The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
394 episodes
391. Marriage And Parenting Unfiltered... Funny Experiences! Tell Us We Aren't Alone :)
We were sitting on the couch the other night laughing about how much of our daily life as a married couple could sometimes be straight out of a sitcom.No one writes this stuff... it just happens in our house.🤣In this podcast episode ...
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33:19
390. How An Intimate-less Marriage Negatively Impacts A Wife
We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he’s the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife is withholding or doesn't want sexual intimacy? Either scenario, the negative impacts...
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26:28
389. The Major Turn-Offs That You Don't Even Realize You Are Doing In Your Marriage
Let’s be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn’t sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to that "Thanks-for-nothing" attitude, sometimes the smallest things can flip th...
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41:29
388. Women Need To "Feel" Loved To Make Love, And Men Need To Make Love To Feel Loved!
You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives th...
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44:24
387. The Best Conflict Resolution Advice For Married Couples We Have Ever Heard!
This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.In this epi...
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40:17
386. How To Make Your Date Night A "Great" Night!
Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether?In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into how to turn your average date night into a great night! They’ll share real ans...
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43:17
385. How To Shift From "Parent Mode" To "Lover Mode" And Why You Need To!
Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. However, transitioning from “parent mode” to “lover mode” is crucial for mainta...
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23:25
384. Spicy Game Night Ideas (normal games turned 🔥)
In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and the best part? You probably already own everything you need!This is on...
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18:48
383. Old-School Romance: How Chivalry Strengthens Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive into chivalry and what it actually looks like in modern-day marriage.
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19:28
382. All The MANY Benefits Of Marriage... Survey answers!
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we’re not just talking about tax breaks and shared chores! In fact we don’t even mention either of those! We discuss emotional...
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20:54
381. Top 10 Foreplay Tips From Our Wives Poll
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into one of the most requested topics from our community: Foreplay! We asked thousands of wives to share their favorite foreplay things they want to see from t...
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30:36
380. The 7 Stages Of Marriage... And How To Find Passion During Each Of Them
When Amy and I got married, we were head-over-heels in love with each other… but also totally clueless and unprepared for what marriage would actually throw at us. No one gave us a roadmap, and we we made a ton of mistakes early on! <...
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22:42
379. Ask Yourself These VITAL Questions Before Going To A Marriage Therapist
Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you...
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27:47
378. How To Avoid The "Death By Comparison" Trap In Marriage
We live in a world that constantly invites us to compare. From curated highlight reels on social media to romanticized portrayals in movies, it’s easy to look at someone else’s relationship and start questioning your own. We often think "why do...
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24:15
377. Is Your Marriage Intimate Enough?? Take This Quiz To Find Out
Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It’s Not About Frequency—It’s About Fulfillment.Intimacy isn’t a scoreboard. It’s not about how often you’re having sex compared to other couples, it’s about whether it’s
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23:51
376. If You Were To Ask Your Kids What "They" Think About Your Marriage... What Would They Say?
If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love, kindness, respect, and affection—or would they notice tension, distance, or disconnection?
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23:56
375. Why A Good Spouse Doesn't Deserve To Be In A "Non Intimate" Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share our thoughts on why a good spouse doesn't deserve to be in a "non intimate" marriage. We are not just talking about sexual intimacy, but also emotional intimacy, because intimacy is not...
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35:08
374. 5 Steps To Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage - We Share Our Personal Story
Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it’s broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into five essential steps couples must take to truly rebuild ...
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31:08
373. Survey Answers: What Is The Best Marriage Advice You Have Ever Been Given That Actually Works In Your Marriage?
We asked our audience: "What is the BEST marriage advice you've ever been given that actually works in your marriage?"And you delivered—big time!In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the top r...
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27:23
372. My Husband Says "Why Do I Need To Keep Dating You? We're Married"
We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:“Why do I need to keep dating you? We’re already married.”And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.
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30:32
371. Why Men Get Married vs. Why Women Get Married - Do You Agree?
We (Amy and I) were having a discussion the other day about why we felt men get married and why women get married. I gave my reasons and of course she gave hers, but we wanted to see what you thought and if our reasons were in line with what ot...
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25:03
370. How Can I Make My Husband Feel Like He's My #1
We had a wife reach out to us and ask how she could make her husband feel like he is #1 in their marriage. We thought it was great that she was asking that question, and that she truly desired to make him feel that way!Life can get so bu...
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26:43
369. What Are The Things A Wife Expects Of A "Good Husband" - And Is It Good To Have Expectations In Marriage? - Poll Answers
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a hot topic: What should be expected from a good husband?We didn’t just guess — we went straight to our audience and asked real wives (and husbands!) ...
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18:19
368. How Finances Can Impact The Intimacy In Your Marriage
In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances. Whether you're newlyweds or 20 years in, money matters can make or break intimacy and trus...
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35:19
367. The Secrets To Unlocking Female Orgasm - With Cindy Scharkey
Have you ever wondered what it really takes to unlock female pleasure and orgasm? Let’s be honest—most men don’t fully understand the female body, and what works one night might not work the next. The female sexual response can be complex and o...
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