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Coaching Your Family Relationships
Is your relationship with your adult child strained, distant, or heading toward estrangement?
Do you replay conversations, walk on eggshells, or wonder what you did wrong?
Are you dealing with family conflict, difficult adult children, or toxic in-laws — and feeling powerless to fix it?
You’re not alone.
I’m Tina Gosney, Family Conflict Coach and Family Life Educator. I help parents move from anxiety, overfunctioning, and emotional reactivity to calm, confident connection — even when their adult child won’t change.
Grounded in Bowen Family Systems theory and nervous system science, this podcast will help you:
1. Understand why stress spreads through a family system
2. Recognize patterns like overfunctioning, fixing, triangles, and emotional cutoff
3. Stop walking on eggshells
4. Navigate adult child conflict without losing yourself
5. Repair strained relationships with your adult child in a healthy way
At the heart of this work is the Differentiated Connection Map — balancing two core needs in every family:
• Closeness and belonging
• Individuality and autonomy
Through my HEAL framework, you’ll learn how to:
Hold onto yourself
Engage with calm clarity
Allow space for difference
Lead with grounded love
You cannot control your adult child.
But you can change your position in the system.
And when one parent becomes steadier, the entire family shifts.
If you’re searching for how to repair your relationship with your adult child and reduce family conflict without losing yourself — you’re in the right place.
Coaching Your Family Relationships
The Sneaky Ways You are Trying to Control Other People, Losing Strategy #2
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Let us know what you think about the podcast!
Episode 127 - The Sneaky Ways You Are Trying to Control Other People
Part 2 of Losing Relationship Strategies is all about how we try to control the way other people think of us, the way we try to control what other people do, and how we are trying to control situations in our lives because we can’t handle our own anxieties about things not going the way we want them to.
If you want to begin learning some winning relationship strategies, register for my upcoming class:
Healthy Relationships from the Inside Out
March 21, 11:00am MDT
If you don’t want to wait for the class, schedule a Strategy Call with me. This is a one-time introductory coaching call, not a sales call. We’ll spend about an hour discussing your issue and you’ll leave with at least one, probably two or three strategies to begin using in your relationship.
CLICK HERE to set up your call
Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs.
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Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach.
Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.