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How to negotiate your salary? How to know if I’m asking for too much money at work? How to know if you’re underpaid? What is the gender Pay Gap? What is Latina Equal Pay Day?
And for the real question: Can I really negotiate a 5 figure salary increase? Whether you’ve never negotiated, had an unsuccessful salary negotiation, or just learned that negotiating your salary is a possibility, this show is for you!
The Págame Podcast is a live-workshop style personal finance and career podcast packed with actionable step-by-step tips that have helped my clients negotiate over $680k in salary increases and allowed them to step into their most authentic selves.
This show will serve women on how to slay their negotiation and overcome self-doubt to help them negotiate a 5 figure salary increase.
Hi I’m Evie 👋🏼 I am the founder of Self Worth Accelerator and host of Págame Podcast. I’m a Latina Salary Negotiation Coach, Speaker and Podcaster. I help women negotiate 5 figure salary increases by helping them step into the version of themselves who love more, receive more and attract more money. I created Págame podcast to teach women of color how to overcome fear, rediscover their self-worth and help them step into their higher selves so they can negotiate high paying salaries.
As of today, I’ve helped my clients negotiate over $500k in base salary increases in the Self Worth Accelerator Mastermind! Tune in now to learn how to slay your next salary negotiation!
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EP 11. Breaking the Cycle: Healing Wounded Masculine Dynamics & Hyper-Independence with Cande (Latina Healing & Self-Worth)
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In this powerful episode, Evie and Latina life coach Cande explore how childhood roles, hyper-independence, and wounded masculine energy shape relationships, money, and self-worth for Latinas. Learn how to break trauma cycles, cultivate safety, and step into healthier feminine-masculine dynamics.
Cande shares her transformative journey—from growing up with the belief that she should never rely on anyone, to navigating a long-term relationship where she carried the weight of hyper-independence. Together, we unpack the deeply rooted narratives that push Latinas into hyper-masculine energy, often leading to burnout, unbalanced relationships, and emotional exhaustion.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- How generational beliefs around money and self-reliance impact Latina women
- The difference between wounded masculine energy and healthy masculine dynamics
- Recognizing trauma bonds and breaking free from cycles of over-functioning in relationships
- The importance of rest, reflection, and self-awareness in healing
- Why feeling “safe” is the foundation for true partnership and personal growth
Key Takeaways:
- You can be grateful and still ask for more—in relationships, in your career, and in life.
- Hyper-independence isn’t strength when it isolates you from genuine support.
- Healing requires pausing, reflecting, and allowing yourself to feel safe enough to receive.
If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow amiga who might need this reminder. Subscribe and leave a review—it helps us reach more Latinas ready to reclaim their power.
About Cande:
Candelaria (Cande) González is a certified life coach helping First-Generation Latinas in their 30s break free from unfulfilling careers and relationships to create lives they love. She combines mindset, spirituality, and practical strategies to help her clients gain clarity, confidence, and take bold action toward their dreams. Cande is currently accepting new clients to work together via private coaching. Book your complimentary sales call today in the link below.
Website: Siempre Evolving
IG: @siempreevolving
Keywords: Latina healing podcast, wounded masculine energy, hyper-independence Latina, relationship healing for women of color, Latina self-worth, childhood trauma healing,
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