Ep. 167: 11 Oral Techniques to Drive Your Partner Wild

In this sensual and empowering episode I explore the art of oral intimacy like never before. Whether you are looking to deepen your connection or ignite new passion, this episode is your ultimate guide to creating unforgettable experiences in the bedroom.

  
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Transcript

11 Oral Techniques to Drive Your Partner Wild 

Welcome to America's top Sexuality Podcast, Dr. Sex Fairy. I am Dr. Kanwal Bawa, America's favorite sex doctor, and I am here to change your life. If this is your first time tuning in, let me take a moment to welcome you to the Dr. Sex Fairy tribe. If you have been a listener for a while, thank you for your loyalty.  

Today, we are diving into an irresistibly sexy and incredibly important topic: "11 Oral Techniques to Drive Your Partner Wild." Oral sex is definitely one of the most intimate and passionate ways any two people can connect with each other; at the same time, it is an art that calls for both practice and creativity. Whether you have been together for years or you are just starting a new romance, the techniques I'm going to share with you will make you feel like a sexual virtuoso. And trust me, by the end of this episode, your partner will be putty in your hands and your mouth! 

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Now, let's get right into "11 Oral Techniques to Drive Your Partner Wild." Number one on the list is one that I simply can't preach enough: Tease First. There's never a time when oral sex should feel hurried. Teasing builds the anticipation. It is almost like setting the scene for the main course. Lick and kiss your partner on their inner thighs, lower abdomen, hip area… all the areas that are often ignored. Stimulate anything and everything except the genitals. You want to tease them before giving it to them. Take your time. Use the feather out of the Valentine’s Day Box and run it down your partner’s breast… abdomen,,, back or thighs. Run it down their calf… Try different areas whether your partner is male or female. Observe your partner's reactions. They'll be begging for more by the time you actually get to their penis or vagina. 

Later, add another layer of sensation by introducing Breath Play. This is a seldom-employed technique, but boy, is it potent. After teasing with kisses and licks, try blowing air gently on the breast, and the nipples in particular. Don’t ignore a man’s nipples. Nerves are nerves, and they can bring pleasure. There are people whose nipples are so sensitive that they can orgasm from this stimulation alone. This also works on areas like the inner thighs, breasts, or along the shaft of the penis. The sensation of your breath can cause pleasure to course through your partner's body and create an unforgettable experience. While the overwhelming majority of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, some women can experience nipple orgasms, a full-blown orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Can you experience them? Can you help your partner experience them? You will have to try! And don’t forget to email me about your success at askme@drsexfairy.com. 

Now, let’s go to tip number three: Swirl and Flick. Your tongue is arguably the most versatile tool in your oral repertoire, and this technique really puts it to work. Switch between swirling motions and quick flicks with your tongue. Swirling can cover larger areas, while flicking adds concentrated and focused stimulation. For example, let’s talk about how you can use this to drive her wild. The clitoris hides underneath a skin covering called a hood. You should swirl your tongue around the clitoral hood before running your tongue in quick flicks directly against the clitoris itself. It gives her different amounts of stimulation and that variation can make a difference. 

For men, try whirling around the head of the penis, then lightly flicking your tongue against the frenulum. Let’s make sure you know exactly where this is. The frenulum is the area…that band of tissue… on the underside of the penis where the foreskin meets the head of the penis. The swirl and flick combination will drive him absolutely crazy. 

Now, let's kick it up a notch it up with Suction. Light sucking is an integral element of life-changing oral sex. Whether one is sucking on the clitoris or the head of the penis, suction creates a deep, pleasurable sensation. The key here is to keep changing it up. Don't use the same amount of suction from start to finish. Start soft and gentle, building up in intensity before releasing. This unpredictable rhythm will keep your partner guessing, and each change in pressure will send waves of pleasure through their body. 

Keep in mind that your mouth is just one part of the equation, albeit an important one. Put It All Together & Combine Mouth and Hands. And so, tip number five may allow you to stimulate multiple areas at once or use both in one area. This can make oral sex exponentially more pleasurable for your partner. If performing oral sex on a man, for instance, you may use your hand to stroke the base of his penis softly, while your mouth focuses on the head. If performing oral sex on a woman, use your fingers to massage the inner part of her clitoris which is about two inches inside the vagina on the anterior or frontal part of her vaginal wall. At the same time, lavish attention on the outer, visible part of her clitoris with your tongue. Trust me, she will approve because combining these two sensations works wonders in amplifying her pleasure. 

Now, let's move on to Changing the Pace. It's tip number six, and it really works in building that sexual tension leading up to explosive climaxes. Quick, repetitive movements can be a thrill, but changes in tempo between fast and slow keep things really interesting. Try building up the intensity with quick, focused licks, then slow down with softer, more deliberate strokes. This back-and-forth keeps your partner guessing, and each change in pace builds anticipation until they are absolutely teetering on the edge of orgasm. 

Next, tip number seven is all about Pressure Play. Much like rhythm, varying the pressure of your touch can be up the ante. Tease: use soft, light licks and kisses, and follow those up with harder, firmer strokes. The frenulum of men or underside of the head may feel better when more pressure is applied, while some women prefer a firmer stimulation of the clitoris and labia for extra excitement. The idea is to try many different types of pressure and see what works best. And even then, don’t fall into the trap of doing exactly that forever after. Not only is that plain boring, you don’t want to desensitize that part of the penis or vagina. 

Number eight also takes it to the next level of adventure: Temperature Play. Incorporating temperature into one's oral play elevates sensation in a manner that is thrilling and quite unpredictable. Try running an ice cube over your partner's skin before following up with warm, soft kisses. Or sip hot tea and let the temperature difference between cold air and hot coming from your mouth create a different sensation. Sharp temperature differential-external and internal-keeps your partner on their toes, amplifying the sensation. Suck on some peppermint from your Dr. Sex Fairy Valentine’s Day Box and then give your partner oral sex. Keep it interesting. 

Now let’s talk about number nine. Add a sensory twist with vibration. Soft humming or moaning while your mouth is on your partner creates natural vibrations that can ramp up their pleasure. The vibrations fire up the nerve endings in a way neither pure licking nor sucking can. It's a simple but powerful tool in your toolbelt. Use the both the female and male vibrator in your Valentine’s Day Box one by one. Don't be limited by who the toy is marketed for. A woman's vibrator can be used on a penis and a man's vibrator can be used on a woman, so be creative. 

Next, we have number ten: Edging. People often discuss edging as something a man does himself to increase his endurance. While that is a perfectly good use of this technique, edging is more than that. You can also use it on your partner. This is when you bring your partner to the very point of orgasm and then immediately stop or slow down before they can actually get there. Done multiple times, it amps up their arousal to virtually unbearable levels. By the time you allow them to orgasm, it is far stronger than if they were to achieve a quick one. Edging requires patience and control, but it is one of the most potent techniques to maximize your partner’s and your own pleasure. 

And last but not least we have #11… Eye to Eye Intimacy: The emotional side of oral sex is something you can't afford to ignore. The emotional connection you will feel while looking in your partner's eyes while pleasing them amplifies the entire physical experience for both of you. It is more than just physical pleasure. Raw eye-to-eye contact during oral sex can make the act intensely erotic. Mix it up by intermittently blindfolding your partner with a silky blindfold that is included in the Dr. Sex Fairy Valentine's Day Box. You can even lightly tie your partner's wrists together with the blindfold. Needless to say, you need their consent first, but a little 50 Shades of Grey play can be just what Dr. Sex Fairy ordered for you. 

And there you have it - 11 powerful oral techniques to drive your partner wild. But let me remind you, oral sex is much more than just about technique; it is about tuning into your partner's needs, reading their body language, and creating an experience that will be physically and emotionally satisfying. The more present and engaged you are, the more powerful the experience will be for both of you. It is about connection, chemistry, and being fully present in the moment. No two partners are alike, and therein lies the beauty of oral sex: in its variability and malleability- the way you can take these techniques and make them your own based on your partner's unique desires and reactions. Click the link in the podcast description to order your own Dr. Sex Fairy Valentine's Day Box or call us at 1-877-DRSEXFAIRY or 561-453-2020. We will ship it you no matter where you are. And don't think for a second that you can't use this box any other day of the year. This box will bring you excitement and pleasure for a very long time. 

I want to remind you that this podcast is about more than sexy tips and tricks. It is about empowerment- empowering you to glow in your own sexuality, empowering your partner to experience all that sex, love and connection can be, to communicate with your partner, to find new ways to bring pleasure into your life and theirs. Sexuality is a critical piece of our well-being, and once we learn how to tend to it, every other piece of our lives will thrive. 

The key to great oral sex is realizing that it is not just about the performance; it is about how you make your partner feel. Every touch, every kiss, every moment together equates to an opportunity for deepen connection. When you take the time to make sure that your partner experiences pleasure, the bond between you grows beyond the physical. One of the hottest things you can possibly do is to ask your partner what they like and want more of, and what they fantasize about. Communicate, have fun, and be adventurous; there is no reason to ever stop trying new things with each other.  

Whether you have been together for years or just a few days, never stop being curious. Sexuality is a journey, not a destination. It is something you continually discover and rediscover alone and with your partner. These 11 techniques will change the game and so I want you to try every single one of them.  

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Before I end this episode, I want you to remember to keep exploring, keep loving, and keep driving your partner absolutely wild. Until next time.