My Inner Torch
My Inner Torch offers direct and personal insight with help for those of us in a relationship with someone who is undiagnosed/diagnosed with a Cluster B Personality Disorder. This is a safe place to come for words of inspiration that draw from my personal experiences and is produced to gain understanding and to find direction as we navigate through the often difficult relationships with those we love who suffer with a Cluster B personality disorder that includes BPD and NPD. PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is NOT for those who suffer with these disorders. This podcast is for survivors of these challenging and difficult relationships.
My Inner Torch
The Bitter Pill...
I often feel frustrated with those of us who romanticize relationships with individuals exhibiting cluster B personality traits, especially during and after a divorce. I remember a specific instance where someone mourned a “best friend” they believed to be a covert narcissist. I found their feelings misguided because these individuals were never true friends. It’s so important to recognize the facade presented by these personalities.
Reflecting on my own experience, I can assert that my spouse lacked genuine care for me. I believe that many people involved with cluster B personalities often miss out on the benefits of the relationship itself rather than missing the partner. These individuals tend to see others as possessions rather than people deserving of love.
I’ve witnessed the emotional struggles, low self-esteem, manipulation, and gaslighting that are common in these toxic dynamics. I urge anyone in a similar situation to confront the painful reality of their relationships. Self-awareness and healing are essential, and we need to stop romanticizing past connections. Ultimately, I stress that true friendship cannot coexist with harmful behaviors, and accepting this truth is crucial for moving forward.