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73: What Really Changes After You Get Married? with The Relationship Circle

January 30, 2024 Camille Abbott Episode 73
73: What Really Changes After You Get Married? with The Relationship Circle
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Unbridely - Modern Wedding Planning
73: What Really Changes After You Get Married? with The Relationship Circle
Jan 30, 2024 Episode 73
Camille Abbott

Have you ever asked yourself why you want to get married (with the subtext being, if nothing really changes anyway)?

In 2019 according to the Pew Research centre:

“The decision to get married is a personal one, but for most married adults, love and companionship trump other considerations such as such as the desire to have children someday, convenience or finances.”

But there are some other legal aspects to consider too, including in Australia: that marriage revokes a will unless it was created ‘in contemplation of marriage’, marriage spouses automatically become each other's next of kin, income tax changes, and there could be changes in future property settlements, survivor benefits, health insurance payments and claims, custody of children, maintenance payments and even inheritance.

But you want to know, when you wake up the day after your wedding, what happens then?

Dating and Relationship coach, Beck Thompson, from The Relationship Circle is going to teach you:

  • The changes couples experience once they get married
  • Why you need to work out and talk about your (sometimes) unconscious expectations
  • How to start the discussion about traditional or gender roles and responsibilities, and
  • Understanding the significance of changing your last name after you get married.

 

Resources Mentioned:

The Relationship Circle: https://www.therelationshipcircle.com/

The Relationship Circle Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2220575

The Relationship Circle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_relationship_circle/

The Pew Research Centre: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2019/11/06/why-people-get-married-or-move-in-with-a-partner/

Marriage and your will: https://tetlowlegal.com.au/marriage-changes/

What changes when we marry: https://www.celebrants.org.au/information/everyone/types-of-ceremonies/marriage-ceremonies/what-changes-when-we-marry


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Show Notes

Have you ever asked yourself why you want to get married (with the subtext being, if nothing really changes anyway)?

In 2019 according to the Pew Research centre:

“The decision to get married is a personal one, but for most married adults, love and companionship trump other considerations such as such as the desire to have children someday, convenience or finances.”

But there are some other legal aspects to consider too, including in Australia: that marriage revokes a will unless it was created ‘in contemplation of marriage’, marriage spouses automatically become each other's next of kin, income tax changes, and there could be changes in future property settlements, survivor benefits, health insurance payments and claims, custody of children, maintenance payments and even inheritance.

But you want to know, when you wake up the day after your wedding, what happens then?

Dating and Relationship coach, Beck Thompson, from The Relationship Circle is going to teach you:

  • The changes couples experience once they get married
  • Why you need to work out and talk about your (sometimes) unconscious expectations
  • How to start the discussion about traditional or gender roles and responsibilities, and
  • Understanding the significance of changing your last name after you get married.

 

Resources Mentioned:

The Relationship Circle: https://www.therelationshipcircle.com/

The Relationship Circle Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2220575

The Relationship Circle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_relationship_circle/

The Pew Research Centre: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2019/11/06/why-people-get-married-or-move-in-with-a-partner/

Marriage and your will: https://tetlowlegal.com.au/marriage-changes/

What changes when we marry: https://www.celebrants.org.au/information/everyone/types-of-ceremonies/marriage-ceremonies/what-changes-when-we-marry


Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast



*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*


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This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.

Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.


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Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.



Support the Show.

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/
or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely

Email the Unbridely Podcast:
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