Create Love Create Freedom
Guiding you on your journey towards self-healing, self-mastery, personal growth, and transformation so that you can create the life, love, and freedom you desire. Conscious relationship, masculine archetype and feminine archetype teacher Allison Fischer helps you connect deeper to yourself, to each other, and to life.
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Episodes
358 episodes
The Imperfect and Complex Divine Feminine Woman: Areas of My Life I Continue To Work On and Still Need Growth
In this episode, I speak about areas of my like that I am continuing to dig deeper into, examine, and find paths for growth.
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1:20:37
The Divine Feminine and Spiritual Warriorship
By weaving together the softness of compassion, the fierceness of boundary‑setting, and the alchemy of shadow integration, the divine feminine spiritual warrior becomes a force for healing and transformation—both personally and collectively.
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1:03:10
How Negative Emotions Can Hold You Back From Making Progress In Your Life and How to Heal
Negative emotions are innate signals meant to protect us, but in excess or when unexamined, they become barriers—especially for intuitive and reflective women who value authenticity, freedom, and creative/ intellectual flow. By learning to obse...
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52:08
The Cost of Hiding From The Truth: How to Reclaim Your Self Sovereignty
Living inauthentically—hiding your true thoughts, feelings, and desires—can feel safe in the short term, but over years it exacts a heavy toll. Becoming self‑sovereign is a lifelong journey: each choice to honor your inner authority deepe...
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Choosing Solitude Rather Than Being In the Wrong "We": How Being The Guarded Romantic Can Help You Choose The Right Partnership
A woman may choose solitude over remaining in a relationship that feels fundamentally “off” when core needs aren’t being met and remaining feels more painful than being alone. Below are some of the most common drivers behind that choice, what’s...
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Learning How to Be Done: Cultivating the Art of Walking Away Being Unbothered and Protecting Your Peace
By healing the wounds that keep you tethered, integrating both dark and light feminine energies, and practicing unwavering self-worth, you become the woman who can walk away without drama—protecting her peace above all else. It takes consistent...
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The Connection Between Enmeshment Trauma in Childhood, Anxious Attachment, and the Fear of Rejection
Enmeshment trauma, anxious attachment, and fear of rejection often form a kind of feedback loop: early boundary confusion and over-involvement teach a child that love and approval are conditional, which breeds anxiety around being “good enough,...
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Wealth and Worthiness: Dismantling Inherited Beliefs That Keep Us In A Limited Mindset
To embody abundance as her natural state, a woman must shift from striving to magnetizing, from chasing to allowing, from scarcity to sacred sufficiency. Feminine abundance is not merely material wealth—it is the fullness of life, love, pleasur...
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When Men Assert Autonomy In The Relationship During Times Of Transition And Relationship Development
When a man asserts autonomy at key developmental junctures in a relationship—whether it’s moving in together, getting engaged, having children, or navigating a mid-life transition—it typically shows up in both overt behaviors and subtler shifts...
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Being the Late Bloomer: How to Let Go of Cultural Conditioning And Become Your Highest Self On Your Own Timeline
Being a “late bloomer” simply means you reach certain personal, professional, or creative milestones later than the cultural “average.” Far from being a deficiency, this slower unfolding can actually be a powerful gift—especially for wome...
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Living Form A Place Of Scarcity Rather Than Abundance: How To Shift Your Mindset On Your Healing Journey
In this episode, we discuss the aspects of the feminine who feels like she is living in a place of scarcity rather than abundance when she is working through her childhood wounds and trauma, when she is healing from past relationship wounds and...
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Understanding The Dismissive Avoidant Man: Why He Says He Loves You But Doesn't Treat You Like He Does
Romantic involvement with a dismissive‑avoidant (“DA”) partner can feel like a paradox: on one hand there’s warmth, charm, even deep declarations of care; on the other, a stubborn distance that makes you question whether that love is real...
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Healing the Madona-Whore Wound Within the Feminine
In this episode, we continue our discussion of the Madona-Whore Complex and dive into a deep discussion on how the feminine can heal her experiences and psychological trauma related to being labeled the Modona or the Whore in her own life. ...
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1:13:43
Rejecting the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy: The Feminine Who Chooses Autonomy Over Conforming to Patriarchal Roles
As women, we have experienced the Madonna-Whore Complex and have been put into one or both of the categories with different men. In this episode, we discuss the women who choose neither path. We also discuss the correlation of the Madonna-Whore...
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How the Feminine Abandons Herself: The Correlation Between Self-Abandonment, Childhood Wounds, and Insecure Attachment and How the Feminine Can Reclaim Her Self-Identity
Self‑abandonment is the habitual overlooking—or outright suppression—of one’s own needs, feelings, and boundaries in order to maintain connection with another. For a woman socialized into a “feminine” role—encouraged to be nurturing, adaptive, ...
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Male Aggression and Assertiveness as Idealized Traits: How the Feminine Can Live More Harmoniously in a Masculine Dominated Society
In this episode, we discuss male aggression and assertiveness as idealized traits in American society, as well as how our masculine dominated society teaches male agency and selfishness through transgressing boundaries. Americ...
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The Difference Between Being Emotionally Needed Versus Emotionally Loved In A Relationship
In this episode, we discuss the difference between being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved in a relationship, as well as the cost of being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved for a woman in romantic relationships. ...
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Self-Sovereignty, Transformation and the Reclamation of Personal Power
In this episode, we look at the correlations between Persephone and the Shadow Empress feminine archetype and their connection to duality, transformation, and the reclamation of feminine power. Both figures challenge traditional dichotomies, ur...
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Using the Law of Detachment For Feminine Healing, Decentering Men, and Healing Insecure Attachment to Become Your Highest Self
In this episode, we discuss the law of detachment, the law of attachment, healing inner wounds using detachment, and how the feminine can transform her relationships with men using sacred feminine practices and decentering men. By e...
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1:09:36
The Feminine and Self-Discovery: How to Prioritize and Embody Your Inner World
Prioritizing self-discovery is an ongoing, dynamic process that involves cultivating a deeper understanding of a woman's inner world, values, passions, and goals. For a woman aiming to reclaim her individuality and authenticity, self-discovery ...
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Reclaiming Your Independence When You Have Lost Connection With Yourself In Your Relationship
Reclaiming independence in a relationship or after ending a relationship starts with reconnecting to who the feminine is as an individual, rather than as part of a partnership. In this episode, we dive into how we as women can reclaim the parts...
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The Secret of Women Who Hold Their Own: How the Feminine Can Cultivate Quiet Power
The idea of soft, quiet feminine power centers on an inner strength that doesn’t rely on volume or overt dominance but on presence, intuition, and a deep sense of self. It’s the subtle art of influencing the world through calm resilience, empat...
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The Difficult Mother Series: Inner Wounds A Daughter Can Experience, How It Affects Her Relationships, and The Correlation to Insecure Attachment
In this episode, we conclude our last episode in the Difficult Mother Series where we discuss the inner wounds we can experience as daughters with difficult mothers, how it affects all of the future relationships we have throughout our life whe...
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The Difficult Mother Series: Shallow Emotional Expression and Attention Seeking Behavior in the Histrionic Mother and the Impact on Her Daughter
In this episode, we continue our series on being a daughter with a difficult mother. We explore the histrionic mother in this episode - why she has shallow emotional expressions toward others and her daughter, why she constantly seeks attention...
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