Welcome to America’s top-rated sexuality podcast Dr. Sex Fairy,. I am Dr. Kanwal Bawa, America’s favorite sex doctor, and I am here to transform your life. Today’s episode is part of our new series called Six Minutes On Sex where I discuss some crucial and hard hitting topics that will help you biohack your sex life, and optimize your performance and pleasure. If you are watching this on YouTube, don't forget to subscribe to this channel and show me the love with likes, shares and comments. Also subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and leave me a 5 star review.
Today's episode delves into a subject that's often cloaked in mystery and a plethora of misconceptions: female ejaculation and squirting. We are going to unravel the scientific facts, dissect its portrayal in media and pornography, and discuss the profound impact these depictions have on our individual perceptions and the dynamics of our relationships.
Let's start with the basics. What exactly are female ejaculation and squirting? Contrary to popular belief, these are two distinct phenomena. Female ejaculation involves a thicker milky fluid from the paraurethral glands, while squirting involves a clear fluid that's more like urine from the bladder.
Squirting has become quite a topic of conversation in recent years. In 2021, searches for squirting videos on PornHub increased by 188% in the UK and 213% increase in France.
In today's digital age, pornography has a massive influence on how we perceive sex, including the phenomenon of squirting. Often idealized and exaggerated in adult films, squirting is portrayed as a common and intensely pleasurable experience. However, it's important to recognize that pornography is a form of entertainment, not education. It can set unrealistic expectations for both women and their partners.
Many women feel pressured to squirt because of what they've seen in pornography, thinking it's the ultimate indicator of sexual pleasure. Meanwhile, their partners may feel inadequate if they can't 'make' them squirt. It is crucial to understand that sexual responses are highly personal and varied. Not experiencing squirting doesn't diminish the pleasure or intimacy of sex.
On the other hand, some women feel shame or embarrassment if they do squirt, worrying that it's abnormal or unappealing to their partner.
Many wonder if a woman can learn to squirt. While some women might discover how to enhance sensations that lead to squirting, it is important to note that it is not a universal experience. Each woman's body is unique, and sexual experiences should be about exploring and enjoying these unique responses. A woman who can squirt and a woman who cannot squirt are both completely normal. And of the women who do squirt, they can either feel pleasure or no difference at all. At the end of the day their women and their partners should be more concerned about achieving orgasm than they are about squirting.
Normalizing these discussions and understanding the biological aspects can help with these feelings. Open and honest communication is key in navigating the complexities of sexual experiences, including squirting. Partners should feel comfortable discussing their likes, dislikes, and any concerns. Understanding and respecting each other's boundaries and preferences is crucial for a healthy sexual relationship. The Dr. Sex Fairy Podcast exists because I want to help create an environment where all aspects of sexual response are accepted and respected.
The other function of this podcast is to bring you information about treatments that can transform your life. As a woman ages, due to hormonal issues, wear and tear, chronic conditions and more, she tends to become less orgasmic. In fact, just like a penis can shrink with time, so can a clitoris. At Bawa Medical I have helped women regain past glory, and even surpass it in many cases by curating just the right combination of treatments led by the BawaShot, my world renowned treatment to bring the clitoris and vagina back to life. I have also formulated other
treatments that can tighten, lubricate and sensitize the area in different ways. The sky is the limit. What you need to aim for is exquisite pleasure, not squirting, because there is zero reason to accept a life without it.
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Until next time.