single because I choose to be single, right, you know, a lot of people say they choose to be single. When it comes to that ideal person, what are the qualities that you look for outside of the whole looks or even the bag? What are those qualities, like I'm sure they want to know when they're approaching women that's like y'all right, Very attractive, got a body, entrepreneur, stand 10 toes down, in a sense, right, Independent, y'all got all these things going on. Some of these men are intimidated by what's there. What are some of the qualities they can?
Speaker 2:they can see, they possess.
Speaker 1:They be like yo.
Speaker 2:You know what let's take away the aesthetics and a monetary value.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 3:Oh, I like the word aesthetics, I like it she mustn't want the money. Okay, we learn.
Speaker 2:I just blushed, but once I'm real shit as I get older and I experience life through a different lens. When it comes to the aesthetics and a monetary value, none of that shit matters when you need somebody the most. In a blink of an eye you can become disabled may it call accident anything. Is that motherfucker going to be a woman?
Speaker 1:I'm a roller, shit out.
Speaker 4:Not roller shit out.
Speaker 2:So you know, everybody is hopping on these podcasts and they just walking around with their chest poked out.
Speaker 4:For real.
Speaker 2:I want seven figures, I want this and I want that.
Speaker 3:But I'm not even attractive If we go ahead.
Speaker 2:In that moment when you really need, when all his family life starts life in for you For real, and I literally I'm not even going to say too much on this podcast because I will never want somebody to feel like I'm saying hi, looking low. I've had somebody recently that needed me to come through for them and they were in a bad predicament and because I love them, I call them a friend and I value them in my life, I was able to come through for them the best way I can. But are you going to have that person that's going to do that Wipe your ass when?
Speaker 4:you can barely wipe your ass yourself.
Speaker 2:When you don't feel beautiful, you can get diagnosed with cancer and all that beauty and all that shit can fade away as a person and be there for you. So to me that's what matters the most. I want the motherfucker. Like you, I could lose my hair from stage four cancer and he rubbing my head and he wiping my ass and he letting me know Excuse my French, you got. How did?
Speaker 3:anybody know Beating cancer?
Speaker 2:I love you and I'm still here for you. I loved you before the aesthetics. After the aesthetics, I'm here for you. That's what made it Either you paying for your relationship or my fucking rocking you to sleep.
Speaker 1:No for real, say it one more time.
Speaker 3:God damn. I'm paying for your relationship or rocking you to sleep.
Speaker 4:That's some real shit.
Speaker 2:I like it. So you got two choices. If you know you paying for your relationship when the money going, everything go, they go.
Speaker 4:They're gone, but if they're, rocking you to sleep. They're going to be there, regardless, regardless.
Speaker 3:To the fucking wheels for a long.
Speaker 3:So so, with that being said, right, because again, we've been like certain things when it comes to our culture, because when I say our culture, I mean the black culture and even this podcast culture, like you said, everybody walking around with this bravado. Every time they say something that's was sticking. That's what matter. What they're paying is what matter. Right, at what point? Or is there a point where we are? We can all agree that something is just one thing A lot of shit ain't black and white, or a lot of shit ain't black, a lot of stuff ain't black and white. But, like running the red light, we know that's wrong.
Speaker 1:We talking about what red light?
Speaker 4:No Lord, you know what it depends on what you ask.
Speaker 3:Let's pay that because.
Speaker 1:I ran them on fucks four times a row. No seriously.
Speaker 2:We're like.
Speaker 3:Don't get me, and it's so funny.
Speaker 2:I want to kind of get back on what we talked about when it came down to relationships by me being out there. Like I said, I've been on the scene since I was 17. I've been around a lot and you have some people that are so superficial they they so into the hype and what's what they not even giving a fuck about, the motherfucker values and their morals and what they represent. This could be the prettiest motherfucker in the room, but because they lit you want to be a part of it, exactly.
Speaker 3:Can men be as gold diggerish as women?
Speaker 1:Yes, oh God.
Speaker 2:Yes, you want to know something?
Speaker 1:I go dig before.
Speaker 3:You go dig, before you go dig, or gold dig.
Speaker 1:I used a woman for money.
Speaker 4:Really Was she older. No, she was a male jibala.
Speaker 3:I gotta see she was ugly, she was not.
Speaker 2:What's your father?
Speaker 1:Malia baby.
Speaker 2:Hold on.
Speaker 1:She was ugly. No, she wasn't, she wasn't, she wasn't. I used her for money.
Speaker 4:I felt myself not attracted to her.
Speaker 1:She was attracted to me. I knew she came for money. I always knew what the money be at, don't you, erica?
Speaker 3:You know what I mean. I mean when the money reside. When the money reside, it's money.
Speaker 4:I almost knew it.
Speaker 1:All the ravers know it smells. Don't throw it at me, oh God. That's what he was saying.
Speaker 3:What do we talk about? All the ravers live out there Like. What do we hear when the money reside, when the money reside.
Speaker 1:If you on the ravers, you are old smell.
Speaker 3:Would even one of y'all ever pay to play when it comes to a man?
Speaker 1:Simone, you say yes, All right though.
Speaker 3:You can see both of them say yes. Simone say yes, it just depends on the man, what I paid to play. Yeah, would you ask to say. You know what I want to take you out. And because you know what date mean, right, mm? All right, dick, at the end, really, you're a whore, a whore. There's a difference between being a whore and a whore. No, not a dick to me, dick at the end.
Speaker 4:Right, that's just it.
Speaker 3:No, I'm just saying, I'm just saying you talking about us taking on men. That's what I'm saying. Would y'all ever like? That's what I mean. This is a first date. We're not saying that. I'm not doing that on the first date.
Speaker 4:Ok, I'm not taking on a man on the first date.
Speaker 1:It was a celebrity. His name is, I believe, d boy or something of that nature. He knew you was coming on and he went. And I don't know this man Personally, we just have an internet relationship. So he wanted to know. He said hey, I see, erica is coming on. I went to her page because I didn't know who she was and I seen, as you said earlier, I went through her old pictures, went through her new pictures. I see she's gained weight Did either. Did she get her body done or is she pregnant?
Speaker 3:What Lord, why would he ask that?
Speaker 1:Name D boy, that is disrespectful how so once again.
Speaker 3:You know what's so funny. The first thing she leaned on is using negative connotations. It's not disrespectful, it's a. It's a consumer asking a question. The product is changed. How is that disrespectful? Because a consumer is asking a question, it's so way. That's like access. Somebody say do you use the same soap that Burger King use on a boy?
Speaker 2:or Instagram had. The boy is a rapper. I think.
Speaker 1:I know exactly, I know we see, I don't, I don't know all that.
Speaker 2:OK, so wait, do I look pregnant?
Speaker 4:No no you don't look pregnant. This wasn't my question.
Speaker 1:He D boy.
Speaker 2:So he said, um, he went through my old pictures and my new pictures and he's saying OK. So that's kind of confusing, because when you look, at a aesthetic body and a pregnant body. It kind of looks different. So he kind of confused me with that, because my close D. There you go. Either I look pregnant or I look like I got my body done. So are you saying my stomach's bigger, my ass bigger, my hips bigger, my no, for real, Be specific.
Speaker 2:I'm confused. No, I'm not pregnant, and oh, did I get my body done.
Speaker 3:Oh, we got quiet.
Speaker 4:We got real quiet. Hold on, we're the rest of the response cat, we got real quiet.
Speaker 2:Scalp didn't reconstructed my body.
Speaker 1:What kind of polite answer was that? Did you get your body?
Speaker 2:done by my business idea.
Speaker 1:Fuck all that. Did you get implants? No implants, oh, no implants or technically, is that getting your body done? I'm asking this is a group, I don't know a.
Speaker 2:I went through her old pictures up to her new pictures and. I want to know if she got her body done or if she 25 pounds. Are you really asking me this? Okay, uh, yes right what you look good though.
Speaker 4:Two different things. You think a big stomach Like what? No, the surgery situation you can look at like maybe more boobs, more ass, more hips, but how is you like I'm gonna print out to D boy I had.
Speaker 2:D boy. So no, baby, I'm not pregnant. I've gained weight, hope you know, it's appeasing to you guys I.
Speaker 1:Have no comments for the dick I did it.
Speaker 3:Um so again.
Speaker 1:So go ahead, brother. You lead just out with this question um.
Speaker 3:Last question before we close out, and I again I appreciate y'all both.
Speaker 1:You know, I know the both of y'all.
Speaker 3:I know I appreciate anybody. Come on right. We got one more question and it's a Vibe a drink. It's a vibe a drink question.
Speaker 4:Okay.
Speaker 3:So it's either a vibe and if it's not a vibe, you take a drink. It's just one question. One last question that I want to present to the entire panel and if it's a vibe, you don't have to drink and don't cap just because you don't want to drink, unless you Don't know how to drink and drive, because I think we are. But last question one night stands.
Speaker 1:I'm.
Speaker 3:Bob, is it a vibe or is it a drink? No, Like.
Speaker 4:So I had a situation where on the first day, I did. Wasn't good a year later. That was a whole baby so that was like it was never a situation where it was a one-night stand. So I can't even say that.
Speaker 1:Oh you know, if you kept making for a year, didn't?
Speaker 4:know, yeah, couple years.
Speaker 1:She, we know you, bob or not?
Speaker 3:It's a vibe. A one-night stand is a vibe. You can't have a one-night stand without it being a vibe.
Speaker 1:Yes, you can. It's no way I could like you in the sex with dog shit. It was not a vibe.
Speaker 3:But to end up having a one-night stand, that's a vibe that's.
Speaker 1:That's a straight vibe, that's a circumstance.
Speaker 3:That's a vibe like you gotta be able to, like you said the energy myself got ahead of energy, like you have to have some sort of connection to even put yourself in a situation, have a one-night stand, like you're not gonna literally have a one-night stand with somebody that you're not even no pun intended having a vibe with you just not how it doesn't work that way. Right it doesn't. It don't work that way. How about yourself?
Speaker 2:Are you guys asking me Well, I Participate in a one-night stand, or have I ever had one?
Speaker 4:I hope you participated, if you had one.
Speaker 1:You had one I participated in one.
Speaker 3:You can answer it both ways.
Speaker 1:I like it both answers. I hope you participated in a nice stand.
Speaker 3:I didn't participate in a nice stand. I didn't participate in a nice stand, especially out the country. What are we talking about? I can't wait to go to the DR in 7 hours. I got 7 hours before my flight board.
Speaker 2:Oh shit, I heard they do anything for $40, for $40?.
Speaker 3:I haven't been there yet. I haven't been there yet, but I got $1500 worth of 1s and 5s. Yeah, I heard they want me to do anything.
Speaker 4:And that body's not down there.
Speaker 3:Sit here.
Speaker 4:That body's not down there. That's the town.
Speaker 3:That's the place. I'm telling you I didn't been in a lot of places in the last 13 months.
Speaker 4:A lot of places.
Speaker 3:It's my birthday, thank you. I'm a Capricorn, so we run the world.
Speaker 1:Oh, my lady's a Capricorn.
Speaker 3:Happy birthday. Happy birthday, lady who's birthday is celebrated as a Capricorn Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2:His birthday is celebrated as a.
Speaker 3:Capricorn On Christmas. He's a Capricorn, Celebrate it. Oh, we're the only sign that start and end the year. We're the only sign that got 2 parts of the year.
Speaker 1:Fucked my head up too early.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I had everything we're the only sign that got 2 parts of the year, we start the year.
Speaker 2:And we end the year. I called it December and January.
Speaker 4:Wow.
Speaker 3:You gotta be so smart Like you gotta be smart.
Speaker 1:How many nights?
Speaker 3:is in a day, one, two, what nigga, it's nighttime, it's nighttime, it's two nights every one day.
Speaker 1:Are y'all fucking on coke?
Speaker 4:What the fuck? There's 20 more hours.
Speaker 1:There's one day, one afternoon and two nights.
Speaker 3:It's two nights in every one day.
Speaker 2:I want drugs.
Speaker 3:Just cause it's called morning. When you look outside at 5am, what does it look like? It's nighttime.
Speaker 2:It's nighttime.
Speaker 3:That's why we're in the world.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna talk to the Lord.
Speaker 3:I actually have a Libra son. So you know, that's why I got an emotional side as well. I don't know when the fuck that come through.
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Speaker 4:Me, hmm, well, yeah, cause what? So this is my first poll case. Welcome, thanks. I'm the one in the DMV.
Speaker 3:The hottest podcast as of the last 90 days.
Speaker 1:I don't know what the fuck that was. I reached my million before I knew this nigga, but it's still hot till today.
Speaker 4:So I really appreciate you guys for bringing me on. I really do. This is something I wanted to pursue on my own and it's kind of, you know, got my feet wet a little bit.
Speaker 1:I like it 90s hoops 90s hoops.
Speaker 4:I just pulled it out. Y'all know you used to fight the oil in your purse. I do. I look like it, I'll be right there, but uh. So yeah, this is my first time being on a platform like this and hopefully you guys will see me more often. You know, just me putting myself out there more.
Speaker 1:So you gonna put yourself out there on social media.
Speaker 4:So follow me at Simone. That's s-y, not with a. I m-o-n-e that l-a-n-a-y.
Speaker 1:Simoneliné, I'm gonna try this one more time. You are maybe hosting the. Poo.
Speaker 4:Yeah, there they go, see ya. What did he say to NAY? It ain't double ACP, like what the CI double ACP.
Speaker 3:It may even work show because they said it. Yeah, I swear to God the CIP, we gotta have a part two Yo how the part two.
Speaker 2:Yo listen here, you heard it. At Vibes Parking I am hosting the NACP Basketball tournament.
Speaker 3:She's hosting the NACP Basketball tournament of Baltimore City that used to be in Charlotte, North Carolina.
Speaker 4:Oh, my goodness what.
Speaker 3:Lord Lord, lord Lord.
Speaker 2:Fuck that y'all. Better not edit this shit out, oh.
Speaker 3:Hey Jazz, you better not Bro.
Speaker 2:Yo, this, the, this, the ratchet side of me, this is the. The Quarantine Format. He said I'm hosting the NACP.
Speaker 3:That's what I say, yo, they say Taylor Swift is coming Sunday.
Speaker 2:Shout out to Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1:Come down Park Hikes with a fish.
Speaker 2:This is coming to Park Hikes, you gotta come see me. I'm hosting the NACP.
Speaker 3:Not even the ones, the basketball tournament? What we talking about? What the fuck is we talking?
Speaker 2:about when I say I love these guys. They got something so good. So I'm Erka Allure. I am hosting my high High profile event for CI doubleA. Get myself together, wait a minute. Ci doubleA 2024. Again, I'm a business woman, I'm an entrepreneur. Follow To To-Jour.
Speaker 3:To-Jour is Allure in French. Do you sculpt?
Speaker 4:men bodies. I'm just curious. Okay, I hope you just sculpt me too. This bag, bag is it's got to go by April.
Speaker 2:I'm trying to be on the beats twitter.
Speaker 3:I'm calling the mic like David Ruffin, I just want to watch.
Speaker 4:I don't want to be professional. Yes, I'm trying.
Speaker 2:Tomorrow is gonna be the Follow Allure and Perris is all about the vibes. I actually have some exciting news that I wanted to share for the first time. He on Vibes podcast but due to a non-disclosure, we not gonna discuss them I guess what when it hit the fan? It's gonna be talked about right here. I love them. You guys lock in and support and get asked you coming out for the NAACP.
Speaker 1:I'ma try to make it. You gonna try to make it.
Speaker 4:Listen, man, You're promoting it. You gotta show up. No way you can't. You're being promoted.
Speaker 3:You gotta show up, you gotta show up, everybody at.
Speaker 2:El Shopted. His nigga is the new spokesman.
Speaker 3:For the NAACP basketball tournament. What we talking about.
Speaker 4:I'm gonna go for the girls, you're gonna go for the girls.
Speaker 3:I told you I wanted to be in the middle. I told you I wanted to be in the middle. This shit was insane. I'm done man. This shit was insane. She's rooting out. Listen, man, y'all know what it is. Man, all the vibes, man, I appreciate y'all for coming on. I can definitely you Ackon, Simone Leite, Without the party.
Speaker 1:Listen man.
Speaker 4:I'm gonna go and cry that shit is funny and shit. I had to go home. The nigga was like the N-Double-A.
Speaker 3:I wanted to keep how.
Speaker 4:Oh, my goodness.
Speaker 3:Another episode of the vibes On the vibes, with the vibes. This is saying handshake, was the god that glow, got my edges. No big shame.
Speaker 4:Fun fun.
Speaker 3:This is saying my co-hosts, my god, everybody's favorite, yo two-dipple-kane, these prestige, these prestigious guests, man Simone, first time it was amazing man.
Speaker 4:I'm trying to get better y'all.
Speaker 3:Listen, man. We already know what it is with you.
Speaker 4:That shit was hilarious, bro.
Speaker 3:We're gonna take one more shot and it survives, man.
Speaker 1:Oh, I got a toast I came up with a toast for this.
Speaker 4:I'm gonna take one more place to see.
Speaker 2:I actually think we're gonna do a deal with them because this shit was iconic.
Speaker 4:No, real shit. No real shit, I called it for real.
Speaker 2:William said you have an allegiance to losers and that's not like you, we want to win this.
Speaker 4:Real shit, bitch, real shit.
Speaker 2:Yo, oh my God, I want to take one more shot. One more shot, oh my God.
Speaker 4:I love you y'all.
Speaker 2:What the?
Speaker 1:fuck happened, oh shit.
Speaker 2:Give me a little bit more for that shit, the NAACP.
Speaker 4:I can go up there with Karate.
Speaker 2:Scott King.
Speaker 4:It's gonna be front row seat Recipe. So, come on, no, real shit.
Speaker 1:Don't edit that, so life is not a waste of time so that's not waste time and get wasted tonight. Cheers.
Speaker 3:I heard somebody else say that before.
Speaker 1:And this has been another lovely episode. Thank you, guys for again.
Speaker 4:Thank you guys for again. Come on boo, come on boo, come on boo, come on boo.
Speaker 2:Come on, boo, don't get off my shit. New York, my job rule. I love that song.
Speaker 3:I love that song. Come on Stan.
Speaker 1:This has been another lovely episode of the Vibes and NAACP podcast. We will see y'all on the next one. We are out.
Speaker 4:When I come from the DI it's a vibe, it's a vibe.