Marriage Lab

User Error of Hope- if "have hope" feels like a chore

Aaron & Jenna Zint

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What do you do when you’re losing hope in your marriage/a relationship?

Not because you don’t love your spouse. 

Not because you’re giving up. 

But because the same painful patterns keep repeating, and you’re exhausted waiting for change.

In this episode, we talk about why many of us misunderstand biblical hope, especially in relationships. We often treat hope like optimism, instant relief, or confidence our spouse will finally change. But what if hope was never meant to work that way?

We explore why hope is not a feeling you wait for, but a perspective you cultivate, how to stay anchored when change feels slow, and why remembering God’s faithfulness matters in seasons of recurring pain.

Because hope doesn’t always change your circumstances immediately, but it does change how you endure while waiting :) 


Two Youtube Video Jenna refrenced about Hope: 

#1 Video for "Remembering" 

#2 Video for "Remembering"


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