Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
230 episodes
Give Us 10 Minutes And We'll Teach You How to Flirt Over 40
Flirting over 40 doesn't have to be a mystery. In this 10-minute guide, we'll teach you a dignified and high-character approach to flirting that leaves the giggling and cutesy stuff behind. From subtle body language to playful verbal cues, you'...
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6 Myths That Silently Sabotage Your Dating Life (And Push Men Away)
What if the “dating advice” you’ve been told your whole life is the very thing keeping you single?In this video, I uncover the 6 biggest myths that silently sabotage smart, successful women in love. These myths feel true—but they quietly...
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Why Confidence (Not Perfection) Makes You Irresistible to Men
Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to ...
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What Men Find Deeply Beautiful in a Woman (It’s Not What You Think)
You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).
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The Hidden Cost of Being ‘Too Independent’ (and How to Fix It)
In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You’re absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection i...
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5 Signs Your Wounds Are Secretly Choosing Your Partners
Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to star...
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5 Magnetic Phrases That Spark Chemistry on a First Date
Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don’t fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instant...
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15 Simple Rules to Make Dating Easier After 40
Do you secretly love rules, even if you pretend you don't? This episode reveals how a few simple dating "rules" can put your love life on autopilot, making it effortless and fun. Stop the guesswork and learn the easy guidelines that will help y...
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7 Brutal Truths I Wish Women Knew About Dating Men
I’m not here to sugarcoat things… I’m here to tell you the brutal truths about dating men that most women never hear. If you’ve been attracting the wrong guys—emotionally unavailable men, commitment-phobes, or “man-children”—this video...
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4 Dangerous Risks of Pursuing POWERFUL Men For Relationships
Are you drawn to powerful men? If so, it’s crucial to be aware of the four dangerous risks involved in pursuing such relationships.Originally Aired: June 11th, 2024
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7 Things Men Secretly Love About Older Women
This podcast explores the surprising appeal of older women in dating, revealing the attractive qualities that transcend age. Discover why maturity, confidence, and a zest for life make older women incredibly desirable.
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7 Classy Ways to Capture a Guy’s Attention
Ready to captivate a man's attention without appearing too eager? Today's podcast reveals seven powerful strategies to command his interest.Originally Aired: June 23rd, 2024
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How to Design an Online Dating Profile That Will Find You Love After 40
Tired of endless swiping and disappointing dates? This week, we're revealing our top strategies to transform your online dating profile from frustrating to magnetic. Learn how to craft a captivating profile and pick pictures that truly reflect ...
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7 Secret Signs He's Extremely Attracted to You
Curious if he's really into you or just being friendly? Tune in to our latest podcast, "7 Secret Signs He's Extremely Attracted to You," where we uncover subtle yet telling behaviors that reveal his true feelings. Don’t miss these key insights ...
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Money, Men, and Meaning After 50: Rethinking Romance After You’ve Built Your Own Life
Worried about navigating money in your relationship, especially when you've built your own success? Our latest podcast tackles the awkwardness of who pays, what to do when you earn more, and why true financial compatibility goes beyond a bank a...
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Unlock Your Attraction Archetype: What It Says About You and How You Date
Ever wonder why your relationships follow a similar script? Discover your unique Attraction Archetype in our latest podcast episode, based on data from over 46,000 women. Uncover your hidden patterns, understand the type of energy you attract, ...
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Dating Over 40 Feels Impossible? Not With These 5 Shifts
Are you dating over 40 and feeling like it's an impossible mission? Join us as we reveal 5 transformative shifts that will completely change your perspective and experience. Stop wishing you learned this sooner and start attracting the love you...
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Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust h...
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Master the Difficult Dating Conversations: Money, Sex & Future
Are you dreading those tough talks about money, sex, or the future with your partner? This episode reveals how to master difficult dating conversations without blowing things up. Learn practical strategies to make these discussions easier and s...
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6 Qualities that Men Look for in a Wife
Curious about what makes someone wife-material? Tune into our latest podcast episode where we, two married guys, break down the top six qualities that made us realize we had found our lifelong partners. Trust us, this is a very personal and enl...
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Sick of Wasting Time? 7 Ways to Find Love Fast in Your 50’s
Tired of dating feeling like a second job with no benefits? This podcast episode offers 7 powerful strategies to transform your approach, helping you date smarter, not harder. Discover how to identify your non-negotiables, efficiently screen po...
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5 Ways to Make Him Emotionally Addicted to You
Let’s be honest: Love is addictive.So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make ...
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He's Not as Great as You Think: Stop F.I.B.ing to Yourself
The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks.In today’s podcast, we discuss w...
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How to Date a Guy That's Not Your Type
Tired of endless bad dates with the same old "type"? This episode dives into why your usual dating patterns might be holding you back and how breaking free can lead to better relationships. Discover why your "picker" might be broken and learn a...
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4 Destructive Beliefs Keep Women Over 40 Single For Life
Still single and wondering why love hasn’t clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” fin...
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