Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
401 episodes
7 Hot Ways to Go Down On Her That Make You Unforgettable
Does she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever t...
How To Have an Unforgettable one night Stand: From Pickup to Aftercare
There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference.Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's H...
How to Stay Hard When You F*ck Slower
You watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix.Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your b...
Who's Really in Charge in Your Bedroom? (And Why It Matters)
Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role.Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certifi...
5 Sounds She Makes During Sex and What to Do When You Hear Them
You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep i...
Bimboification: The Fetish He's Hiding & How to Make It Work in Your Relationship
What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without...
5 Moves That Make Her Want to Initiate Sex
She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together.Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And ...
10 Fetishes You've Never Heard Of — But You Might Have One
You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that.Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapi...
5 Praise Kink Moves: That will Make Her Initiate Next Time!
Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize.Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not j...
Is He A Sex Addict : Or Does He Just Want It More Than You?
Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes...
6 Reasons She Fakes Orgasms: & What To Do Instead
She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has.Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception...
Men's Sexual Shame Is Ruining Your Sex Life (Here's the Fix)
Men's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he ...
5 Ways to Let Her Dominate You: She's Been Fantasizing About This!
She's been waiting for you to figure this out.For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complet...
She's Quiet Quitting Your Sex Life — And He Has No Idea
She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to c...
5 Ways to Dominate Her in Bed (That She's Fantasizing About)
She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time.And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked.This episode is about the five dominance mov...
The Pregnancy Kink Making Women Six Figures — And Why Society Is Losing Its Mind
She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks.Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually hap...
5 Kinks She Wants You to Try (And Why She'll Never Ask)
She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times.And she's decided you'll never know.Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This ep...
The 6 Stages of Love — And the One Stage That Kills Most Relationships
Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it...
How To Make Her WANT to Give A Blow Job: 6 Things That Actually Work
Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times.The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks.In this episode, sex and intima...
How To Orgasm Your Way to Success
What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore t...
5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You
Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong.This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing. It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real mome...
What Women Really Say About Sex
This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast.For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over win...
9 Ways to Touch Her Breasts (Most Men Skip)
Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys...
No Pressure, Just Pleasure: A Guided Meditation for Performance Anxiety
This After Hours experience is designed to help you step out of performance mode and back into your body.Rather than chasing outcomes, this guided practice focuses on releasing anxiety, expectation, and pressure so pleasure...
The Art Of Penetration: A Guided Meditation Responding to Her Physical Cues
This After Hours guided practice is designed to teach you something most people are never shown: how to read arousal in real time — and how to respond to it without rushing.Rather than focusing on what to do, this ...
