Instead of seeing everyone for who they are, we are only able to see them through the lens we’ve created for how we view the world.
That lens is constructed piece by piece throughout our lives, depending on our traumas, pains, achievements, and life events.
There’s no one to blame, especially not yourself, if you find yourself projecting your deepest fears or your strict standards onto other people. It’s natural. It’s part of being human.
Projecting is when you believe something about the world and then start to see it in other people. Each one of us HAS been hurt, bullied, bruised, traumatized, made to feel insecure or lesser than… So we create stories that support that narrative.
We need to start recognizing that our brains as just trying to "keep us safe" - and get over that - in order to remove the barrier of anxiety and distrust.
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