Less Stress In Life
Welcome to Less Stress in Life—the podcast dedicated to helping you navigate life with greater ease, energy, and balance. In our Empowered Wellness series, we share practical tools, expert insights, and meaningful conversations designed to support your journey toward feeling more in control and at peace in your everyday life.
Hosted by Deb Timmerman, a registered nurse and reflexologist; Susie Marsh, a social worker and professional organizer; and Lindsay Vertalka, a physical therapist, we bring a unique blend of perspectives to help you move through life—literally and figuratively—with more confidence, grace, and vitality.
Whether it’s finding calm in chaos, creating supportive spaces, or building strength and resilience, we’re here to guide you every step of the way. Join us to discover how small shifts can lead to big changes, helping you live with less stress and greater ease.
Less Stress In Life
Why Can’t I Sleep? Exploring the Real Reasons You’re Exhausted
In this episode of the Empowered Wellness Series, Deb Timmerman is joined by Susie Marsh, professional organizer, and Lindsay Vertalka, physical therapist, to unpack one of the most common and frustrating wellness challenges: poor sleep. Whether you're struggling to fall asleep, stay asleep, or feel rested, you're not alone—and there's a lot more behind the problem than meets the eye.
This candid, relatable conversation explores the science of sleep, common disruptions, and practical tools for reclaiming rest without depending solely on sleep aids. From CPAPs and weighted blankets to heart rate variability and cluttered bedrooms, we explore the real-life strategies that have helped—and what might help you too.
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Episode Highlights:
Why Sleep Matters More Than You Think
- Sleep impacts healing, cognition, immunity, weight, and emotional regulation.
- Chronic poor sleep increases inflammation and foggy thinking.
Breaking Down Sleep Aids:
- Prescription: Ambien, Ativan, Trazodone — may help you fall asleep, but not stay asleep, and have side effects.
- Over-the-Counter: Benadryl and others may cause dependency or grogginess.
- Supplements & Natural Aids: Magnesium, melatonin, valerian root, essential oils—often gentler, but still need thoughtful use.
Real Sleep Stories
- Susie’s anxiety-fueled sleepwalking during her social work career.
- Lindsay’s long-standing night owl habits and how using a CPAP changed everything.
- Deb’s experience with 12-hour night shifts and how sleep deprivation mimicked brain fog and emotional dysregulation.
The Stress-Sleep Connection
- Long shifts and high-stress jobs can take 72+ hours to recover from.
- Poor sleep disrupts heart rate variability, leading to nervous system overload.
- Neurodivergent brains (ADHD, depression) often have different sleep rhythms.
Your Environment Matters
- Cluttered bedrooms = cluttered sleep. Your space should invite calm.
- Pets in the bed, loud TVs, light, and temperature all impact sleep quality.
Tools That Help:
- Weighted blankets for calming the nervous system.
- Room darkening shades and a cool room for deeper rest.
- Calm App or Headspace for nighttime meditations and wind-down.
- HeartMath® tools like Heart-Focused Breathing and Coherence techniques for real-time nervous system reset.
Sleep Hygiene = Sleep Routine
- Having a consistent bedtime routine signals your body to relax.
- Making your bed can surprisingly support mental cues for rest.
- Avoiding late caffeine, alcohol, and heavy meals supports more stable sleep patterns.
Final Thoughts:
- Identify your “why” behind sleep struggles—stress, anxiety, pain, routine, environment?
- Start small: one habit, one change, one step toward better rest.
- Consider professional support for persistent sleep problems, especially if pain, anxiety, or possible apnea are involved.
Resources Mentioned:
- HeartMath® Tools (Heart-Focused Breathing + Coherence): Learn how they work to regulate your nervous system.
- Calm App: Guided meditations and wind-down support.
- Episodes 7, 8, and 9: Featuring Susie Marsh on organizing your space for less stress and better sleep.
Call to Action:
If you're feeling exhausted and nothing seems to help, it may not be just your schedule—it could be your nervous system, your environment, or an undiagnosed sleep disorder. Take the time to get curious, not critical. Your body is asking for care—and better sleep is possible.
Want to go deeper? Explore personalized stress relief support with Deb at Less Stress in Life.