My Inner Torch
My Inner Torch offers direct and personal insight with help for those of us in a relationship with someone who is undiagnosed/diagnosed with a Cluster B Personality Disorder. This is a safe place to come for words of inspiration that draw from my personal experiences and is produced to gain understanding and to find direction as we navigate through the often difficult relationships with those we love who suffer with a Cluster B personality disorder that includes BPD and NPD. PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is NOT for those who suffer with these disorders. This podcast is for survivors of these challenging and difficult relationships.
My Inner Torch
Welcome to the Danger Zone!
I often find myself grappling with the emotional challenges that come with being in a relationship with someone who exhibits Cluster B personality traits, especially during the festive season when everyone seems to expect happiness. I feel torn between my desire for a better relationship and the harsh reality of disappointment. The societal pressures and my fears of loneliness often push me to stay in unhealthy situations.
I reflect on the justifications I’ve used to rationalize my decision to remain, such as financial dependency and the obligations I feel toward my family. However, I recognize the importance of taking personal responsibility and valuing my self-worth in order to break free from codependency. I’ve come to understand that I need to manage my expectations and prioritize my emotional well-being. Seeking support from positive relationships has become essential for me, and I truly believe that leaving toxic partnerships can lead to healthier outcomes for both myself and my family.