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The Gay Buddhist Forum by GBF
The Crucial Role of Renunciation - Danadasa
Renunciation is sometimes misunderstood as involving dramatic sacrifices or rejecting the world.
In this talk, Danadasa emphasizes that it’s actually about creating spaciousness in the heart and mind for deeper clarity and connection. It’s less about deprivation and more about redirecting our energy toward something more meaningful and peaceful.
He shares how, in the Buddhist path, renunciation helps loosen the grip of craving and habit energy, making space for genuine freedom. He describes how we often live on autopilot, and renunciation can be as simple as saying no to distractions or addictive tendencies that clutter our awareness. He offers personal reflections and encourages listeners to explore this not as a moral duty, but as a source of joy and liberation.
Danadasa also outlines three key insights related to renunciation:
- Letting go is natural – Just like a child eventually lets go of toys they outgrow, our inner life can outgrow certain attachments too.
- Renunciation reveals what’s already here – When we drop constant seeking, we begin to sense a quiet contentment that was hidden beneath our cravings.
- It's supported by mindfulness – The more present we are, the more we see what’s wholesome to keep and what’s wise to release.
He encourages us to reflect without pressure, and to trust the unfolding of our own path.
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Danadasa (he/him) began meditating and practicing Buddhism in 1993 and was ordained in the Triratna Buddhist Order in 2011 at the San Francisco Buddhist Center. At his ordination, he received his Buddhist name Danadasa which, in Sanskrit, means “servant of generosity”. In 1995, he developed a heart connection with the archetypal Buddha Amitabha, rooted in the Japanese Pure Land tradition Jodo Shinshu (known in the Western world as Shin Buddhism), and has been practicing an Amitabha sadhana (devotional practice) since 2011.
Danadasa is deeply passionate about teaching meditation, mindfulness and Buddhism in a somatic and embodied way, bringing the Buddha’s teachings to life in our imaginations through images and storytelling. Embodied practice is the path of getting out of our heads and into our bodies, for it is in our bodies that liberation reveals itself.
Over the past 20 years, Danadasa has held various administrative and leadership roles within the San Francisco Buddhist Center (SFBC). And in 2023, he resigned from all of his formal SFBC roles, as well as taking a break from teaching for a period of wandering in the wilderness, free from the external responsibilities, expectations and social norms of the monastery, following in the footsteps of the great “crazy wisdom” Mahasiddhas of the past. Since then, many lineage Masters and archetypal Buddhas have provided Danadasa with guidance and inspiration, including Tilopa, Naropa, Padmasambhava, Vajrakilaya, and Machig Labdron. In 2024, Danadasa received Vajrayogini initiation and empowerment. Through Vajrayogini, the Mother of All the Buddhas, the meaning of the Buddha’s words is beginning to reveal itself.
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