Growing up, I was raised with the idea that I must put myself last in everything I do. Whether it was a goal, a dream, or an idea for dinner, I needed to put myself last in order to elevate other people. I grew up to be selfless in every aspect that I often would do things and not even realise that I was simply doing what I thought others would want me to do, not what I felt in my heart that I needed to do.
This is common for many women in our community, we prioritise others and shrink ourselves.
Self-Love had been such a foreign concept to me. I still believe that being selfless is such an amazing quality and I believe that selflessness is an important character trait to posses. That being said, I have learned that when you love yourself and make your well-being a priority, you can serve other’s in such a better capacity! I’ve learned that in order to serve others in a truly selfless way, you need to love yourself first.
You can not pour from an empty cup!
Some of the key learnings:
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