Have you ever felt the warm embrace of tradition through a family recipe? Brianna certainly has, and in our spirited discussion, she shares her emotional odyssey of encapsulating her late grandmother's 93 years of Southern culinary heritage into the pages of "Virgo Soul," a cookbook that's more than just food – it's a generational beacon. Alongside her, Ali, an army vet with resilience and a heart for uplifting women, joins our table, threading her empowering narratives into the fabric of our conversation.
We're not just talking turkey when it comes to the tales behind your Thanksgiving leftovers; we're unraveling the tapestry of today's cooking culture. From the shelf life of your fridge's hidden treasures to the organic movement's sway on the lifespan of our meals, we cover it all. And let's not sugarcoat it – we're serving up some hot takes on the use of sex appeal in the culinary online scene and dissecting the evolving standards of beauty in a world that can't seem to decide whether it's hungry for authenticity or aesthetics.
But wait, there's more than just food for thought here. We're peeling back the onion layers on relationship dynamics, examining the tricky business of staying connected with exes, and the seasoning of loyalty in new love. Navigating the spicy intersections of contemporary courtship, we share personal reflections on engagements and breakups, without the bitter aftertaste. And to top it all off, we shine a spotlight on the much-anticipated release of 'Virgo Soul,' stirring up support for minority-owned businesses and meaningful causes, seasoned with a dash of personal pride in my own diverse roots. Join us for a feast of conversation where every bite is bound to satisfy your craving for depth and diversity.
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Have you ever felt the warm embrace of tradition through a family recipe? Brianna certainly has, and in our spirited discussion, she shares her emotional odyssey of encapsulating her late grandmother's 93 years of Southern culinary heritage into the pages of "Virgo Soul," a cookbook that's more than just food – it's a generational beacon. Alongside her, Ali, an army vet with resilience and a heart for uplifting women, joins our table, threading her empowering narratives into the fabric of our conversation.
We're not just talking turkey when it comes to the tales behind your Thanksgiving leftovers; we're unraveling the tapestry of today's cooking culture. From the shelf life of your fridge's hidden treasures to the organic movement's sway on the lifespan of our meals, we cover it all. And let's not sugarcoat it – we're serving up some hot takes on the use of sex appeal in the culinary online scene and dissecting the evolving standards of beauty in a world that can't seem to decide whether it's hungry for authenticity or aesthetics.
But wait, there's more than just food for thought here. We're peeling back the onion layers on relationship dynamics, examining the tricky business of staying connected with exes, and the seasoning of loyalty in new love. Navigating the spicy intersections of contemporary courtship, we share personal reflections on engagements and breakups, without the bitter aftertaste. And to top it all off, we shine a spotlight on the much-anticipated release of 'Virgo Soul,' stirring up support for minority-owned businesses and meaningful causes, seasoned with a dash of personal pride in my own diverse roots. Join us for a feast of conversation where every bite is bound to satisfy your craving for depth and diversity.
This show is sponsored by @bubbledgalorme #1 soap lady of the dmv
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Speaker 1:You still single this fuck. Let's get to the vibe.
Speaker 3:I'm trying to vibe on the vibes with the violence. Is there any other way? Is uncivilized, stupid.
Speaker 1:We should, can you? Can you crack that open for me, chief? Did we start? All right, listen. This is a never episode of the vibes podcast. Man, we got two superstars, one of them she a superstar, yeah, but we won't get to her. You might have seen on on channel five, box five. Now Fox five channel five. It's DC brother. See, fucking up I drop don't worry about that. We won't let introduce herself. Good day.
Speaker 2:Let's get and my name is Brianna. No, and I'm an author, a multi entrepreneur. I have a business management construction management company. I Also am a mother and I'm just out here trying to change the world one day at a time. Red light.
Speaker 1:All right, you gotta get her, this amazing army vet here and this is my Lovely friend and sister, ali.
Speaker 4:I'm a governor.
Speaker 2:Empowering our group of friends and women to be successful and to engage into Different entities and network with other women and people. I want none of that that is so. I just want to. Yes that is oh, oh pour your own troubles.
Speaker 1:Yeah. Okay, I get it now okay, so we're gonna kick it off like this you created a book, right? Yes, okay. What led to you creating this book?
Speaker 2:So my grandmother was 93 at the time. She has been cooking for 93 years, passed down from her mother, my, my mother, everyone, we've all been cooking in the kitchen, but when she turned 93 I was like this is a legacy, like you know, let's, let's try to do something different and bring awareness to her while she was still here at the time.
Speaker 2:Last year in April she got diagnosed with kidney cancer and she passed away Two days after mother's day and her birthday. So I ended up creating the book with her. Like we wrote the book together. I went down there and she taught me more recipes. Like we spent the time. We took a whole year and a half just coming up with the book. I will call her and be like you know, should we have vegetables? More vegetables we need more.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so like we was like talking and I'm like okay. So I just made sure like it was about her and you know, me, my daughter. Like I said, I'm a mother, so I try to just start building a legacy like what do I want to be left behind with For my family, for my daughter, for her, you know, for her family. So I'm just trying to build generational break generational curses and build legacy.
Speaker 2:But that's. I was like, let me start the book, but it took a year and a half. It took a good year and a half. Got it out, I got it published, did it the right way, I made sure that it was published. I did also Get marketing behind everything. It just made a turning point when my grandma passed away, took a little grieving moment, but I'm back here so you are what you want to say a published author. Yeah, I'm a published.
Speaker 1:I don't feel to put that on the record.
Speaker 2:Oh, it's feeling good because people trying to take that title from me and I'm like, no, I'm, I worked hard, I published it, I've invested into my book. I as a black author, and like you're just gonna say the book, you got it with us. Yeah, that's your camera right there. So right here, right, I put a little girl on the top cover because this is like where I got my Cooking from, like three years old, four years old, I had pictures in the kitchen cooking. I have pictures like and doing mac and cheese at five years old. Like you know, I'm saying like I was always in the kitchen. Every time my grandma was cooking, I was sitting on the stool watching her. So I learned like creativity for everything. So not only was it her recipes in there, but I also in Intertwined my recipes in there as well, to put like a new generational twist on it to make it more southern vibe. But like you know how we eat now we like to add, don't you?
Speaker 2:know, I'm saying, add a little bit of this and that stuff crab.
Speaker 1:Big mac and cheese fire so yeah.
Speaker 2:So I Let me tell you something like that is a three cheese mac and cheese.
Speaker 1:You want to sleep.
Speaker 2:I should have brought some. I should have brought you all like a little shit, I have.
Speaker 3:Thank you, that was my next question.
Speaker 1:What made you name it Virgo soul?
Speaker 2:I'm a Virgo Virgo all day long. My birthday is nine six and, yeah, I wanted. I'm a soulful person. Like all I cook is southern food. Like I tried to intertwine like Italian and. Chinese. I do do stuff like that. But I love Some fried chicken, I love me some mac and cheese, I love me some yams Like I don't know how long I can go eating that.
Speaker 3:But I'm gonna eat it into Go.
Speaker 2:You know I'm saying like I'm gonna eat me some fried chicken.
Speaker 3:Oh, so the cover the book was that kind of inspired by that, cuz the girl do look like she is Grandmother, or that was just so my grandma's it was the creativity of like where I really started my roots from, like in the kitchen, like that's how it started.
Speaker 2:People did my friends, like my gen, like genuine people, always knew I could cook, but I didn't come out. So I was like 18 with the catering and stuff like that. Okay. So it was like wow, yeah, I'm so glad you're doing it. But then, like, when I was really doing the catering, like my heart was teaching and Making like like I said the legacy. So I'm like, well, what can I do extra? Like you know, I'm saying at the time hold in and everything you know, things change.
Speaker 2:I was like create a book like you gotta create.
Speaker 3:So when creating a book like that because it is a cookbook, right you see a lot of people on social platforms now, especially a lot of, I guess, what we call famous people, right there jumping into the chef pot.
Speaker 1:They're jumpin.
Speaker 3:Everybody talk about like Ari and shit like that Everybody everybody now and we talk about and there's a lot of famous people Right that's that's done it or it ain't got the money from other avenues, and now they want to jump into this pot.
Speaker 2:They go from rap to cooking, right. How do you feel about?
Speaker 3:How do you feel about that competition? Do you believe that a natural person that's naturally a cook, like yourself, from the from the womb to now, would be a better overall cook man? It can cook for a Plethora of people, not just your household. Or you believe that just going to culinary school you can end up learning? How to cook for everybody and not just your household.
Speaker 2:Okay, so no, because I go to restaurants right like the chef's there they cook now and Since I've been cooking more and more, because I cook every night, so every day.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you still ain't breaking stuff. Okay, we're gonna get back to that.
Speaker 2:Go ahead, we're gonna circle every day, I cook every single night, and when I do go out, I get disappointed in that. That's what I was asking because it's not seasoned. I like, I like, I, just I like seasoning like a steak, like when I go to roof, chris, my steak is always.
Speaker 1:You know what do you do with leftovers?
Speaker 2:I eat them like a meal prep. Oh, what I do is mail prep the foods that I cook. You know I'm saying so. I try to like if I cook like. Last night I made some grilled chicken, some mashed potatoes and some garlic Broccoli and then today I had it for lunch. So you know I'm saying it.
Speaker 1:okay, it goes time, nighttime come me, yeah, yeah like I can't.
Speaker 2:I can't do it like two days in a row, but I could do it like lunch and then maybe, okay, I might could go two days like Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1:I did three days you really touched the limit on that things giving food.
Speaker 2:How long y'all go. I'm gonna say about eight days. Oh, no, you got it because turkey and ham, that's a little different.
Speaker 3:How turkey and ham is to to proteins, right.
Speaker 1:So how long did you eat this Thanksgiving food?
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's seven days a week. How do you, how do you, how do things? Giving that last?
Speaker 2:But y'all still had a.
Speaker 3:You eat food at most three days bro.
Speaker 2:No, I have 15 20 people at my house, so the leftovers was Small amount like it, wasn't it make sense, I guess, talking about Was on a Monday, you.
Speaker 3:Monday, if it lasted, if you had that amount of food. She tried it go hold on so, as a chef, real quick, let's piggyback off of that, because you just was saying something. I heard you say something. You said it of the fool. As a chef, right, as a chef, a published author of a cookbook? What is the term? How long? What's the time frame that you can have food that's left over before give you salmonella or make you?
Speaker 2:please. It's three days.
Speaker 3:Thank you for days. So so three to four days, four days and honestly, after the third day really like.
Speaker 2:So how long do you?
Speaker 3:eat lunch me. It's still got the same preservative.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna tell y'all right, because I don't like processed food, so I'm very organic now.
Speaker 3:Like don't last no longer than that makes sense. For two to three days you say, for things together, but most organic food don't even last.
Speaker 2:Now, ali just said the hand in turkey, I will cut up and make him sandwich, I mean yeah, I will make me.
Speaker 3:I was, as it like. I said, that's why I asked, because that's like I can freeze.
Speaker 1:Don't go back to you're saying you're eating food. That's a week old, bro.
Speaker 2:No, but there's people that really do like a whole week, but I just can't do it. I just have to keep going like I got content, like I got stuff to do so.
Speaker 3:You create, you end another variable, you in the content in there. So that's a little different.
Speaker 2:So, like I I'm thinking of like okay, I need to make something different, like what's trendy, like, and that's just hard in itself. So always figure out like what's trendy going on, because I'm so like classic southern, and now they got like all this different type of unique styles, like Wait, it's not the biscuits.
Speaker 3:So you mean to tell me chicken don't last longer than three days?
Speaker 2:okay, boy type of chicken, baked chicken, whatever chicken you want to, are you gonna freeze it and then like, no, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3:You're also a model as well. Yes, now does that factor in In growing your audience being pretty and a cook, or just being a solid?
Speaker 1:cook.
Speaker 3:I'm not enough to grow the audience no because a lot of people women, I'm gonna say both sexes they're utilizing sex sex as well, while they cook, you know. So, because I was told from my grandma you're cooking the kitchen with no clothes on.
Speaker 2:No, you do I be having. I actually, I actually close the cooking. The kitchen will close, I'd be putting a road gone bonnet, like Like I'd be looking homeless, like I mean, I'm not boy, but like I don't say when you see other cooks they're selling something.
Speaker 3:I was just about to say that. No, I'm sorry, fry.
Speaker 2:It's serious.
Speaker 3:Okay, so there's a lot of shots, right.
Speaker 2:You have different types though. You have the ones that look like chill home base right, looking crazy. Then you had the ones that fully get dressed makeup on you know I'm saying all of that like make naked what. I'm saying is sexual pills. Shake a little ass before I mean. You know I'm saying they make the food is Every, but they're both winning, like I've seen both, like both sides winning, so it's like I don't know.
Speaker 3:But is the focus being the chef? That's my question is winning, but what is the focus? Is your focus I'm showing a little skin to get more people to just watch, or is your focus the? I'm selling this book with recipes that come from the ground up, and this is the focus.
Speaker 2:Should be that, but in. Humanity and y'all men's eyes, it don't be dead eliminate the men. Oh sorry y'all. Oh, man and women, man and women, because it's a man out there doing the exact same thing, this women dog.
Speaker 3:Okay, yes, don't get so.
Speaker 2:I think it's a sexualized thing, like with chefing, like I, like I've seen it all. Like I don't know, like I Definitely I don't know you you could have your ass in the camera and get more views cooking. Then Not having a ass in the camera, you, just you still gotta make it Like you gotta struggle to get the views. Like you know I'm saying so I don't know do you just depends like and if you're pretty, yeah it might be a bonus, but I never like pretty privileged, like that word, like that.
Speaker 2:Right now, babe, I'm on it work, but it don't work like you can be pretty, but that shit not gonna get you Okay don't it, don't not for so but. But like Ali, am I wrong. Like it don't get you like, like no, I'm serious. I don't you could like that's, you know how people believe, like you think, okay so you don't get you places where people that's not as pretty as you.
Speaker 2:Yeah or like don't have the like, okay, like if I go into a room and I'm pretty but dumb, all right, and I'm trying to get a corporate job right and Rachel over there, she pretty but she's smart as shit. You know.
Speaker 1:I'm saying you know, but but we talking I'm gonna get the job but we not talking about that, though we talking about y'all. Both say y'all, do you're an influencer, correct? You said?
Speaker 2:what you think You're coming, if I'm wrong, so she's an influencer, you wouldn't say that you'll say your content. I mean, I am a business I'm trying to, I'm a business owner I like to me okay, so y'all, two worlds are different. All right, we are the same, but I'm an entrepreneur and Ali she does her thing. We are different. Yeah, she work for the government. Like we got a difference, you're going.
Speaker 1:So for you being in the social media, the content game, right yeah, would you say that this imaginary pretty girl privilege does not help and doing that, getting sponsors for Followings, things like that? We're not talking about corporate, everything like that, we're just talking social media.
Speaker 4:Now I Feel like this is such a like Complicated subject and I've seen it's about the audience. I feel like people don't see the negative.
Speaker 1:That's a pretty privilege we never talk about that.
Speaker 4:It's something that, first of all, it's too easy to obtain. There's too many expectations at the end of it. But is it and I think also they feel like we're entitled over.
Speaker 1:But, but do you?
Speaker 4:never been an advantage, like I feel like in the work. Well, yeah, we talked about two in the opposite.
Speaker 1:We're talking about two different things, like if y'all going on a corporate word and things like that matters right If we talk about getting your money and things like that. We're not gonna sit here and say being privilege been pretty, might not get you all the way there, but, like you were saying, does it help, especially if it's a man-dominated field. A little bit, a little bit it helps and we're talking about content, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I mean, I'm pretty bad. I just as a pretty person. I don't care about it, just give me my.
Speaker 1:Give me my comment from it, from two different stances, because y'all pretty, so y'all can be like I'm good, I'm good. Well, somebody don't have that. They can't just shut it on and off.
Speaker 2:Yeah, what I'm bringing to the table.
Speaker 4:It's like I damn, I hate this bitch guts. I can't get rid of her, but because she got, you know, this bitch so fucking smart, this bitch so much cloud, and she got some, some, some else so much so quality. Right that like a preface can't really bring, like I can't really kick all right, brianna, you got the smoke in here.
Speaker 3:The conventional.
Speaker 4:That was nice Although.
Speaker 3:So I so you. What's the content you create? We know she's a published office, she's a chef.
Speaker 2:I.
Speaker 3:What kind of content do you create?
Speaker 4:Definitely modeling back. I've stepped away from the modeling because I feel like it's a great thing to get into. But you know, my passion has always been like influencing, creating content. I'm showing my sense of style. That's really kind of like we're a lot of interests.
Speaker 1:Your fashion girl.
Speaker 4:My base comes from okay is makeup, my personality and my style Talk you shit, so when it comes to modeling, I know it's different types of modeling.
Speaker 3:Right, you got print modeling, you got Can you be lolly and shit on swings. When it comes to modeling, you think that's a Conventional look type of thing or that's a general look like. You have to have a certain look to do each type of modeling. So, for instance, if you go and do a flyer, you got to have a certain, let's say, body type right.
Speaker 1:We're talking about you. Gotta have a certain but no, no, you do cuz.
Speaker 3:You don't see a lot of flyer.
Speaker 1:Anybody can be on a flyer, but when you start talking about like Only got women.
Speaker 4:That guy I was about to say I got.
Speaker 2:EPeller cells and stuff like that.
Speaker 3:They don't spread there. I'll be a 여기는 caretaker, gentlemen. Yeah, you gone in it that their. You know what I'm doing with my eye Like they don't not on a hip-hop club flyers.
Speaker 2:They don't know. You've never. You got to.
Speaker 3:Literally Shopping shit years ago.
Speaker 4:On it, everybody, what you're tight no everybody's, not Everybody's not, is that? Nice.
Speaker 3:Everybody, you don't.
Speaker 1:But what are we talking about? Are we talking about?
Speaker 3:what Allie said Everybody is not physically beautiful. Cut it out.
Speaker 1:Are we talking about what Allie said, though there's conventional modeling.
Speaker 4:Right, that's why I said it, because you will see different girls in each, in different lanes, because I can name some models.
Speaker 3:I can name some real swimsuit models. That's not pretty in the face. They literally are only modeling, because they have body structure.
Speaker 4:Because they wear the clothes a certain way. Yeah, yeah, literally that's mean. You know what I mean?
Speaker 3:I was talking about it, I thought it was a lot to be skinny and not a big tall Because you're a shorter woman compared to the counterpart Right. I've always been tall.
Speaker 2:But even that whole idea has really shifted in this new generation, Even Vogue.
Speaker 4:they opened up a whole platform for anybody.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they did. They had to. They needed to, though they was going to get sued if they did this.
Speaker 3:They had to. They had to Because the world went from it is real pretty people in the world to now it's all inclusive. That's what you're just saying. Oh everybody beautiful? No, they ain't. But you remember American Top Girl Listen companies like that, had to change their way of presenting themselves because they were losing more money. So the only way you make more money is by saying everybody is all inclusive, right? Whether you big small, short or tall, white, black, blue or brown everybody is included.
Speaker 3:But if you ever get into the company. They don't really believe that as much as they present it.
Speaker 1:But the business side, bro?
Speaker 3:business is all about money at the end of the day, that's what I'm saying. Modeling is one of those ones, francis, as a model, you should be attractive to the general population. Now, it's one thing to be attractive to just the person that wants you we talking about that, yeah but to the general population?
Speaker 1:you got to be attractive, conventionally pretty to most people. What are some?
Speaker 3:other jobs that you really just got to be attractive, to have, Like literally like Francis, a model you got to be attractive Bottle girls.
Speaker 4:Bottle girls, bottle girls, you got to be Bartender.
Speaker 2:I can't stand an ugly stripper. Oh no, not everybody's attractive.
Speaker 3:She didn't want to say everybody's beautiful.
Speaker 1:I can't stand an ugly stripper.
Speaker 3:But it's the truth. That's what I mean. So it's like certain like you can't be a salesperson on the floor, you can't be a salesperson at a clothing store and ugly, ain't nobody gonna want to come in the store, right?
Speaker 4:So it is ugly it is such things unattractable, ugly people.
Speaker 1:We don't have to see it, you don't have to say it. That's the issue now with the world. It is what it is.
Speaker 3:It is what it is Hiding things Like no, some things you just got is just ugly. I mean I'm in here, I mean and pretty privileged is a good thing. I think it is like shit. I look good, so a female a female is not on my level of looking good. I ain't even gonna get my attention. And if you get my attention because you pay for my attention, I feel the same way they, women, feel you pay you for attention. I'm saying in that context.
Speaker 2:So the same way, I would ask a pretty girl out to a date.
Speaker 3:I was, I don't know.
Speaker 4:If she's not on my level, she's gonna be asking me off here.
Speaker 3:He has a big question about his question and pay for me to go up. That's just how I want to do it.
Speaker 1:But y'all, both being on internet and everything like that, do y'all? I don't know if y'all are single or not, but do you are entertained people that want to slide into your DM?
Speaker 2:Ew what you mean. I need to hit it.
Speaker 3:I need to hit it. I'm sorry, before you go, what's up? I didn't even say anything.
Speaker 2:I was gonna take it. Yeah, I want to hit it.
Speaker 3:I definitely want to hit it?
Speaker 2:Yeah, tell us why you made it. I'm in a relationship, but I don't have time for that. I just don't entertain. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1:Did he hit you up on internet?
Speaker 2:My relationship.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no.
Speaker 2:But I wouldn't. I just let me tell you something. The internet is fake. I just feel like when you look at somebody as a profile picture and then you go meet that person, it don't be that, it don't.
Speaker 1:It's not given.
Speaker 2:It don't be given that it be given like. So why? Where would you at in that photo? Again, like what? You know what I'm saying? What do you really do?
Speaker 1:You're getting too good with the angles and the ooh, we do what we supposed to do.
Speaker 3:I'm so confused, so you say how about you internet day in or in person day?
Speaker 4:I like a little bit of both, because I like to vet. I don't.
Speaker 2:You like to vet, I need to vet, I need to vet, I need to vet. But, man, when me in person.
Speaker 4:I would love that, but I still if you don't got social media behind it. I'm looking at you like that suspicious.
Speaker 1:That's how they already treating us.
Speaker 2:I like it. What's suspicious, though?
Speaker 3:I like it. What do you got to hide? Everybody on social media, Everybody.
Speaker 4:I mean you're not supposed to be on there Red flag.
Speaker 3:To me it's a red flag because this is a red flag.
Speaker 2:You don't have a social media as a red flag, that's crazy red flag.
Speaker 4:I don't want to go to your page and see like shit ton followers. Whatever, you don't have a low, I don't give a fuck about that.
Speaker 2:You can have one.
Speaker 3:You can have 1,000 pictures in one person. Finally, that's your mother. I need all the cool.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Let her be cut clip so you say they have to have when you're dating a guy if he does not have a social media, a media red flag. No matter how the conversation went how he looked.
Speaker 3:If she don't have a platform, I think bad about it. It's a red flag.
Speaker 4:I believe it. Why do you think bad about it? It's got LinkedIn. I mean, come on now.
Speaker 3:Not for real. If I can't Google something, you might even want to leave it. No, how about you? Do you prefer internet dating or, in reality dating?
Speaker 1:I'm going to do what she said. I like a little bit of both, but I prefer an in-person because, like you were saying, you can be whoever you want to be online. But when I get up to you do you still have that type of vibe and energy?
Speaker 2:That same energy that you're on your story given, I don't care about your bottle or towel. Did you have to get like that?
Speaker 3:The only thing I don't like about the online thing, I guess, is people don't never sound how they post. They post smart, but then you talk to them and they sound 14-curse stupid. I'm like yo. That's the only thing I don't like.
Speaker 2:They post it, somebody else's post it, you're not educated.
Speaker 3:That's the only thing I don't like. I prefer internet dating. I prefer internet dating because you get an opportunity.
Speaker 2:You don't have to talk on the internet.
Speaker 3:You could just, but you also can see as much what they really believe in Like when they do post it. What's the boy named LaBoy? No not really when they post LaBoy Conn's post Fuck is LaBoy. Dude LaBoy, that's me. Who the fuck is LaBoy? You know I'm talking about right Chaz man. Everybody. We were posting his content Home. Yeah, yeah, something LaBoy, it's funny.
Speaker 2:You know him.
Speaker 1:I know him. I was saying how people post his posts, you get a chance to see how people really feel.
Speaker 3:What they really do find is hemorrhage.
Speaker 4:Right.
Speaker 3:When they do want to point the finger to only men. You get to see those type of things. So then you can really analyze the stuff people are posting. If they only post the ad shots, is that? Your best ad set If they only post and cook. You can really see or analyze something.
Speaker 2:You can really see what people post.
Speaker 3:So I prefer that over saying I see you look good in person. How many times am I going to have to take you off before I know that you really is not for me, right? At least on the internet, like you said, you can vet a person enough to be like you know what. All right, I see they got a little bit of style. Okay, I see they like to travel. You can see these things.
Speaker 2:I'm going to talk to a good gay person. I'm just thinking of stuff that happens.
Speaker 4:I'm saying that you see a lot of times, a lot of this person in the room is the most praised. You can be the most outstanding person online and I meet you in person and I buy. It doesn't correlate.
Speaker 1:You know advice versus Do you shoot your shot online. Sometimes I like it, I can see that, but I can see that, but we need to know, but she's so nervous she's confident.
Speaker 4:So, for me and company, I'm shy but you're confident. So what's your line?
Speaker 1:For the women out there. If you see a guy online Instagram, tiktok how do you shoot your shot? What's your go to?
Speaker 4:Typically do I feel like I'll see a man online and I'm more like okay, I shoot my shot more in person If we're vibing or maybe like, maybe I have seen you, or maybe one of the dating apps or whatever.
Speaker 1:Oh, we're on dating apps.
Speaker 4:You know dating apps she said what do you mean?
Speaker 2:dating apps?
Speaker 4:You got everything I like or I've let you in place and you need to have everything I like and we're vibing well, I feel like. You know what the vibes are. We are the vibes.
Speaker 2:I mean I think with this generation, I think they're able to do. I mean, I mean I think you're able to go smack.
Speaker 3:So, when it comes to dating right, let's just use dating right. And again, y'all are models, y'all are attractive women, right? Do the guy attraction matter as well, like, do looks matter? Do looks matter or is more? I think we all want the whole pack. But nobody has the whole pack, nothing is absolute.
Speaker 2:Let's keep it a step.
Speaker 4:I'm just talking about all right, let's not live in Breeze.
Speaker 2:Let's get out of the closet. I'm keeping a foul. Wow, dude, looks really madder, or?
Speaker 3:do money presentation matter. I'm not saying, you don't have your own money, but that plays a factor as well. So is it looks or is it financed?
Speaker 1:That's presented the most.
Speaker 3:You see a guy that's like you know. He's like you know. You see a guy with all Gucci on, but he looked like Craig Mack in the face. Or you see a man that looked like me in the face, but he ain't got nothing to hold in the shoes, right. I'm just saying like, give me two exact. Go with what you got, let's see. And you got a man too. So a better correlate, can we just have that?
Speaker 2:So I'm about to say, can we have the one that looks good and then financially good together?
Speaker 4:I mean, if you find that, yeah, God damn Right now like fuck it, don't work like that why you get to get the beautiful attractive everything woman and I got to settle for a mediocre man Exactly. So you can't get the nerd glasses or something. So something just may become attractive. Can't, you, don't come. No, you could become attractive.
Speaker 2:And OK, you could be ugly, and then the money can make you look attractive.
Speaker 3:Can't, can't. That means you was never attractive. So what you saying is Once the money gone, then what you ugly again, I swear, but you can. It can come out like the only person that can say that is Jay-Z. It ain't the same thing as the ugly billionaire.
Speaker 4:You know, he's the only person that can say that he's ugly too Like I mean, I'm not so for you, ladies.
Speaker 3:I'm not. Both of you, ladies. Oh like oh, he's got cute.
Speaker 1:Does money make a man handsome?
Speaker 3:Cute is ugly. You just cause my cute, that's ugly.
Speaker 2:Yes, because if you use it the right way, you can get yourself. That's like a woman.
Speaker 4:You know how to get the BBLs, ok, so what is the way to the thing? Like you know, you can get so for you.
Speaker 1:money can make a man attractive.
Speaker 2:No way. No way, though, like I don't understand the like.
Speaker 1:To go on a date.
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 4:OK.
Speaker 2:To go somewhere with the person.
Speaker 1:Yes, Like you know, he got the money. It's a fact.
Speaker 2:No, I thought you meant like, can it change a person into something? No, oh no, money cannot move me like that, like you know, when a part with a man like it can I make my own money, so so, so it's different, so a guy dressed in In regular clothes.
Speaker 3:let's say, let's just use Tarjay as a as the example.
Speaker 2:Right, ok.
Speaker 3:A guy dressed in Tarjay approach you compared to a guy dressed in Neiman's anything that's in Neiman's Are you going to talk to the guy in the Neiman's clothing the high fashion or the guy in the Tarjay that's? That's the question, right, if they both to look the exact same way.
Speaker 2:Actually the Tarjay people be millionaires and billionaire.
Speaker 4:Here we go there, we go there, we go there, we go there, we go there, we go there, we go there, we go.
Speaker 2:There we go, there we go, but like the brick, keep it a brick, and then you got a millionaires and billionaires and billionaires.
Speaker 3:They wear like regular clothes like without we talk, we talk, we, we not millionaires, so we can't add them to this.
Speaker 2:This crazy. You try to talk about target target, I only say Tarjay because it's so funny that people say time. I don't know where they get that.
Speaker 3:I don't know, I just heard it a couple of times.
Speaker 2:I just you say it to, you be on the block.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry, it is the boujee.
Speaker 3:So what I'm saying? Is he not hit on? That we're not talking about.
Speaker 4:So again, I love me some nemen.
Speaker 1:So that's what I'm saying. So when it comes, to that.
Speaker 2:so do looks mad and looks mad at it, right, yeah, Looks mad bro.
Speaker 3:I need a certain level of the traffic.
Speaker 4:I think that is so messed up in the world which which you being influenced a lot of people.
Speaker 1:So what you, what you, being the influencer that you are, would you show your man, or would you want him to show you if you all were together?
Speaker 2:Oh, show me off. We know you, DC Texas 100%.
Speaker 1:Show me off in person for sure, Baby show me off If we want to.
Speaker 4:Yeah, show me off on your.
Speaker 2:Insta. Insta's Like dang it, follow them, twitter, everything, whatever social media.
Speaker 4:you're with Whatever.
Speaker 1:No, but hold, because now I'm on you now. Because you say he has to have social media, let's say y'all both got high social media counter. Whatever, he has no problem. Friends, family, everybody know you exist. He shows you off and he says you know what, for my brand I'm not going post my girl. Is that okay with you?
Speaker 4:You got a new girl Good question, but like I've never been told that, Maybe you got to go.
Speaker 2:I kind of get it for like the brand Right.
Speaker 4:Like this is like almost like a business. I do feel like social media is a tool.
Speaker 2:It's a very useful tool.
Speaker 1:It is how you market?
Speaker 2:Barack Obama did not do that with Michelle. He's a president.
Speaker 4:Michelle, not that pretty, she's not that pretty, she's like a three.
Speaker 3:That's what money she is. She's like a three and that's what money has nothing to do with her complexion.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, so we all knew she dressed a little. Okay, all right.
Speaker 1:We are not about to sit here and Michelle Obama.
Speaker 2:I love her.
Speaker 4:I love her too. I love her.
Speaker 3:I love her. She just, she just ain't pretty, no, I never said that.
Speaker 2:I didn't want the clip to come from this Don't.
Speaker 1:Don't See he's just on. You know, I don't know Michelle.
Speaker 2:Obama's cute. She's pretty yeah.
Speaker 3:She wanted to say something totally different. She's, but women don't call other women ugly. So that's the whole thing behind that. But they be ugly.
Speaker 1:I don't even know the segue. I wasn't prepared for this.
Speaker 3:So we were talking about you. You have a man. Right, you said you have a man. I love the show.
Speaker 2:I love it. I was, I loved it, but that was.
Speaker 3:Joe Biden's marriage. Oh wow, is marriage overrated, underrated, I mean, cause you have a man Finally, are you single man?
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay, yeah, so she's perfect for this question, what it goes both ways, cause you got a boyfriend.
Speaker 3:But she just got unengaged. Hold on, you got yourself.
Speaker 2:Not left, she left, don't play.
Speaker 3:Oh boy, here we go. We're going to let her ride with Michelle Obama.
Speaker 4:We never know, it may play out like we still in communication, right. I just feel like it's ran its course. I don't, you know, I don't like to publicly yeah. Yeah, that part out there. But you know, I just feel like anytime it's forced it's overrated. You got to just let things happen the way it's supposed to happen.
Speaker 1:Cap.
Speaker 4:Right now.
Speaker 1:You supposed to fight for your relationship. I don't like what you mean, let it just play out.
Speaker 4:We don't fight enough.
Speaker 1:As long as you don't afford enough, they get. But you don't be like shit, we just whatever happened.
Speaker 2:Yeah, what you talking about.
Speaker 4:I didn't say that I didn't say that I feel that hard. Honestly, at this point I feel like if it's that hard, let it go.
Speaker 1:But how would that work? Let's say, you get married right and marriage is hard. You can be like let it go.
Speaker 4:I just want thing it is.
Speaker 1:That's why it's like I don't want my relationship to get hard in marriage.
Speaker 4:You should jump into right, which I feel like a lot of people do, especially being from the military. You see that all the time.
Speaker 1:Hell yeah.
Speaker 4:Money.
Speaker 2:That BH. It hit different Hit, don't it.
Speaker 4:But that's a stress, yes, Break up after two, five years either and then have a child that's in between Like it ain't right and obviously, if I have a child in between. Yeah.
Speaker 2:I've seen that too.
Speaker 3:So I don't want to get too far into your personal. Overrated, because that's why I was asked, because I want to get too far into your personal about why happened, or this than the third but you did say it could be overrated. I mean, it could be even one right, but when it comes to a naturally happening, or it's just being which we all call where we at we want to buy.
Speaker 3:It's underrated. Them right, Because? But do you work on it? Do you work on a relationship? What do you do? You have those conversations on. Those conversations are now forbidden, just wanted to be organic. Or you do have those conversations about are we going to get married? It's been a year and a half. Women will press that issue as they get older, like how much more do you need to know about a person until you're ready to go to the next level of being married?
Speaker 4:And you have a boyfriend Now.
Speaker 3:you broke off your engagement. He said that he break it off, or you broke it off, you broke it off, so there's no reason to job. Be friends, right.
Speaker 4:There's no reason for the pressure to be friends. I didn't expect to be this type of person. I don't want to raise my babies without father.
Speaker 3:I don't want to be like the parts Drake talked about.
Speaker 4:I don't want to be on bad terms with any of my exes, no matter how you know.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, no, find a dog.
Speaker 4:Somebody knows you like that you gotta. I don't know.
Speaker 2:No, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 1:Corgil you doing it for the dogs? No, Ali.
Speaker 4:I don't want to leave the dog. Don't speak on my baby.
Speaker 2:Those are her babies, though. No, for real, seriously.
Speaker 1:Some people really love them. How about you?
Speaker 2:I have two, but I don't like them.
Speaker 1:My co-host was saying I say you are, you and your boyfriend.
Speaker 2:Do you?
Speaker 1:press marriage as you get older, or you just really, as she said, let it go. All right, الج necky baby, you're back, daddy. Yes, that's a yes, got it.
Speaker 3:I mean because you've been in your relationship for some time. I'm not at the time.
Speaker 2:You don't know that Seven years. Seven years, uh-huh. Okay, we'll skip the merge part. Okay, because at this, point.
Speaker 3:You're what? What is the common law?
Speaker 1:No, if she was in Virginia, she would have been.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but even still, seven years now, is merge just a contract, like what's the impediment on?
Speaker 2:So I've seen that too, though, like in my family, like I've seen successful marriages.
Speaker 4:I mean, how much do you need to know?
Speaker 2:And I've seen partnerships and I've seen divorces, so I've seen everything, bad and good. I've had family members that have caught, like their spouses cheating and then ended up with a million dollars. I don't see a lot.
Speaker 3:Right, but seven years.
Speaker 2:So okay, but you could be married for 10 and still get cheated on. You know, it's just, it don't matter. Like, listen, the marriage is the paper. The loyalty is different. Gotcha, if you are married, that is the paper, that's the, that's just you going. You can go to the courthouse and get married. Like tomorrow, correct. Like, if you are in a relationship, go get married at the courthouse. Don't even waste your time on a wedding at this point, because I've seen like you could spend 100,000 on a wedding and then you'd be like, oh, how are you guys doing? And they're not married. No more Like they're. You know what I'm saying? You wasted all your luck trying to go, you know, travel to the wedding audit and they're not married anymore. And then you do have successful marriages and you have marriages that cover stuff. So the marriages, they are all look cool, look happy.
Speaker 3:Like the Will Smith and JD Right.
Speaker 2:They're really miserable. They're fucking other people, they're talking to other people. They're miserable. So it's like dude, what makes you happy? Yeah, go with the flow, do what you want to do, because that's a piece of paper. Your loyalty is something different. I'm a Virgo, so I'm really big on loyalty.
Speaker 3:So when you say, yeah, perry right. So when you say, just do what makes you happy.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 3:It makes you happy. You believe marriage is underrated, overrated. It could be even, or it depends on the situation.
Speaker 2:It's getting overrated, but I still want the white dress. Yeah, of course. If you really grew up that era of like princesses and Cinderella and stuff like that.
Speaker 3:You believe in marriage, you believe in wedding. So even when, so when we just to piggyback off, oh, just to ask a follow up, do you believe love is overrated or underrated?
Speaker 2:No, I believe love is always, I'm always, I'm always.
Speaker 3:All my questions are loaded, I'm loaded Like what is the middle?
Speaker 2:What's the middle?
Speaker 3:It's not overrated and underrated.
Speaker 2:I think it's neutral. I think it's good. I think love can always be found. I think that if you get a heartbreak you can re-love again. I believe love is always there. Like through my grieving process I was like finding a lot of love for my friends and my family that I sometimes reject as like just being so independent and just so like I'm cool, like I'm good, nothing's wrong with me but like I really appreciate it, the love at the time. So I think love that's not overrated at all. People can find a soft spot for somebody, even as a friendship relationship. You know what I'm saying, you can. I think love is not. I don't think no, that should never change. I think people should always have some type of heart for love.
Speaker 1:So I got a question from one of the viewers Okay that wanted to ask you that just now. Okay Said. We know you're in a relationship, but do you still harbor a soft spot for someone you used to date that you keep a secret from your current partner?
Speaker 2:No, because I actually you had a person in your mind when you thought about it.
Speaker 3:That's why she said that was a not him, no more.
Speaker 2:No like cause, like you know, you know who you dated and stuff like that. But like no, I, when I, when I'm in a relationship or just any relationship I'm with that person, like I can't piggyback into what John was doing, like I can't you know.
Speaker 4:I'm not bringing up a name
Speaker 1:but I'm just saying like I don't know why I just came up with that name.
Speaker 2:I don't even know who the fuck John is. Fuck it. You know what I'm saying, fuck a John. But I just feel like, yeah, no, I don't bring. You don't bring that into yet, you don't bring that into another relationship, and as a bad bitch and as an independent woman, as a business woman, you don't. So you don't do that.
Speaker 3:So when you say that you don't bring baggage into the next thing, I would just add to you, because what she's saying is more different from what you said. You say you don't want to be on bad terms with your exes. So that means you allow your exes to continue to be in your life throughout your life, because it ain't no bad term.
Speaker 2:He got some family reunion and shit. He still comes to the cookout.
Speaker 3:He got the dogs, bro, because you don't want to be on bad terms with your exes.
Speaker 4:I think that's necessarily the case. You know, there could be cases where it's like OK shit may hit the fan, but if I need this, you're going to come through for me. We may not ever talk besides that one time. We may not follow each other on socials, we may not text each other. It might have you blocked, but if I'm blocking, I'm like come get me now, you're going to come.
Speaker 1:That shit could only work with women.
Speaker 2:No, it don't.
Speaker 3:It only works with women with ugly men. It's just that, the need that we're still fucking.
Speaker 4:We still send each other hard eyes. You know, niggas don't do it with niggas, dude though, but like shoot and shoot. They are.
Speaker 3:I always so when I only when you say that I be thinking in my head when people be saying they got people that can just come back, like she said, I can block them and then unblock them and say come, people come. I be thinking like that guy got to be ugly like bullshit or something, because I don't know no guy that can obtain a certain type of woman that's going to go keep running back to that same type of woman without knowing he can get another woman the same way.
Speaker 4:That's not necessary. I'm back to her team.
Speaker 1:I'm not niggas.
Speaker 4:We talk about this. So this is the only reason why I'm communicating with you. It's like, okay, I want you to have a certain level of safety because you know we had a moment where we care for each other. We still make care for each other on some extent, and that you know that's normal, that's respectable.
Speaker 2:So my relationships, if I was, they just disappeared they rabble.
Speaker 4:They don't cross the line, so can a guy then now ask you the same thing.
Speaker 3:Even if you, it shouldn't mean to be a problem. If you in a relationship, you can, should be be able to be married five years in, and then one of your exes can hit you Cause they down and out and it's like yo, I really need you. Yo do all of a sudden, now you can do that Cause. To me that sounds like it's more disrespectful to the situation.
Speaker 4:I just, I, just, I just said John is dead. You know I love you. It's about us. This nigga just hit me up, he motherfucking.
Speaker 1:So you would tell you, you would tell your partner like hey, he hit it right from the airport, whatever, whatever he ain't got nobody else.
Speaker 4:It was never that serious or that serious.
Speaker 1:So you would talk to your partner first, right? Or you would just do it Okay. Thank God, yeah, but that's just respect.
Speaker 2:So that's different. That's really partners like that.
Speaker 1:but if your partner said, no, I'm not with it. The only part is that's like that is doing the same thing All right, okay, I got to respect my relationship.
Speaker 4:I can't get you like.
Speaker 3:So he should be entitled to be upset about that.
Speaker 4:See, that's what I'm saying. That's not something to be upset about. I talked to you about it. I didn't do this.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she talked to you about it. It don't matter what it is, no, no, I'm saying for the person who starts.
Speaker 2:So technically there's no jacket. Don't drag it.
Speaker 4:Obviously, if I was ahead and did it anywhere, I could see how it's going. Ali's a nigga, she's a nigga oh no, she's a nigga.
Speaker 1:She's a nigga.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying. Ali is what it is. That's what she wants.
Speaker 3:I'm glad you said something about she's just a nigga. What do women be meaning when they are like I'm just a nigga out here, I'm like a nigga. What do y'all be really meaning by that?
Speaker 1:What do y'all gauge against what do y'all gauge?
Speaker 3:against what a man is to say that a woman walking around saying I'm just that nigga. I'm a nigga on the street.
Speaker 2:She's a real lady, but it's giving. We have a you know what's that book thing like a man, act like a lady.
Speaker 3:That was a fake movie.
Speaker 1:And we talked about Steve Harvey. Yeah, there was a book.
Speaker 2:But, it's still a fake book, but did you read the book? I had no reason to. He's not open to new experiences, brother, he's not a woman, oh well I read it when I was in 12th grade and that was forever imprinted in me.
Speaker 3:So let's so the question again is what do women and since you, what do women mean by saying I'm a nigga? What does that mean? Think like a man, act like a lady.
Speaker 2:Just be mindful of what these men are out here trying to pull on you. Be mindful of the, the, the, the, the, the, the things that they're saying, like have your own stuff. Be independent. Don't let no man talk to you any time.
Speaker 4:That's called being an adult. No, that ain't got nothing to do with being an adult, that's called being an adult, but a lot of ladies don't have their own stuff.
Speaker 2:They like to.
Speaker 3:Because they're not adults, they dependents.
Speaker 2:Right, they like to be totally dependent on a man.
Speaker 3:That's not being an adult.
Speaker 2:That's. You could still be like. You know what I'm saying there's still some gold diggers out here. That is adult. What is thinking?
Speaker 1:about what is thinking like a man. So we gonna swing it, we gonna swing it. I got her. I already lined her up. What is thinking like a man, please.
Speaker 4:I don't. I look, I saw the movie. I ain't never read the book.
Speaker 1:You should read the book.
Speaker 4:Is it good? Yeah, I hear about the book. Y'all should read the book too, Me, harvey, your author Is a comedian that people are taking away too. Thank you.
Speaker 2:No, I really, I really want y'all to read the book.
Speaker 4:I don't care what y'all say, read the book, but you know he may have some gems, he is a nigga after the day he still do nigga shit.
Speaker 3:So here we go again. So let's add Hold on. So let's add I'm a dancing number five. What is some nigga shit?
Speaker 2:Why can't y'all just answer the question. I'm going to give 10.
Speaker 1:I really want to know what is some nigga shit.
Speaker 3:What's some nigga shit?
Speaker 1:Go ahead Both y'all.
Speaker 3:He's a nigga. He do nigga shit. Please answer these questions Y'all like I don't like those type of questions I got analyzed it and then nagged the answer.
Speaker 1:Because, that's what confused us. Now, though.
Speaker 3:So playing games, what else I just want to hear? Playing games, what else is a nigga shit Playing games?
Speaker 4:There ain't never no definition for us.
Speaker 3:Why do you?
Speaker 4:do me like that type shit yeah.
Speaker 3:And that's some nigga shit and that's some thinking like a man shit.
Speaker 2:To not play games.
Speaker 3:So being straight up, so, being straight up and being honest all the time, that's some woman shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because I tell the truth about that.
Speaker 1:You don't agree with this? I'm just making sure that he said he's being honest and up forward Some woman shit.
Speaker 2:I just hope the listeners is agreeing with me.
Speaker 3:You know man Period, because I only think I'd be thinking about when a woman say they want to be like a man or they a nigga out here. I wouldn't say that. It's just living a promiscuous lifestyle, right.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying. I didn't say I'd be like a nigga. I didn't say you are.
Speaker 3:I said this is what women be saying. Women be saying I'm a whole man out here. First of all Because they want to live a promiscuous lifestyle without being judged, because that's really what y'all call it, because y'all don't think we're being judged, or men are being judged for living a promiscuous lifestyle when they are being judged. So I'm trying to figure out what part about being a man.
Speaker 2:Do women be saying anything?
Speaker 3:I'm a whole nigga out here.
Speaker 1:I'm thinking like a man what's thinking like a man? She said something you said. You judge men off their previous bodies.
Speaker 2:Yeah, if you got to me, I'm not fucking with you, so what?
Speaker 1:the world. So what's the world you?
Speaker 2:can do it with women, why can't we do it with women? So what's the world If you as a community body is the same thing? So no Bullshit.
Speaker 1:So you saying before I met, you existed in my entire goddamn life. I wasn't supposed to be out here having any type of fun, but what type?
Speaker 4:of fun, I can't believe you even existed and entertained people before me.
Speaker 2:That's just telling you at this point like you need to be peer Period Fuck, no.
Speaker 3:So when it comes to looks right, she people date and they own looks bracket, or should they date in a financial bracket? Damn I don't think it's a personal choice, because most people that look good they always mess with somebody that don't look good, can I?
Speaker 4:ask you a question.
Speaker 3:That's not fair, though Look at all the same. Can I ask you a question?
Speaker 2:Just man to man right now. What you mean this is just not working.
Speaker 1:It's another tip right there.
Speaker 2:All right, don't worry.
Speaker 3:Man to man.
Speaker 1:Let's say we got the bread right. Cool. As men, are we even focused on the woman's money? We're not. If we are financially really really good, I don't care what money you have. I need you to be pretty now. I've never focused on the woman's money.
Speaker 2:I need you to get your money.
Speaker 4:I don't care what you got you need to get your reverse gold diggers now you think you got a man with money.
Speaker 2:This man with money thing is playing with you. I swear Like, yeah, no, you need to get your money.
Speaker 3:I'm shallow, so you got to look good and always look good. If we together right now and I first meet you and you look one way and six months down the line you gain 25 pounds, I'm likely not to mess with you no more. That's how shallow I am.
Speaker 4:I'm shallow.
Speaker 3:I mean no because that's what I'm.
Speaker 2:I mean, that's real, though. I mean, why are you not going to say anything on the woman's money.
Speaker 3:25 pounds on the woman's body is insane. No, I'm shallow, make your clip.
Speaker 1:But you saying 25 pounds on a woman is insane. Gain a 25. Yes.
Speaker 3:You see a woman gain 25 pounds in three to six months, bro. I'm telling you, that's a whole number.
Speaker 1:Judging you, bro because you can't just go from zero to 25. You seen what she gained five, what you gained 11.
Speaker 3:What you gain, four shit.
Speaker 1:What the fuck was you?
Speaker 2:doing.
Speaker 4:No, that's a fact, bro. You learned her gain at 25.
Speaker 1:You see how getting big was like. You ain't saying babe, let's go to the gym. You ain't saying nothing.
Speaker 2:You said, let's go get another two-piece, that's insane Wait wait, wait, wait, you in the neighborhood Once again.
Speaker 3:Y'all just missed the whole thing. That's normal. That's normal. You missed the entire thing. I literally just said I'm shallow to. If that was to happen, I'm likely to not even mess with you, no more. There's no gradual growth in you seeing the growth of five. There's gradual growth. What the?
Speaker 1:fuck.
Speaker 3:How you going from zero on Monday and 25 on Tuesday? No, because you don't get a double chin until you get 25 pounds. So you seen her when she was more on the double chin.
Speaker 3:No, no, no. You don't see the double chin. Until you get to that weight lift, you ain't shit. And now I know it, I'm telling you like literally, that's did-ass what it is. So I don't even look at your financial status. I can be smart for both of us, so you can be dumb as a door-nord, turn left twice. This is saying but you gotta look good, because I can't look good for both of us and I understand you're shallow.
Speaker 3:I cannot look good for both of us. I can't walk down the street and think that I'm a representation of both of us and you're not a character.
Speaker 4:That's a shame You're here to the floor. Shit. Hold on Ali, go ahead Everybody. You had no change for her.
Speaker 3:No, she better be strikingly beautiful to everybody. Y'all borderline, y'all borderline.
Speaker 2:Like y'all want to win, but everybody's not going to think she's pretty much a bitch. See, once again, here we go again. Here we go again.
Speaker 3:There's a general look that is just like amongst the world. It really is so. Calling somebody ugly, it is ugly people in the world. It is a lot of ugly people in the world that's not liked by the general public physically. What's wrong with?
Speaker 2:physically. What is wrong with him?
Speaker 3:That's a fact. Who's man, Ali, you looking at?
Speaker 1:him check this Nick.
Speaker 4:How I said what.
Speaker 1:I said he's a fact. What do you want?
Speaker 2:me to do. I can't change his mind.
Speaker 3:Hold on, so you're going to tell me there's no ugly people in the world.
Speaker 1:Okay, now hold on, come on, cut it out, cut the shit.
Speaker 4:Hold on, because I'm right now. I'm just saying what I'm saying with you.
Speaker 3:Y'all are telling me there is no ugly people in the world, but we can't say that G so every guy that shot his shot at even one of y'all. Oh he was cute. Oh my fault. Let's remove the cute. He was handsome.
Speaker 4:He just wasn't my type. He was handsome, he just wasn't my type I'm out of here.
Speaker 3:That don't even make sense.
Speaker 4:That's not even reality. He's not out of here, right, right.
Speaker 2:Because you don't want to hurt his feelings. To say that you're ugly, that's a lot of the attractive men Like oh, the attractive men.
Speaker 4:I'm like, wow, he's handsome.
Speaker 3:Chicks will not shoot. They shot at me. If they're not on my level, don't shoot your shot at me. Don't shoot your shot at me. You know you're not Like. You're playing in the wrong. You're playing in the wrong game. I'm going to make a lead.
Speaker 4:It's almost too much.
Speaker 2:Like you're too corny it ain't that he's corny. He's too cute for what you used to.
Speaker 4:No, you're not. You used to a mediocre motherfucker, I swear I'm not the guy. Don't pass nigga like oh my God, that's too much. I'm a handsome man, you know.
Speaker 1:So there's a certain thing, there's too handsome Don't say nunchie, there's too handsome.
Speaker 4:I think there's too handsome Because you used to mess with mediocre. No, it's like a specific type of handsome. So when he got the glowing, skin and all that you just like that's too much.
Speaker 1:He's a complete straight man.
Speaker 4:The lips are too moisturized. I'm kind of looking at you a little sideways, Like you in.
Speaker 2:MAC or something God forbid. You take care of yourself.
Speaker 1:God fucking forbid. That's why we're asking them questions.
Speaker 3:Let me go to the mixing.
Speaker 4:Yes, if you want to go get manicures and all that don't look at my goddamn hands, because your hands are too cute. I know a lot of bitches love that and I love clean hands.
Speaker 2:Like do you get jail or regular? I think I just like that.
Speaker 1:So you're like rough, rugged niggas.
Speaker 4:Just a little. You can't be dirty, you can't be like raggedy. I have a little bit of that.
Speaker 1:So he can't own a suit Come on now, no you can have the suit.
Speaker 2:I love a man in the suit.
Speaker 4:That's actually like they have the gun next to it.
Speaker 3:That's like Moe County Bullshit. So again, to me it sound like people are dating mediocre. You're dating below what your attraction level is, so you can have an advantage over the person. That literally, is how we go. That's what it sound like, because who wouldn't want to date somebody that's attractive to everybody? If men and women and animals don't, it's not into my woman. That ain't the woman for me. All of them the same way. Animals run up to or babies run up to people because babies can sense good energy.
Speaker 4:Babies run up to Dugs can sense good energy.
Speaker 3:Right. So if an animal don't run up to you a duck Like if a duck don't like, don't want to bump, and they just want to get rubbed doing by you.
Speaker 1:So I got to run an experiment. That's a cat.
Speaker 3:So this is my experiment for you, right?
Speaker 1:Are you saying right now you're attracted Right?
Speaker 3:What? Okay Now, okay Now hold on.
Speaker 1:Now hold on, Hold on. I'm with you. Follow this. So let's say, let's say you find a woman If you find a woman. Focus.
Speaker 4:Focus.
Speaker 1:Let's say, you find a woman that you see is attractive, right, like you deem her attractive, and then she finds you and she says you're not attractive. Does that demean how she looks or how you look? How are you still attracted, like you find the one you like?
Speaker 3:damn she cute. If a female tell me that I'm attracted to that, she's not attracted to me, right? How?
Speaker 1:do you feel now, cuz, now you're not attractive? No more.
Speaker 3:I still feel the same way. She used to mediocre. She used to a mediocre man. Literally.
Speaker 2:That's literally how I feel driving me in fame, because I average man, a below average man like you average, below average man to you how many men you seem.
Speaker 3:Look like me. You ain't seen that many, and that's a fact.
Speaker 1:We ain't even gonna see this motherfucker, you go to your whole file words go through your whole file list.
Speaker 3:I promise you go to your whole. That mean you follow damn drink.
Speaker 2:Just tell me what you felt a little like me. I want to know what do you? I just told you I literally you're above the average way, above anything below you is but we got to ask the women do y'all believe he's above the average y'all to y'all attractive model women.
Speaker 1:Do y'all believe he's above that?
Speaker 3:that's fine she has a man remember whenever, whenever you listen the ideas, whenever you're confident you not really confident, you don't have real, genuine question. It's given average just made it to average, like baby, it's a five.
Speaker 1:If it's one, you from Oak County listen.
Speaker 2:Okay, I would say ab, I can't, I don't know you to go look at him.
Speaker 3:We talk about physically, a physical purse, we only, we talk about you can't tell somebody soul and all that we go physical plane.
Speaker 1:I think you've already answered. Did you find him somewhere to try?
Speaker 2:no, it's average, but it's like a. I thought now I didn't read you please average start out of six.
Speaker 3:I would rather a person tell me how they really do it, because then my follow-up is it show me what's better than me. Show me what's better than me. That if you're gonna say that I'm just average and I'm just meeting the average criteria, please show me something I can show what I would say is above your pretty or above your pretty, I can show you right now, if I say your average, you, should be to say well, what's better than me? I can show you what I would deem better.
Speaker 4:I'm not and I'm not gonna say that's what I agree with you. There's something I look at your better and be like I'll show you, but I but that just goes off of what I said.
Speaker 2:They're like there's somebody that is, or what she said, there's somebody for everybody like which you're attracted to. You might not be attracted to me, but when we be attracted to, you might not be attracted to her. We don't say it just doesn't matter it actually, it does matter because, because I'll be a reason why I'm at.
Speaker 3:I'll be a reason why man, the most people you gonna see on commercials, anything that the public eyes gonna see.
Speaker 2:My friends, a general look.
Speaker 3:I just told you that's how they did. They gonna have the advantage over the ugly man bar for women attractive good man and okay, and then they be gay. We're gonna talk about it because now you and other variables that make me even more higher than the average, because you just now said, yeah, they be fine, but then they be gay and then they don't be having all this okay, so what are we talking about? That what?
Speaker 4:are we talking about? That's what we were talking about. Just because they gay, doesn't like to get the fact that they that's why I keep saying don't add the other variables.
Speaker 3:If the variables is all these other things, then again all the looks alone right average would be what the consensus averages the consensus. Then you gotta find me somebody that's better than me physically. That's the case, because I can say the same thing average at best and I can show you something.
Speaker 2:No no, no, I'm talking about generally aroma.
Speaker 3:So so what's that?
Speaker 4:Bernie's.
Speaker 3:Burgos, bernie's Burgos, bernie's Burgos, bernie's Burgos. Who?
Speaker 2:oh, bernie's Burgos, yeah well, she's attractive, right.
Speaker 3:Well, she pretty or she gorgeous, anything right she's gorgeous she's above average right.
Speaker 2:I don't know what about see, that's okay, those terms is bothering why because I know it's because that's not. We're not in school, so we're not grading a paper, okay, so we're talking about people. You, great, you're talking about. You're talking about she's them, she's, she's attractive she's sex.
Speaker 3:I don't see her ass okay.
Speaker 2:So sexuality wise, she's fine. She got a nice body, she's. You know she's dark skin. I love a dark skin, you know, lady, they're pretty, like love the brown skin. Complexion okay. But what else does she bring to the table? I don't know. So, when it comes down to it, would that be a choice of mine if I was a man, or if I was a lesbian? I don't know, because I don't know what she brings. You know, if she just bring an ass to cities, I don't want that I mean that's.
Speaker 4:Am I backwards enough for you?
Speaker 3:we was it? No, no, I would. That's. All I was talking about was looks. We not talking about any of these other verboms, because you don't, you can't really tell what nobody bring until you really get with them. Right, you don't. But before you get with them they got to look what a certain type way before you can even learn what the soul is, before you can learn with the person it is your statement.
Speaker 2:Go ahead.
Speaker 3:You break those effects though, right yeah cuz you don't see a person so soon as they run up to you yo what's up, right I?
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Speaker 1:need people to know what is something that you wanted to say before you exit the vibes, anything you want to say to your people.
Speaker 2:I want to say that everybody can be great.
Speaker 2:No, seriously just let him know his ugly people in the world don't listen to him, and no, I want just to say I'm grateful to be here and thank you guys for giving me this opportunity. If you guys need business help, business management, I do have a business consulting firm so I help with LLCs, grants, funding via minority business owner today. I believe in black excellence, I believe in striving for better, I believe in making people successful. So follow me, support me, get my cookbook, the Virgo souls, out now. And, yeah, just stay blessed and do y'all and do y'all.
Speaker 1:You're like you wanted yeah, ali what you got for the people.
Speaker 4:I just want to say thank y'all for coming on.
Speaker 3:I didn't know you was coming there first. Thank you for coming on to being a part of the show. It's always a vibes on the vibes chilling. With the vibes we might go party yeah, maybe the book next time when you come make sure you cook on set, if you can. It's ways of cooking on set right as a chef right you need a kitchen.
Speaker 3:No, you can't use like a McGriddle or something like that. Oh, like a George farmer. Yeah, so as a chef, as a publisher, I appreciate you. Right, content creators. Hopefully we can make some more content later on.
Speaker 2:Whatever that, yeah, appreciate oh, make sure y'all see the outfit. I'm tired of going to restaurant they not?
Speaker 1:you do soul food cooking be.
Speaker 2:I'm so tired, but yeah, I'll get some seasoning, get my season coming out.
Speaker 1:So that's how you plug your shit, right and that's for my, for me, for my closing remarks. Thank you for coming and driving and driving. We get a closer studio for you.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna come back they do have it they do have in the audible copy so you can get. It is the Virgo soul dot com. Again, it's on there as well. Shipping is on high demand right now, so go ahead and place your order while you can, because it just went to high demand so it might be about two weeks, three weeks right now.
Speaker 2:So you get get your orders on, yeah, but go support. And this is me for real. This is how I came up. This is a southern cookbook. It got cakes, it got dessert, it got everything you need. I don't I didn't want to do like no artificial picture. I'm just giving y'all straight recipes, directions, history and how to make the food. Alley got one. Yeah, and thanks again.
Speaker 3:Thanks for chilling on the vibes oh, I love this back.
Speaker 2:I'm reading this thank you, this is really dedicated to your grandmother yes, I really did this. Like you know you, you know I, I didn't have stopped putting my daughter in there. Okay, you're gonna read it. You know you could read it, I got my smoke collet brains, other Cali batch.
Speaker 1:What is this stuff? Salmon fish fried you have Sam. Sam. She's talking about Nana cheese and cracker grits right now.
Speaker 2:It's Sam got homemade cake, so everything's from scratch with the cakes. Um, you, can, you. I prefer you guys, you swan cake mix, but yeah, everything is homemade in there. So if you want to learn how to bake cake, go ahead and get the book. And it's real southern, like Hillsborough, north Carolina. That's where we originated from.
Speaker 3:So yeah, it's real southern, like Bojangles cook out to cook out you know Texas.
Speaker 2:I like Texas food. They don't got like food like that in the DMV.
Speaker 1:You know, she from Texas. You just gonna say that.
Speaker 2:I love the Texas food. All right, it's just was greasy, but I like I will, I will but everything was like overly greasy sometimes, like I just wanted to be right, like I'm just used, like my grandmother put her love and so in it, like you gonna make so cool, you gotta put your heart in it don't be going into the kitchen, like, if you gotta be naked to cook, be naked to cook, but put your whole heart into it like don't that's what I actually.
Speaker 3:Yeah, parts you do that. Oh, I got something to react to. Here you are. Guys, wait to get on another lovely episode of Vy's podcast man.
Speaker 1:Check out this amazing book. I'ma say it without looking at it, virgo. So cookbook shout out, check this out. The link is gonna be in the bottom. Support this minority business cuz.
Speaker 3:I want black black, black black woman people thought you Asian nothing looks Asian about her.
Speaker 2:I'm definitely black.
Speaker 4:I have Trini and me I have.
Speaker 2:Native American and I have a little bit that was my volcano white look, I put a little bit.
Speaker 1:Spanish, you know my gun recouch you know. All right, finally go get the fuck out of here. Shout out to the Vy's podcast man. Check out this amazing book and check us out on the next one. Thank you guys for all coming yes, the Virgo.
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