Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
189 episodes
5 Ways to Tell If He’s Worth Your Time (in 10 Minutes or Less)
Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love.And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leav...
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The Year of Deb Pt. 2: Date Like Deb
In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic...
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How to Attract a High-Character Man (It's NOT What You Think)
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracti...
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Men CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.”
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Dating Dangerously: What Draws Women to Rule-Breakers
In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers.From dreamy mugshot...
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7 “Nice” Things Guys Do That Are Actually Red Flags
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fa...
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7 Mindviruses That Sabotage Your Love Life
In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They ...
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What Mature Men Find Irresistible in a Woman (5 Key Things)
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (a...
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How to Deal with Politics While Dating? (Can you date someone with a different view?)
Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you wit...
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The Feminine Charm Code: 7 Proven Ways to Be a Magnetic First Date
Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a cha...
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The Psychology of Body Language: 7 Ways to Capture Men's Attention
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication...
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If You Invest in Relationships Too Quickly, Here’s 5 Ways to STOP
Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this ca...
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5 Sneaky Ways Guys Secretly Lie While Dating
Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from bein...
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Is Your Guy Falling Short? One thing you should NEVER do.
He’s not giving you what you need in the relationship and it’s time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go?In today’s podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship.Originally Aired:...
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How to Break Your Bad Boy Habit
Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychologi...
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10 Reasons Why Men Love Older Women
Society will tell you that men only want to date younger women.But our experience, having coached over 44,000 women on how to find love, is that this is NOT true.In fact, here are 10 reasons why men love older women.Origina...
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Are You Sabotaging Your Dating Life?
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating...
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7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Needs
The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process?Here are 7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Need...
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5 Must-Ask Questions to Get to Know Your Guy—Fast!
Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and fu...
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10 Irresistible Texts That Captivate His Interest
In today's dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we've covered in previous podcasts, "Love Texting" is a skill anyone can learn and perfect.Originally Aired: Jun. 02, 2024
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7 Brutally Honest Lessons about Dating
Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this...
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3 Signs You’re Wasting Time with the Wrong Man
It's time to stop wasting time with the wrong men. Here's the three major signs you're wasting time, and the exact step by step strategy to avoid it moving forward.Originally Aired: May. 03, 2024
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12 Simple Tests to See if He's the One
Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things lik...
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