Going Deeper with Benjamin Leppier
Benjamin Leppier is the founder of Going deeper and is on a mission to equip, empower and support men and women, to let go of all things that don't serve them, become more loving husbands, wives, partners and find more quality time with the kids, to get ahead in life, increase physical and emotional health, leading to more fulfilment and freedom in life.
Going Deeper with Benjamin Leppier
Beneath the Armor: Why Strong Men Are Failing at Love with James Ray
James resources:
Website: https://www.xcc.org.uk/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-ray-a6400b72/
In this episode we:
Why the wilderness is good for men (and to be together as men)
What masks and armour have we worn as men and why?
What is Alpha male and how does it serve us?
Fierce and tender 'all the time' [Last of the Mohicans]
Responsibility (you are 100% responsible for your life) and balance (be aware of the extremes). Take responsibility for yourself. Take responsibility for what's next.
Mansplaining - Why do we do it and what the hell is it?
Joining community - we have to bend and twist, but it will be a great good for us
Our Resources:
My Website: https://www.damngoodlistener.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedamngoodlistener/
Linkedin: benjaminleppier
Links etc
Link for intelligent change https://www.intelligentchange.com/?rfsn=8339894.e05f4e7&utm_source=refersion&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=8339894.e05f4e7
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Tell us a bit about yourself
What have men been lacking and what are they currently lacking?
Alpha males - nature story
Victimhood
What do men say is missing in relationship?
They really thought it was a trade, I do this for you and you do this for me. You look after the kids and the home and I go to work to earn the money and then when I get home I want good sex and time with my friends.
Now in working relationships where both partners are working often fullt time, but she also has familial responsibility, things are wearing a bit thin
What does strong look like?
Emotionally strong, means you say sorry and mean it, admit and see when you are wrong, be willing to take responsibility or ownership when your partner screws up and don't hold it against her. Being able to hold a hard line with your kids when necessary and know when they want a tender touch
Kerry says Daniel Day Lewis in Last of the Mohicans in the perfect male