Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
326 episodes
The Science Behind The Perfect Post-Date Text
Stop agonizing over when you should text, and start using data.We’re breaking down a brand-new study that debunks the "Three-Day Rule" that's actually destroying your dating life. Learn the exact "Sweet Spot" timing that increases ch...
The Limiting Beliefs Keeping Successful Women Single After 40
Most successful women don't struggle in dating because they lack options. They struggle because the same drive that built their career quietly works against them in love. I've coached thousands of women through this. The patterns ar...
7 Ways to Know if a Guy REALLY Likes You (or is just breadcrumbing)
A peculiar trend has emerged in the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, leaving many to wonder, "What in the world are guys doing?" The scenario is all too familiar: you're texting a guy, the conversation is flirty, sparks are seemingly f...
Does He Like You? 5 Things Men INSTANTLY Notice
Think he’s just checking out your eyes? Think again. Men are subconsciously "thin-slicing" your behavior from the very first minute to decide if you're a partner or a "project."We’re diving into the 5 specific things high-character men p...
What Men Find Attractive in a Woman
So what do men REALLY find attractive in a woman? Is it her physical appearance, or are there other more important attributes that matter? In this week's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss what men find attractive in a woman, and it has very little...
Attracting the Wrong Men? 5 Ways to Trust Your Dating Instincts
If your past dating choices have left you questioning your own judgment, it’s time to stop "following your heart" and start recalibrating your discernment.This episode breaks down why your gut feelings might be failing you and provides a...
If A Man Ignores You, Here’s What He’s Thinking
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).Originally aired: Jun. 2...
The Feminine Energy Secret That Will Make You Stop Choosing Toxic Men
In this special episode, join Executive Love Coach Robin as she reveals how to master feminine confidence without losing your professional edge.Learn why "feminine energy" isn’t about being less powerful, but about installing the right "...
Why Confidence (Not Perfection) Makes You Irresistible to Men
Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to ...
Why Smart Women Keep Getting Ghosted After Great Dates
We’ve all seen the script play out: The texting is solid. The effort is visible. You feel a genuine connection sparking. And then, silence.Ghosting become the "new normal" of the digital dating era. But as we tell our clients, while ghos...
Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust h...
10 Questions That Make Emotionally Distant Men Finally Open Up
If you’re tired of hearing "fine" and "nothing" every time you ask a man how he’s doing, it’s time to change the input to get a better output.We’re breaking down the 10 power questions that bypass the "small talk trap" and get him to ope...
7 Brutal Truths I Wish Women Knew About Dating Men
I’m not here to sugarcoat things… I’m here to tell you the brutal truths about dating men that most women never hear. If you’ve been attracting the wrong guys—emotionally unavailable men, commitment-phobes, or “man-children”—this video...
3 Mistakes That Make Men Feel Emotionally Unsafe With You
We've got 5 must-hear dating tips for men...but ladies, this isn't all about men. You'll want to hear what we have to tell them, because all the same advice will help you in your dating life as well.If you want to deeply und...
How to Attract a High-Character Man (It's NOT What You Think)
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracti...
You’re Triggering His Lust - And Losing His Respect
Ever wonder why the "perfect on paper" guy feels like a snooze fest, while a three-second glance at a coffee shop feels like a lightning bolt?It isn’t a mystery and it isn’t just luck, it’s biology.This week, we’re breaking down t...
Are You Sabotaging Your Dating Life?
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating...
5 Things Men Say To Test You On Dates
Think that "How is someone as amazing as you still single?" line is just a sweet compliment? Think again.We’re pulling back the curtain on the secret playbook of "guy moves" used to size you up, from the social circle "investigations" to...
5 Ways to Make Him Emotionally Addicted to You
Let’s be honest: Love is addictive.So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make ...
5 Things High-Quality Men Want But Never Say
Think all men are "basic"? Think again.If you’re looking for a high-character guy, you need to understand the hidden motivations, from the desire to be approached to the need for a "peaceful sanctuary," that he’ll never admit out loud.
What Mature Men Find Irresistible in a Woman (5 Key Things)
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (a...
5 Ways To Stop Getting The Ick From The Man You Actually Need
Are you addicted to the "chase" but exhausted by the results?It’s time to talk about why the "boring" guy is actually the one who will make you happiest.Ready to stop chasing elusive players and start choosing a stable, “spicy van...
Give Me 7 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men
What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, withou...