Have you ever stumbled into a swingers party with your mom? Yeah, neither had I, until one fateful mix-up that had us both blushing and the beads flying. Join me, Sir Marvelous, with my hilarious sidekick Woo Woo and the ever-so-tall Tippi Tall Girl, as we share side-splitting stories and tear down the walls of sexual norms. We're not just here to make you laugh; we're here to enlighten, as we traverse the rich landscape of human sexuality and its many facets.
Together with special guests like the insightful Cece, we peel back the layers on topics like the power play of BDSM relationships, the significance of collars, and the electrifying dance between pain and pleasure. From the art of flogging to the importance of toy hygiene, we're tackling it all. It's not all whips and chains though; we'll also get into the nitty-gritty of sexercises—yes, they're exactly what they sound like—and how staying fit can spice up your sex life. Our conversation is a candid dive into how personal confidence blooms in sexual dynamics and why understanding your desires can lead not just to better sex, but a more empowered life.
So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?) for a journey of laughter, learning, and a bit of the unexpected. We're pushing boundaries, challenging perceptions, and inviting you to open your mind and maybe even your bedroom to new possibilities. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or simply kink-curious, this episode is your ticket to a world where communication reigns supreme, and satisfaction comes in many forms. Trust me; you don't want to miss the story about the swingers' bead system.
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Have you ever stumbled into a swingers party with your mom? Yeah, neither had I, until one fateful mix-up that had us both blushing and the beads flying. Join me, Sir Marvelous, with my hilarious sidekick Woo Woo and the ever-so-tall Tippi Tall Girl, as we share side-splitting stories and tear down the walls of sexual norms. We're not just here to make you laugh; we're here to enlighten, as we traverse the rich landscape of human sexuality and its many facets.
Together with special guests like the insightful Cece, we peel back the layers on topics like the power play of BDSM relationships, the significance of collars, and the electrifying dance between pain and pleasure. From the art of flogging to the importance of toy hygiene, we're tackling it all. It's not all whips and chains though; we'll also get into the nitty-gritty of sexercises—yes, they're exactly what they sound like—and how staying fit can spice up your sex life. Our conversation is a candid dive into how personal confidence blooms in sexual dynamics and why understanding your desires can lead not just to better sex, but a more empowered life.
So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?) for a journey of laughter, learning, and a bit of the unexpected. We're pushing boundaries, challenging perceptions, and inviting you to open your mind and maybe even your bedroom to new possibilities. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or simply kink-curious, this episode is your ticket to a world where communication reigns supreme, and satisfaction comes in many forms. Trust me; you don't want to miss the story about the swingers' bead system.
This show is sponsored by @bubbledgalorme #1 soap lady of the dmv
“Nourish the skin you're in”
Experience the Transformative Magic of Natural Ingredients for a Radiant and Nourished You
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I watched a video where a girl said she did whatever with him and she did bust another. Then she said it was no penetration. But she bust another and I can't penetrate for eight weeks. So how are we busting this nut? Let's talk about it, I don't know. Like, let's figure this bust a nut part out. Oh my God, that's crazy. The wife who didn't know who she married Girl.
Speaker 2:Hey, what's going on? It's Sir Marvelous here, your favorite kinky coach and professional dominant. We just finished filming with Vibes Podcast. We had an amazing time. Make sure you check it out. And don't forget to check out Barbies and Brushes. April 22nd, my man's doing his first event. You don't want to miss it.
Speaker 3:Woo, all right, and we back you. Ain't seen the first time. We're going to do it a second. This, your boy 2, double King, your favorite Leo, and I'm here with the new name King of Kinks. I'm going to let him talk about that in in the comedy. No, it's not a comedy, it's a drama.
Speaker 1:But it's funny. That's the crazy part, you see that in the drama.
Speaker 3:She got friends everywhere, shows everywhere and we got the tall one herself. It's hippie, but I'm going to let them introduce themselves Kink.
Speaker 2:Hey, what's going on? I am Sir Marvelous, sir Marvelous, I am a professional dominant. I favorite kinky coach and consultant.
Speaker 3:Oh goddamn.
Speaker 2:So you're going to learn a lot today, so I'm hoping you stay tuned.
Speaker 1:Go ahead. Oh well, I am your girl, woo Woo, the Comedian straight out of Baltimore. I'm your leading lady, my first leading role in a movie called the Wife who Did Not Know who she Married. Shout out to my boy, alvin Gray, that put it together. Yeah, I'm on tour as well.
Speaker 3:Always is.
Speaker 1:Yes, with my brother Dern Fleet. Follow me and you will see where I'm going to be, you can see me live. You can see me online.
Speaker 3:You're going to see me. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1:Hey why wouldn't I? I'm trying to sell me. Well, look, I'm T, hey, why wouldn't?
Speaker 4:I. I'm trying to sell me. Well look, I'm Tippi Tall Girl. I'm also known as Just Put the Tip In the big one, not the small one. I also have a small local movie out on YouTube Shout out to Smooth. Yes, it's called A TV Movie, but it's not a TV movie.
Speaker 3:Y'all going to respect TV like this?
Speaker 4:Put some respect on it.
Speaker 2:Put some respect on it.
Speaker 4:I'm about to say I'm also a comedian, partially traveling super local, and I'm also the reigning 2003 twerk champion from Yass Choppa style Daytona.
Speaker 3:So put some respect on my name, Okay.
Speaker 4:I'm too young. Alright, alright, choppa style.
Speaker 3:This is the type of show we're having. So, sir, let's get right into it. You are from New York City. What borough I'm from the Bronx. You're from the Bronx, yeah. So what got you into this? Because you only wear a suit. Now, that's how I know you're making money. So what got you?
Speaker 2:into this. So long story short, I've always had an interest in sex toys since I was young and I started dabbling into the swing community actually, and I went to a couple of swing parties to kind of find the parties that would work best for me, and I was blessed to stumble across a party that actually had a kink component to it. So it was a hotel takeover. Shout out to Missy King Travels. She's one of the hosts of many different swing parties and things like that and she actually had a professional dominant there. He goes by Sir Daniel, who's actually based out of Baltimore.
Speaker 3:I know exactly who he is.
Speaker 4:I know who that is too. We'll tell you.
Speaker 1:I did comedy for a swinger show.
Speaker 4:We did it together. So when I first tell, you, I did comedy for a swinger show.
Speaker 1:We did it together and so when I first met him, I did it together. No homo, it's like no. So we did it in Jersey. Once I came to Jersey did the comedy show met him actually. Let him, you know, sign me up pop pop. Yeah, we did a little pop pop. We did that, and then they did one in Baltimore and she came and we did a comedy show for them.
Speaker 4:And I spent the night. But respect I did not?
Speaker 1:I love.
Speaker 2:You spent the night I did so. That was actually my first time. I'm trying to bail her out, ain't nothing wrong with it. You spent the night I did so. That was actually my first time.
Speaker 4:We just going to slap. I'm trying to bail her out. I'm trying to bail her out.
Speaker 2:Ain't nothing wrong with it, I'm just playing though, but that was my first time seeing a professional dominant do kink in that particular way and a lot of what he was using. That day I was like man, I actually have a lot of that stuff at home. I never really thought to bring my gear to a swing party or whatnot. I wasn't in my gear and of course he had some things that were specifically kink-related that.
Speaker 2:I wasn't familiar with at that moment. At the moment I would probably define myself more of a freak or just open-minded. I look at the difference between just a regular freaky person and a kink as the freak is just open or down to do things. Kinks wants to understand it. Like kinksters we want to understand it we want to learn. We take a nerdy approach to things you know. And oh, you put a twist on this Okay.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so it's not much of a difference. You'll be surprised. I always try to show people between what they already do and some of the kink terminology that goes along with it. So you know, once you understand that it kind of opens up Pandora's box and you realize that the bridge from where you are to where you could be is not that far. You know.
Speaker 4:I tell people that all the time, all the time, yeah, I tell people I don't yuck anybody's yum. You know what I mean. Whatever it takes to get the man I'm dating to where he needs to go, I'm open-minded, that's why you spent the night.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4:The way that I kind of got into. It was a little different. Like I braided hair since I was 12. So like I used to sit there and braid people's hair and listen to them, they would tell me you know, you build like a bond.
Speaker 4:They tell you all the things that they like, the stuff they've been through. How many men have had situations and now they like certain things? And, to be honest with you, by the time I got to college I kind of just looked at it like it's a spectrum all the way around. Yes, when I told you I have seen it all and I've never used a toy in my entire life, right, so I feel like I get that my orgasms are a little different. Like you know what I mean, I have all natural orgasms. I've never touched anything other than you know, oh well, that's different.
Speaker 2:I mean so, okay, that's good, that is beautiful, and is that because you're not open to it or you just go where you are? I feel like that's so intense.
Speaker 4:What is the purpose of it?
Speaker 1:I don't want to, so you feel like you don't need it.
Speaker 4:I've never pushed a child.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean I have kids, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:I just feel like we were just talking about hysterectomies.
Speaker 5:You know, but remember, I'm about to say it.
Speaker 4:Me and she talked about that. You know having a childish vagina. They took you know they cut it down a little bit. Now I'm like I'm not messing that up.
Speaker 3:You know what I?
Speaker 4:mean.
Speaker 2:So you freehand. I'm glad that you actually did say something about desensitizing, because that is something that a lot of people think can happen, but the reality is that it's a myth, you know.
Speaker 4:Let me know I'm here to learn. It is a myth. I just want to know about?
Speaker 1:like the like you said it's a knowledgeable part. Like, so, what is like the kink thing? Like so, do you know? Like, do you automatically know? Or you know a way to figure out what is the thing that turns a woman on or what is the thing that makes them?
Speaker 2:I think I understand what you're trying to ask, yeah, so, um, one thing that I do to when I'm working with someone for the very first time is I give them something that's called a kink quiz or a kink questionnaire.
Speaker 3:King of kink. Okay, doing homework.
Speaker 2:It asks them a bunch of different questions and at the end of that quiz we go over those answers together and then I help point them to the umbrella term that may fall like. Whatever they're interested may fall under. So, for example, something I speak a lot about is like if you're a woman that likes to be choked in a bedroom, you might be into asphyxiation play.
Speaker 2:If you are a woman that likes to close her eyes while making love, you might be open to sensory deprivation things that I did that one so there's so many different examples of things that we do in our day-to-day experience not day-to-day experience, not day-to-day, but our intimate experiences that actually fall under a bigger umbrella.
Speaker 1:And it's more things that you can try than bow-bow.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 4:I like that so you have something on your page.
Speaker 3:People can subscribe to you. What is the subscription?
Speaker 2:that you have. So I have a lawyer fans, and on my lawyer fans I give some examples of some of the explicit, more explicit things that I have. So I have a loyal fans, and on my loyal fans I give some examples of some of the explicit, more explicit things that I do. Because I can use all the fancy words in the world, but until you see what it is that I do in action, it's hard to believe it. And even when you see it, a lot of people be like, well, I probably couldn't feel that way, or I probably couldn't do, but then when you feel it it's a whole other thing.
Speaker 2:So it's layers to the experience of getting in those, sir Marvelous.
Speaker 1:Don't knock it till you. Try so, since we're already here.
Speaker 3:I guess I should ask what was when you said you went to this swingers party and you clearly determined there's a difference between freaks and kinks. Yes, what is your kink?
Speaker 2:So that's a good one. I like being underestimated, you know. I think that's the biggest thing I'm still a man.
Speaker 2:Prior to being a professional dominant. I think that I, like many of us, I struggled with confidence in different ways and I felt like I was trying to overcompensate in different ways and I would go after women that for some reason, I don't believe anybody's out of anyone's league now that I know what I know now. But I would aim for the women that I assumed were out of my league and the whole idea was I wanted to surprise them with what I knew in the bedroom.
Speaker 2:Make them stay with the dick, so that actually evolved into a bigger kink. So now most people have an expectation or understanding that I know what it is that I know. But it's still a surprising factor, because they're like damn. I didn't know it would be like this. You know what I'm saying. So I would say that my biggest kink now is not only the idea of surprising somebody with, giving them a safe and, you know, consensual experience, but also just a safe place to exist.
Speaker 2:You know, so many people have thoughts and desires and ideas and questions that they want to speak about and they just don't have anyone to bring it to Right, you know. So the idea that I can help, you can help bridge that gap between what you want to know and where you are now, is like that's it for me.
Speaker 3:I'm sorry you raised your hand, like we in school.
Speaker 1:I know because I don't want to cut nobody off but I love that you said that, because that's a major thing, especially with women Safety Feeling safe or feeling secure really is what it is For me. My greatest sexual experience has been with men who I feel secure around. I feel like he like all of these roles.
Speaker 3:He's with this shit, you know what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying it's something about that and just feeling totally secure, where you can let loose and let it go, you know, and be down with whatever. So, like, I think that's a very important factor the safety and the security.
Speaker 2:And I like how what you mentioned went beyond just the physical safety part, like that's probably the easiest part to understand on the other side looking in. But the harder part of understanding safety is, like you mentioned, providing security on a on a non-tangible level, letting a person know that like if you share something with me, I'm not going to judge you I'm not going to make you feel crazy if something were to occur while we're engaging.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to make you feel embarrassed or anything like and, like you said, I'm not going to yuck your yum right and a lot of people don't realize how much further they can get as far as connecting with one another if they just started to have open conversations. So I had a client the other day that was like you know, man, I just wish that, um, you know her, her partner would be more open to that. And she was like, oh, I'm dating a jamaican man.
Speaker 3:He's real close. You know, that's not happening, you see?
Speaker 2:but the reality is, is that, like, just because we have these traditions or ways of thinking that has been in place for so long don't mean that they're correct? And it doesn't mean that kink has to be for everyone, but the idea of creating a safe space for your partner to speak should be for everyone, right. Should be for everyone, right, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:So that's why I brought up the whole fact that both my parents in the military, so my mom is very submissive, even though she's an alpha female. So, watching them and knowing that they have sex every day, they don't watch me. But, to be honest with you, when I got married I was married 18 years I thought that sex was what you were supposed to do every day. And then when I told my homegirls that I had sex every day, they were like why would you do that?
Speaker 5:That's like a job. Every day is crazy, no matter what we did.
Speaker 4:Look, we ain't wait after kids, we ain't wait after nothing and, to be honest with you, I feel like that's the. It was like one of those things that prolonged our situation.
Speaker 5:Yeah.
Speaker 4:So now that I'm out of that situation, I met somebody that was very like I said he was dominant. He was open to other things, right my thing, is it's like if you become a safe space for a man. I it's like for me. I've allowed men to do probably almost anything to me, like one of my friends. She would be like, oh, so wanted me just to just sit in the corner until he got there. You know what I mean.
Speaker 3:Like I'm talking about in the dark, just sit in the corner until he got there.
Speaker 4:How long it took right, so she's like oh so you just crawled around the house like the ring and stuff right, right, but that's what turns him on? Let leave the door open, whatever you know, whenever he got there. That's what hey you guys.
Speaker 3:You had said something and both of you have said something before the show started. You're dumb and you said you are sub. I think a lot of people don't understand really what that dynamic is.
Speaker 4:So y'all two actually I mean, he's a professional, he can start.
Speaker 2:So my definition um tends to be a little bit different than what people may read online um, but it also can relate to a lot more people when they understand it right. I believe that having a dominant trait or having a dominant personality, is more about having or being willing to take that leadership role as it relates to taking the initiative in the bedroom. So there are many different ways that you can be dominant, right. So there are many different ways that you can be dominant, right. It could be you know all throughout your relationship. You know whether it be in the bedroom or outside of the bedroom, or it could just be specifically for those times that are in the bedroom. The majority of us don't want to be dominated our entire lives. You know what I'm saying. You want to still be able to be the both-sides bitch that you are when you go out there and you kill it out on the screen and on the stage and all of that.
Speaker 2:But when you get home, you want to know that you're with somebody that makes you feel safe, that you can take that hat off and you can say babe, what do you need me to do? Because they're also going to give you what you need in the process of you serving them.
Speaker 4:Right.
Speaker 2:And one of the biggest things is women a lot of women, not all women you know a lot of women don't want to have to take control in a bedroom, they just kind of want a man that's going to be inquisitive enough to find out what it is that they love and what they enjoy, and be able to incorporate those things.
Speaker 3:You're making me feel bad about myself.
Speaker 1:Yes, because we don't. We want the man, and even with like, let me tell y'all, tell them, me tell y'all, tell them, because if a woman, allow you to be in an intimate space with her like come over and whatever, whatever she dtf, okay, she down for it.
Speaker 1:She wants to go right she wants to go, but she does not want to be the person to initiate it, like I. I know that's how I am. I'm going to say that I might, because you know I just want to hide my hoe, like I want to be a whore.
Speaker 2:You want to feel pursued. Yeah, I want to feel like just outside.
Speaker 1:I want to hide my whore, like I like to hide my whore a little bit. So I'll say like hey, you know, come over, you know what I'm saying. I'm going to put on my little toot, toot, toot. You know I'm going to look cute for you, but I want you to pursue the coochie, pursue the coochie.
Speaker 3:A lot of men don't know if you're trying to throw the coochie, so they'll lose. Shy sometimes.
Speaker 1:If you guaranteed, if you come over that girl's house of residence, okay, your place of residence. If you come over my place of residence more than like I'm going to you, I trust you to come to my house. I trust you to have a piece of coochie.
Speaker 4:Trust and believe you speaking from a respectful side of it. Because this is Baltimore. Come on now, I'm a well, some people, just you know.
Speaker 5:I was going to say that it is.
Speaker 1:If you let somebody come over you down for it, let me say I feel like I'm a little different.
Speaker 4:I feel like I meet you where you are. So, I feel like my. I guess being a sub is like this For me I release my power. You know what I?
Speaker 2:mean Once you've trusted him.
Speaker 4:And it's a certain level of trust. I don't my heart is not in my vagina. I feel like you know a lot of women. They want to have some type of connection.
Speaker 1:They want to have it for themselves.
Speaker 4:The way.
Speaker 1:I feel about sex.
Speaker 2:You need to know the difference. Yes, it is the difference. I love that you say that. I wish you could put that on.
Speaker 1:That is you should, before he does it, I will. My heart is not my vagina. My heart is not my vagina.
Speaker 4:That's real life, and people make it seem as though women have to be emotionally connected to sex and I'm not, we don't Again the way that I learn.
Speaker 3:Y'all bringing that stigma because as a man, not the professional, he a professional, yeah, so just as a regular man. We do think that at times, but remember what I said On that last podcast.
Speaker 4:When you know Everybody was fawning over Miss Bubbles, who was beautiful. Shout out to Bubbles, don't you do it. I mean no, but you know what I said. I said that she is the type of woman that men want to take pictures with, but I'm the one they want to fuck Because, at the end of the day, my sexuality is a lot Different from hers you gonna be down for. I mean, it's not that I'm down for whatever, but if you are the one that I connect with, it's whatever.
Speaker 5:You know what I mean.
Speaker 4:If you are the one that I connect with, but again, it is power and releasing your power, I feel like that. I mean, of course people have like safe words, things of that sort. I don't even think I've ever used one before I mean, I guess, if I stop breathing, stop nigga.
Speaker 4:I'm sorry, damn, but it's not really like that. I feel like you know people like I said, being married, why am I telling my husband no For what? I feel like everybody tells him no, I really, and that's why I respect black men so much. I think like they have such a hard time outside the house.
Speaker 1:It's a battle.
Speaker 4:I should never be a hard time for him.
Speaker 2:You know what? I 100% agree with that. I really love what you just said there, because I made a post not too long ago asking the audience basically like is it your partner's job to speak life into you, right? Because I was watching an interview with Nick Cannon and I forget what the therapist's name was. She's very famous. I forget what her name is, but the point was is that she was describing how much you know black men or just people in life just get have to deal with in their day-to-day.
Speaker 2:And the idea is in that particular topic it was more centered towards black men, right Understanding that like there were a lot of doors that was closing our face and it's like you don't want to have to deal with it.
Speaker 4:So I used to tell my ex I would rather give head than headaches. You know what I? Mean and it's the truth, Like I felt, like I used to see all my homegirls and it was always like stipulations. You know what I mean. I'm like you're supposed to is conditional you understand what I mean yeah. So, like I said, I mean.
Speaker 2:I don't know, but you got to be careful. I do got to say, like just to be kind of devil's advocate it has to be reciprocal in a way. Right, it has to be with somebody that deserves it. Just because you're married to a person doesn't mean they can get whatever they want whenever they want.
Speaker 4:That is, it's almost like Joe Scott said you have to be able to tell me. If you can tell me what to do, you can tell me what to do, and that's how I feel it's not for everybody.
Speaker 1:I'm very much so that way, right, and I'm also like. I'm also, like I said, I'm willing to let a man be a man, but women, we are very mental, we're very mental. Yes, so if we in situations, I can be in a situation where I love you but I don't like your ass and I don't like what you're doing around these parts. So if I'm in that space where I don't like you, I will still have sex. I will still have sex, but it's not going to be as pleasurable for me.
Speaker 4:Oh, I don't know nothing about that.
Speaker 1:Yeah I'm still okay, so I can't block the two and a lot of women are like that or whatever, and that is great that you're not like that, but I'm the type of woman that I can't block the two, like I can't say, oh, I told this, nigga takes the trash out 12 times and he didn't Uh-huh, and still be wide open when it's time to have sex or whatever. But I will have sex with you because I feel like this, my man, if I don't do it, someone else will.
Speaker 1:So, I'm going to do it, but is it going to be really pleasurable for me?
Speaker 4:No, but that sounds like obligation Because I'm going to be really pleasurable for me. No, but that sounds like obligation Because I'm going to be in my head. That's why I feel bad about stuff like that, because my thing is if that's your partner like that being, I'm sexually attracted to him.
Speaker 5:He satisfies me, so you know what I mean. I don't care if somebody else is going to, and be honest with you like I don't throw no for this.
Speaker 4:So my thing is like I'm never going to be thinking about is he going out there to have sex? Because if you're cheating, we're cheating you know what I'm saying. I don't like open relationships, but I'm saying like I'm glad you spoke on that.
Speaker 3:I'm going to hold you to that. And you said something earlier. Right, everybody done seen Fifty Shades of Grey. I'm pretty sure you have. So everybody thinks when you get into, because I'm in the community, because me and you both know the same stuff, so people think when you get into this community that something happened to you, you had this tragic experience. And you said that you got into sex toys and everything young.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:How did you get there?
Speaker 2:though. So funny story. So I was actually with a partner, with my ex-girlfriend at the time, right, and I kept coming fast whenever we would have sex. It happened to me too.
Speaker 4:I get it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and I was looking for a way to last longer in bed and I went on Google and I started going down you know, the rabbit holes of all the different things, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2:And I came across all of these different stories about women and complaining about their experience sexually with men, and some of them were even married, you know, for multiple years at a time, and they would complain like the only time I would experience an orgasm is when I would use my Vibrator. I couldn't, you know. I would wait till my husband go to sleep. I would go in the bathroom and get my thing off you know what.
Speaker 2:I'm saying, and it still happens to this day, right, and I kept reading that over, and I kept reading Vibrator, vibrator, vibrator. So I went down to the village and, mind you, I was too young to even go inside the store, so I had to actually. I was about 16, 17 years old. Oh wow, not 16, 17. And I actually had to give somebody the money to go inside the store and get milk. So it was so weird. I'm like can you buy me a vibrator?
Speaker 5:Real random to ask about this, real random.
Speaker 2:And he actually came out, and I don't even know what it was that he had given me at the time. It was just a random vibrator or whatever. So I went home and the next time that I went over to her house I used it while I was penetrating her, and it hit, different it hit different. Her experience was so much better and she started orgasming. I was just so entertained by her experience that the last thing on my mind was actually coming.
Speaker 3:Oh shit.
Speaker 2:But immediately it was like especially as a young boy, I'm like yo, if one toy could do this.
Speaker 5:I need to know, I need to know All of the toys.
Speaker 4:He was catching infinity stones, this time Like he was throwing all the toys.
Speaker 2:It would definitely open up Pandora's box as it relates to like just my perspective changing. And then I just started to, kind of like you know, collect them over time. It took me a while before I ended up buying my next one, but I knew in my heart of hearts like yo when I can, I will buy another one.
Speaker 3:So you are a proud component. You will say right now that men and Jamaicans y'all too, should use and buy sex toys.
Speaker 2:Absolutely, and I love that you said that, because I want to clarify, especially to men. Listen to me Sex toys does not mean dildos. That doesn't mean only dildos. The only sex toys that exist are not just dildos. All right, you can get vibrators. You can get things that don't look like a pussy or a dick. You can get something that just stimulates your woman while you're also stimulating her. If you already make your woman come with just your dick, imagine having something on her clit at the same time.
Speaker 3:I got a cock ring. Listen, I went and I got one. I ain't know what it did, y'all and it vibrates, yeah, I was like let me see what this about.
Speaker 4:Why you getting a cock ring like that so happy.
Speaker 3:I don't know I liked it. For the first time it was a little different, but I've seen how you were saying with the vibrator, like wait, I don't have to keep going. Sometimes you can just go deep and just hold it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, just hold it. See, here we know. You just hold it, then you get to catch your breath, you get to reset your refract time, all types of different things that you can do while you're multitasking you just said a word and now you lost it.
Speaker 2:What's a refract Well the Well, the refract time Usually refers to the time it takes for you To get it back up. But I actually meant, you know, if you feel like You're about to cum, if you got the vibrator On the cock ring, you can just leave it in, catch your breath, let that stimulation Kind of go down so you can start Going at it again Without worrying about you know coming out.
Speaker 4:But see I'm a suck it back, hard type person, bad quality person, so me I feel like everything that, every toy that you have, I feel like I have something that I do, so you know, counteract it and I don't like.
Speaker 4:Again, I don't yuck anybody's dumb, so if that's your thing, that's cool. But I just, I don't know. I guess for me it doesn't bother me to not have it. You know what I mean. And like he was talking about how he ended, you know got into sex I. You know some people get into sex in the molestation, you know area so like my first time was with my cousin and her home girl.
Speaker 4:So it was like once I had an orgasm I was like, oh, what's this now? I wasn't out there chasing looking. I actually don't physically like females, but then I talk about people with, like their porn searches. Like I feel like your porn search is always based off of the first time you had sex in my mind and then, as you get older, you kind of tweak it, tweak it. You know what I mean. So I can watch women on women porn, but I don't necessarily. And I love strippers. We can tell you that I love your female stripper jesus christ.
Speaker 1:But lady makes me feel like a prude, y'all make me feel like a prude, but I don't want them to touch me.
Speaker 4:That's the only thing I want to watch them do this, I just don't want them to touch me. And I think that has a lot to do with how, you know, I started. I also think it has a lot to do with the fact that I am a submissive, you know. So you know, I just feel, however, you get to it. You just about to say it.
Speaker 2:I was going to say I hear it often so many people watch porn that doesn't necessarily relate to the sex that they want to have. That's another big misconception. There is some porn that we consume that we're like yo in a perfect world, in a safe world where I could do that I would do that. But a lot of other porn doesn't necessarily relate to the type of sex they want to have.
Speaker 4:Some of the popular searches. I hear women look up is like gay porn tranny porn, all types of different porn, you know but again. It doesn't let that go. I mean to say tranny, but I would be, I would have sex with a transgender because my thing is I love penis but I love titties. So my thing is like you, I can get everything. Both you, the best of both worlds.
Speaker 3:But women they like, like gay men. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2:I know a lot of women that like gay men yeah, and they say it's because of the moment and they say it's because of like they feel, like it's real sex and it's not female, male, it's just like just for the scene, so to speak.
Speaker 4:It's so aggressive.
Speaker 2:Apparently they be, in it.
Speaker 3:Well, you said I don't know I'm going to ask these ladies too, because I don't know but you said you went and found you started going to sex parties. Once you got that first vibe, it was over, so you started going to sex parties. Did you find it on your own, or somebody told you?
Speaker 2:I actually was dragged to a party by a good friend of mine. He was just like yo, come with me one day. I ended up being a Springer's party, but the people were so much older.
Speaker 5:So much older you were like how old were you?
Speaker 4:I was already an adult.
Speaker 2:By then I was like 24, 25 years old or something like that, I don't even know, I'm probably quoting that wrong, but five years old or something like that, I don't even know, I'm probably quoting that wrong. But I went there and it was an amazing time. It was a vibe.
Speaker 4:They had food, they had all types of stuff. It was. It was like a family reunion.
Speaker 5:So everybody here been to.
Speaker 4:Yes, we performed at one together and then I did one by myself.
Speaker 1:I did so the first one that I went to. This is the funniest part of it all. I did so the first one that I went to. This is the funniest part of it all. I did not all the way know it was a swingers event, so it was like close to Philly and so I invited, like my mom, to come to the show. So my mother came, she brought I swear to God, my mother came, she brought my aunt and her two friends. They got a room in the hotel. They had the whole hotel booked out for the swingers event.
Speaker 2:So people walk around naked. I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1:So you know how they got the table with the A hotel takeover. They got the tables with the beads and the beads will say what you allowed them to do and you had to sign it. My mother and them got there before me, so I did. I brought sand to the beach. I brought a guy with me. When we got there, we signed it and we went to the table. They was like y'all want the beads. We was like, no, we good, we don't want the beads.
Speaker 3:Right, Y'all want everything. Y'all about to eat everything. We didn't even get the beads.
Speaker 1:He's like no, we don't want the beads right. So we go to the room. We go to my mother. In them room these hoes got on all of the beads.
Speaker 4:I said ho ho. Do y'all even know?
Speaker 3:what the beads mean they ain't have a clue.
Speaker 1:I'm like, do y'all know what the beads mean? Somebody is going to kiss you Somebody's going to fondle you with the purple bead.
Speaker 4:Do you know what's going on.
Speaker 1:They didn't have a clue. But my mother is such a good time, she went to everything. She don't care, but we had such a great time. They went to the comedy show and stuff and my mother was like, shoot, I went and walked around. I swear, because it was one floor that was like the floor that had all the rooms where you can go in.
Speaker 2:You could just watch and stuff yeah, you could watch and stuff.
Speaker 1:My mom was like I walked around. I went and looked, I was like girl mom, please, but like me and my friend, like we did too, we walked around. Like I said, I went to the guy, what's his name?
Speaker 2:Sir Daniel.
Speaker 1:Sir Daniel. I went room and he was doing a demonstration with the candles on a girl and then he was like you want to do it? I was like, okay, I'm going to do it. They put me up there and bap bap me a little bit. It was fun. It was a little thing Like my arms was up like this and my legs was up.
Speaker 4:It was fun, I'm here for all of that I'm about to say. I just was dating.
Speaker 1:And I am not like that.
Speaker 4:I am such a ooh she is such a lady. She like to hide her whore.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think it was meant for me because now that I really really think about it, the first two parties I've ever been to in my entire life, somebody kind of I won't say tricked me, but they didn't give me the full context of what was happening. And you would think that it would be me dragging people to parties and stuff like that, but it was me. That was like yo, I was down with it, I was okay with it.
Speaker 4:But I had no idea what it was.
Speaker 2:I remember my first time going with a female friend of mine. She was like oh, come on, I think you'll like this party.
Speaker 3:People just knew you was nasty, they know, so I get there, we get to the door and the lady's like $100. Like $100.
Speaker 2:I'm like $100 For what. I was taken by surprise, you know, and that's when I realized what kind of party it was. And just to be clear, the payment is not meaning that you're paying For pussy or you're paying to play.
Speaker 4:It's an entrance, just an entrance fee Experience yeah and then the experience as well.
Speaker 2:But that was the first time. The second time I went to a party and it was an actual club. It was dope.
Speaker 1:So what did you do At the first party? I want to know what you did, or you just?
Speaker 2:observed. I just ate food, Ate a whole bunch of macaroni and cheese chicken.
Speaker 1:The food be lit. I don't know if you know Yo that food at the one. We Girl, I'm like friends with literally most of the people from there.
Speaker 4:They still hit me in my DMs and stuff. That's because she's sick. I did stay.
Speaker 3:You paid $100 to eat chicken tenders.
Speaker 2:No, no, the first party I didn't have to pay to get into and, like I told you, the people there were just way older, I'm talking about like they were pushing 60 and above.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, I'm not mad at that. My friend at the time, my friend at the time he was about. They were older men, they weren't that bad at that one, we were too. The initial one, I went to a married man at the time.
Speaker 3:This plot thickens, don't it? You know that about me.
Speaker 4:Look, I was married before and then I dated a married man after she know who he is, don't do that and we went and, be honest with you, he had to pay more for me because, again, I'm into voyeurism, so I was watching, so I think he might have paid $50. Yeah, I paid and he paid me, but I don't know. It's just different. Because he wasn't my man, it was okay for me to watch him you know, with other women.
Speaker 1:So you watch him do stuff for other women? Yeah, I like to watch.
Speaker 3:I'm going to tell you all mine, I love watching. So for me this happened as I got older, because I used to be a dom when I was younger. Then I got older and I was like you know what I'm more your role. You think he has that? Yeah, and then I was like, well, shit, now I like to watch.
Speaker 3:So when I used to have I hosted parties, been to parties or whatever. So once I started getting into it, I ended up doing it with a long time. Girlfriend Introduced her to it. I was like listen, I don't know if it's going to work.
Speaker 4:I like a little different, I like I'm like a little different. So she was like no, show me, I was like, show you.
Speaker 3:She was like, yeah, took her to a party, right, cool. Then I thought it would have freaked me out To have watched my person Be with somebody else. I was like, oh, this shit kinda sexy, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4:And.
Speaker 3:I was like I'm into this.
Speaker 2:It activates that Primal side. Yeah.
Speaker 3:And I was like Wait a minute, we can go a. I started looking at relationships different because I was like all right, everybody pretty much leave because of sex, yeah. So I'm like wait a minute, you can. We're taking cheating off the table now. Right Because you can fuck who you want.
Speaker 2:Yeah, let them come.
Speaker 3:I'm going to watch, right, do you? Now we're getting into, all you got to do is just be honest, it's like that's you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:Like I can't be mad at somebody who he ain't high enough for me. Like even he used to show me videos of him and his wife.
Speaker 5:And I don't know what it is.
Speaker 4:It's just what the hell. No, we're not just going to act like this is normal. No, I'm not saying that's the whole point. People don't feel like it's normal, but fit in.
Speaker 1:So what about the people like me, that is like I am? No, don't do it to my man, get off him, that's okay.
Speaker 2:But then there's somebody perfect for you that would be okay with just that.
Speaker 1:I would never want.
Speaker 4:Now we can do whatever together and I'll pretend to be another hoe If I ever got back with my I said my husband or my ex-husband, whatever I would never want that with him Because of Our interaction with each other, like us being apart, he's had threesomes and he be like I won't come, I want this, I want that. So I know it's just. You know what I mean. He want the person that you connected with Right. He needs more of a connection and I like that for him but, the other guy.
Speaker 4:That's not where we were and, to be honest with you, I was satisfied in both relationships.
Speaker 3:So I bet. But y'all just talked about a best friendship and there's a woman here, your leading lady, your business partner.
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 3:How did this?
Speaker 2:happen. So her and I, we actually met at a swingers party quite a few years ago and I was actually there to perform, and normally when I'm at parties I give out brief demonstrations of what it's like to have a private session with me.
Speaker 5:Yeah, you're in the business man.
Speaker 4:Yeah, got to get the samples out.
Speaker 2:Got to get the samples out and she actually signed up or basically volunteered to do a demonstration and she enjoyed her demonstration and then she later on booked a session and before her session she said, sure, the fuck did Okay.
Speaker 2:Before her session we were doing a lot of talking, and even during our session believe it or not and at the end of her session I was like hey, actually heading out to um, another party, uh, if you want to come. And she ended up coming and, uh, I offered her I remember this is a joke, nobody really heard before I actually offered her a collar for that night on some just playfulness like, hey, you want to wear this collar? I ain't wearing no collar. He's crazy. You know what I'm saying. I'm going to the party, though, but I ain't wearing no collar. He's crazy. You know what I'm saying. I go to the party, though, but I ain't wearing no collar. It was cool. So we get to the party and we walk in and everybody's kind of like looking at us, but looking at her, like she wearing Sir Marvelous, she wearing Sir Marvelous or whatever.
Speaker 2:So we sat up and stuff and she's walking around and people started asking her you with Sir Marvelous.
Speaker 4:You with Sir.
Speaker 2:Marvelous. You was so marvelous, you was so marvelous. And then she came back.
Speaker 5:She was like I went with that collar. I know that I went with that collar.
Speaker 1:She was like got it man.
Speaker 5:It's like you didn't show up with a collar on it.
Speaker 1:Yay, she was like wait man.
Speaker 2:It was a lot deeper as far as our relationship, evolving beyond that Like just putting a collar on somebody. Doesn't quote, unquote, make them yours. Tell people what a collar means I don't want to make it seem like you could just put a collar on somebody and they automatically become yours.
Speaker 4:So what's a collar? I know what it is, so let's talk about the collar.
Speaker 2:A collar could be like a term similar to how people wear rings or engagement rings. It could be for different things. You can have play collars, where you wear that collar just to signify that you are in a play space with you and your partner. Um, you can have daytime collars, like she's wearing a daytime collar. Show me your collar, babe.
Speaker 2:So, oh, okay I love it here you can have daytime collars and it depends on the type of relationship you have. So everybody thinks that there's only one type of ds right, meaning a dominant, submissive relationship. Again, she's a very powerful woman. She does a lot in her outside life, outside of what we do with Marvelous Things. So the idea that I'm going to run her life or dominate her in her day to day, that ain't going to happen, trust me.
Speaker 5:It ain't going to happen.
Speaker 2:I'm lucky enough to be able to say that I can take control at the times that I do, and she really appreciates that because in all other aspects of her life she's the boss. She tells everybody, she helps everybody, everybody depends on her and things of that nature. And that's why the majority of the time when I describe the type of clients that I have, they're not necessarily submissive women. I kind of wish people would get rid of that term to some degree.
Speaker 2:I understand the pride in it, but it also leads to a misconception that I have to be this person that submits to everything no, it's usually the person that is so sick and tired of taking care of everyone else that when they get home, they just want somebody to take care of them. You know what I'm saying? Tell me, you know. Have a plan, like I want to know what it feels like to go somewhere and I don't have to think about nothing yeah it.
Speaker 1:It's just, it's taken care of and.
Speaker 4:I don't have that experience, but most of my homegirls feel that way. They really just want you know, and sometimes it's just like an Oedipus complex, like a daddy type thing. Yeah, Someone don't have a present father in their life.
Speaker 1:I don't know damn dad.
Speaker 2:I don't believe, I don't have, I get. I get what you mean. To that degree I don't want to connect to say that everybody that has daddy issues and all, but I understand what you mean, we want what we don't have. So like again, if you are somebody that runs every other aspect of your life, you don't want to go home and still have to be the same person when you get home. That's understandable. And that's why you'll see a lot of the times you know, in the movies they'll portray that corporate man going to sneak it down into somebody's basement.
Speaker 4:Like you got to be so dirty, I don't need a little separate room. You don't need to push the bookshelf. For me, it could just be like baby, welcome home.
Speaker 1:Put your stuff down, I'll fix dinner.
Speaker 2:Right, you know, it could be all of that, just make a man feel like a man Going to you and I love that you said that. That is so powerful that you said that, because, again, dominance doesn't have to look one way.
Speaker 2:Right People think oh you, one way People think. Oh you know, because they think the word dominatrix and the only portraying that people see of dominatrix on television is like kicking people in the balls, stepping on them wearing leather, whipping and all of that. That's not dominance per se, that's a variation of it. That can be if those two people consent to that type absolutely, but, like you mentioned, it could be as simple as cooking for someone running their bath.
Speaker 3:So, come on, come on. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1:I got this. That's just a statement. I got this, what you want me to put on.
Speaker 4:You want me to wear this or I'll wear this for you baby, like that, like that. The sexiest thing a man ever did, and he was like come and wash my hands. I don't know what about. Oh, I want to do that.
Speaker 1:That would have made my coochie pop Girl what.
Speaker 4:And it wasn't like he wasn't being forceful or nothing. He was just like come and wash my hands, that's intimate too.
Speaker 5:That's so intimate. Do you know how?
Speaker 4:sexy it is to wash a man's hands.
Speaker 5:That's sexy, oh my God.
Speaker 4:That, that's sexy, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, that's sexy, lord Jesus.
Speaker 4:Christ, yes, let me wash a little bit.
Speaker 2:I like that, that was a great example of something simple.
Speaker 4:It was. You know what I mean, I'm sure, the way he said it was sexy too.
Speaker 2:That was my thing. I can't wait to see this shit.
Speaker 1:No that's my thing, Like just to be calm. Like I said, even with sex that turns or whatever. Now don't ask me a bunch of fucking questions, because it ain't a survey.
Speaker 2:I hate that. Just tell me what to do.
Speaker 1:Just tell me what to do. I like it when a man be like turn over, no, pull back, put your knees up, you know, do this, and they might just hit the little yeah Right, yeah, like, just do it like that, turn over, no, put it there, don't hold that.
Speaker 4:I'm like oh, yeah, okay, what else? I love that and it's crazy because people always talk about the fact, like me and Chi used to go through this whole thing talking about eating ass, right? So for me it's Got to have it. I don't know what it is, but, like I said, I haven't done it to everybody, but when I got I felt like I introduced myself to it. It was just something about that. You know what I mean. The way you made him feel the way I made him feel.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean. Oh, my God, I want to make my man feel good, listen, men Listen.
Speaker 3:It's a different thing, you can't do it to everybody.
Speaker 4:He was a very clean person.
Speaker 5:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Because you got to think about E coli and stuff like that and other things.
Speaker 3:I will say this, Men I know it's a stigma that if you like getting your ass ate, you gay that's not true. It's a lie. Try it out. If you want to go baby steps, do a gooch first when you feel that sensation. Just know heaven's over the horizon, so just go ahead, try it. You ain't got to get on all fours. However you like it, it will change. It changed mine now it's a preference. I got to have it just take your time.
Speaker 4:I gotta have it go from the, the penis, to the balls, to the gooch and just my whole. Thing is men will tell you how far you can go.
Speaker 1:Baltimore men will tell you faster than other men.
Speaker 4:Call me Gucci, cause that's as far as I'm gonna go. I swear to God they might punch you in the forehead girl. It's a dangerous line.
Speaker 1:I opened my eyes once and I was done Honey.
Speaker 4:I'm all in.
Speaker 1:You know how, like the 69, the opposite, with the guy on the top and you on the bottom. I did that with my dick. You wanted it in your throat? Yeah, I did With a K.
Speaker 4:With a K.
Speaker 1:Right, and so I was fine with that. But then I opened my eyes. I was like, oh, get me out of here, somebody come save me? I was all in. It was I wanted to pluck. Oh my God.
Speaker 3:I got a question because you had a survey, so I'm going to make sure their name's at the bottom Tag them in this video. Yes, this is specifically for you MSD-A-L-I-A-22. I don't know how you say it, ms Delia or whatever her name is. Baby, I got you. She wants to know. Can you speak on the positive surroundings, the BDSM community, and how someone new to this culture would approach it and learn more?
Speaker 2:Oh, I like that. So one of the things I actually spoke about with a client the other day is the difference between my experience going to kink events versus what we refer to as vanilla result vanilla events, which are just non-kink events. Yeah, um, I can tell you hands down that there have been so many times where I've been to non-kink events where I've seen fights break out, motherfuckers want to try to attempt to shoot up the club, all types of crazy stuff, just drama and regular day-to-day events, so to speak. But in kink events I don't see any fights, I don't see any arguments. I'm talking about you go to a place where, literally, there might be a married man watching his wife, like you mentioned get fucked by another man and they're not ready to fight.
Speaker 4:They're not ready to fight.
Speaker 2:But you go to a regular club and somebody scuffs somebody's shoes and it's like we're gonna take it outside, it's ridiculous also the majority of the time when we especially the kink events that I go to you got to be vetted to get in.
Speaker 2:So that means that they want to check to see where your mindset is, to make sure that you're going to make other people feel comfortable if you see something that isn't your yum, so to speak. You're not going to be making somebody feel uncomfortable or feeling judged, but also you're mature enough to handle this, this type of space, because it's all about creating a safe space, both physically and mentally, right? Um, something else to answer to lean more into their question. As far as exploring spaces like that is just. I have a list on my, my website, sir marvelouscom. It's called the upper echelons list. You can click on any one of those links there and it'll take you to different people's pages that throw parties on and be willing to travel.
Speaker 3:You know, so you gotta be willing to travel.
Speaker 2:No, they travel, be willing to travel, you know, and then, you can meet your tribe by connecting with people at these events. So, like you mentioned, you're still friends with some people. I'm sure you probably still get some invites and you check them out and you figure out where it's for you and eventually you will find your tribe. I know that we have, you know so.
Speaker 4:Because it's like thinking your soulmate is in the city that you grew up in.
Speaker 5:You know what I mean.
Speaker 4:It's so many different people in this world that they're not always going to be the same color. They're not going to be. They just be open-minded to stuff.
Speaker 3:We ain't done, because this top comment that you have a little bit of a book it's called her name is the Boo J-I-E One she wants to know. Please expand on a dom and sub relationship. I think a lot of people don't have a clear understanding of what the roles are. A lot of people don't understand that it's not basically sold on sex. Also, please expand on a person who is a switch. It can be a sub or a dom in the different roles they play. More importantly, damn, we have a lot of men that want to be dom but not sure how and what are the rules and the mental space they need to be in Right.
Speaker 2:Okay, that was a lot, let me process that.
Speaker 5:That's a lot.
Speaker 2:One thing that did stand out to me was the switch part, and when you were talking earlier, I was like, maybe and you could correct me if I'm wrong I think you would probably lean more towards switch, because, again, I look at a person who is a dominant as a person who's willing to take that, that the initiative, take the leadership role when it comes to having the plan in the bedroom. Right, you know what I'm saying and you are very capable of being a pleaser. That's another way that I describe the dominant. You are more of a pleaser and there's many different ways that you could step into that energy. It could be, like you said, giving somebody an outfit to wear, putting on a sexy playlist, creating a space that looks sexy and just kind of sets the mood for that particular type of play. Or you might want to go back and forth between maybe today I'm gonna take control and I'm gonna make sure everything goddamn switch I told
Speaker 4:you one time. That cheerleader is something about people like, do that, keep going this, and you be sitting there like, oh, my fucking God, you be like forgetting it. I don't know.
Speaker 2:Not somebody. I call the guy.
Speaker 2:To finish answering her question the first thing you got to do is establish what kind of DS you want to have.
Speaker 2:Again, a 24-hour dominant, submissive relationship isn't for everyone.
Speaker 2:The idea that you belong to me and I'm going to control every aspect of your life it does exist for some people, but very few people is that even a possibility for. The majority of people just want times in their lives that are allotted to them, being able to turn into that person that they want. Like you mentioned, maybe this particular time you want to be on the bottom, the other person wants to be on the top. Like you mentioned, maybe this particular time you want to be on the bottom, the other person wants to be on the top, and there's a difference between topping a person and dominating a person. So that's the biggest misconception. Like, just because you know a client does a session with me doesn't make her a submissive or, even worse, my submissive, so to speak. She's just being a bottom, aka a muse for what it is that I'm doing to her at that particular time. And a lot of the times people think that just because you have a flogger or it's a couple of sex stories, that you're a dom.
Speaker 3:That's not what that is, or dispenses one or two times.
Speaker 2:You can't, yeah right, that doesn't necessarily make you a dom, you know. And then, having protocols and rituals is not a part of everyone's relationship either. I mean, these are different terms, but yeah, you just got to figure out what kind of relationship you want as it relates to King. Do you want to just have it in a bedroom? Do you want it to have or be a part of every aspect of your relationship? Figure out that part first, and then read about it, learn about it, ask people questions, go to different events that teach these different things, like the Missy King events that I was talking about, where you guys met Sir Daniel. They do classes. There's a lot of places.
Speaker 5:It goes deep you have courses, you can read books, you can ask people questions, you know.
Speaker 3:You're a lot. Educate yourself before you right Woo you was trying to say something.
Speaker 4:Flogger. What's a flogger? We just talked about that earlier.
Speaker 3:The man has a bag with him by the way.
Speaker 4:It's about flogging earlier.
Speaker 1:Flogging. I want you to because I learned earlier, but I did not know, so I want you to define it for people.
Speaker 4:Let's go, come on.
Speaker 2:I asked earlier, but I you know so the unicorn is a fly so a fly girl is an implement that we use to provide a specific sensation to the body. A lot of the times I like to use it. Say that again anyone is fine oh wow, oh they got ones oh wow, they got ones.
Speaker 1:Y'all hear that.
Speaker 4:Look at her, looking at that like who you. She gonna say who this for. She said tell me who this for. I'm here Vlog. Come on, nunchucks, come on.
Speaker 2:however, you want to come? Yes, thank you. So you can touch one of these. Okay, I'm surprised. I'm pretty sure maybe, dan, you might have used one.
Speaker 1:He definitely did. This is what he used on me. I didn't know what it was called. I didn't know the correct term, so this is a flogger.
Speaker 2:Flogger y'all. This is what we use to provide different types of spankings. Right, and it's more of a sensational experience. I always tell people that a lot of the times, you don't even have to actually spank a person with this in order to give them a sensation. You can just drag this across the person's naked body.
Speaker 2:It's a sensational toy. In addition to that, when you start spanking a person, if you become arithmetic with it, it can feel like a massage. It's about waking up the nervous system. It's about creating blood flow throughout the body body. It's about pushing that blood to different areas of the body that you want to get engulfed with blood, because it's one of the keys to arousal is blood flow, you understand. So there are many different ways that we can do that, as many different ways we could stimulate that, and flogging is just one of those many examples. One of the biggest misconceptions that a lot of people have when they see something like this is that they think that you take something, you hit a person as hard as you can as fast as you can.
Speaker 2:I'm like bro. It has nothing to do with any of that like learn what you're doing, learn how to use these types of things properly like there are places and yeah, it's, it's so much you can do when you combine this with like how he holds it and how you hold it you can tell there's a difference.
Speaker 3:Be honest with you.
Speaker 1:I'm not here to get beat, not to beat. You know what I was thinking about. You like it, aggressive though you like to be flogged heavy.
Speaker 4:I was just talking to my cousin about this guy that you know what I'm saying. When we had an experience together the growling and the biting and the barking and the spitting it was just like I was like you got some inner childhood aggression.
Speaker 1:I'm like who hurt you?
Speaker 4:Oh, he was biting and growling Girl I've been, and then, when it's all done, you don't know where it's come from.
Speaker 2:It's like Look she like the sensation. What's going on? I don't know.
Speaker 4:I like the way it feel on my skin. You're like well, well, I'm kind of okay, I think about stuff like this I'm feeling real flogged. And you know when it comes to like a lot of black women. They don't want to get their hair wet, so I feel like when they see toys, the first thing they Infected Did they like Ask you questions like that. I always think about Stuff like that.
Speaker 2:No well, we do disinfect All of our toys. That is a part of Our process, but it's not. I'm not hitting somebody In their head, per se, but you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:I just feel like I don't know. No, they worried about like germs and stuff like that. I feel like Right.
Speaker 1:If I got my ass out Ain't got time to be worried about.
Speaker 3:I'm glad I'm glad why we got the women here. I need to ask Men when we deal with women that have toys, we don't really think about it, but let's say you've used it With other partners or whatever. Men don't think about it we gonna say, oh okay, why is it when With women If you introduce you find a man and he says oh.
Speaker 3:He says, oh, I got toys. Y'all are really really apprehensive about using the toys men have and we're like really okay with using the toys you have, but that's what I'm trying to bring up Again.
Speaker 4:I've never used a toy, but I had a guy that was interested in me. He sent me this picture and had a whole bed full of trinkets and infinity stones and things of that sort. So I told my friends and they was like girl, like da-da-da-da-da-da. The first thing I thought was oh, okay, he here for you know, a good time.
Speaker 5:Not a long time.
Speaker 2:But they were just disgusted what you was going to say Well, a lot of the times, you know, women don't want to be very careful when it comes to penetration toys, because you want to make sure that you, the same way you could use a condom with your actual dick, you can use them with toys. You can put them on vibrators, you can put them on dildos, you can put them on glass toys or metal toys and things of that nature. And you got to learn how to clean your toys properly. And a lot of the times, you know, men have a reputation for not being, you know, on top of things when it comes to their cleanliness.
Speaker 4:So it's like, if you're not, taking a shower regularly like.
Speaker 2:I don't expect you to be able to take these toys take care of these toys.
Speaker 4:How about you buy a brand?
Speaker 2:new toy when you play with me. If you want to be into toys that's fine, but do that. But when it comes to answering your question, I would say the reason that they're okay with using the toys with them because it's it's their toy. It's their toy, it's been with them, unless it's you know, it's a penetration toy that they put in their ex-boyfriend or something like that that's different and now she's trying to put it in you.
Speaker 4:You know, maybe you'll be a little apprehensive a little different right, so I put it in oh my god, I want to, captain morgan somebody so bad, but can somebody tell me what a captain don't I, don't I don't I don't. I don't I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don like peg the stallion and stuff like that, and I've never actually done it, but I'm here for it and people be like.
Speaker 4:I'll fly you out right now if you want to come do it oh.
Speaker 2:Jesus, I don't know you got to get a demonstration of your stroke.
Speaker 4:But I've been dealt with. My first.
Speaker 2:You got some rhythm you think you're going to have some rhythm.
Speaker 1:Do you know how? That was a question that was just presented I know what he's saying.
Speaker 4:Women complain so much about men getting tired, but have you ever thought about asking somebody?
Speaker 1:So my best friend is a dom and what you were saying about. When she get in new relationships and mess with new people, they do want her to get a new toy. Yeah, they want her to get something new, so she get a new one, or whatever you know. So she'll like. Sometimes I'll be like I'm just curious. I'll be like girl let me see what it look like. Let me see if it look like something that and one of the times the last one she got looked like a nigga that I was messing with.
Speaker 1:I was like I'm so tired and it was so funny. I took a picture of it. So I was like this, she a thick girl or whatever. So she was like, yeah, like I like when I'm messing with somebody, because she was like that's exercise, like I'm getting it in, she was like that's good exercise and it's fun, so I don't mind. I was like but yeah, she was like it's exhausting let me ask you a question as a man is having sex an exercise.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, 100%, especially if you one, if you want to go to these parties, yes, Two 100% yes, if you're trying to give your best. We talking over 200 strokes here. Yes, it's an exercise. I didn't start sweating with sex until three years ago. Right, I don't sweat, but with sex I'm putting my everything.
Speaker 5:Yeah, yeah, yeah I think it's, I think, I think it's.
Speaker 2:I think I don't want to give men an excuse to give any less right but, I do think it's underestimated how much it goes into being able to hold yourself up Like think about it Like missionary position, which is one of the best positions you can have sex with a woman unless you're standing up.
Speaker 2:I love missionary If you're on the floor, if you're on the bed, it's one of the best positions because you know just the way that the pussy is shaped. You know you're able to hit other areas right, especially if you put a pillow under her, but you're planking the entire time as a man and you're stroking your pelvis. I want any woman to get on the floor right now and just start planking and start stroking your pelvis.
Speaker 3:Go faster, go faster.
Speaker 1:To hold this leg up, sir, and then you're on a bed.
Speaker 2:That's unstable, so now I don't want you to be on the floor, I want you to be on a balancing ball, planking while stroking the entire time. Like you really got to be in shape. You really like I've incorporated some, some sexercises in my exercise, like I've been working out. That's a journey that I've been on to be more active with myself. But I think the thing that's been keeping me in shape are these sessions, you knowinging these floggers for 10, 20 minutes at a time that really gets my arms and everything.
Speaker 3:but I had to work on my cardio because I want to be able to I'm glad you said that If you want to be good at sex you have would be the best bet is to work out. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1:And if you want to mess with a big girl, be ready to cut. Can you lift this up? Can you lift this?
Speaker 4:up, but I mean be honest with you okay. So like me, I like being on top a lot. I swear like I do too, though I love being on top they always talk about me because, like I'm cowgirl status, but me being so tall, you're being tall also like I'm a froggy style person. I mean like and I and I.
Speaker 2:So I feel like you want to stand up on your feet, that's not, no, I do stand up on my feet, god damn Tippi, I ain't say that.
Speaker 5:That's why they call you Tippi?
Speaker 4:But see, but that's the thing.
Speaker 3:That's why they call you Tippi. I got it.
Speaker 2:But I feel like that's the reason why I might be okay with the, with the pegging because you got good leg strength, you got good cardio. She said she was a twerk champion.
Speaker 4:She said she was trying to take I was about to say 2003, undefeated.
Speaker 2:Twerking is an exercise, it's been legitimately.
Speaker 4:like you know, People think just because you got a fupa, that you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:I can ride, but on my knees oh yeah, but no, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2:Go ahead what you want to say this is a good one, because I think, I got in trouble and I'm not fully in trouble yet, but I think I got in trouble.
Speaker 3:She only come in trouble from one place. I got in trouble.
Speaker 5:So, I'm going to ask you a question.
Speaker 2:Right, okay, I'm an escape goal. Go ahead. This is for to. Oh God, anyway, Go ahead. Have you ever got in trouble because you was with your woman?
Speaker 4:right.
Speaker 2:And you decided to masturbate anyway. Yes, what's wrong with that? So I think I got in trouble for that the other day because I was like I will masturbate right next to my woman. She was like downstairs making breakfast and I just wanted to you know, before I jump in the shower, fres freshen up a little quick I wanted a solo little couple quickly because obviously if, look, she already ratted me down, she's like you wasted it, you wasted it.
Speaker 2:But I feel like you know I wanted it to be, you know, quicker just for me, because I didn't want to. I wanted to again, quickness, right, I didn't want to have to put in any work and I think that kind of blames off of what she was saying. But I think it would be more frustrating for her if I decided to give her what I wanted at that time. You understand what I'm saying, because it would just be a tease.
Speaker 3:It would just be like Because you just wanted to quit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I thought I would be a considerate. You know what I think about it.
Speaker 4:I'm a hero here, but I understand what you mean. Like again being married a long time, I used to like sometimes people want to have sex in the morning. But in the morning you got to think are we getting up for work? I got to get the kids.
Speaker 5:I got to do this or whatever.
Speaker 4:So I knew it was going to be quick. I wanted to have sex at night because I'm like we can go all in and then we go to sleep after. Yes, and that was just like no, but sometimes I just want it Right.
Speaker 2:So you've done it before.
Speaker 3:Yes, I have done it. Have I got in trouble for it?
Speaker 2:Can you try to explain to me what I mean by that? Like we didn't want to put in no work at that moment.
Speaker 3:Listen not that I don't find my lady attractive right and I love the sex and everything's good, but sometimes, let's say, it's 11 o'clock and you sleep. Yes, I could have sex with you, but no, I just wanted something quick, because if I do it with you, I'm not looking to please you. It's going to be really quick two, three minutes.
Speaker 2:Let's say, I arouse you and then I come, now you upset me Now you mad at me.
Speaker 3:I get it, though. Do you do it next to her, or do you like?
Speaker 4:go to another room? That's what I want to know. Do you hide?
Speaker 3:it Slide off. I'm a little sneaky because if she look over I get nervous, I get nervous, I stop, I freeze.
Speaker 1:So bed, like no, if you go to the door, do it in the shower or some shit like that, if you want to do it by yourself, oh man, that's crazy, that's miserable.
Speaker 2:Don't do it, because then I'm going to want to be in on it. If.
Speaker 1:I see you doing it. I want to get in on this. What's going on? What are we doing with our dick.
Speaker 5:Let's see, come on they so good. No, seriously.
Speaker 1:That's how you feel Like oh, what we doing without dick, let me help. You know I'm going to want to get in on it if I see you doing it. So I would rather, if you do do it, don't do it around me. Right, ok, you don't want to smell that sex in there is you Hold on what's going on what's going on.
Speaker 3:It's a little different when I move up.
Speaker 1:No, it's something about it. I think that would turn me on once I see it and stuff like that or whatever. Like once I see it I'm like oh wait, what we doing without this.
Speaker 4:Come on, let me see this up. So do you feel like you have to get yours when you have sex? No, this is a big problem that I have.
Speaker 3:I have not gotten mine before when I have sex. I've been this way since Younger with you, since I was like 19. I do not have sex For me. And when you were talking about Mentally being there, if my woman's not mentally there, I can't do it. I'm not attracted to sex. So for me, if I'm having sex, it's not about me coming. That's a bonus, but I'm all there for you. I need you to come continuously. That's wonderful bonus, but I'm all there for you. I need you to come continuously.
Speaker 1:That's wonderful that y'all like that, because I've been in plenty situations where a nigga ain't care nothing about my little nut.
Speaker 4:I can't nut. If my man don't nut or the guy I'm with doesn't nut, I literally will not nut until he nut, I'll feel a way.
Speaker 1:If my man don't nut, I'll be like oh, what's going on? What's wrong?
Speaker 4:I can squirt, which is weird. Teppi, what's up with you today?
Speaker 3:No, I'm no you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:I feel like that's you know how women can like control squirts. Yeah, I can control squirts. I've never been able to do nothing like that. You have to be so just popped out to Charles Square.
Speaker 1:But I'm just saying but no, because I don't do it for everybody. That's the thing.
Speaker 4:Well, I think that's how it is, but what I'm saying is I can't do the whole thing when, like, it's not on command, it's not this, that and the third.
Speaker 5:It always is a surprise. You know what I mean.
Speaker 4:But yeah, like I wanna Give me a video I used to tell people All the time I wanna see that shit finish.
Speaker 1:I want my man.
Speaker 5:I'ma feel a wave.
Speaker 1:If my man don't come, how did y'all discover Before we get to this next segment.
Speaker 3:How did y'all discover Yaka's quirk?
Speaker 1:Getting out of a relationship With my ex-boyfriend.
Speaker 2:She's stupid, no seriously. Was it a position, was it a stroke, was it a stimulation?
Speaker 1:It was safety and security. And I didn't eat anything that made me have to fart. That matters no, I swear to God.
Speaker 4:What position?
Speaker 5:was it no, taco Bell.
Speaker 1:I was, he was on top, so it was regular you know he was on top, but your legs were up.
Speaker 2:Yeah, my legs was up, bent back. We was on a couch.
Speaker 1:I was on a couch too, he was on top, but your legs were up. That gets specific. Yeah, my legs was up, bent back. We was on the couch.
Speaker 4:I was on the couch too. He was on the couch, but I was riding on the couch during my lunch break.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so I was up legs back on the couch. Can we explain? I mean, it was everywhere. I didn't even know I could do it.
Speaker 4:I didn't know I could do it. It was a mess and he made me feel bad.
Speaker 1:He actually embarrassed me oh no, he didn't, he was pumped. I'm like nigga, that wasn't even you when I got, when I got married.
Speaker 4:My ex. He was 19 and I was like 22 or something like that. We were very, very young, so it was just one of those things when it was like we just like, alright, it's our lunch break, this, that and the third, whatever. But when it happened it was like whoosh, he like what the fuck.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying. That's how it was, but he might have thought you peed on him.
Speaker 4:See, he just didn't. I mean, I just thought we were young.
Speaker 5:So I mean.
Speaker 4:I never did it.
Speaker 2:He didn't know what it was.
Speaker 4:I was like about somebody, just like almost ashamed.
Speaker 2:Like you know what I mean. He made you feel ashamed about it.
Speaker 4:But then when you get with somebody who witnessed.
Speaker 2:What give it to me?
Speaker 4:give it to me, oh my gosh this man as soon as he could feel it, cause, like you know, we would get to a point where we would each have a body. You felt that pressure you would back out here.
Speaker 1:Put his face in it, you be like Jesus and I like my lace. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3:When you slap it on top of it. I know girl.
Speaker 1:And it be like we forgot it be something to your soul. We gotta pay bills.
Speaker 4:Sorry my bad.
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Speaker 5:I did Just a little Just a little. I mean the sample was like I need the whole entree now.
Speaker 3:So how do you feel about it? I loved it.
Speaker 5:It was like I need the whole entree now. So how do you feel about it? I loved it. It was like I mean, when you think of so from the term I know it's like spanking or you know. So when you think of it like that, you think it's going to hurt, but it was not painful at all.
Speaker 3:So he worth every dollar? Yes, so subscribe.
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Speaker 4:Please. I was about to say I was turned on.
Speaker 2:So I like to refer to impact play as pleasurable pain under the right context. So what can normally feel painful or discomforting can be actually the chef's kiss at the right time. So, for example, for women who like to be choked or their hair pulled or spanked in the bedroom, when it's happening at the right time it feels good and it really adds value to your experience. But if it were to happen any other time, it would be like yo, what you think you're doing.
Speaker 5:Pulling my hair choking you Exactly, no-transcript.
Speaker 2:Just you know hours of just intentional attention given to just you and all the things that you've spoken to me about prior to that happening at that particular moment, and it's, it's a hell of an experience so if the orgasm happens or anything, you just work, work through that with the person, so I have my.
Speaker 2:Style is about edging so edging is the process of getting a person really close to making them feel like they're about to orgasm and then kind of slowing down that sensation. I actually punish my clients for orgasming without my permission and it's a psychological play because you know when you tell somebody what not to do, what do they want to do? They want to do it more.
Speaker 5:Oh my God, so a lot of the times.
Speaker 2:You know it is a playful punishment, so I don't want that's another play on the words that we use. When we say punishment and kink, we just mean a funnish, a funnish way, meaning like something that's going to be also pleasurable to you. But you're like damn, I kind of fucked up. So, um, that's something that you know that we, we, we use in kink all the time. So, um, the orgasm part of a person does have an orgasm. It's not the end of the world, but I'm going to figure out a way that I can use that to my advantage, to use it against you, that's dope Very.
Speaker 4:Look at you over there looking high.
Speaker 5:No, because I'm looking at you like the commentary first of all, but second of all I feel like she wanted to get a little flug, I mean.
Speaker 4:I just like. No, I was just here to watch. I absolutely here to watch.
Speaker 5:I'm definitely going to call somebody after this.
Speaker 4:Absolutely Shoot. I need to come on the road with y'all. Let me be a fly on the wall.
Speaker 5:So do you ever participate Like yeah, Only in one.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, she wasn't. She's not going gonna forget that one either.
Speaker 5:Okay, yeah.
Speaker 2:It's, the price would go up, go up through the roof, if, if somebody tried to pay For both of us At the same time. She's just so much More valuable to me.
Speaker 4:I had a I don't know why my head was giving fluff or like I'm, like my brain was everywhere. I don't know, but I'm definitely my brain was everywhere. I don't know, but I'm definitely going to get on your page.
Speaker 5:I need to follow you as well because, like I said, I didn't get a whole briefing.
Speaker 4:She didn't know why she was here. What was going on?
Speaker 5:When I walked in the door I was like I don't got to take my clothes off.
Speaker 4:Because I really ain't know what was.
Speaker 5:You know she said a sex coach, and I'm like, okay, so thank you, you're welcome. Thank you, you just sit.
Speaker 4:I'm going in the middle part for you to move back in. You wanna see? Oh, my goodness, hot seat for real. That is so funny.
Speaker 3:All right, before we now that we back, before I bring no, I'm about to bring we in before we close it out. Listen, we can just start with you. What do you have coming up that you want people to know about?
Speaker 2:So I just released my coaching program. It's a six week coaching program. We get to work with me one-on-one and ask me all the questions that your heart desires it could be about the lifestyle it could be. You know, a lot of people want to know how to top people properly. They normally ask how to be a dom, things of that nature. I work with couples so if couples want to work through any types of you know exploration, you can use a coaching program for that as well.
Speaker 2:I have an e-book that I am proud to announce that is coming out very, very soon. It's also going to give people a bit of a deep dive into some of the things that I know as well. We're going to be at all of the Exotica Expos this particular year.
Speaker 3:He said all yeah, all of them.
Speaker 2:You can look for us there, yeah, and just go to sirmarvelouscom and subscribe to the mailing list so that you can know all of the different announcements that's going to be taking place and when I'm going to be traveling to different cities to teach and also take sessions.
Speaker 3:Motherfucker got a subscriber out of me. And Tippi, what do you have? What's new with you?
Speaker 4:Well, I actually have a show coming up that I'm hosting. It's a Mother's Day show, so it's a little further out. It's on May the 10th, so it's going to be really, really nice. I mean, it's a young Mother's Day show. I don't want y'all to think like you're bringing mother with caution.
Speaker 3:Some people bring their mother to swingers clubs.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I was about to say your young grandmothers. You know the ones, I mean even the ones that need a nap. It's cool, but we outside like for real and it's going to be really, really nice. I have D-Lo, which is yes. I have Ray Divas on that show. I also have Dude in the corner and Rich Ab, so it's going to be a really packed show. It really is.
Speaker 3:All right and well. Before we get out of here, I just want to say thank you. I've been a fan of yours for goddamn years. I was 20. I'm in my 30s now, so I've been a fan of yours forever. I've watched your journey from six years ago to right now. You then you spoke with confidence. Now you have stepped completely into it and, god damn, you're doing Lord's work. So before I get out of here, one more shout out to Barbies and Brushes Barbies and Brushes, April 22nd, a walled woman's event Wear pink, bring your mother, your 80-year-old sister, whatever you got your kids. And before I get out of here, we have a superstar that I need her to go ahead and end this show for me Come on co-star.
Speaker 1:Beating ain't cheating y'all. Y'all better go ahead and subscribe. Get that booty beat.
Speaker 3:Stop playing, alright, I'm sorry, I mean you're ending it. Talk about yourself, will you?
Speaker 1:have new coming up. What happened? Like I said before, I got my movie. That's out now. It's currently on YouTube, but eventually it will be on a streaming platform called the Wife who Didn't Know who she Married by Elvin Gray. Shout out to Elvin Gray and shout out to my co-star Montrell. He did amazing. We did so good in this because we is not like real-life actors and we did this. I ain't even going to lie. I'm on tour right now with Dern Fleet, so I have that all over my page everywhere. I'll be Raleigh, north Carolina, coming up next this weekend Tampa, florida, atlantic City for Mother's Day.
Speaker 1:So that's going to be dope damn big money let me tell y'all if y'all knew the price of outside compared to the price, look outside costs so much money. It ain't. Nobody is making big money these days. People think because they see you outside or they see you doing stuff and they see you on flyers that you making big money Outside costs. It costs a lot of money. So no matter what you getting in, you putting out, okay well, listen guys I'm trying to put out on some flogging it's like no, this go ahead.
Speaker 1:Say one thing no like seriously, for a person like me, who is definitely a submissive person but also a shy person, this has opened me up to so many things that, even to the point of having the conversation with the person that I'm dealing with, you know what I'm saying. So I think that's very important. That's something that you brought up, just even opening up the dialogue, to say this is what I like, what do you like? You know? Okay, I'm down with that, I'm down with this, you know. So I think that's so important, it's so important for a woman to feel safe in a space, to be open, trust and believe fellas, we are all whores.
Speaker 4:We are whores.
Speaker 1:Okay, it just takes the right man to bring the whore out of us.
Speaker 3:Period. Alright, we are all whores united. Is that the title? Yeah, I think we're all whores.
Speaker 1:We're all whores. It just takes the right person to bring the whore up out of you.
Speaker 2:That's the capital W for me.
Speaker 3:Okay, you got to put it in there, real whore. Well, this has been another lovely episode of the Vibes Podcast man. Thank you, ladies, for stepping in. Thank you for traveling all around this great country and making it to Baltimore to get your first crab cake. Yes, and you are going to catch us on the next one. Thank y'all, guys.
Speaker 1:Yes, thank you for having me.
Speaker 3:I had such a great time and thank you for my demonstration.
Speaker 1:Yes, Shout out to my girl Cece. That's my homegirl, that's my real life friend for years.
Speaker 3:Oh, don't worry about it, Cece name. It Be titled at the bottom of that video. Yes, all right, we're out.
Speaker 1:All right we're out.
Speaker 4:All right.